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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 9:57pm On Dec 18, 2021
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Only few men have the balls to do or even appropriate the type of raw masculinity that you displayed towards such women.

That was how a supposed Redpiller was ""suggesting /Advising"" I look for ways to pacify some aggrieved entitled female staffs who are angry that I did not include them in my father's Day give away...


I am waiting for any woman that will be unfortunate enough to try such nonsense with me.


weaklings forming redpill online while in reality they're nothing but glorified Simps

grin grin grin grin

"The hardest part of the red pill is not taking the red pill, it is staying redpilled."
— NeroStealth01

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:57pm On Dec 18, 2021
Say no to being a people pleaser(male and female included). Doesn't mean you have to be rude though but you might sometimes appear rude.

Part of taking the redpill allows you to navigate past these emotions even if it is someone you'd find it hard saying no to, especially a male friend.

Actually, practicing the redpill might just be the hardest thing you'll ever do cuz you'll make more enemies than friends.
But one thing is certain, life will be way much simpler and you'll get your shit together.

Redpill enables you to see how your current actions (decisions) can and will influence what happens in the future.

it's better people accept you for who you are and not who they want you to be,if anyone tries to reform you at your detriment, STAND YOUR GROUND.
You and your choices should always come first, don't give two fvcks about what the next person thinks.

Don't be a pussy!!!

Practice the redpill!!!!

And most importantly, stay fvcking redpilled!!!!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Penboy: 11:12pm On Dec 18, 2021
tayewomi:
hello readpillers i need advice on these issue.
i just recently gained admission to a Nigeria premier University,UI precisely.
So there's this girlfriend of mine she came to work in my brother place so from there i collected her Contact and we start dating.So since then at least i do see money then so i used to give her things and buys things for her,its a serious relnshp.First red flag during my b-day this girl only wish me even if it's a hanker Chief she can't give me just to appreciate & celebrate me,i overlook it and i later tells her attitude isn't good that gone,let me summarize things here.her parents we're not well to do,her dad is having like 3-wives so things were not rosy on their side bt thank God they doing fine.so this girl travelled to a neighborin town to learn some skills and i taught we can do LDR,so i do snd her money attimes,so one time we had a disagreement and we both called it quit,so many months she called me and we reconnected,bt things weren't the same as at wen we start dating,so she came to see me in my base and she didn't even allow me to hug her or anything,i was even asking abt her skill &shcl all what this girl was replying was how to buy gown,sandal and even requesting to collect my phone suggestin i get another one later.I was puzzled coz she's not like that wen we together,but before i gained admission wen i asked her to let's us continue our relns she tells me that weren't compatible that i haven't achieve since we start dating,so i back down.she partially agreed to us dating,So recently she do upload diff guys on her status,she upload one guy calling him her crown and happiness and love,i overlook all that and i ask we continue dating she partially agreed,av seen her diff post on FB askin anyone who can buy her a sandal and she's not like that wen we still together,Lastly she recently asked me for a favor of 2k and i told her i will borrow and not give her,she agreed and i gave her,so days later she requested data and i sent her,so days later i called her to call me wen she's less busy till 3-days after she didn't call me,so i mssg her on FB wy she didn't call me she just shout at me and reply me in a rude manner and i just jejely tells her to let's us break finally that i can't cope again,i suspect she's dating the guy she uploaded on FB they both snapped a pix together wearing the same clothes and she's still claiming they not dating so av told her before wen she called abt the 2k that av given her but i just called back a day after she rudely replied me on FB that i needed the 2k i gave her it really shock her.I have collected the money and i have finally moved on after i told her not to chat or call me again.i can't be her back-up at least i will see better girls in school one of the reason i discard her and dt she's stingy,guys hope i did the right thing..
Use ur resources on yourselves...

How can you write a lengthy paragraph like this?!
Jeez

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Someoneschild2: 11:30pm On Dec 18, 2021
grin grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Omini247: 11:39pm On Dec 18, 2021
Penboy:


How can you write a lengthy paragraph like this?!
Jeez
Nna eh u sef see da level ba?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Raalsalghul: 11:55pm On Dec 18, 2021

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by skywalker95(m): 2:54am On Dec 19, 2021
So there's this girl I occasionally chat with and she's been pestering me about taking her out this Christmas. I was like, "since I don't want to do it, why can't you if you really want us to hang out?"

Babe was like, "Why will I take you out and practically feed you for a day?" She understood she bleeped up with that comment and tried to make some explanation that didn't even make any sense.

I mentally canceled her cos it's obvious she's only looking for how to get free food when she goes out with guys. Most times, they will always reveal their nature but we just tend to overlook and cry foul in the end.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:28am On Dec 19, 2021
DAY 353, REDPILL 2021

Ostracism affects women more than men, hence, loyalty, braveness and courage is more of a masculine trait. Therefore, women tend more to search for different rationales to support their negative behavior and misdemeanors rather than own up their shit.


Examples.

1. Him: "You promise to call but you didn't, why?"

Her: "Did you buy me airtime?"

2. Him: "You said you will prepare the meal early but you didn't, Why?

Her: " I said I will, but that should not make you see me as your slave".

3. Him: "You promise to change for the better but you're still stuck in your mess, why?

Her: "Can't you just love me for who I am?".


4. Him: " Why did you come late?

Her: "O my God! Don't I have a life of my own?"

5. Him: Who was that guy you were flirting with?

Her: " You are Jealous right? Stop invading my privacy, learn to mind your business".

Etc.

Don't take any of her bullsh!ts likely, learn to always clear her doubts.

Authority: Don't be a simp. Be wise.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 8:05am On Dec 19, 2021
don't be a fool

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Iamzealousman: 8:06am On Dec 19, 2021
Iamzealousman:
So I have been following this thread.
My experience with ladies hasn't been all nice. Though I hadn't been a SIMP.
Latest experience is a girl I met DEC 2019. We were good friends. One of the mistake I made was that I didn't shoot my shot early.
We continued to be friend. I noticed she's very nice girl. She given me a lot bought nice cloth for me on my bday. And all.
So about 6month after I met her. That was last I asked that we should be in a relationship. She said no.
And later on started moving even more closer to me.
I lost my job August last year.
I felt we began to be distant. So I left it that way. Till fdbuary March this year. When she called and questioned why I have not been chatting, calling etc.
Ever since, she calls me etc, and even assist me in terms of job search. she had even giving money when I was seriously down financially even with asking.
She tells me misses me and all sort.
I was non committal because I really do not know what she wants friendship or relationship.

the beginning of last month I spoke to her again about been in a relationship, she said she would pray about. Ever since no communication from her.
Will it be a good advise for me to chat her. And what can I say?


I really appreciate the advice gotten here.

And now, I think I know what she want and what she trying to use me for.

I have once made a decision to let her be. Of which I stood sternly by but broke it when she call to say she misses me and with the fact that she has been very very supportive.

I see her a whole lot in pictures she post on her status trying to make her finger obvious etc. Which implies she probably searching or otherwise.

And it's a month now since we last spoke or even chat.

I have now know that all she was trying to do was to give me the impression that I could go for her. Though she trying to keep me as an option or back up plan. Or probably a boredom killer.

That's why she gave me answer that can still keep me around when I spoke to her about been in a relationship. She'll pray about it







A girl actually once used that line on me and I have ghosted her for years now.


Will be a good idea to do same with this new lady?
She is a very good girl and very supportive. Was actually there for me financially too.

Larryking540, Mjbolt Ronnnie CaveAdullam Smartb0y Martinez39s

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:09am On Dec 19, 2021
MJBOLT:
don't be a fool
Dude used to be a pathetic simp, making all sorts of bluepilled and simpish posts. Ever since that girl he housed showed him pepper and falsely accused him of rape, he started threading the common sense and red pill path. grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DenreleDave(m): 8:14am On Dec 19, 2021
Martinez39s:
Dude used to be a pathetic simp, making all sorts of bluepilled and simpish posts. Ever that girl he housed showed him pepper and falsely accused him of rape, he started threading the common sense and red pill path. grin

grin grin grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 8:21am On Dec 19, 2021
this one don go disgrace him ancestors

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 8:29am On Dec 19, 2021
Iamzealousman:
I really appreciate the advice gotten here.

And now, I think I know what she want and what she trying to use me for.

I have once made a decision to let her be. Of which I stood sternly by but broke it when she call to say she misses me and with the fact that she has been very very supportive.

I see her a whole lot in pictures she post on her status trying to make her finger obvious etc. Which implies she probably searching or otherwise.

And it's a month now since we last spoke or even chat.

I have now know that all she was trying to do was to give me the impression that I could go for her. Though she trying to keep me as an option or back up plan. Or probably a boredom killer.

That's why she gave me answer that can still keep me around when I spoke to her about been in a relationship. She'll pray about it







A girl actually once used that line on me and I have ghosted her for years now.


Will be a good idea to do same with this new lady?
She is a very good girl and very supportive. Was actually there for me financially too.

It's quite obvious you're not over her

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 8:35am On Dec 19, 2021
There's this sense of pride and ego that married men exude that makes it difficult to reason with them about female manipulations, especially the newly married ones.

A friend of mine who attended our club annual general meeting yesterday recently got married and while we were talking, he was telling me about how his marriage is limiting him in so many ways and draining him both financially and otherwise. Saying he knows where he ought to be by now if he didn't get married. Guy is still below 30 and was doing well while we were in school and still does.

Actually, I didn't think he meant to put it that way because he later fought back looking for a way to justify the marriage after I made some comments that didn't go well with his ideology of marriage. Telling me he gets sex whenever he wants but funnily, he opted to pay an olosho to get laid while his wife was just 30 minutes drive away from our location.

Telling me it's the best thing that can happen to a man. But looking at him, I don't see anything that shows he's really enjoying the marriage. He got himself drunk and was misbehaving throughout last night that people started noticing.

Right there, I realised that no man wants to reveal the true sufferings of his marriage because it will send the wrong signal, make him weak and destroy his ego. And trying to bring these men to TRP will always backfire. I didn't bother myself trying, it's better he finds it by himself.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 8:39am On Dec 19, 2021
DaniWhizbang:
There's this sense of pride and ego that married men exude that makes it difficult to reason with them about female manipulations, especially the newly married ones.

A friend of mine who attended our club annual general meeting yesterday recently got married and while we were talking, he was telling me about how his marriage is limiting him in so many ways and draining him both financially and otherwise. Saying he knows where he ought to be by now if he didn't get married. Guy is still below 30 and was doing well while we were in school and still does.

Actually, I didn't think he meant to put it that way because he later fought back looking for a way to justify the marriage after I made some comments that didn't go well with his ideology of marriage. Telling me he gets sex whenever he wants but funnily, he opted to pay an olosho to get laid while his wife was just 30 minutes drive away from our location.

Telling me it's the best thing that can happen to a man. But looking at him, I don't see anything that shows he's really enjoying the marriage. He got himself drunk and was misbehaving throughout last night that people started noticing.

Right there, I realised that no man wants to reveal the true sufferings of his marriage because it will send the wrong signal, make him weak and destroy his ego. And trying to bring these men to TRP will always backfire. I didn't bother myself trying, it's better he finds it by himself.

You can't save who doesn't want to be saved, that's just the way it is

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Iamzealousman: 8:40am On Dec 19, 2021
Smartb0y:

It's quite obvious you're not over her
Yes I am not yet over her. Cause because this I have once gotten this kind of response from another girl. That was 2018, this said girl actually wanted to given a feedback from what she has prayed about. She call me repeatedly, texted me I didn't respond I ghosted her thoroughly even till today I haven't spoken to her. Because the time which was just 3days she took in thinking/praying about what I told her was enough for me to think that she wasn't right for me. I moved on.
Till date I haven't looked back.


But this one is different!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emmynator(m): 8:47am On Dec 19, 2021
skywalker95:
So there's this girl I occasionally chat with and she's been pestering me about taking her out this Christmas. I was like, "since I don't want to do it, why can't you if you really want us to hang out?"

Babe was like, "Why will I take you out and practically feed you for a day?" She understood she bleeped up with that comment and tried to make some explanation that didn't even make any sense.

I mentally canceled her cos it's obvious she's only looking for how to get free food when she goes out with guys. Most times, they will always reveal their nature but we just tend to overlook and cry foul in the end.
That's how one asked me yesterday, told her "no wahala, but we will share the bill", her reaction was like "why will i pay half?", lmaoooo, she cant imagine paying half of expenses incurred on a date cheesy, she go dey chop, dey flex, while I go dey calculate bills wey i go pay grin grin grin
No be only Christmas outing. If I need to have fun, i know road. I fit chop without looking at fine face. Make everybody dey him lane.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Trex4(m): 8:47am On Dec 19, 2021
Philosophy.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emmynator(m): 8:50am On Dec 19, 2021
MJBOLT:
this one don go disgrace him ancestors
Serves him right. Who the hell sends nude to a random lady online, definitely a low value male. What thirstiness.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 8:50am On Dec 19, 2021
Iamzealousman:

Yes I am not yet over her. Cause because this I have once gotten this kind of response from another girl. That was 2018, this said girl actually wanted to given a feedback from what she has prayed about. She call me repeatedly, texted me I didn't respond I ghosted her thoroughly even till today I haven't spoken to her. Because the time which was just 3days she took in thinking/praying about what I told her was enough for me to think that she wasn't right for me. I moved on.
Till date I haven't looked back.


But this one is different!

If it's different, how come you guys haven't spoken for a Month.

Believe me bro,if a girl wants you, you'll know.

She'll be restless asf, looking for every possible excuse to be around you.

I don't have to tell you that you're the one chasing the relationship and you know what that means ----> if you two eventually get together, she'll be the one calling all the shots, you'd have to compromise just to keep her, making you violate the redpill tenets that are there to guide and protect you as a man.

I know what you're going through bro,i really do..... connecting with someone that makes you feel like nothing else matters, it's a really good feeling i know grin

Cut your losses and move on bro.... there's nothing like having peace of mind.

I really can't stress it any further than this.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emmynator(m): 8:54am On Dec 19, 2021
Iamzealousman:

Yes I am not yet over her. Cause because this I have once gotten this kind of response from another girl. That was 2018, this said girl actually wanted to given a feedback from what she has prayed about. She call me repeatedly, texted me I didn't respond I ghosted her thoroughly even till today I haven't spoken to her. Because the time which was just 3days she took in thinking/praying about what I told her was enough for me to think that she wasn't right for me. I moved on.
Till date I haven't looked back.


But this one is different!
"this one is different"
This statement has been luring men into obvious traps for centuries cheesy
Good luck with your NAWALT that has already showed almost all tendencies trp warned you about.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 9:31am On Dec 19, 2021
Emotionss:
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Only few men have the balls to do or even appreciate the type of raw masculinity that you displayed towards such women.

That was how a supposed Redpiller was ""suggesting /Advising"" I look for ways to pacify some aggrieved entitled female staffs who are angry that I did not include them in my father's Day give away...


I am waiting for any woman that will be unfortunate enough to try such nonsense with me.


weaklings forming redpill online while in reality they're nothing but glorified Simps

Redpill isn't unplugging from women's manipulations alone, a true redpiller must strive to unplug himself from the matrix of society and religion.
#The Religion Matrix is easier to break free from, I am a Christian and I believe in God but I'm not going to put my hard earned money in a church's fundraising like many religion simps do, that's why we see pastors living large while their members wallow in poverty.
Falz tried to unplug people from the religion matrix with his moral instructions album few years ago.
#The Society Matrix on the other hand is the hardest to break free from, that is why a lot of redpillers wanted you to compensate the lady in your office and others attacked CAPSLOCK.
When a woman grabs a man's ass, society wants the man to smile and walk away like a real man. Few weeks ago a video was posted here of a woman who slapped a man in a radio show, that man is not only the woman's simp but also society's simp because he did exactly what society want's him to do, which was to act like a real man and stand down... Not realising that she was recorded slapping him first and if he had returned the gesture it would have been justified.
Women do not play by the society's rules, they know that HONOUR is a trait implanted in our genes which makes Men naturally born to simp for society and they are ever ready to use this to their advantage.
HONOUR is man's downfall in the society matrix.
I wish I can go deeper into this because a lot of us here are still firmly plugged into the Society Matrix, inputs from knowledgeable brothers are welcome.
CAPSLOCK, I'll advise that as you are breaking free from this society matrix, please make sure you record or have proof before retaliating.
Happy New week Gents.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kevincal144444: 9:55am On Dec 19, 2021
Iamzealousman:

Yes I am not yet over her. Cause because this I have once gotten this kind of response from another girl. That was 2018, this said girl actually wanted to given a feedback from what she has prayed about. She call me repeatedly, texted me I didn't respond I ghosted her thoroughly even till today I haven't spoken to her. Because the time which was just 3days she took in thinking/praying about what I told her was enough for me to think that she wasn't right for me. I moved on.
Till date I haven't looked back.


But this one is different!

You're not supposed to be here oga. I wonder what your mission here is and why you're telling this story of yours, since you already know what to do.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Oyin2212(m): 9:59am On Dec 19, 2021
sajmark:

Redpill isn't unplugging from women's manipulations alone, a true redpiller must strive to unplug himself from the matrix of society and religion.
#The Religion Matrix is easier to break free from, I am a Christian and I believe in God but I'm not going to put my hard earned money in a church's fundraising like many religion simps do, that's why we see pastors living large while their members wallow in poverty.
Falz tried to unplug people from the religion matrix with his moral instructions album few years ago.
#The Society Matrix on the other hand is the hardest to break free from, that is why a lot of redpillers wanted you to compensate the lady in your office and others attacked CAPSLOCK.
When a woman grabs a man's ass, society wants the man to smile and walk away like a real man. Few weeks ago a video was posted here of a woman who slapped a man in a radio show, that man is not only the woman's simp but also society's simp because he did exactly what society want's him to do, which was to act like a real man and stand down... Not realising that she was recorded slapping him first and if he had returned the gesture it would have been justified.
Women do not play by the society's rules, they know that HONOUR is a trait implanted in our genes which makes Men naturally born to simp for society and they are ever ready to use this to their advantage.
HONOUR is man's downfall in the society matrix.
I wish I can go deeper into this because a lot of us here are still firmly plugged into the Society Matrix, inputs from knowledgeable brothers are welcome.
CAPSLOCK, I'll advise that as you are breaking free from this society matrix, please make sure you record or have proof before retaliating.
Happy New week Gents.
Well said

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Aaron12(m): 10:48am On Dec 19, 2021
Women are the same thing everywhere in the world, forget religious upbringing, virginity it is all a facade. Women are always shaming blames, never apology for what you didn't do to her, only simpanzees do that. Women are to be managed not loved, like some married folks will say understand women don't love them, hapi sundae to my redpilled folks.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Iamzealousman: 11:03am On Dec 19, 2021
Kevincal144444:


You're not supposed to be here oga. I wonder what your mission here is and why you're telling this story of yours, since you already know what to do.
A second opinion is not bad

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ElasmoBranchii(m): 11:35am On Dec 19, 2021
Emmynator:

That's how one asked me yesterday, told her "no wahala, but we will share the bill", her reaction was like "why will i pay half?", lmaoooo, she cant imagine paying half of expenses incurred on a date cheesy, she go dey chop, dey flex, while I go dey calculate bills wey i go pay grin grin grin
No be only Christmas outing. If I need to have fun, i know road. I fit chop without looking at fine face. Make everybody dey him lane.

Maybe she wanted to pay the whole bill. You were too quick to judge grin grin grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Hotspotbro(m): 11:50am On Dec 19, 2021
skywalker95:
So there's this girl I occasionally chat with and she's been pestering me about taking her out this Christmas. I was like, "since I don't want to do it, why can't you if you really want us to hang out?"

Babe was like, "Why will I take you out and practically feed you for a day?" She understood she bleeped up with that comment and tried to make some explanation that didn't even make any sense.

I mentally canceled her cos it's obvious she's only looking for how to get free food when she goes out with guys. Most times, they will always reveal their nature but we just tend to overlook and cry foul in the end.
And they'll even share the tips and the tricks they use in their morning gossip.If not for simping men, none of them may have even tasted an hamburger or sharwama

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 11:56am On Dec 19, 2021
MJBOLT:
don't be a fool

Damn this doctor has been on some red pills since his ordeal in London with that naija girl.

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