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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by MummyD2020(f): 4:18pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
don4real18: Pls read again, you will surely see where i condemned her. Secondly, post partum depression is real. |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Kobojunkie: 4:20pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Ekpekus:The statement was... Surely Nigeria husbands aren't shigidi that can't lift a finger to care their own wife and kid in similar situations naw!Your Omugwos take away from the experience is that meant solely for husband and wife in their marriage, this by introducing a third-party to lessen the burden of the experience. ![]() |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by nkemoma(m): 4:30pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Nobody: 4:34pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Ninisun:so it her aggressiveness that would make her pain subside? How about she stabbed the mother to death, what would be your statement then. And who told you men don't care for their expectant wife's? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Nobody: 4:35pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Blyzz: Do not conclude with one side of a story... Happy Sunday 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Nobody: 4:40pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Ninisun:now you've spoken! But you concluded earlier by indirectly supporting her action ![]() Happy Sunday to you too! |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Testimony1988(m): 4:59pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Just let it go and forgive and let peace reign. |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by irunoko(m): 5:13pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:o please.we know a man's tolerance level is short.na him go dey wake up at 2am to change diapers or bath baby before sleep? He no go go work? A nursing mother needs someone she's more comfortable and free with.someone who understands her body.her own mother will definitely understand not another person's mother abeg. |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Ffhh: 5:21pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Send her packing |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Kobojunkie: 5:30pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
irunoko:1. I know no such thing as the claim you have there is bold. The child is his and and it is equally his responsibility to care for it. ![]() 2. The need immediately provided her by nature is her husband, the one who she conceived the child with. A husband/boyfriend understands his wife/gal friend more intimately than any other person, including her own mother, can. ![]() |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by irunoko(m): 5:38pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:are you trying to be funny or what? ![]() So you understand postpartum depression,you understand yeast infection,torn or painful vagina as an attendant consequence of child birth,you understand stretch marks, hormonal changes and obesity after child birth with its solutions better than a mother that birthed and groomed her child for years ![]() Kobojunkie ![]() |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Kobojunkie: 5:45pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
irunoko:1. This is a serious issue here. ![]() 2. Yes! The solutions are given by her doctor, who is likely a male himself, and if male doctors can understand and give instructions to the woman's husband as to how to care for his wife during that period, what stops him from caring for his wife better than her mother can? ![]() |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by irunoko(m): 5:47pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:so Mr husband Will leave his work to sit with her to heal together? Are those kinds of men still alive? ![]() |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by NemoDatQuod(m): 5:51pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
"Welcome in your house?" When you get married, it s no longer your house even if you alone built the house or if you built it even before you met her. That is the law, not just in developed countries, but also in Nigeria. I followed a case in Nigeria a couple of years back, somewhere in Western Nigeria where it was so established by the courts. When you marry, it becomes "our" house, not your house. And yes, if my mother is a cantankerous, quarrelsome woman who does not recognise that she is a visitor in our house, she will not be welcome. You have not asked the OP what he and his mother did to a woman who newly gave birth that drove her to desperation and pulling a knife in her own house. Not every elderly person is a nice person. In fact, it seems in our parents generation, there are a large number of them who enjoy being wicked. You don't respect someone because they are old/elderly. You respect someone who is old because they respect themselves. That's what the Good Book says : Grey headedness is a beauty when FOUND IN THE WAY OF RIGHTEOUSNESS. Not unrighteousness. jaxxy: |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Kobojunkie: 5:52pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
irunoko:You realize that what you continue to do is fish for silly excuses, right? ![]() Everyday across the world there are men helping nurse their wife and baby to health after delivery. Majority have not had to quit their jobs to accomplish this. So I don't see why you would think a husband has to leave his work to do so even in your Nigeria. ![]() In Asian countries for instance, many men bath their wife and baby every morning, prepare meals and make sure all is prepared for the day, this before they leave for work. There after work routine is similar, and they continue this routine until their spouse becomes strong enough to help. ![]() Why can't a Nigerian father do the same for his wife and baby and in his marriage? ![]() |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by irunoko(m): 5:56pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:but it's the same people that will accuse them of having high/ unreasonable expectations or Indian movie kind of man ![]() |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Kobojunkie: 5:59pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
irunoko:I don't understand. Who accuses whom? ![]() |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by NemoDatQuod(m): 5:59pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
It will be good to understand why you condemned her. Do you know what that Mummy's boy and his mum had been doing and saying to her? We forget that harsh, nasty words and trying to control an individual's life by insisting on your own suggestions and ways of doing things can be worse than stabbing the person severally. I can only imagine her anguish at being told by the mother in-law how she must do things in her own house and being chastised severally and have a husband who will support his mother against his own wife. She must have gotten to the point of desperation where she determined that it is only crazy action like pulling a knife that mummy and her son will understand. I'm against violence. But don't continually mete out verbal violence and expect docility. I have not seen where she was diagnosed with a mental health challenge. So it seems she finally got desperate sine there was no succor coming from her husband. MummyD2020: |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by NemoDatQuod(m): 6:02pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Send her packing? You guys are fortunate the Nigeria police does not do it's duty. Else it is you the guy who will be sent packing from the house. If she is smart and intelligent, even now, you will have to leave the house for her. She is not your subordinate. She is your partner. Ffhh: |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Nobody: 6:03pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
franchasng:I only stated an opinion, fool, and do t insult my mum, saying she's underpaid. What do your parents do for a living. Inferiority complex don dey do you. Okpetu |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by irunoko(m): 6:05pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:society accuses women of having high expectations if they suggest what you are talking about |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Kobojunkie: 6:11pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
irunoko:1. Nigerian society is ruled by the opinions of the foolish majority so anyone who submits to such is already beyond saving. ![]() 2. Is it a woman's place to expect these things of her husband ? Or is a man supposed to know from the start that he is meant as a 'helper' to his wife in his own marriage? ![]() I know many a Nigerian are allergic to common sense but many of these things are programmed in lower animals that is shouldn't be that far from us in terms of sense. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by jaxxy(m): 6:28pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
NemoDatQuod: I am always objective and who ever is is wrong will on the matter will get it. I hope when it comes to her own siblings they are all pretty and perfect innit? Only his mum is the ogre that’s needs to to sent to the abyss?? Make una they judge matter with sense ooo. That woman won’t treat her own mother like that even if she was so bad. My house or our house the man is the head especially if he provides. The woman only collects without giving anything bt headache and won’t even hesitate to throw u under the bus if she ever had the power. All ur family cannot be evil and wicked and hers are all saints. Smtn is wrong smwhere. It is normal logic. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Nobody: 7:10pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Mariangeles:and the postpartum depression left as soon as her mum came abi ? |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Verysmart101: 8:02pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Ur such a small child honestly.ur thinking is low for this platform honestly |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Verysmart101: 8:04pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Truvelisback: Wat stupid anger would lead a lady to pick up a knife and threaten her mother in law? Stop blaming the man when the woman is a devil.The bible says it's better for a man to live on top of a roof than to stay with a quarrelsome/hot tempered wife 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Johnman400: 8:19pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Kobojunkie: 8:26pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Verysmart101:You are really just here to waste my time, aren't you. ![]() |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Nobody: 8:52pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
I wonder what your wife could have done to make your mother fight with a woman that did CS. At least one of the two of them has issues |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Verysmart101: 9:10pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Who ur time help pls? Just read wat u wrote might be d reason to justify using a knife.May ur daughter in-law do same to u.Amen |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by MummyD2020(f): 9:27pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
NemoDatQuod:Exactly, maybe her patience has been seriously tested. We dont know the full story and the guy also garnished the topic to paint the wife bad. Really mamas boy. He should go and settle his family before running to social media. To be a man is not only to impregnate a woman 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by ledaman: 9:35pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Vickyvice:First you lack parental upbringing for you to have called your mum *mumu* am very sure you must have slapped her before. Mother in-laws that comes for Omugo are not stupid and it is not joblessness that make them to visit It create bound amongst the families. |
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