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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by SurvivorM(f): 9:37am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Ok |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Furcko: 9:37am On Dec 20, 2021 |
emmalexdboy:stop booking space |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by DukeNija(m): 9:38am On Dec 20, 2021 |
As he has tried orthodox medical interventions without a permanent solution, why not advise him to consider spiritual alternatives? The world is way more spiritual than we think and it will be unfortunate not to implement spiritual solutions to spiritual problems. Doing the same thing over and over again whilst expecting a different outcome is insanity. 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by gbadexy(m): 9:40am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Na wa o. May God heal his wife and other people going through same. |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Kingcalls: 9:41am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Why are women always causing problems in marriages.... about 5 different stories in 2 days of women causing troubles in their marriage .... 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Rollsnjaguar(m): 9:44am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Goodlyhrt: Let me drop this here, I can tell you for free that your Uncle's home is under spiritual attack. Most Christians don't believe in stuffs like that. But that's the reality, he needs to find spiritual solution to the family problem. Else, it may get even worse. |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Richy4(m): 9:44am On Dec 20, 2021 |
ednut1: How do one serve divorce papers to a mentally ill patient in your own perspective?.. Will the papers be given to the in-laws or the lady in question? |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by StayMotivated: 9:46am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Take your Aunty to Koinonia for prayers. God will definitely heal her |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by StayMotivated: 9:47am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Tell your Uncle to take his wife to Koinonia, God will definitely heal her. 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Sterope(f): 9:47am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Goodlyhrt What does your uncle spend money on? You don't have a diagnosis and he is just spending on everything. 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by RapistOnBail: 9:47am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Yinkakolawole:U don meanitt!!??
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Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by gnhpowerhouse: 9:48am On Dec 20, 2021 |
What exactly was she Diagnosed of? Did he marry her with such Mental Issues ,When did He noticed her mental Illness ? Has she been taking to a Government Psychiatric Hospital ? Probably it's Spiritual |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Godbless3(m): 9:48am On Dec 20, 2021 |
The more reason why you shouldn't marry in the name of church etc but look into to wife/husband to be family, health history/ background. A lady/man whose parent/grandparent suffer/die from a particular health problem, such problem/treat must always in the bloodline waiting like a dormant volcano waiting to erupt. In other to continue, you have to be ready for the task ahead. I hope your uncle can have a total solution to the problem. 2 Likes |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Bebson007(m): 9:49am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Baba how person fit take chase broke spirit. Person dey hustle legit. And it's not showing |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by ednut1(m): 9:51am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Richy4:by walking away |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by higgs: 9:51am On Dec 20, 2021 |
You guys should take her to a good psychiatric hospital. Don't waste your money on prayer houses . |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by elasticlala: 9:52am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Hope there’s no existing blood covenant with her ex…? Cos the manifestations seem similar. |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by bluefilm: 9:53am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Goodlyhrt: The woman has Bipolar or what? |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by emmalexdboy(m): 9:54am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Furcko:Is it your father that owns nairaland? Or are you the security personnel deployed to monitor posts here? |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Obiorahpcfg: 9:55am On Dec 20, 2021 |
[quote author=Goodlyhrt post=108647081]The story of my uncle's wedded life is a horrifying one. My uncle has gotten more than he can ever bargain for in this journey of marriage. The wife has been a source of sleepless nights and so much pain for my uncle. She is suffering from full blown madness that comes and goes, like when it strikes, my uncle will do all he can to bring her to normal. From endless borrowing to even taking long loans from his place of work to make sure she is revived. Which seems to be futile anyway as before long the illness will come back again. This has been going on since they got married. And my uncle has been handling the situation like a good husband. There have been three episodes since I started staying with my uncle early 2018 but this last one seems to be the worst of its kind. Made worst actually by the economic situation of the country. Because the people he goes to for help his christian colleagues in a redeemed parish cannot afford to help him again. Not thier fault.. as things has changed the past few months. Anguish have taken over my dear uncle. Sometimes I fear for him not to take an extreme measure or for his health not to detoriate further. Do we start talking about millions in debt. My uncle has become a symbol of "it shall not be my portion" and I don't want to advice him because I will make sure he severes any ties with the wife kpatakpata. My self I am deeply affected as I cannot watch him suffer and refrain from helping him from the little I have. Right now I have given up my savings that was to fund my binance account for trading. And I will definitely borrow to help him as he's being like my other dad since I came to Lagos. The story is long I'd have to stop here. [/quote This is evil manipulation. Your uncle should quickly locate Zion ministry in Agor palace way Lagos, u will thank me later. |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by hansomb: 9:57am On Dec 20, 2021 |
I feel sorry for both your uncle and his wife. Marriage is for better for worst |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Obiorahpcfg: 9:58am On Dec 20, 2021 |
[quote author=Goodlyhrt post=108647081]The story of my uncle's wedded life is a horrifying one. My uncle has gotten more than he can ever bargain for in this journey of marriage. The wife has been a source of sleepless nights and so much pain for my uncle. She is suffering from full blown madness that comes and goes, like when it strikes, my uncle will do all he can to bring her to normal. From endless borrowing to even taking long loans from his place of work to make sure she is revived. Which seems to be futile anyway as before long the illness will come back again. This has been going on since they got married. And my uncle has been handling the situation like a good husband. There have been three episodes since I started staying with my uncle early 2018 but this last one seems to be the worst of its kind. Made worst actually by the economic situation of the country. Because the people he goes to for help his christian colleagues in a redeemed parish cannot afford to help him again. Not thier fault.. as things has changed the past few months. Anguish have taken over my dear uncle. Sometimes I fear for him not to take an extreme measure or for his health not to detoriate further. Do we start talking about millions in debt. My uncle has become a symbol of "it shall not be my portion" and I don't want to advice him because I will make sure he severes any ties with the wife kpatakpata. My self I am deeply affected as I cannot watch him suffer and refrain from helping him from the little I have. Right now I have given up my savings that was to fund my binance account for trading. And I will definitely borrow to help him as he's being like my other dad since I came to Lagos. The story is long I'd have to stop here. [/quote This is evil manipulation. Your uncle should quickly locate Zion ministry in Agor palace way Lagos, u will thank me later. |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by VicM6: 9:59am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Goodlyhrt:Ever since the day ur uncle married the love of his life, your uncle family has been in agony and are not comfortable with the whole display that came forth...His wife is just suffering from the hand of the wicked ones in ur uncle family and now it's affecting ur uncle too.......Your unlce has a terrible relatives (family members). |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by wallarwallar(m): 9:59am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Your story lack details with no direction. Debt and where are the money going to and was it the debt that affects your uncle wife mental health or she have been suffering from it before the debt. Lot of details are missing may be you need to get back and tell us more then we would know how best to advice you. |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by akpunda86: 10:00am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Goodlyhrt: My guy the cross is everywhere,I'm carrying mine dat some times I see some couples I envy them.im looking 4 millions nxt year 4 an operation,work wives no dey work Na just load and cross dem dey give us.i hate this shit 4 beta 4 worse.4 me I wanna quit but my folks all on my head,I just beg mine after dvsurgery nxt year once ok pls kindly leave me Go.Women load and problems too much and wen d wahala set all her family members leave load 4 u 2 Likes |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Richy4(m): 10:01am On Dec 20, 2021 |
ednut1:Was that not kind of cold blooded Besides, that does not erased the fact that he's still married to her... It's not really an easy situation as u think.. assuming she was normal, it would have been a different kettle of fish all together...If he abandoned his wife at her hours of need, posterity will never be kind with him.. 2 Likes |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by ednut1(m): 10:02am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Richy4:okay. He can stay and die of heartache, lets see where posterity will be |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Shinor(m): 10:06am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Good Morning please tell your uncle to join NSPPD 7am Prayers. God bless you 2 Likes |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Nobody: 10:08am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Let him dump her joor I hate stress. Men and carrying love on their head . If the reverse were the case do you think that woman won't dumb is ass without thinking it through |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by RuddyFusion(m): 10:09am On Dec 20, 2021 |
If confirm to be spiritual and not psychological, then this is a simple case.... Take her to MFM Prayer City....even if it's psychological, take her there to or MFM headquarters at Yaba .....she will be fine |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Goldentulip2: 10:11am On Dec 20, 2021 |
HenryDion: True. But not just leave her there. Occasional visits and prayers (not prayer house oh) MUST be offered in and out if your uncle believes in prayers. What God cannot do does not EXIST |
Re: I Feel Pity For My Uncle by Newboss(m): 10:12am On Dec 20, 2021 |
Now you see why you should not be a simp. |
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