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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CAPSLOCKED: 6:16pm On Dec 20, 2021
SOZINN:
@CAPSLOCKED, because you are here enjoying free dosage of red pill abi.
You don't know you could have been one of them. Lol
#pun intended.

ACTUALLY CAPSLOCKED LIKES TO SAY SHE WAS BORN "RED". AS AN IRREDEEMABLE PESSIMIST THERE ARE MANY THINGS THAT DON'T MOVE ME.

OH, BY ONE OF THEM YOU MEAN THE ONLINE SCAVENGERS? LMAO. I WAS LESS THAN 18 WHEN I DEACTIVATED FB CUZ I COULDN'T STAND THE IDIOCY AT THAT TIME. THAT'S OVER A DECADE BACK. LIKE YOU HAVEN'T READ WHERE I'VE BRAGGED THAT I'VE NEVER SENT ANYBODY A DM ONLINE, AND THE ONE OR TWO THAT I'VE SENT ON THIS FORUM HAS BEEN TO A HANDFUL COMPRISING MARTINEZ39S, EMMAODET & MJBOLT?

I USUALLY HAVE OTHER BUSINESSES TO DO. I TAKE PRIDE IN THE FACT THAT I'M TOO GRACEFUL TO WASTE VALUABLE TIME BEGGING RANDOM ONLINE GIRLS (POOR AND GOOD-FOR-NO-USE) TO EITHER IGNORE ME OR COME RUIN MY LIFE. JUST KNOW WHAT YOU WORTH AND POSITION YOURSELF. TOMORROW ALL MY FRIENDS WILL BE LIVING LARGE BECAUSE THEY WORKED IT OFF, AND I'LL BE LEFT BACKWARD CELEBRATING MY TROPHY OF "THE TOP SMASHER OF HOÈS"? LMAO.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 6:19pm On Dec 20, 2021
Hotspotbro:
My family legend says one of my dad's brother is one-eyed...them say the woman impaled one eye with knife during argument..

The woman is white?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by manny99(m): 6:43pm On Dec 20, 2021
Thanks so much brother, so much appreciated

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Danycrusoe(m): 7:38pm On Dec 20, 2021
CaveAdullam:
DAY 354, REDPILL 2021

Man should only think of a long term relationship when he is at the last of the last stage of his ambition. And if he doesn't, he will achieve nothing. Even many short term relationships will make him lag behind.

His purpose is all that he's got, and no matter how successful he is relationship wise but unable to live his dream, he's still a failure!

Don't be a simp.

Authority: focus.


Okay lemme use myself as a practical example incase you don't understand, maybe as a redpill newbie or novice.


I got a job before I graduated from the higher institution, I made small change close to 700k within a year, I had it all in savings without even bothering about what next I can do to improve myself.

No big target, it was all about making more savings and live with peace of mind. Next thing was i need a gf since I never had one before, during and after school.


I didn't even set up my room, It remained like a student room while I could afford a flat easily in my city.


I got a babe, we had fun and all but just three months my simping and her hypergemy kicked in, she left me got married almost instantaneously and I was broken, I went into all sort and now I'm back to square one.

Yes I do have some assets which I luckily got back then, but if my purpose was well defined and not on getting a woman, I'll have gone further than where I am today.

Within three months, everything dabaru just because I dated a lady who knew the game she was playing while I was thinking I was doing the normal societal norm.


Today she gave birth and I'm here hoping and looking forward to the next salary payment. She don move on quickly withing a year but I'm still suffering from the chain reaction of the relationship.

The fastforward progress I had during service year has been dragged to a retrogression. A lose-lose situation. Thankfully, I am just past mid 20, enough time to continue rebuilding.


Finally, if you are a redpill newbie and you are reading this, even if you want to get married, have everything, house, car, the business u have in mind, the project. Have everything up and running before you think of having a lady, because even after getting there and achieving your purpose and targets, a woman can drown everything without even touching anything.


Thankfully, now I know better only that rebuilding is not as easy as when I started after school. The toughest lesson I have ever learnt.


Now, I have all the line up of things I should have done which will by now have taken me far in life. All those personal development I could have done then, I want to do them now but it's even harder but then without a lady, the next target is clear there is a purpose and it's not getting a woman.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by solidmyk(m): 7:49pm On Dec 20, 2021
manny99:
My plan is to have something serious with her
Bro I won't lie you you're already in love with the babe but I'll advise you to seek and analyse things logically because at this point if you don't you'll mess things up, it'll have been good if you could manage and keep your emotions in check because if you don't you'll end up simping for the babe.
Another thing is that with the look of things I doubt if you have any other babes you're seeing around, Oneitis has been talked about often times on this thread and the only way to shun it is to have abundance mindset, have other girls around you're talking to or better still tryna create the atmosphere where you won't get obsessed over her, just as you know nothing kills attraction than Oneitis.
So bro get us posted as you get along with her, cheers.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Winnerautomatic: 8:52pm On Dec 20, 2021
Danycrusoe:



Now, I have all the line up of things I should have done which will by now have taken me far in life. All those personal development I could have done then, I want to do them now but it's even harder but then without a lady, the next target is clear there is a purpose and it's not getting a woman.


From the way you write, i’d bet that you would bounce back soon.

One mistake you’re making is, never feel old. When i was 20, i felt old, then i turned 26, i felt soo old and laughed at myself for feeling old @ 20. Then i hit 30, i felt like a grand pa and laughed in derision at myself for feeling old @ 26.

@ 30, i even used to hear voices in my head laughing at me and saying you failed.

Then something happened, things changed.

Point is, never enter the trap of feeling done. Matter of fact, you’re just starting life. Keep sailing, who knows what the tide may bring tommorow?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 9:25pm On Dec 20, 2021
They’re feeling the heat. cheesy
The reply is everything grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jessepaid(m): 9:27pm On Dec 20, 2021
Hehehe....

Women are stingy with their resources know this and know peace..

I've picked this girl's call severally and the first thing I hear is the operator telling me that I will be the one paying for the call...

I just cut the call immediately...


If there give you their resources, there is something greater they are taking from you..

Watch it..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 9:33pm On Dec 20, 2021
Jessepaid:
Hehehe....

Women are stingy with their resources know this and know peace..

I've picked this girl's call severally and the first thing I hear is the operator telling me that I will be the one paying for the call...

I just cut the call immediately...


If there give you their resources, there is something greater they are taking from you..

Watch it..
Check on you by flashing you? Was she expecting the call not to enter? grin

Akagum dey learn work wia this your geh dey o.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emmynator(m): 9:38pm On Dec 20, 2021
See ba, marriage is a very big risk, even if you vet more than anything, what's to say she won't change over time? If you have a solid frame to help mitigate some of her excesses, what's to say your frame wont shift?
Many times we laugh at married men who bring their problems to nairaland, we call them simps or whatever, but most of them only crime was getting married, nothing more, nothing less.
I'll share a story of what happened to my church member, he has been married for over 12 years, had 5 kids, marriage was going on fairly well, until last year, his wife changed totally.
She stopped giving him sex, stopped cooking, started being disrespectful, he tried solving it by himself, but he failed woefully and it kept getting worse, when she started dressing up every morning, without telling her husband where she was going, he had his fill and started calling for external intervention.
This woman rubbished every single person who came to intervene, she respected no one, elderly men and women, pastors, family members, respected neighbors, none was effective. The only reason she gave for her behavior was that she regrets getting married and she should have pursued her career. After 12 years, really?
Mid July, this year, the man went to work, came back to find an empty house, his wife and children gone. All efforts to get her to come back proved abortive.
The man has become slim with all the stress, interacting with him, i feel that sad energy, a broken spirit.
What did he do wrong? He got married, that's it.
He got married to a woman who 12 years back was more than happy to become a mrs. But 12 years down the line, she feels she should have pursued her career instead. That was his crime.

If at all you decide to get married, be ready for the worst.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jessepaid(m): 9:38pm On Dec 20, 2021
luminouz:

Check on you by flashing you? Was she expecting the call not to enter? grin

Akagum dey learn work wia this your geh dey o.
Hehehe...

E get wetin we no go see for woman hand?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Danycrusoe(m): 9:43pm On Dec 20, 2021
Winnerautomatic:


From the way you write, i’d bet that you would bounce back soon.

One mistake you’re making is, never feel old. When i was 20, i felt old, then i turned 26, i felt soo old and laughed at myself for feeling old @ 20. Then i hit 30, i felt like a grand pa and laughed in derision at myself for feeling old @ 26.

@ 30, i even used to hear voices in my head laughing at me and saying you failed.

Then something happened, i now earn what you saved in a year many times over in a month.

Point is, never enter the trap of feeling done. Matter of fact, you’re just starting life. Keep sailing, who knows what the tide may bring tommorow?



When a man is down, alot of things flow in his mind, most of the time negative, all sorts of negatives.

But each time I remember how young I still am, how many of my coursemates envied how quickly things moved fine for me while they were still putting it together, I feel a new urge that there is still time.

I have never encountered adulthood crisis like this and each time I remember, I tell myself; nobody big and successful ever said it was a silky movement to success.

I even appreciate these harsh times because if I had moved so smooth into a comfortable person who can afford anything he wants for couple more years, I may just walk naively into the next phase of my life without the experiences that should have shaped and sharpen my decision and leadership making qualities.


I appreciate this time but I wish it can pass over sooner rather than later.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Chiagozieking: 9:43pm On Dec 20, 2021
Kings at that time were no ordinary people, yet they got destroyed

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Calibrator: 9:50pm On Dec 20, 2021
Las Las all roads lead back to TRP.
Seems like I talk, act and look like one, I might as well be one.



Let me break my hiatus and silence.

You see these girls, don't run from their billing this festive season.
Let them state their preferences and state a higher one, after all, it is a season of giving and receiving gifts grin grin

Dolt can't string together a grammatically correct sentence but because of big brezz, she thinks she deserves 20k in this buhari weather.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dasanchez1(m): 9:52pm On Dec 20, 2021
Jessepaid:
grin grin grin
what's the movie title?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PUSSYHOE(m): 9:55pm On Dec 20, 2021
Calibrator:
Las Las all roads lead back to TRP.
Seems like I talk, act and look like one, I might as well be one.



Let me break my hiatus and silence.

You see these girls, don't run from their billing this festive season.
Let them state their preferences and state a higher one, after it is a season of giving and receiving gifts grin grin

Dolt can't string together a grammatically correct sentence but because of big brezz, she thinks she deserves 20k in this buhari weather.


Lwkm hahahahahahaha you no ask for pussy?? Shocker.

The hoe will be perplexed that you didn't ask for pussy that means you aint sex starved hence you asked for phone meaning you are lucid.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Fairview1(f): 10:08pm On Dec 20, 2021
CAPSLOCKED:


TO AVOID, DOESN'T MEAN TO RUN. IT MEANS TO NOT HAVE CLOSE ASSOCIATION WITH.
THERE ARE TIMES YOU JUST HAVE TO FACE PEOPLE SQUARELY AND PUT THEM IN THEIR PLACES ONCE AND FOR ALL. CLEAR THIS PERSON'S DOUBTS, BOSS. YOU'RE A BIG MAN. YOUR ANCESTORS DIDN'T SURVIVE OVER 2 THOUSAND YEARS OF WARS AND DISEASES FOR YOU TO COWER AT THE SIGHT OF ĮDIOTS. WHEN YOU DON'T SAY OR DO ANYTHING, NOTHING GETS SAID OR DONE.


This is deep!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 10:08pm On Dec 20, 2021
Hehehe!!! shocked

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 10:14pm On Dec 20, 2021
Karlifate:
Hehehe!!! shocked
to marry cast, get Ex cast, get child cast.......... rich people lifestyle is depressing

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:20pm On Dec 20, 2021
Emmynator:
See ba, marriage is a very big risk, even if you vet more than anything, what's to say she won't change over time? If you have a solid frame to help mitigate some of her excesses, what's to say your frame wont shift?
Many times we laugh at married men who bring their problems to nairaland, we call them simps or whatever, but most of them only crime was getting married, nothing more, nothing less.
I'll share a story of what happened to my church member, he has been married for over 12 years, had 5 kids, marriage was going on fairly well, until last year, his wife changed totally.
She stopped giving him sex, stopped cooking, started being disrespectful, he tried solving it by himself, but he failed woefully and it kept getting worse, when she started dressing up every morning, without telling her husband where she was going, he had his fill and started calling for external intervention.
This woman rubbished every single person who came to intervene, she respected no one, elderly men and women, pastors, family members, respected neighbors, none was effective. The only reason she gave for her behavior was that she regrets getting married and she should have pursued her career. After 12 years, really?
Mid July, this year, the man went to work, came back to find an empty house, his wife and children gone. All efforts to get her to come back proved abortive.
The man has become slim with all the stress, interacting with him, i feel that sad energy, a broken spirit.
What did he do wrong? He got married, that's it.
He got married to a woman who 12 years back was more than happy to become a mrs. But 12 years down the line, she feels she should have pursued her career instead. That was his crime.

If at all you decide to get married, be ready for the worst.

I won't be surprised if the kids are not his

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 10:22pm On Dec 20, 2021
Emmynator:
See ba, marriage is a very big risk, even if you vet more than anything, what's to say she won't change over time? If you have a solid frame to help mitigate some of her excesses, what's to say your frame wont shift?
Many times we laugh at married men who bring their problems to nairaland, we call them simps or whatever, but most of them only crime was getting married, nothing more, nothing less.
I'll share a story of what happened to my church member, he has been married for over 12 years, had 5 kids, marriage was going on fairly well, until last year, his wife changed totally.
She stopped giving him sex, stopped cooking, started being disrespectful, he tried solving it by himself, but he failed woefully and it kept getting worse, when she started dressing up every morning, without telling her husband where she was going, he had his fill and started calling for external intervention.
This woman rubbished every single person who came to intervene, she respected no one, elderly men and women, pastors, family members, respected neighbors, none was effective. The only reason she gave for her behavior was that she regrets getting married and she should have pursued her career. After 12 years, really?
Mid July, this year, the man went to work, came back to find an empty house, his wife and children gone. All efforts to get her to come back proved abortive.
The man has become slim with all the stress, interacting with him, i feel that sad energy, a broken spirit.
What did he do wrong? He got married, that's it.
He got married to a woman who 12 years back was more than happy to become a mrs. But 12 years down the line, she feels she should have pursued her career instead. That was his crime.

If at all you decide to get married, be ready for the worst.

Lemme give you possible scenarios

1. The man became weak and predictable and women hate that.

2. She saw her ex who she rejected to marry her husband and the ex is now a millionaire, very happy and she regrets ever leaving him. Maybe he is pressuring her to come back too

3. She met a new flame who has been whispering some sweet nonsense in her ears.

4. She had new friends/met new friends who influenced her decisions and made her feel like she needed a new start

5. She took the kids. Red flag. She wasn't about her career or else the kids would be a major hindrance and she would have left them with the husband. So her husband was the issue,not her kids.

NOTE: Two or more of the points above can be in motion. But the major issue is she now hates the husband, her career talk is premium horseshiit.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 10:25pm On Dec 20, 2021
Calibrator:
Las Las all roads lead back to TRP.
Seems like I talk, act and look like one, I might as well be one.



Let me break my hiatus and silence.

You see these girls, don't run from their billing this festive season.
Let them state their preferences and state a higher one, after all, it is a season of giving and receiving gifts grin grin

Dolt can't string together a grammatically correct sentence but because of big brezz, she thinks she deserves 20k in this buhari weather.


When are you give me naaaa?

What the you want oooo?

grin grin grin grin

Kai....yet she wants 20k?

I would have sent her a softcopy of 'Brighter Grammar' grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:30pm On Dec 20, 2021
luminouz:


Lemme give you possible scenarios

1. The man became weak and predictable and women hate that.

2. She saw her ex who she rejected to marry her husband and the ex is now a millionaire, very happy and she regrets ever leaving him. Maybe he is pressuring her to come back too

3. She met a new flame who has been whispering some sweet nonsense in her ears.

4. She had new friends/met new friends who influenced her decisions and made her feel like she needed a new start

5. She took the kids. Red flag. She wasn't about her career or else the kids would be a major hindrance and she would have left them with the husband. So her husband was the issue,not her kids.

NOTE: Two or more of the points above can be in motion. But the major issue is she now hates the husband, her career talk is premium horseshiit.


A woman will never misbehave unless they have "options".

They can fit perfectly well into any situation as long as it suits them or they think it's their best option.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Calibrator: 10:40pm On Dec 20, 2021
My People already think I serve the devil, please don't put any more devilish thoughts in my head cheesy
luminouz:



When are you give me naaaa?

What the you want oooo?

grin grin grin grin

Kai....yet she wants 20k?

I would have sent her a softcopy of 'Brighter Grammar' grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emmynator(m): 10:42pm On Dec 20, 2021
luminouz:


Lemme give you possible scenarios

1. The man became weak and predictable and women hate that.

2. She saw her ex who she rejected to marry her husband and the ex is now a millionaire, very happy and she regrets ever leaving him. Maybe he is pressuring her to come back too

3. She met a new flame who has been whispering some sweet nonsense in her ears.

4. She had new friends/met new friends who influenced her decisions and made her feel like she needed a new start

5. She took the kids. Red flag. She wasn't about her career or else the kids would be a major hindrance and she would have left them with the husband. So her husband was the issue,not her kids.

NOTE: Two or more of the points above can be in motion. But the major issue is she now hates the husband, her career talk is premium horseshiit.

Very premium horseshiit..
They asked her, will all these things you are doing give you back your career? Why throwaway a marriage that is working for a career that is already down the drain?.
Person say she regret not following career, she come carry 5 children follow body, come go stay for village, no be ment be that? cheesy
I suspect one of these points is the motivation behind her behavior.
All in all, avoid marriage, e get why.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Fairview1(f): 11:51pm On Dec 20, 2021
broshowfar:
A country like Nigeria has no business having men that simp, you are already below the food chain in terms of economics and race and all your focus is on spending your scarce resources pleasing a woman? The west might have lost it but their generation of fore fathers were resilient and built a society.

My fear for Nigeria is with the low level of development there is still a high level of no-thinking men and pussy worshippers who just wanna get layed, get married and repeat the process. The west might be crazy right now but with the stories I hear about married Nigerian men being the worst pussy worshippers and can do any and everything to get layed pls get the hell out of that place.

The excitement of Nigerian men to get married and birth children scares me. Then I ask again to what future do you want to give your children? No one is thinking of how to build that nation it's all sex, drugs and procreation on the minds of the upcoming adults.


This is really deap! A food for thought. One that I have read and taken note. You are a wise man. Thanks for sharing.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Aaron12(m): 12:56am On Dec 21, 2021
That's how one left her husband after he lost his work with the kids,
man got good friends
who gave him a job connections to work at customs. The next time the wife saw him how fresh he was looking.
she fainted and died instantly, the shock killed her, the husband took the kids back after their mother's funeral.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dabronze(m): 3:07am On Dec 21, 2021
It's better to died than to be a living simp

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dabronze(m): 3:11am On Dec 21, 2021
Understand the different between what you have been told and the reality

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dabronze(m): 3:17am On Dec 21, 2021
Let truth be known

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by foreman: 4:01am On Dec 21, 2021
Joker09:


Well said. He learned the hard way. I believe most men will learn about female nature at some point no matter how bluepilled they are. The redpill don't find men but men find the redpill.

It can be too late though.

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