Good day everyone,

I really don’t know how to start but I will anyways. There’s this girl I am dating. We have been going off and on . So recently I made up my mind to take her serious. I am based in Lagos while she is still in school, university of illorin. Studying mathematics. She’s suppose to graduate but she had an extra year in school.

She recently came to Lagos to visit me, the thing bothering me now is she lost so much weight, she’s isn’t a robust girl but this time around she looks thing, her pelvic bone is now so obvious.

I have noticed she’s a bit wild now, like right now she knows virtually all the clubs and happening places in illorin.

I definitely knows she might be seeing some other dude in illorin but I wasn’t so bothered then until this last visit. So many guys calling .

There was a certain guy that called her in my presence and there were just talking casually, my dear friends I couldn’t stand it I had to yell on her that I won’t tolerate such, just ended the call and was telling me the guy is her colleague where she works on a part time basis.

Why I brought this up is because of that story about a guy that strangled his girlfriend to death. As a man it is not easy to stand such scene. It is a total lack of disrespect to your partner. We men has ego. But I am a man that can control my anger. After then I had to pet her and took her out


The truth is right now I am having a feeling she sleeps around especially with yahoo boys.
I am seriously worried about her present look
She looks so emanciated. She even ordered some supplements that would make her add up, she claims it’s her school stress and that she doesn’t sleep easily.

I am at a cross road presently whether to continue this dating journey with her or to quit

Let me add also that she refused having sex with me telling me that she wants to go celibate. Though I felt bad but I let it slide.
She’s presently taking some drugs. She was like she went to the hospital and doctor said it isn’t malaria, she got a sore on her lips she looks like someone healing from high fever.

Please friends what would make a girl go do thin

I read up to the part where you referred to the man who strangled his girlfriend.

Do you want to strangle her?

bro as much as you may not like what she does, killing her will NEVER be the solution, and as much as i understand why some insane people do it, we are all different.

as for your babe: if it smells like a rat, acts like a rat and sounds like a rat.....

You be Mumu

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She wants to go celibate
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OP take heart.

Please come back to update us on your findings.

Op don't sleep with that girl until you've done your background work.
Sometimes if a gal refuses sex, she might be saving you from something you don't know

Any girl that makes u loss ur insanity is not a lady worth keeping.truth be told ur life is at risk ,from the way she is taking drugs it seems she is a career and even if she is not, " this one that she is making you think about strangling her, better use ur head before we see you on Nairaland"

OldNairalander:
Op don't sleep with that girl until you've done your background work.
Sometimes if a gal refuses sex, she might be saving you from something you don't know

Thanks for this, the mistake I made was not to take note of the names of the drugs she was using

gunners160:
Any girl that makes u loss ur insanity is not a lady worth keeping.truth be told ur life is at risk ,from the way she is taking drugs it seems she is a career and even if she is not, " this one that she is making you think about strangling her, better use ur head before we see you on Nairaland"

I will never lay my hands on a woman, I have never, a friend actually said she might be into drugs or maybe she recently did an abortion

MrBrownJay1:
bro as much as you may not like what she does, killing her will NEVER be the solution, and as much as i understand why some insane people do it, we are all different.

as for your babe: if it smells like a rat, acts like a rat and sounds like a rat.....

then obviously it is a rat,that your girl is yours when she is in your bedroom, immediately she is off your house she is not yours anymore,have this mindset and know peace and if my girl will not give me good satisfying kpekus I wonder what else she can give

Veetee:
Good day everyone,

I really don’t know how to start but I will anyways. There’s this girl I am dating. We have been going off and on . So recently I made up my mind to take her serious. I am based in Lagos while she is still in school, university of illorin. Studying mathematics. She’s suppose to graduate but she had an extra year in school.

She recently came to Lagos to visit me, the thing bothering me now is she lost so much weight, she’s isn’t a robust girl but this time around she looks thing, her pelvic bone is now so obvious.

I have noticed she’s a bit wild now, like right now she knows virtually all the clubs and happening places in illorin.

I definitely knows she might be seeing some other dude in illorin but I wasn’t so bothered then until this last visit. So many guys calling .

There was a certain guy that called her in my presence and there were just talking casually, my dear friends I couldn’t stand it I had to yell on her that I won’t tolerate such, just ended the call and was telling me the guy is her colleague where she works on a part time basis.

Why I brought this up is because of that story about a guy that strangled his girlfriend to death. As a man it is not easy to stand such scene. It is a total lack of disrespect to your partner. We men has ego. But I am a man that can control my anger. After then I had to pet her and took her out


The truth is right now I am having a feeling she sleeps around especially with yahoo boys.
I am seriously worried about her present look
She looks so emanciated. She even ordered some supplements that would make her add up, she claims it’s her school stress and that she doesn’t sleep easily.

I am at a cross road presently whether to continue this dating journey with her or to quit

Let me add also that she refused having sex with me telling me that she wants to go celibate. Though I felt bad but I let it slide.
She’s presently taking some drugs. She was like she went to the hospital and doctor said it isn’t malaria, she got a sore on her lips she looks like someone healing from high fever.

Please friends what would make a girl go do thin

What would make a girl go thing? Probably checking her weight? Or is that bad?

arthurwillia:


What would make a girl go thing? Probably checking her weight? Or is that bad?

Yes it’s bad she is so shy of her body now that she doesn’t post any recent pictures of herself,
She has had to place order to get some supplements to get back herself , she has used several other pills without any result

swallow redpill and know peace....is it me or does your post have STDs written all over it

Kick dar werey out!
There is no love

Please don't strangle her oo
How thin is she
She's now like aliko

Op do some digging oo
I don't personal trust those babe that are still in school

She said aside from school runs, she also works part time, is that not enough to make somebody lose weight. Studying alone is tasking, how much more having to work on the side. It could be stress thinning her out. Call her and have a heart to heart with her. Be on her case without letting her know you're unto her so she doesn't pull a smart one on you. If she's guilty, she'll make mistakes and you'll catch her.

Veetee:
Good day everyone,

I really don’t know how to start but I will anyways. There’s this girl I am dating. We have been going off and on . So recently I made up my mind to take her serious. I am based in Lagos while she is still in school, university of illorin. Studying mathematics. She’s suppose to graduate but she had an extra year in school.

She recently came to Lagos to visit me, the thing bothering me now is she lost so much weight, she’s isn’t a robust girl but this time around she looks thing, her pelvic bone is now so obvious.

I have noticed she’s a bit wild now, like right now she knows virtually all the clubs and happening places in illorin.

I definitely knows she might be seeing some other dude in illorin but I wasn’t so bothered then until this last visit. So many guys calling .

There was a certain guy that called her in my presence and there were just talking casually, my dear friends I couldn’t stand it I had to yell on her that I won’t tolerate such, just ended the call and was telling me the guy is her colleague where she works on a part time basis.

Why I brought this up is because of that story about a guy that strangled his girlfriend to death. As a man it is not easy to stand such scene. It is a total lack of disrespect to your partner. We men has ego. But I am a man that can control my anger. After then I had to pet her and took her out


The truth is right now I am having a feeling she sleeps around especially with yahoo boys.
I am seriously worried about her present look
She looks so emanciated. She even ordered some supplements that would make her add up, she claims it’s her school stress and that she doesn’t sleep easily.

I am at a cross road presently whether to continue this dating journey with her or to quit

Let me add also that she refused having sex with me telling me that she wants to go celibate. Though I felt bad but I let it slide.
She’s presently taking some drugs. She was like she went to the hospital and doctor said it isn’t malaria, she got a sore on her lips she looks like someone healing from high fever.

Please friends what would make a girl go do thin

A girl I am dating making call with a guy and been so jovial and casual about it . Their conversation doesn’t get to me . Someone like me comes once in a lifetime. Myself yell at a girl to end her call? What nonsense lol like I should give a hoot about her happy moment with another? Stop putting relationship to heart before you murder someone daughter. She’s not your legally wedded wife , nothing justifies the outburst. The girl that will get me jealous and tensed up hasn’t been born yet. Enjoy the good moments as it comes . For coitus , she doesn’t owe you that . Her body her wish what does with it . The sore on her mouth is not from high fever , is airborne could even come from inside her body or environment. It will heal and still surface again .

What if she's just hungry, and anemic, anemia makes you lose your appetite and you become skinny. You know her character so only you can decide but don't kick her when she's down. This could be stress, lack of food and maybe some nights out or maybe some nights studying.

Double0h7:
What if she's just hungry, and anemic, anemia makes you lose your appetite and you become shinny. You know her character so only you can decide but don't kick her when she's down. This could be stress, lack of food and maybe some nights out or maybe some nights studying.

Imagine... Anemia make you lose appetite and weight?? Haha!

What has anemia got to do with loss of weight? Op himself is trying to use his right senses to reason, you're here confusing him with this warped information.
This how you mislead people to their early grave.

That girl is likely an HIV patient and the OP s instincts is telling him something in that regards reason hes connecting the dots of her being thin to her recent flirtatious lifestyle.

Na wa ooo... All these nairaland "doctors"

Op, you're a disappointment to yourself. After seeing her in that state with the kind of life she's living, you still went ahead to ask her for sex?
Are you men are ever normal when it comes to sex matters?

So, if she didn't refuse you, you would slept with her. Smh... This is one reason I hate men. Easy to lose control of their feelings and senses once they see a woman.

You know what?, keep letting her hang around you until she infects you with the dreaded. Then it will become clearer to you why she's looking emanciated.
You are no different from her sef.

Any little thing, sex. Any small thing, sex.
Uchu uku le nke nnta.

Veetee:



Yes it’s bad she is so shy of her body now that she doesn’t post any recent pictures of herself,
She has had to place order to get some supplements to get back herself , she has used several other pills without any result

This one loud o. Hope it’s not hiv o

Just let her go... U may not have her... since u know her life style

Mercychen:


Imagine... Anemia make you lose appetite and weight?? Haha!

What has anemia got to do with loss of weight? Op himself is trying to use his right senses to reason, you're here confusing him with this warped information.
This how you mislead people to their early grave.

That girl is likely an HIV patient and the OP s instincts is telling him something in that regards reason hes connecting the dots of her being thin to her recent flirtatious lifestyle.

Na wa ooo... All these nairaland "doctors"

But you've diagnosed her with HIV. Ok doctor quack

Double0h7:


But you've diagnosed her with HIV. Ok doctor quack

.

Double0h7:


But you've diagnosed her with HIV. Ok doctor quack

It may not necessarily be HIV but something is wrong somewhere.