chatinent:
No.


All I want are good energies.

FalseProphet1:

So you've never dated before?

larryking540:

abeg go sit down ,this is how u date without a purpose and scream broken marriage is better than broken engagement ,when u have not invested in a relationship u can easily say that shite

NGArmyTerrorist:
consoling words 101.

Kingsasian:
Yes, I had to call off the engagement due to bad character and constant malice, she was very very domineering.

FalseProphet1:
Hello folks, as the topic implies, have you been been with someone for months, and even years and ended up going your separate ways? What went wrong?

Kindly share with us.

Cc Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Dominique

Guyman02:
Yes, we dated for 4 years as students, proposed to her after my NYSC when I secured a job, met her family and they felt we are not on the same level, they even claimed that they went to investigate my family in our village and they were told that mental illness runs in our lineage.
They convinced her to abandon our marriage plans which she did instead of fighting for us, I asked her to refund part of the bulk money I gave to her for the marriage preparation which she later did because I wanted a proper closure to the relationship, felt really humiliated, locked myself inside and cried, washed my face and told myself it was time to move on.

Deleted her contact from my phone, never scooped around her social media handles, put aside all our pictures together under a locker and didn't worry myself about her anymore.

Started another relationship with a lady I was close to as friends who was very passionate about me but I didn't look at her because I was faithful to my ex.

Suddenly from the blues, my ex elder sister called me after some months that she has been erratic, cursing everyone for making her to abandon the love of her life and that the family has agreed to our plans for marriage.

Later she called me asking for forgiveness and that it was an Uncle of mine who told her family that mental illness runs in our family because he felt I was marrying into a prominent family and to a girl who works in a big establishment while his own children are scattered.

I simply told her I have moved on and wasn't gonna look back and had already started marriage plans with the lady I mentioned earlier and I even invited her to the superlative wedding we were planning in an exquisite location then.
I used the opportunity to tell her that I am wiser now as I go for only ladies who stand by their men because I am afraid if I show any signs of madness (as my uncle told her family) instead of taking me to a psychiatrist hospital, she will rather take me to a market square so that the madness will become permanent.

Today we are both married to different people and talk freely on general topics anytime she calls me, but I totally avoid making any reference to our 4 years failed relationship to avoid Okafors Law.

Magnoliaa:
I have. Plenty of times.

Reasons:
- Money
- Attitude
- Ideological differences
- Religious beliefs
- Sexual Incompatibility

nerdfrost:
I've never really fancied marriage so the question is not for me......meanwhile check my signature

BigDawsNet:
Almost..
I thought I can handle a feminist...

chatinent:


The heading said “engaged and didn't later marry” so I said no.


Dated? Why not?
Me wey get pensioners wey I dey pay for my dating school.