Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

Wahala he needs prayers and maybe your sister should stop giving him money, he is becoming lazy and wayward because he knows if he is not working, something must come somewhere. If you can relocate far from where he is. It's better you inform some military to come and teach him a lesson he will never forget, he should sign undertaking too because a man that could burn #70k in this Buhari regime can kill or burn all the house when you are asleep.

Ooooh! Is doing that because he's the only son.

Make him come try am for my neighbour house. Wey dem get 4 boys. Dem for don tie am for tree. Use 2 by 2 reset that him brain.

You can't dictate for him. He's old enough to make his decisions. The best you owe him as a sister is to pray to God to change him.

Prayer solves so many things, but a home full of boys would have helped curtail this nonsense.

On a second thought. If you guys pampered him when he was much younger, i would say, you are reaping the dividend of what you allowed. I know all these attitudes were spotted when he was tender. But unfortunately, you guys didn't make the necessary correction.

But no need crying over spilled milk. Go to God in Prayer.

He set 70k on fire..

This story is fake..

No one in this present Nigeria can set 50 naira on fire talkless of 70k.

1k notes x 70 pieces or

500 naira notes x 140 pieces

Fake story rubbish

Wow....what a spoilt rotten brat.

I'm very sure as you presumed that he's taken to the fast-lane of yahoo yahoo and most likely has blended as per gangsterism.

The truth is, at 24 he isn't a kid no more.

At 20/21 I was already my family's breadwinner by choice and at 24 I was already a father. I'm not saying this should be a yardstick for everyone though because life na per head.

I see an over pampered young man who's taking in hook, line, and sinker the whole "red pill" anthem as is being preached here by the proponents.

Your brother set ablaze 70k for this present economic mugamuga and harmattan? I'm lost for words to describe him.

No wonder our people say "who dey chop egg dey forget say nyansh dey pepper fowl wey dey lay the egg" "and na woman wey see who dey done am dey complain say kpekus dey pepper am".

You can imagine when people abound wey dey look for just #1k to even take hold the skin from this harmattan.

I commend your dad for taking that hard stance on him. But e be like say the boy don make up him mind based on internal and external influences say him wan deliberately dey useless to himself and the family.

May God help your family and save him from bringing shame upon your household.

Make una patronise my signature for your laptop needs jare

I wish i had even half of the opportunity ur brother is having..

Sorry about it..
He is misbehaving becos him still dey see free food and free money..

His brain will be enter reset mode when he starts fending for himself

Skyflygang2:
He set 70k on fire...

Yes, he did. I even have the video as evidence. I don't want it go viral, I would have uploaded it.

Set money he didn't earn on fire? What an entitled minded spoilt brat!
You all spoilt him, giving him whatever he wanted because he's the only son right? Well, this is the result of it.

Tell your sister never to send money directly to him, otherwise, you and your father will see little or nothing of that money.

As for his share of the money he set ablaze, make sure neither you nor your father give him anything. He must learn the value of money and earn it for his needs. The tantrum throwing spoilt brat!

Cyntie55:
Yes, he did. I even have the video as evidence. I don't want it go viral, I would have uploaded it.

I dont believe it seeing is believing

Hit me up on whatsapp

Share me the video

Call your uncle wey perfect to talk to him

Stop giving him money and freebies. The quantity of food he is allowed to eat should be reduced, that way he should learn to man up and send for himself.

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Skyflygang2:


I dont believe it seeing is believing

Hit me up on whatsapp 090 16 07 36 01

Share me the video

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Who cares whether you believe or not?

Your father should learn to use a more strong hand on him. He is already following evil gangs.
Let your family members try everything possible to change his location. Where he won't have access to his gangs.




Like, how can someone burn 70k when some dey look for 5k to celebrate Xmas.

Mariangeles:
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Who cares whether you believe or not?

Who is this one

I dey follow ur talk ni

NTA channel 10

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Skyflygang2:


Who is this one

I dey follow ur talk ni

NTA channel 10

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Best Advice is arrange Area boys to teach him some lesson then he will beg for money to treat himself ...

Skyflygang2:


I dont believe it seeing is believing

Hit me up on whatsapp 090 16 07 36 01

Share me the video

U no even wan get sense again

Bombastically00:
U no even wan get sense again

I use am resemble you na mumu

No mind all this people ooo dem no get sense hit me up on whatsapp I go help you reset ur bro button I clearly understands what he is going through been there b4

Skyflygang2:


I use am resemble you na mumu

I decided to check ur profile, I con see say u be one of those kid wey just open account for here

Bombastically00:
I decided to check ur profile, I con see say u be one of those kid wey just open account for here

I check ur acc see say you be bet9ja gambler I sorry for your life mumu boy... pussy licking motorcycle

Bombastic element

Uniben graduate...ekosodin and bdpa boys don carry am visit ninja close to river for training..use better military men drill am and make he sign undertaking,if not men go dey ginger and office am and na una go dey suffer am..

He called your dad a simp? Please copy and paste this your post on romance and sexuality section am sure he will see it.

He's on drugs abeg...crack or ice

Cyntie55:
Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

OP, I am afraid the problem isn't your brother but you refusing to accept him for who he continues to be.

You claim he talks down to you and seeks opportunities to blame you for his failings, so my question to you is why do you continue to give him your attention. He is a grown up, not a child and he has the right to chose to live as he wants to. So let him.

As for him not leading a wayward lifestyle, you have little control over him there at this point. You can only chose to love him as he is... let him live his life as he chooses.

Lol. Your brother is an adult kid. He is very stubbon.
you guys should just cut him off for like two months.
i'm sure he'll begin to think about that 70k he selfishly wasted

Na una wey dey give am everything wey he need


Make nobody look for am

He go only enter HK


Make you and your father be spiritually strong

Your Dad did well to slap him. Let him go, his case is like the prodigal son in the bible. You people should ignore him, don't call him or else he'll think you are begging him.
Also, I must commend your elder sister, she is a very good person.

Skyflygang2:
He set 70k on fire... haha pablo escobar and walter white jnr that one sef is good

Exactly why i nor believe the storyline.

Even madman can't go to atm withdraw 5k and set it on fire.
For this country situation when we dey.
..

It's bulous



I tire bros, the story make sense but the 70k the op sat him brother burn turn nonsense (nor be say na Small pickin, 24 year old boy.. when be graduates..lol)


Even yahoo boys self, if control come....they cheat you...

You go come vex withdraw the money born am?

70k for that matter.


Even let's assume he's a drug addict...he head nor correct.


You know how many parcel of crack cocaine or crystal that 70k go give am?


Even if he's gambler, like bet9ja addict....he go burn a whole 70k?.



This na person when dey beg you 10k as a elder sister, go gather mind go bank or pos withdraw 70k

Burn am for your present.





All this people and their fake stories dey tire me.

For real.


Burn 70k for this December?
Where harmattan make everywhere extra dry.




The funny thing


SOME MUMU GO BELIEVE THE STORY... BECAUSE NA EVERYTHING THEM DEY BELIEVE

Healthrelatedjo:
He's on drugs abeg...crack or ice

Someone who does any of the aforementioned go know say 70k is a huge deal to get more.


So you believe he set 70k on fire?



Na wa for hu na

KiNg0G:


Exactly why i nor believe the storyline.

Even madman can't go to atm withdraw 5k and set it on fire.
For this country situation when we dey.
..

It's bulous

I swear my gee a whole 70k haha omo I no fit sef 50naira on fire like dis talk less of 70k

1000naira note x 70 pieces

Impossible

If 70k no come reach you shey na to come burn am remain

Like common

People go just dream and make up stories just say I want to trend

Ha ha ha ha OP try again abeg

The story make sense but na dat burning part spoil am jare