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My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Cyntie55(f): 1:27pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice. My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much. My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate. Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father. If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions. He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions. My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo. Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything. I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house". My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house. Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help! 243 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Bola146(f): 1:28pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by isaiah4life(m): 1:32pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Ooooh! Is doing that because he's the only son. Make him come try am for my neighbour house. Wey dem get 4 boys. Dem for don tie am for tree. Use 2 by 2 reset that him brain. You can't dictate for him. He's old enough to make his decisions. The best you owe him as a sister is to pray to God to change him. Prayer solves so many things, but a home full of boys would have helped curtail this nonsense. On a second thought. If you guys pampered him when he was much younger, i would say, you are reaping the dividend of what you allowed. I know all these attitudes were spotted when he was tender. But unfortunately, you guys didn't make the necessary correction. But no need crying over spilled milk. Go to God in Prayer. 320 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Nobody: 1:32pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
He set 70k on fire.. This story is fake.. No one in this present Nigeria can set 50 naira on fire talkless of 70k. 1k notes x 70 pieces or 500 naira notes x 140 pieces Fake story rubbish 175 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by daddytime(m): 1:34pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Wow....what a spoilt rotten brat. I'm very sure as you presumed that he's taken to the fast-lane of yahoo yahoo and most likely has blended as per gangsterism. The truth is, at 24 he isn't a kid no more. At 20/21 I was already my family's breadwinner by choice and at 24 I was already a father. I'm not saying this should be a yardstick for everyone though because life na per head. I see an over pampered young man who's taking in hook, line, and sinker the whole "red pill" anthem as is being preached here by the proponents. Your brother set ablaze 70k for this present economic mugamuga and harmattan? I'm lost for words to describe him. No wonder our people say "who dey chop egg dey forget say nyansh dey pepper fowl wey dey lay the egg" "and na woman wey see who dey done am dey complain say kpekus dey pepper am". You can imagine when people abound wey dey look for just #1k to even take hold the skin from this harmattan. I commend your dad for taking that hard stance on him. But e be like say the boy don make up him mind based on internal and external influences say him wan deliberately dey useless to himself and the family. May God help your family and save him from bringing shame upon your household. Make una patronise my signature for your laptop needs jare 162 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Morgan9(m): 1:34pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
I wish i had even half of the opportunity ur brother is having.. Sorry about it.. He is misbehaving becos him still dey see free food and free money.. His brain will be enter reset mode when he starts fending for himself 134 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Cyntie55(f): 1:35pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Skyflygang2:Yes, he did. I even have the video as evidence. I don't want it go viral, I would have uploaded it. 70 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Mariangeles(f): 1:37pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Set money he didn't earn on fire? What an entitled minded spoilt brat! You all spoilt him, giving him whatever he wanted because he's the only son right? Well, this is the result of it. Tell your sister never to send money directly to him, otherwise, you and your father will see little or nothing of that money. As for his share of the money he set ablaze, make sure neither you nor your father give him anything. He must learn the value of money and earn it for his needs. The tantrum throwing spoilt brat! 216 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Nobody: 1:37pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Cyntie55: I dont believe it seeing is believing Hit me up on whatsapp Share me the video 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Mohzus: 1:38pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Call your uncle wey perfect to talk to him |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Aurelius1(m): 1:39pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Stop giving him money and freebies. The quantity of food he is allowed to eat should be reduced, that way he should learn to man up and send for himself. 53 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Mariangeles(f): 1:39pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
[s] Skyflygang2:[/s] Who cares whether you believe or not? 355 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by DAVIDMOE(m): 1:40pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Your father should learn to use a more strong hand on him. He is already following evil gangs. Let your family members try everything possible to change his location. Where he won't have access to his gangs. Like, how can someone burn 70k when some dey look for 5k to celebrate Xmas. 61 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Nobody: 1:41pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Who is this one I dey follow ur talk ni NTA channel 10 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Mariangeles(f): 1:42pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
[s] Skyflygang2:[/s] 120 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Bombastically00(m): 1:42pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Best Advice is arrange Area boys to teach him some lesson then he will beg for money to treat himself ![]() 29 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Bombastically00(m): 1:43pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Skyflygang2:U no even wan get sense again ![]() 103 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Nobody: 1:43pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Bombastically00: I use am resemble you na mumu 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Nobody: 1:44pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
No mind all this people ooo dem no get sense hit me up on whatsapp I go help you reset ur bro button I clearly understands what he is going through been there b4 7 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Bombastically00(m): 1:47pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Skyflygang2:I decided to check ur profile, I con see say u be one of those kid wey just open account for here 39 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Nobody: 1:50pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Bombastically00: I check ur acc see say you be bet9ja gambler I sorry for your life mumu boy... pussy licking motorcycle Bombastic element 4 Likes |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by samuel051: 1:58pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Uniben graduate...ekosodin and bdpa boys don carry am visit ninja close to river for training..use better military men drill am and make he sign undertaking,if not men go dey ginger and office am and na una go dey suffer am.. 46 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Mstick: 2:03pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
He called your dad a simp? Please copy and paste this your post on romance and sexuality section am sure he will see it. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 88 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Healthrelatedjo: 2:03pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
He's on drugs abeg...crack or ice 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Kobojunkie: 2:09pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Cyntie55:OP, I am afraid the problem isn't your brother but you refusing to accept him for who he continues to be. ![]() You claim he talks down to you and seeks opportunities to blame you for his failings, so my question to you is why do you continue to give him your attention. He is a grown up, not a child and he has the right to chose to live as he wants to. So let him. ![]() As for him not leading a wayward lifestyle, you have little control over him there at this point. You can only chose to love him as he is... let him live his life as he chooses. ![]() 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by 9182736455O1999(m): 2:11pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Lol. Your brother is an adult kid. He is very stubbon. you guys should just cut him off for like two months. i'm sure he'll begin to think about that 70k he selfishly wasted 39 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by 22o62021: 2:12pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Na una wey dey give am everything wey he need Make nobody look for am He go only enter HK Make you and your father be spiritually strong 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by dahmie2013: 2:15pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Your Dad did well to slap him. Let him go, his case is like the prodigal son in the bible. You people should ignore him, don't call him or else he'll think you are begging him. Also, I must commend your elder sister, she is a very good person. 104 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by KiNg0G: 2:25pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Skyflygang2: Exactly why i nor believe the storyline. Even madman can't go to atm withdraw 5k and set it on fire. For this country situation when we dey. .. It's bulous I tire bros, the story make sense but the 70k the op sat him brother burn turn nonsense (nor be say na Small pickin, 24 year old boy.. when be graduates..lol) Even yahoo boys self, if control come....they cheat you... You go come vex withdraw the money born am? 70k for that matter. Even let's assume he's a drug addict...he head nor correct. You know how many parcel of crack cocaine or crystal that 70k go give am? Even if he's gambler, like bet9ja addict....he go burn a whole 70k?. This na person when dey beg you 10k as a elder sister, go gather mind go bank or pos withdraw 70k Burn am for your present. All this people and their fake stories dey tire me. For real. Burn 70k for this December? Where harmattan make everywhere extra dry. The funny thing SOME MUMU GO BELIEVE THE STORY... BECAUSE NA EVERYTHING THEM DEY BELIEVE 23 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by KiNg0G: 2:27pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Healthrelatedjo: Someone who does any of the aforementioned go know say 70k is a huge deal to get more. So you believe he set 70k on fire? Na wa for hu na 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Nobody: 2:32pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
KiNg0G: I swear my gee a whole 70k haha omo I no fit sef 50naira on fire like dis talk less of 70k 1000naira note x 70 pieces Impossible If 70k no come reach you shey na to come burn am remain Like common People go just dream and make up stories just say I want to trend Ha ha ha ha OP try again abeg The story make sense but na dat burning part spoil am jare 4 Likes 2 Shares |
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