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Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by Itzurboi(m): 4:51pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Kingsasian:maybe nah engineering student 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by SirMichael1: 4:52pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
8BitGee: If it wasn't infidelity issues, the it must have been am issue that stung her at the beginning. What was it? Physical abuse? Did you hit her? Ladies with good self esteem won't agree to walk into marriage with a man that slapped them at any point in a relationship. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by BigBashiru: 4:53pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
i926: i recently met a man that had this mentality. no wife no kids (at 56) and he says that's his biggest regret in life... you can't eat ur cake and have it...those investing in marriage aren't fools... but marriage isn't for everyone.... but I agree marriage in its current form is a scam towards men. nothing in it for a man except kids...m 11 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by xangerar: 4:54pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
DAVE5: Oooooow! So sorry about that. You really sound so hurt. Life is that way. You lose some, you win some. |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by FalseProphet1(m): 4:55pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:According to the law of right and wrong, you're hereby banned from going into any form or kind of engagement. This I have seen. |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by pocohantas(f): 4:56pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
FalseProphet1: This is a public forum and you would be quoted whether you like it or yes. Your personal attacks won’t change my opinion to your stance. So I ask you again, would you marry a woman when your whole family is against her and you heard madness runs in her family? We all know what men do, so stop looking for women that would disregard their families for you!! You are not worth it! 33 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by 1Sharon(f): 4:56pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
descarado: Shallow as hell. Because his dick is small doesn't mean he doesn't know how to use it and the 10 second thing can be worked on. She really threw the baby out with the bath water. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by larryking540: 4:58pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
deltateam: any thing that involves protection of continual generation a man will always spend on it ,it's not the issue of not helping a fellow man |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by descarado: 4:58pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
ezegenigbonine: Get health textbook for secondary school and read 6 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by evil1: 5:03pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Every relationship must not end in marriage but when you get to that stage in liife where you have yo decide, know that dating and sex is no longer for fun. It brings up certain consequences of our actions and in actions Milan79: 4 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by descarado: 5:04pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
1Sharon:People have preferences. She don't want small dick. The same way some men hate big boobs. It's not a turn on for her. As for the 10mins, I agree it can be worked on. I don't blame that lady. 9 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by MufasaLion: 5:05pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
1Sharon: You can deal with it but she can't. Respect her decision and not condemn it. 9 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by MufasaLion: 5:06pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
descarado: I totally agree with her. She made the right decision for herself. She wasn't being a hypocrite that's gonna end up committing adultery. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by 1Sharon(f): 5:06pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
MufasaLion: So you're okay if a woman dumps you based on your genitals? 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by MufasaLion: 5:07pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
BigBashiru: And there are still many men like that with no regrets. I ain't gonna marry also. I ain't gonna regret it. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by larryking540: 5:07pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
DAVE5:I Know how that feels u don't need to say more when there is little or no contribution of a lady on marriage it's makes one sick ,it might not be financial matter she has to offer ,but interns of ideas so females lack it ,,,just keep putting her Tru the way you want her to be , |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by Gandokiejim: 5:08pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
My Experience I've always said,I won't marry anyone I had sex with.I believe you are cheap if I sleep with you before marriage ( my ideology though) I dated and engaged 4 Ladies,I'll tempt them for sex,they will just fall and open their legs,that will be the end of that relationship. I want to have a feel of my wife first time wedding night. |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by FalseProphet1(m): 5:08pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
pocohantas:So in your myopic reasoning, you suddenly know what decision I'm going to make in my relationship, how did you acquire this strange gift if I may ask? Suddenly all men will dump their woman because of a negative story they heard about her or her family. When you read of stories of men who send their girlfriends abroad to study or invest heavily on their girls admist opposition from their friends and family concerning the girl, you'll turn a blind eye. Recently an African footballer lost all the wealth he made in football because he registered his properties in his wife's name and she divorced him and inherited them. As usual you feminist wouldn't move a muscle, but once a man gives an opinion you don't agreed you'll start jumping up and down like a dog on heat. 35 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by 1Sharon(f): 5:08pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
descarado: Shallow |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by larryking540: 5:09pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
pocohantas:hope you don't mind ,why do you feel every Nigeria man cheat ? |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by MufasaLion: 5:09pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
1Sharon: I would be sad but I always respect people's decision. I wouldn't want her to cheat on me after marriage. Anyways, I'm big down here. I can't have such problem with women. 4 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by 1Sharon(f): 5:12pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
MufasaLion: Right. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by MufasaLion: 5:12pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
DAVE5: Damn! Seems your marriage is hell. |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by larryking540: 5:13pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
pocohantas:pepper body calm down 4 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by 8BitGee(m): 5:13pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
SirMichael1: No, I wouldn't raise my hands against a man, talk more of a lady I was passionately in love with. I tested her - I did a mock breakup over the phone just to see how she'd react. She took it quite well so I was heartbroken and I was quite taken by her reaction that I stupidly confessed it was a test. Biggest mistake ever! At other times between 2017-2019, we had conflicts about her lifestyle - really late nights, she did a couple of disappearing acts for days - extreme living, really. Of course, I'd be mad and reprimand her whenever she returned. I I felt she wasn't real and was trying to live a fake life because we were in Europe. We are family friends so I couldn't reconcile her behaviour with our upbringing. 7 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by Inyayiz: 5:15pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Yeah, he proposed 2019 and when I asked him about his plans for wedding by 2020, he asked me why I was in a rush to get married lol, that marriage shouldn’t be the top of my priority list, whereas, he proposed on his own, I wonder why he’ll propose without the intention of marriage, December 2021 and we’re still not married, I’ve returned his ring.. we’ve been dating since 2016 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by LolaO(f): 5:16pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Yes I have We dated for 5 years. Proposed to - Jan 2020 Introduction - February 2020 Engagement and wedding was supposed to be - November 2020 I called off the wedding in August 2020 due to the below reasons: - Dishonesty in finances (non-communication too) - LIES, very strong ones - Cheating (deal breaker was while engaged) - Sexual incompatibility - Loss of love and attraction because of the above. The red flags had always been there, but I chose to ignore because I was blinded at the time. He got married to someone else in less than a year. I don’t regret my decision and I’m glad I called it off; I deserved better. 28 Likes |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by larryking540: 5:16pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
1Sharon:, sometimes when I see male and female praying for a good woman or delay in marriage,I don't feel pity or bad for them , this is one of the reason ,you hardly hear an Asian woman leaving a guy because of small dick or because of hight only African women do so , 1 Like |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by OLULAW: 5:17pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Phoenixk: To summarise, you preferred and wanted a BIGGER DICK and banging lasting HOURS. Well done girl. Are from Calabar? |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by larryking540: 5:18pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
LolaO:yeah you deserve better,but where your hands clean during the whole relationship 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by MrMacinterchi1: 5:18pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
pipnator00:women assuming victimhood |
Re: Have You Been Engaged, And Later Didn't Get Married? What Actually Went Wrong? by MrMacinterchi1: 5:18pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
1Sharon:It's a very valid reason. chill. you are not her or there with her. 4 Likes |
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