Chukapage:
Bia Nwanyi hapu m aka ooo.... No be only women dey yarn men sef dey yarn ,..that " u too talk" shaming tactics can't work here. Allow me to pass my message to that woman.

Mrsserene:

Have you ever thought about yourself in 40 years? Being old and lonely is not fun at all

i926:

Have you ever thought about nerdfrost traveling all over the world, making money, having quality friends, investing and fvcking and dumping beautiful models like tissue papers.

I don't plan on marrying. My mom still thinks that I'm kidding about the firm decision. she don tire

pocohantas:


Of course it is brainwashing when you men are at the receiving end, but let your mother reject your fiancee and you would dump her in seconds because what an elder can see sitting down…

So a Nigerian woman in Nigeria, who is not even regarded as a member of the family she is marrying into. Who is seen as disposable. Should marry you without the support of her family because she LOVES you? Same love that would make you cheat on her because men are polygamous in nature. Only a very foolish lady without a strong family tie will do that and only a more foolish man would expect a woman to go against her family to prove she loves him. When he starts dealing with her, she will know the importance of her family and run back home. They always do. Toor!

Love indeed. No Naija woman should try to prove any nonsense love to a Naija man.

Magnoliaa:


Okay ooo. Na me be the fargin, and this guy was a recovering bad boy. He coped with me for five months, max, as we were already making plans for getting married in the next three months.

One night like that sha, he got tipsy and begged me. I gree. He no fit even wait make we tumble go bedroom. Oga say no, mba, we must do it right there, right now on the white couch. I say okay. I pushed the mental discomfort of the fact that it wasn't the perfect night as I envisioned with Indian love song playing in the background and turari burning on the nightstand with amadioha's-like red, fat candles on the floor.

Sha sha, one thing led to something to another thing and it was time for pene***tion. And... and... omooo, at the verrryy first touch of his thing to my tip, I give him one strong leg kick and jumped out of the window o. Ah! E be like say dem wan use giant saw cut me into two. Ah. Emi omolomo; omo iya e kan soso. Is me one boy want to come and scarra and pulverize and destabilize. I couldn't take it!!!

Blood was gushing out from my elbows and arms like this ni o, from my batman stunt. And this boy started screaming the whole house down, cursing me and everything and telling me he's locking me outside, ehn igbadakodo, yada yada yada. And all the neighbours were looking - some outside, some from their burglary-proof windows. Chai. That was one of the most embarrassing moments of my life, let me tell you. I now started the walk of ****** out of the compound...

See, I'm teary already. I'm coming back. Lemme blow my nose and comport myself... you've taken me down a memory highway... Oh, God.

Wait.

BigBashiru:


i recently met a man that had this mentality. no wife no kids (at 56) and he says that's his biggest regret in life... you can't eat ur cake and have it...those investing in marriage aren't fools... but marriage isn't for everyone....

but I agree marriage in its current form is a scam towards men.

nothing in it for a man except kids...m

Helper1991:
I got her engaged 2019 after my NYSC, she was in her final year. I met her on facebook, she was a nice girl. Though, as a born again brother I am, she thought I will be bleeping her but to her surprise I didn't do that. Instead I helped her to control herself and drew her closer to God. I engaged her three months into the relationship. She was nice but very aggression. After a year and six months, I discovered that she couldn't be my wife due to the consistent revelations I had at night. I couldn't quit instead, I did 14days fasting asking God to intervent. God did and we separated peacefully. We are still friends til date.

larryking540:

if as a man you gat no family bro you are on a long thing,it's funny now because you gat bones to hustle and drive Benz around ,but the end is very ugly

for a lady who says marriage na scam , check online love scam on white women many of them are those who abandon their marriage and divorced their husbands taking huge amount of money from them via court room ,,but went to look for online lover ,and guess wat the money is gone and who is regretting the women ,old age no funny o trust me ,am speaking from experience most of our nairalanders grew up in homes where the father and mother were to gether ,but little ups an down but still stock to gether ,and you want to try the lonly part ,

REMEMBER THE SLARY YOU TAKE HOME MONTHLY BECAUSE YOU ARE A NURSE OR DOCTOR OR BUSINESS WOMAN ,HAS AN END ,AND GOVT SOMETIMES FAIL IN PAYING PENSION ,,AND OLD AGE DISEASE OR ILLNESS IS REAL GET WHO TO LOVE ABD LOVE THE PERSON BACK

AfroKnight:
Okay. This wasn’t what I expected.

Must have been really embarrassing. Omo!

Make I give you e-hug. Collect!

Palema007:
Oh boi..... See storri... See narration. I have laff tire.

Come and complete your story oooo.

pocohantas:


Why do you men ask this question when it is a woman saying it? Isn’t it your usual chorus that men are polygamous in nature? Seems men know the truth but hate to hear it from women.

larryking540:
will you also accept the fact that women lie and cheat also ?

8BitGee:
. I loved her so much,

Nyascobar1414:


Sorry..
You gonn' get a better man

cayorday89:


Each time I am reading your post, it goes with a unique voice, I was already half way and it just sounds like a poco thing, I went back up and I wasn't disappointed.. Always love your counter points and I tend to have a better understanding of how humans reason. The person. You quoted is also not wrong, he is just on the side of the gender he falls into.

Magnoliaa:

Awwwwwwwwwnnnnnnn. So all I needed to do to get you to give me a hug was to tell a story? ^_^ I should have done that tipe tipe e. O ba ti so fun mi tele tele e. Omo. I don learn this trick now. I'll definitely start to milk it!

No wahala. I have more exciting stories to tell, as long as it is guaranteed to make Afro putty. If he now promise to book a spa treatment for me, or an healing trip to a nature setting, I'll share another one of my stories. This one a tour to the Olumo Rock and 8 cultist boys.

Woman eye don see sha. But, we meuvee.

gift0123:




Gerrra here, keep your thought to yourself know tell us mbok.
Naa people like u go open mouth dey vomit yeye, come deceive others join.

Next year we go see you in love with mama tobe daughter before we know it you don marry score two goals in one month.. abeg shift. Hard hard man b say dey never fall in love

Sunday2021:
the NASS can even impeach him if they follow due process. Where I will get problem with the NASS is if they didn't follow due process.
For the bill, the Constitution gave the national assembly the right to overide his decision as long as they can get 2/3 majority. Secondly, I want you to look at the reasons he gave for not signing the bill with an open mind. We have 18 political parties and we have almost 9000 words and if these 18 political parties conduct election in all the 9000 words what do you think will happen.
Mind you, we have almost 7 seats that would be contested on.
Mr Man, the only politician I ever voted for was Gej in 2011, so please don't bring Gej issue here. The Gej you are talking about is a friend to buhari,he visits buhari almost every month, he was there when buhari son was getting married. What about you? Were you invited? Gej has moved on while poor people like you are still stuck in 2014 matters.
Grow up boy!!!

Palema007:
Lol... Honestly I can relate to your story, although mine wasn't as dramatic as yours and it wasn't on engagement level, however it hurts as hell when you lose love for something as cheap as sex. Perhaps sex is that cheap lol. Wetin eye don see just because you wan hold body, mouth no fit tell. I remember one guy giving me ultimatum, then it was painful but reminiscing over it now it sounds very stupid. Like Dee, iye iwo nah? Aye ti baje oooo .
Me just negodo for one corner dey watch everybody now, when I ready I go enter game with sensible person

Olumo rock and 8 cultists boys? Please share ooooo. No worry Afro will cuddle you .

MufasaLion:


I totally agree with her. She made the right decision for herself. She wasn't being a hypocrite that's gonna end up committing adultery.

Magnoliaa:
Awwwn. Hugs and kisses, dear. You have gotten over it, so make I join you laugh instead of feeling sorry for you. Omo. Really? Sex really dey cause things o. But... edakun, ma jewo. My own na fabu. Truth to God. You pointed it out, too, na. Jumping out from a window? Indian love song? Blood dripping from my arms? I no sure say any truth wey dey for that my narration reach 2%.

Wow. I can't imagine you were enthralled and even felt a relatability. Haa. I catch cruise a lot oh, and I'm a writer. Sorry, babe. I will have to think and engage my imagination if I'm to narrate an experience of me and eight cultist boys oh.

I like your MO, though, of observing from the sidelines. Na the best thing be that. Watch, strategize and 'strike' one sensible bobo. There's no gain in waddling into the slush and picking just anything one's hand come across.

Ermm, Afro, , I hope you won't terminate my hug and other future goodies bayi? E mo binu o. My compelling and shaking and emoshunal story isn't real. Haf mercy, e jo.

Palema007:
Oh lawd.... Is this where I get to comment "I'm typeless" (there should be a word like that since we write not talk )
Nevertheless, you have a very good imaginative and writing skills. I believed everything you wrote and already created the scene in my head. Ah ah ah ah gullible me!

No Afroknight won't be giving you no hug! You fooled us! Afro I will hug me instead.

gift0123:

I heard so, but I am not sure those procedures work.

Raalsalghul:


Women cheat too but not in the "polygamous" sense you would think about.

A man cheating on his wife all comes down to sexual pleasure: meaning he can sleep with a Blessing tomorrow, Nkechi the day after and maybe Bolanle next week. He can sleep with as many women he wants as long as they tickle his loins and still loves his wife.

A woman on the other hand cheating on her husband mostly comes down to emotion. She has lost the attraction she has for her partner and is emotionally involved with some other guy: just one guy. So that is the guy she sleeps with not just any random guy she comes across.

This is mainly based on observation.

toren:


I bet you still do.

aviationguy:
We dated for like 5 years, everything was going very good until 3 weeks to our wedding when all plans are in top gears we discovered we are both As the pains is unbearable but we have to shut down all the plans because of the future pains.

I decided I have to stop the wedding although my woman believe miracle can happen but I told her is better we don't know than claim ignorance due to our selfish love...the future is bright.


But Glory be to God Almighty we are both happily married with wonderful children.

sassiemyk:
Discovered she is a Lesbian too. I mean full blown Lesbian. I spend over 3days bathing myself feeling like I'm defiled...

Wakando:

She was about to travel abroad, i spent more than a million for her travel, engaged her then she traveled, few weeks later her father called me to stop disturbing his daughter, that I'm too poor to be his son in law