Magnoliaa:


Okay ooo. Na me be the fargin, and this guy was a recovering bad boy. He coped with me for five months, max, as we were already making plans for getting married in the next three months.

One night like that sha, he got tipsy and begged me. I gree. He no fit even wait make we tumble go bedroom. Oga say no, mba, we must do it right there, right now on the white couch. I say okay. I pushed the mental discomfort of the fact that it wasn't the perfect night as I envisioned with Indian love song playing in the background and turari burning on the nightstand with amadioha's-like red, fat candles on the floor.

Sha sha, one thing led to something to another thing and it was time for pene***tion. And... and... omooo, at the verrryy first touch of his thing to my tip, I give him one strong leg kick and jumped out of the window o. Ah! E be like say dem wan use giant saw cut me into two. Ah. Emi omolomo; omo iya e kan soso. Is me one boy want to come and scarra and pulverize and destabilize. I couldn't take it!!!

Blood was gushing out from my elbows and arms like this ni o, from my batman stunt. And this boy started screaming the whole house down, cursing me and everything and telling me he's locking me outside, ehn igbadakodo, yada yada yada. And all the neighbours were looking - some outside, some from their burglary-proof windows. Chai. That was one of the most embarrassing moments of my life, let me tell you. I now started the walk of ****** out of the compound...

See, I'm teary already. I'm coming back. Lemme blow my nose and comport myself... you've taken me down a memory highway... Oh, God.

Wait.

Gandokiejim:
My Experience
I've always said,I won't marry anyone I had sex with.I believe you are cheap if I sleep with you before marriage ( my ideology though)
I dated and engaged 4 Ladies,I'll tempt them for sex,they will just fall and open their legs,that will be the end of that relationship.
I want to have a feel of my wife first time wedding night.

pocohantas:


Odiegwu! Sorry,nature won’t be unfair to me because one online prick wants it to. God is not an errand boy for your innate evil tendencies. It is so sad that you haven’t been able to wish yourself the good things of life, but you think you can curse me. Are you this stupid or you are faking it?

pocohantas:


Odiegwu! Sorry,nature won’t be unfair to me because one online prick wants it to. God is not an errand boy for your innate evil tendencies. It is so sad that you haven’t been able to wish yourself the good things of life, but you think you can curse me. Are you this stupid or you are faking it?

larryking540:

hope you don't mind ,why do you feel every Nigeria man cheat ?

njelrapheal:
mehn. Why did she not tell him what the uncle said earlier. Some ladies sef.

pocohantas:



Why would any HUMAN with a working brain want their partner to marry them against the family’s wish and even call it LOVE? Na LOVE dey keep NIGERIAN marriage? Lol

alexola20:
Hmm!I did introduction and was planning marriage until all hell broke loose.Ever since then I have been struggling with my life,just because I wanted to get married with the woman I chose for myself.
I lost my two brothers in the process a year apart.
Only constant and unrelenting prayers keep me going on till now.
Hmmm!
Where do I start this story?
I fear my people.Utterly wicked family.

The girl sef japa.

The struggle for survival continues.

Mypeople2:
Please what is the name of this movie ? Liz Benson and Jim Iyke dey inside ?

1Sharon:


Are you kidding me? This is a stupid reason to dump someone.

FalseProphet1:

Wao...

To be honest, it takes the grace of God to see a lady that will stand by you even though the whole world is against you.

Most ladies are easily brainwashed by their families whenever they're not in support of her relationship.

I'm happy you both settled down happily.

Zubi10:
Yea I got engaged to this girl back then. 2009 we did very heavenly introduction,I got admission after then n went to school,, friends started telling me my fiance is misbehaving untill I came around caught her read handed..I forgave her I caught her again I still forgave her until she secured admission into the university 2011 then I stopped the relationship quitely and she never apologize until recently she want to come back and started begging me for forgiveness after she hard a child for another guy.

Melst:

Mine was my uni lover. We dated for four years. It wasn't an official engagement kinda thing but there was marriage plans for after our NYSC. He is my first. We were practically an inseparable couple. He has cheated on me severally but I caught him just once, the others were suspicions he later verified after we broke up.

He was a sex addict or should I say he had a very high libido. It was so bad that the days l resist, he forces himself in. I had to accept that he was this way and make myself mentally and emotionally ready for sex when I'm with him otherwise, when forced, I'll have to bear pains for days. To cope with the guilt of fornication, I also had to see him as my husband. The deal breaker for me was during our convocation, I was so sick, yet all he wanted was sex and with me all feverish and running temperature, it didn't stop him, he pushed in and did his thing. I was disgusted but didn't break up.
We went to our respective states after convocation and an issue came up with my younger brother, police case, so I called my supposed boyfriend to help out that I'll cover the cost of transportation and all. Where he stays is an hour away from the police station but I was 5 hours away. He refused, I was mad and finally ended it. He would have rushed to come if it was for sex. The level of selfishness was appalling and since I already had breakup in mind, I utilized the opportunity.

He didn't protest the breakup. Probably because I was now far away. Few months later, we were posted to same states for NYSC, so we met again. He was already in another relationship and they were intimate. He lied about the latter to lure me. He's married now. Before he did, he begged me severally that I'm his choice up to two weeks to the wedding. That he will call if all off if I accept him. I declined and told him to go ahead that he has my blessings. We are still friends till date. Sometimes in his moments of weakness, he regrets and blames me for pushing him to her. I just laugh it off. He also says I'm his only ex that can make him cheat on his wife. I know I'm not the only one.

Okafor's law never happened with us to his own surprise and disappointment. He has a super D that his exes find irresistible.........

Guyman02:
Yes, we dated for 4 years as students, proposed to her after my NYSC when I secured a job, met her family, discussed my intention and they felt we are not on the same level (full of themselves), later they even claimed that they went to investigate my family in our village and they were told that mental illness runs in our lineage.
They convinced her to abandon our marriage plans which she did instead of fighting for us, I asked her to refund part of the bulk money I gave to her for the marriage preparation which she later did because I wanted a proper closure to the relationship, felt really humiliated, locked myself inside and cried, washed my face and told myself it was time to move on.

Deleted her contact from my phone, never scooped around her social media handles, put aside all our pictures together under a locker and didn't worry myself about her anymore.

Started another relationship with a lady I was close to as friends who was very passionate about me but I didn't look at her because I was faithful to my ex.

Suddenly from the blues, my ex elder sister called me after some months that she has been erratic, cursing everyone for making her to abandon the love of her life and that the family has agreed to our plans for marriage.

Later she called me asking for forgiveness and that it was an Uncle of mine who told her family that mental illness runs in our family because he felt I was marrying into a prominent family and to a girl who works in a big establishment while his own children are scattered.

I simply told her I have moved on and wasn't gonna look back and had already started marriage plans with the lady I mentioned earlier and I even invited her to the superlative wedding we were planning in an exquisite location then.
I used the opportunity to tell her that I am wiser now as I go for only ladies who stand by their men because I am afraid if I show any signs of madness (as my uncle told her family) instead of taking me to a psychiatrist hospital, she will rather take me to a market square so that the madness will become permanent.

Today we are both married to different people and talk freely on general topics anytime she calls me, but I totally avoid making any reference to our 4 years failed relationship to avoid Okafors Law.

FalseProphet1:

Wao...

To be honest, it takes the grace of God to see a lady that will stand by you even though the whole world is against you.

Most ladies are easily brainwashed by their families whenever they're not in support of her relationship.

I'm happy you both settled down happily.

Magnoliaa:

Awwwwwwwwwnnnnnnn. So all I needed to do to get you to give me a hug was to tell a story? ^_^ I should have done that tipe tipe e. O ba ti so fun mi tele tele e. Omo. I don learn this trick now. I'll definitely start to milk it!

No wahala. I have more exciting stories to tell, as long as it is guaranteed to make Afro putty. If he now promise to book a spa treatment for me, or an healing trip to a nature setting, I'll share another one of my stories. This one a tour to the Olumo Rock and 8 cultist boys.

Woman eye don see sha. But, we meuvee.

Guyman02:


Today we are both married to different people and talk freely on general topics anytime she calls me, but I totally avoid making any reference to our 4 years failed relationship to avoid Okafors Law.

AfroKnight:
So, na story story?

Well done

larryking540:

u go die for nothing bro,,na man way never knack before go think say na dick they take they control woman ,bro only in bed you can do that shite ,after all the bedding she is back to her crazy mood ,I have seen alot

larryking540:
,, because they are not working man ,look for a Nigeria girl that is working ,let me shock you ,most Nigeria ladies u will meet over sea get hooked up on Nigeria guys back ,man look for a working class Nigeria girl ,that knows the value of relationship not the name shouting you get money

blaise26abj:


After they opened their legs , did you sleep with them before calling off the engagement ? Who the F are you to tempt ladies that are engaged to you with sex ! Then judge them for falling for someone they love. You are a devil . You are not ready and i pray you don’t fall into the hands of a pretender that will see through your BS then F you up after you commit .

newoffer:
Let the dog go his way. He is an abnormal bbeing.

pocohantas:


Lol. Do you think to say you wise ba? You did see wetin pass you.

Chukapage:
Madam this is not a red pillar Vs feminism issue... You can't shift the goal post. You see that picture of men you have in your head? That mindset of men you have in your head. That will be your REALITY... You never start... You're calling God ... You never even start... God can't dash you what you don't believe in... Again You see that picture of men you have in your head yes that picture yes the picture. That will be the type of men that will chase after you... Even, if you hi, d e for bunker dem go chase you come. Then they'll manifest your EXACT picture and thoughts of men which is finishing your kata where the last one stopped. Brace up... By your thoughts your REALITY has been sealed. Drink milk and ready your heart

Melst:

Mine was my uni lover. We dated for four years. It wasn't an official engagement kinda thing but there was marriage plans for after our NYSC. He is my first. We were practically an inseparable couple. He has cheated on me severally but I caught him just once, the others were suspicions he later verified after we broke up.

He was a sex addict or should I say he had a very high libido. It was so bad that the days l resist, he forces himself in. I had to accept that he was this way and make myself mentally and emotionally ready for sex when I'm with him otherwise, when forced, I'll have to bear pains for days. To cope with the guilt of fornication, I also had to see him as my husband. The deal breaker for me was during our convocation, I was so sick, yet all he wanted was sex and with me all feverish and running temperature, it didn't stop him, he pushed in and did his thing. I was disgusted but didn't break up.
We went to our respective states after convocation and an issue came up with my younger brother, police case, so I called my supposed boyfriend to help out that I'll cover the cost of transportation and all. Where he stays is an hour away from the police station but I was 5 hours away. He refused, I was mad and finally ended it. He would have rushed to come if it was for sex. The level of selfishness was appalling and since I already had breakup in mind, I utilized the opportunity.

He didn't protest the breakup. Probably because I was now far away. Few months later, we were posted to same states for NYSC, so we met again. He was already in another relationship and they were intimate. He lied about the latter to lure me. He's married now. Before he did, he begged me severally that I'm his choice up to two weeks to the wedding. That he will call if all off if I accept him. I declined and told him to go ahead that he has my blessings. We are still friends till date. Sometimes in his moments of weakness, he regrets and blames me for pushing him to her. I just laugh it off. He also says I'm his only ex that can make him cheat on his wife. I know I'm not the only one.

Okafor's law never happened with us to his own surprise and disappointment. He has a super D that his exes find irresistible.........