Guyman02:
They should make the COAS the chairman of the occasion at their wedding and the man should be recruited into the Army after his Youth Service

Druss:


Rather than assuming why not find the policy?

Dreamhighnow:
What is wrong with what she did? She accept a proposal. She was not caught doing immoral or anything wrong

Her only crime is doing it with so called bloody civilian
It is in this country I see a soldier calling people he is suppose to protect as ordinary Bloody civilian

Very sick mindset

Modified

na2016:


I made an assumption based on policy from another sector, you that is doubting my point, what is your statement based on? Nothing!!!

Druss:


It is based on observations that some people talk crap and make assumptions without proof.

na2016:


Please stop sounding like someone who has not been to school before. Each organization has its policies. Just as in the Universities, it is prohibited for a lecturer to have a relationship with a female student that he teaches (even if the student is 30 years old). The reason is that he will not be fair to other students in the class. I believe the military has a similar policy too.

jaxxy:



Not doing it a civilian, many army men propose to their civilian gfs. She disrespected her position as a trainer and uniform bt do unnecessary lovey dovy stuffs while still in the camp as a trainer and in her uniform.

The mumu Corper was also part of the problem by encouraging her to whip his ego and behave in a manner inconsistent with her job just to show off or please the crowd.


It was gross indiscipline.

Ps: if the Corper had respectfully proposed to his superior and shared a hug and left side attractions for later this would not be happening.

Oluromantic:
Na now we go know for both of them if the love is real.

Only 3weeks atteenshon for camp! You don accept marriage proposal. Na now una go begin know each other and how to stand up for each other through trying times. We no even hear from the guy since that time.

EmptyGarden:
This one don learn lesson... If she take eye see wetin resemble ring next time, na fence she go fly escape.

Barryseal:


Sorry to say this, but you sound incoherent trying to compare classroom and orientation camp.
The two are nowhere the same. School involves examination and grading, so it is understandable to put up policy that levels the playing field for everyone.

The main issue here which people like you are playing the ostrich is the religious undertone of this episode. In the more liberal South, Ebonyi state, precisely in 2019, a Corp member engaged a female soldier, it made headlines here on Nairaland. Nobody was court marshaled, nobody was reprimanded, it was a sweet story for those those involved.
Here we are, in a Muslim controlled caliphate state of Kwara, a female soldier kissing a man in public, is Haram, all hell broke loose.

This is yet again, another prime example that we have 2 countries existing in the same place called Nigeria.

na2016:


I will stop replying to you because you don't seem to have any good points.
I gave you an example of an organizational policy and all you did was to say the two are not near. What do you mean by that? If I want to take on you using that alone, I can show instances so many lecturers didn't follow that policy. So, you want to tell me if someone (a VC) comes and demands that such policy should be followed, it means his action has a religious undertone or what?
Please have an open mind when you read and talk so you don't create problems for yourself in the future. I am sure if that proposal was done outside the official hours of duty of that soldier or after that Camping period, there wouldn't have been an issue for her

Barryseal:


So it is against the military policy to propose to a soldier? What the actual nonsense are you talking about? You have no legs to grand stand on this matter. Even your general is embarrassed enough by this episode that he went out of his way to see to the soldier's release but here you are defending the entire nonsense, even shamelessly attempting to draw parallels with a university policy.

EmptyGarden:
This one don learn lesson... If she take eye see wetin resemble ring next time, na fence she go fly escape.

na2016:


You are saying rubbish and I regret having a conversation with a fool like you.

na2016:


That was my last comment to you like I earlier said. Anything you like, say please.

Barryseal:


So it is against the military policy to propose to a soldier? What the actual nonsense are you talking about? You have no legs to grand stand on this matter. Even your general is embarrassed enough by this episode that he went out of his way to see to the soldier's release but here you are defending the entire nonsense, even shamelessly attempting to draw parallels with a university policy.

jclassiq:
These Yoruba people will never cease to amaze me.
How do you accept a marriage proposal from a man you have known only 3 weeks?
They confuse se.x with love. So pathetic, those people.

EmptyGarden:
This one don learn lesson... If she take eye see wetin resemble ring next time, na fence she go fly escape.

Oluromantic:
Na now we go know for both of them if the love is real.

Only 3weeks atteenshon for camp! You don accept marriage proposal. Na now una go begin know each other and how to stand up for each other through trying times. We no even hear from the guy since that time.

EmptyGarden:
This one don learn lesson... If she take eye see wetin resemble ring next time, na fence she go fly escape.

Drogunov:


She was not reprimanded for accepting a marriage proposal. She was reprimanded because it was made a public affair. She is a human being, entitled to start a family.

So stop being an ignorant monkey.

na2016:


I think she did something wrong. That guy was her trainee and was still in camp. I assume there wouldn't have been an issue if this was after the Camp and outside her official duty.

Oksman:


They were both dating before he lost contact with her according to the boy's family source.