Oluromantic:
Marriage does not guarantee 100% companionship.

Your happiness should not come from your spouse

If you overcome the fear of loneliness before marriage, you would not be hurt by your spouse's unfaithfulness.

The more you expect too much from your spouse, the more you'll get disappointed. So keep your expectations low.

Marriage is to share life together and have children not an avenue to derive joy.

That's why it's only foolish women that say all men are same. They are the one who play hard-to-get game the most. They can't take risk cuz they expect the man to be the fountain and finisher of thier joy and happiness.

I'm not saying a girl should be care-free but knowing how to moderate things is a sign of overcoming certain fears. Extremes of everything is bad.

I think that's what the statement is about.

It's like going abroad with the expectations of making money in dollars as soon as possible. If one gets there and things are hard, the thought of coming home empty-handed would cause depression. But if one goes with the mindset of.. things won't be rosy in another man's land in the first few months or year, I'll have to endure hardship a bit before I make it, then one has overcome a great fear

send aza

BadRadio:
send aza

Should I PM you so you can transfer?

Oluromantic:

Should I PM you so you can transfer?

go ahead

BadRadio:
go ahead

I've sent you a PM. Pls check

Oluromantic:

I've sent you a PM. Pls check

didn't see it

BadRadio:
didn't see it

Haba! You made a promise

Ok should we talk on whatsapp

If your reason for getting married is to cure loneliness, your marriage is bound to fail.

for marriage is the coming together of two WHOLE adults to chat a course.


Cheers.

You can keep your change btw.

Oluromantic:

Haba! You made a promise

Ok should we talk on whatsapp

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Marriage can be far lonelier than being alone. Imagine being bound to someone for the rest of your life who takes little interest in you, doesn't want to touch you, works 100 hours a week, wants nothing out of life but more time for Candy Crush, etc. Marriage is, for the most part, a bait and switch. The romance of a shared life, the pretty dresses, the flowers, the prime rib and the grand Caribbean cruise are all designed to goad you into joining the "club," and then guilt you into staying when the loneliness hits (and it will.)

Marriage keeps you in a kind of prison all the rest of your life.
That is what the quote means.
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GTB

BadRadio:
loadedplugz@yahoo.com

Ok. I've sent you a mail

Ixua:
Marriage can be far lonelier than being alone. Imagine being bound to someone for the rest of your life who takes little interest in you, doesn't want to touch you, works 100 hours a week, wants nothing out of life but more time for Candy Crush, etc. Marriage is, for the most part, a bait and switch. The romance of a shared life, the pretty dresses, the flowers, the prime rib and the grand Caribbean cruise are all designed to goad you into joining the "club," and then guilt you into staying when the loneliness hits (and it will.)

Marriage keeps you in a kind of prison all the rest of your life.
That is what the quote means.
0457011702
GTB

"if you're afraid of loneliness, don't marry".
In summary it means that Marriage is associated with the loss of private and artistic freedom.
That is what the quote means.
Baba, if you no give me this ba, walai you no go try.
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GTB

The simple meaning of the statement in layman's term is that marriage will not cure your loneliness. Marriage can only cures your singlehood, not loneliness. Marriage is a mirror. If you don't love yourself, you can't love someone else. If you're not interested in yourself, people won't find you interesting. And If you're lonely alone, you'll be lonely in Marriage.

Your partner can not cure your loneliness even if they try. It's an inside job every individual must contend with. It's an existential burden, which is, you can't love someone to a point that you'll prevent them from dying, and it's the same with loneliness. The cure to loneliness is to commit to something that brightens your life. Be it a writer, a sport person, or trying to leave a mark on the world.

One must live their life in such a way that everyday seems like a new life, where they are a new born, and the world around them is marvelous and interesting to them. Now think about this, children are not lonely, unless of course their parent prevent them from going outside and explore the world. To kids, everyday is magic, to play, experience and grow. The aeroplane that you don't notice anymore when it passes, you'll see kids jumping and pointing at it.

But it's sad that as many grow into adult, they stop exploring, seeing the world in its infinite fairy tale, that the world in its rich beauty and diversity, becomes boring to them, like a empty room. Lots of people having kids discovered that they could re lived their childhood, because that roaming goat you ignored, your kid would chase it around, and find it interesting.

Marriage is basically where two people that are happy with their life 100%, comes together, to merge as one, becoming a better 100%. Just like you add a detergent to bowl of water, it will foam, but if you add another sachet of detergent, it will foam even more intensely, and tougher on dirt. Because its two sachet of detergent doesn't makes it 200%, but became a stronger 100% inside the bowl. So going into a marriage when lonely with one life won't cure it, but you'll find yourself there, and even worse because your partner would suffer for your lack of internal sophistication.

Oluromantic:

Ok. I've sent you a mail

send me your crypto wallet address

pansophist:


The simple meaning of the statement in layman's term is that marriage will not cure your loneliness. Marriage can only cures your singlehood, not loneliness. Marriage is a mirror. If you don't love yourself, you can't love someone else. If you're not interested in yourself, people won't find you interesting. And If you're lonely alone, you'll be lonely in Marriage.

Your partner can not cure your loneliness even if they try. It's an inside job every individual must contend with. It's an existential burden, which is, you can't love someone to a point that you'll prevent them from dying, and it's the same with loneliness. The cure to loneliness is to commit to something that brightens your life. Be it a writer, a sport person, or trying to leave a mark on the world.

One must live their life in such a way that everyday seems like a new life, where they are a new born, and the world around them is marvelous and interesting to them. Now think about this, children are not lonely, unless of course their parent prevent them from going outside and explore the world. To kids, everyday is magic, to play, experience and grow. The aeroplane that you don't notice anymore when it passes, you'll see kids jumping and pointing at it.

But it's sad that as many grow into adult, they stop exploring, seeing the world in its infinite fairy tale, that the world in its rich beauty and diversity, becomes boring to them, like a empty room. Lots of people having kids discovered that they could re lived their childhood, because that roaming goat you ignored, your kid would chase it around, and find it interesting.

Marriage is basically where two people that are happy with their life 100%, comes together, to merge as one, becoming a better 100%. Just like you add a detergent to bowl of water, it will foam, but if you add another sachet of detergent, it will foam even more intensely, and tougher on dirt. Because its two sachet of detergent doesn't makes it 200%, but became a stronger 100% inside the bowl. So going into a marriage when lonely with one life won't cure it, but you'll find yourself there, and even worse because your partner would suffer for your lack of internal sophistication.

send your crypto wallet address

BadRadio:
send me your crypto wallet address

Lol. Now I get you

BadRadio:
send your crypto wallet address

Mr man na 10k I need. I wan go carry olosho today.

Oluromantic:
Marriage does not guarantee 100% companionship.

Your happiness should not come from your spouse

If you overcome the fear of loneliness before marriage, you would not be hurt by your spouse's unfaithfulness.

The more you expect too much from your spouse, the more you'll get disappointed. So keep your expectations low.

Marriage is to share life together and have children not an avenue to derive joy. You're the source of your joy

That's why it's only foolish women that say all men are same. They are the one who play hard-to-get game the most. They can't take risk cuz they expect the man to be the fountain and finisher of thier joy and happiness.

I'm not saying a girl should be care-free but knowing how to moderate things is a sign of overcoming certain fears. Extremes of everything is bad.

I think that's what the statement is about.

It's like going abroad with the expectations of making money in dollars as soon as possible. If one gets there and things are hard, the thought of coming home empty-handed would cause depression. But if one goes with the mindset of.. things won't be rosy in another man's land in the first few months or year, I'll have to endure hardship a bit before I make it, then one has overcome a great fear

May wisdom never elude you...

Nurseonduty:
May wisdom never elude you...

Amen

Been a while. How have you been

pansophist:


Mr man na 10k I need. I wan go carry olosho today.

your wallet please

Nigeria will be better someday.

Oluromantic:

Amen

Been a while. How have you been

I'm fine o... I was doubting whether you're the Olu I know or not.
How's your end Rotimi?

Nurseonduty:
I'm fine o... I was doubting whether you're the Olu I know or not.
How's your end Rotimi?

My end is fine. How's yours too

I've sent you a PM. I want us to chat outside NL

Oluromantic:

My end is fine. How's yours too

I've sent you a PM. I want us to chat outside NL

No qualms

in it literal meaning, marriage is synonymous to loneliness.

pansophist:


The simple meaning of the statement in layman's term is that marriage will not cure your loneliness. Marriage can only cures your singlehood, not loneliness. Marriage is a mirror. If you don't love yourself, you can't love someone else. If you're not interested in yourself, people won't find you interesting. And If you're lonely alone, you'll be lonely in Marriage.

Your partner can not cure your loneliness even if they try. It's an inside job every individual must contend with. It's an existential burden, which is, you can't love someone to a point that you'll prevent them from dying, and it's the same with loneliness. The cure to loneliness is to commit to something that brightens your life. Be it a writer, a sport person, or trying to leave a mark on the world.

One must live their life in such a way that everyday seems like a new life, where they are a new born, and the world around them is marvelous and interesting to them. Now think about this, children are not lonely, unless of course their parent prevent them from going outside and explore the world. To kids, everyday is magic, to play, experience and grow. The aeroplane that you don't notice anymore when it passes, you'll see kids jumping and pointing at it.

But it's sad that as many grow into adult, they stop exploring, seeing the world in its infinite fairy tale, that the world in its rich beauty and diversity, becomes boring to them, like a empty room. Lots of people having kids discovered that they could re lived their childhood, because that roaming goat you ignored, your kid would chase it around, and find it interesting.

Marriage is basically where two people that are happy with their life 100%, comes together, to merge as one, becoming a better 100%. Just like you add a detergent to bowl of water, it will foam, but if you add another sachet of detergent, it will foam even more intensely, and tougher on dirt. Because its two sachet of detergent doesn't makes it 200%, but became a stronger 100% inside the bowl. So going into a marriage when lonely with one life won't cure it, but you'll find yourself there, and even worse because your partner would suffer for your lack of internal sophistication.

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