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Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by Nobody: 6:19pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
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Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by HARDDON: 10:45pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
If your reason for getting married is to cure loneliness, your marriage is bound to fail. for marriage is the coming together of two WHOLE adults to chat a course. Cheers. You can keep your change btw. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by Nobody: 11:33pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
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Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by Nobody: 11:52pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
Marriage can be far lonelier than being alone. Imagine being bound to someone for the rest of your life who takes little interest in you, doesn't want to touch you, works 100 hours a week, wants nothing out of life but more time for Candy Crush, etc. Marriage is, for the most part, a bait and switch. The romance of a shared life, the pretty dresses, the flowers, the prime rib and the grand Caribbean cruise are all designed to goad you into joining the "club," and then guilt you into staying when the loneliness hits (and it will.) Marriage keeps you in a kind of prison all the rest of your life. That is what the quote means. 0457011702 GTB |
Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by Oluromantic: 12:00am On Dec 26, 2021 |
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Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by Nobody: 12:12am On Dec 26, 2021 |
Ixua: "if you're afraid of loneliness, don't marry". In summary it means that Marriage is associated with the loss of private and artistic freedom. That is what the quote means. Baba, if you no give me this ba, walai you no go try. 0457011702 GTB |
Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by pansophist(m): 1:14am On Dec 26, 2021 |
The simple meaning of the statement in layman's term is that marriage will not cure your loneliness. Marriage can only cures your singlehood, not loneliness. Marriage is a mirror. If you don't love yourself, you can't love someone else. If you're not interested in yourself, people won't find you interesting. And If you're lonely alone, you'll be lonely in Marriage. Your partner can not cure your loneliness even if they try. It's an inside job every individual must contend with. It's an existential burden, which is, you can't love someone to a point that you'll prevent them from dying, and it's the same with loneliness. The cure to loneliness is to commit to something that brightens your life. Be it a writer, a sport person, or trying to leave a mark on the world. One must live their life in such a way that everyday seems like a new life, where they are a new born, and the world around them is marvelous and interesting to them. Now think about this, children are not lonely, unless of course their parent prevent them from going outside and explore the world. To kids, everyday is magic, to play, experience and grow. The aeroplane that you don't notice anymore when it passes, you'll see kids jumping and pointing at it. But it's sad that as many grow into adult, they stop exploring, seeing the world in its infinite fairy tale, that the world in its rich beauty and diversity, becomes boring to them, like a empty room. Lots of people having kids discovered that they could re lived their childhood, because that roaming goat you ignored, your kid would chase it around, and find it interesting. Marriage is basically where two people that are happy with their life 100%, comes together, to merge as one, becoming a better 100%. Just like you add a detergent to bowl of water, it will foam, but if you add another sachet of detergent, it will foam even more intensely, and tougher on dirt. Because its two sachet of detergent doesn't makes it 200%, but became a stronger 100% inside the bowl. So going into a marriage when lonely with one life won't cure it, but you'll find yourself there, and even worse because your partner would suffer for your lack of internal sophistication. 14 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by Nobody: 7:35am On Dec 26, 2021 |
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Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by Nobody: 7:35am On Dec 26, 2021 |
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Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by pansophist(m): 1:47pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
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Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by Nurseonduty(f): 2:15pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
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Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by Nurseonduty(f): 3:21pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
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Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by Oluromantic: 3:25pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
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Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by Nurseonduty(f): 3:28pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
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Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by 6ixT8: 12:26pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
in it literal meaning, marriage is synonymous to loneliness. |
Re: If You Are Afraid Of Loneliness, Dont Marry... Interpret And Get 10k by DonroxyII: 10:05am On Dec 28, 2021 |
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