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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by NoGirlfriend: 10:02pm On Dec 26, 2021
AGurlnoname:
Can the man marry himself? Is only a wicked man that would propose to a lady when he's earning less than 50k.
xori!.are you ORI-AKU or ODOZI-AKU?
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by COdeGenesis: 10:02pm On Dec 26, 2021
Kobojunkie:
1. You keep bringing up unrelated issues. Even the man who earns only 20K a month also works hard. That doesn't remove from the fact that what is lives is abject poverty. undecided

2. This isn't about being rich but about earning at least enough to exist above the poverty line, especially in marriage. undecided

3. This thread is about a simple question and a marriage planned on a salary of 50K is poverty. undecided

What can 50k do in this present Nigeria? Just feeding, transportation and bills alone will finish it

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by NoGirlfriend: 10:06pm On Dec 26, 2021
ORI-AKU: a woman that eats and squanders your money/wealth. ODOZI-AKU: a woman that manages and sustains your money/wealth. Guys its left for you to choose.

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Kobojunkie: 10:06pm On Dec 26, 2021
COdeGenesis:
What can 50k do in this present Nigeria? Just feeding, transportation and bills alone will finish it
You no even add rent put. Yet people think marriage makes sense on such a meagrer amount. undecided
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Kobojunkie: 10:07pm On Dec 26, 2021
NoGirlfriend:
ORI-AKU: a woman that eats and squanders your money/wealth.
ODOZI-AKU: a woman that manages and sustains your money/wealth.
Guys its left for you to choose.
What wealth does a person who earns 50k have? undecided

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Dmacqh(m): 10:11pm On Dec 26, 2021
Dreamers !!! How many Nigerian has #0.5m+ in bank account statistically ?
Between Private sector and Government, who has more employers ?
How many private employers I mean ( BSC) holders earn more than #50k monthly in Nigeria?
How much is Nigeria minimum wage ?
Are government civil servants not getting married ?
So gatemen in Nigeria don’t marry ?
Life has a way of solving its problem, as long as you keep working .
To the question @op yes , with #50k as salary you can marry in Nigeria now .
But before you embark on having #50k as a salary and thinking of marriage , you’ve to consider this ...
How much is my partner worth , financially and potentially ?
What happens when the #50k salary wasn’t paid or delayed ? There comes agriculture and side hustle
With the inflation in Nigeria , i don’t even advice anybody to date anyone ( male and female ) who can’t come up with at least #30k monthly.
Everybody won’t be rich . All fingers can’t be equal .
I’m broke , that’s why I’m single .

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by FriendsAndFans(m): 10:12pm On Dec 26, 2021
Raychee:
No. Because i as a lady, cannot earn 50k and be thinking of marriage. Whoever can marry with 50k salary should go ahead. We are all not the same. Instead we would work on multiplying our source of income. Raising kids in the best of conditions isn't cheap.

Life is funny. even if you earn above 90k, you will still have a reason not to get married.

Truth b told, 50k can't cover a lot of expenses. Before you rent an apartment, before you get a 12kg cylinder (20k) and other things to set up for a home, you discover even 50,000 in 4 months (200,000k ) can't do much.

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by mikebabs101: 10:13pm On Dec 26, 2021
I’m sure I spend close to 50k just feeding myself in a month , so how can one maintain a family with 50k. Even if the wife is working. 50k is still very little maintain a family
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by ImoleNaija: 10:13pm On Dec 26, 2021
Dmacqh:
Dreamers !!! How many Nigerian has #0.5m+ in bank account statistically ?
Between Private sector and Government, who has more employers ?
How many private employers I mean ( BSC) holders earn more than #50k monthly in Nigeria?
How much is Nigeria minimum wage ?
Are government civil servants not getting married ?
So gatemen in Nigeria don’t marry ?
Life has a way of solving its problem, as long as you keep working .
To the question @op yes , with #50k as salary you can marry in Nigeria now .
But before you embark on having #50k as a salary and thinking of marriage , you’ve to consider this ...
How much is my partner worth , financially and potentially ?
What happens when the #50k salary wasn’t paid or delayed ? There comes agriculture and side hustle
With the inflation in Nigeria , i don’t even advice anybody to date anyone ( male and female ) who can’t come up with at least #30k monthly.
Everybody won’t be rich . All fingers can’t be equal .
I’m broke , that’s why I’m single .

Let them be deceiving themselves online. Na dem type dey sponsor their weddings & still take up full responsibilities in their homes - just to stop societal stigma.
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Finchmgh: 10:14pm On Dec 26, 2021
Datboredberry:
With the way most of you dish out insults... undecided

Yes... She's entitled to choose or size you up... That's normal, intelligent even... Every living thing chooses a mate that has the most to offer...

You are entitled to choose also...

Your entire comment makes no sense...

First of all, you might be a suffer-head... Don't assume others are too... You might feel content being broke, struggling to feed... You seriously want to start a family this way? undecided

See your child(ren) starve, sent home from school...etc.

It's not rude to be wise enough to know that 50k is not enough for even a family of three...(man, woman and one child)...

You should simply say that you can only marry if the woman earns the same amount too... A combined salary... A total of ₦100k... That's manageable...

But you're being unnecessarily defensive...
You are the one making a senseless comment, and not the person you are accusing.
You are just too stuupid to realize it
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Ezenu: 10:14pm On Dec 26, 2021
AGurlnoname:
Can the man marry himself? Is only a wicked man that would propose to a lady when he's earning less than 50k.
eee woo
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by patpaul: 10:18pm On Dec 26, 2021
dazzlingd:
A man earning less than 50k has no business with marriage ..

I wont allow my niece, sister, daughter, aunty, cousin near a man earning less than 50k in a month, I wont attend the wedding. I'm not a supporter of poverty
then keep plenty money to support your children to be successful b4 they marry

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Lightway: 10:19pm On Dec 26, 2021
Datboredberry:
With the way most of you dish out insults... undecided

Yes... She's entitled to choose or size you up... That's normal, intelligent even... Every living thing chooses a mate that has the most to offer...

You are entitled to choose also...

Your entire comment makes no sense...

First of all, you might be a suffer-head... Don't assume others are too... You might feel content being broke, struggling to feed... You seriously want to start a family this way? undecided

See your child(ren) starve, sent home from school...etc.

It's not rude to be wise enough to know that 50k is not enough for even a family of three...(man, woman and one child)...

You should simply say that you can only marry if the woman earns the same amount too... A combined salary... A total of ₦100k... That's manageable...

But you're being unnecessarily defensive...

What an evil woman

All you want to do is eat a man's money and grow fat just because you have pussy in-between your legs

Why not make 100k and wait for a man to marry you then you feed the man and your children

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by kakaflex(m): 10:20pm On Dec 26, 2021
How much the man takes home shouldn't be an issue. 50k is even much.

I got married when my Salary was 25k, after few months my wife got a Job she was earning 145k.

One thing I thank God is my wife is God fearing and respects me alot. That money didn't enter her head.

Few months later I got a pay raise to 180k at my place of Work.

So money shouldn't be an issue
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Streetpriest1: 10:20pm On Dec 26, 2021
There are levels in everything. Just look for ur level. I know families that have an income of less than 60k monthly.

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by ivandragon: 10:20pm On Dec 26, 2021
Kobojunkie:
1. You keep bringing up unrelated issues. Even the man who earns only 20K a month also works hard. That doesn't remove from the fact that what is lives is abject poverty. undecided

2. This isn't about being rich but about earning at least enough to exist above the poverty line, especially in marriage. undecided

3. This thread is about a simple question and a marriage planned on a salary of 50K is poverty. undecided

First off, you quoting me with such response showed you do not even understand the topic or my opinion to it.

A simple question, yes, but are the answers so straightforward?

Does your position reflect reality?

Since you know there are poor people married & earning less than 20k pm, what does that tell you?

Anyway, there are no right or wrong answers on a topic as this, so you should learn to respond with more commonsense should you decide to quote someone else.

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Nobody: 10:21pm On Dec 26, 2021
Lightway:


What an evil woman

All you want to do is eat a man's money and grow fat just because you have pussy in-between your legs

Why not make 100k and wait for a man to marry you then you feed the man and your children

Did you miss the, "combined salary of the partners"... undecided

Or you just wanna be stupid tonight?
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by shakyum: 10:23pm On Dec 26, 2021
Wazumali:
Risky cheesy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xg2bPKsZD1g

I'm just curious, what brought Ronaldo in that video(the picture) it seems those two teams ganged up against Ronaldo or what grin the sight of CR7 made me almost fall for it
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by RodgersAkpafu: 10:23pm On Dec 26, 2021
Dmacqh:
Dreamers !!! How many Nigerian has #0.5m+ in bank account statistically ?
Between Private sector and Government, who has more employers ?
How many private employers I mean ( BSC) holders earn more than #50k monthly in Nigeria?
How much is Nigeria minimum wage ?
Are government civil servants not getting married ?
So gatemen in Nigeria don’t marry ?
Life has a way of solving its problem, as long as you keep working .
To the question @op yes , with #50k as salary you can marry in Nigeria now .
But before you embark on having #50k as a salary and thinking of marriage , you’ve to consider this ...
How much is my partner worth , financially and potentially ?
What happens when the #50k salary wasn’t paid or delayed ? There comes agriculture and side hustle
With the inflation in Nigeria , i don’t even advice anybody to date anyone ( male and female ) who can’t come up with at least #30k monthly.
Everybody won’t be rich . All fingers can’t be equal .
I’m broke , that’s why I’m single .
To marry and have companionship is one thing
To bring series of unfortunate kids into this sticky situation is another.
It's the kids part I actually worry about
Not even the spouse
Husband and wife can be together for 5 years managing themselves with no kids involved
But because Nigerians and Africans are moronic, they expect you and themselves to start popping kids asap

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Dec 26, 2021
Finchmgh:

You are the one making a senseless comment, and not the person you are accusing.
You are just too stuupid to realize it
If you wanna get married while earning less than 50k... This period... With the fuçked up economy...

Knock yourself out! grin

Nigerian men and their weird satisfaction with poverty... undecided

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by shakyum: 10:24pm On Dec 26, 2021
kakaflex:
How much the man takes home shouldn't be an issue. 50k is even much.

I got married when my Salary was 25k, after few months my wife got a Job she was earning 145k.

One thing I thank God is my wife is God fearing and respects me alot. That money didn't enter her head.

From 25K to 180K? Boss cut me soap

Few months later I got a pay raise to 180k at my place of Work.

So money shouldn't be an issue
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by kakaflex(m): 10:24pm On Dec 26, 2021
mikebabs101:
I’m sure I spend close to 50k just feeding myself in a month , so how can one maintain a family with 50k. Even if the wife is working. 50k is still very little maintain a family

Pls don't enslave your mentality. 50k won't be enough for you even 100k......I tell you. Get married and that 50k will be very very enough for you and you will even get savings out of it

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Kobojunkie: 10:25pm On Dec 26, 2021
ivandragon:
1. Does your position reflect reality?

2. Since you know there are poor people married & earning less than 20k pm, what does that tell you?

3. Anyway, there are no right or wrong answers on a topic as this, so you should learn to respond with more commonsense should you decide to quote someone else.
1. Why should my position reflect a reality that is over 75% poverty rate? undecided

2. I means commonsense is very much needed. undecided

3. There are right and wrong answers, and the wrong answers would answers are those that perpetuate the culture of poverty in Nigeria. undecided
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Nobody: 10:25pm On Dec 26, 2021
meetme01:
It is not about the salary of the man. It's about being an hustler. Anyone that tells you salary is enough to survive or sustain a family is just deceiving himself. The higher the salary, the higher the expenses.

As a civil servant, that's my take home. I have about 4 different other hustle that bring money. I don't even rely on the salary.

My brother that's the spirit o. Salary might not last a week, but thank God for side hustle
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by GoldenSpec: 10:26pm On Dec 26, 2021
Me i just know that I'm single and jobless. Let me see any lady that would approach me undecided sad
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Kobojunkie: 10:27pm On Dec 26, 2021
kakaflex:
Pls don't enslave your mentality. 50k won't be enough for you even 100k......I tell you. Get married and that 50k will be very very enough for you and you will even get savings out of it
Are you saying that if a person gets married, 50K will now become the equivalent of having 100k? undecided

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by kakaflex(m): 10:28pm On Dec 26, 2021
[quote author=shakyum post=108840834][/quote]

Yes from 25k to 180k.
I got my Job with SSCE....I went back to school got my BSC tender it to my Organisation and I got a pay lift

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by nakaman: 10:29pm On Dec 26, 2021
Datboredberry:
With the way most of you dish out insults... undecided

Yes... She's entitled to choose or size you up... That's normal, intelligent even... Every living thing chooses a mate that has the most to offer...

You are entitled to choose also...

Your entire comment makes no sense...

First of all, you might be a suffer-head... Don't assume others are too... You might feel content being broke, struggling to feed... You seriously want to start a family this way? undecided

See your child(ren) starve, sent home from school...etc.

It's not rude to be wise enough to know that 50k is not enough for even a family of three...(man, woman and one child)...

You should simply say that you can only marry if the woman earns the same amount too... A combined salary... A total of ₦100k... That's manageable...

But you're being unnecessarily defensive...
how much dn u earn currently
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Kobojunkie: 10:29pm On Dec 26, 2021
Streetpriest1:
There are levels in everything. Just look for ur level. I know families that have an income of less than 60k monthly.
You know such families ... do you also understand the hardships they experience as a result of living on 60K a month or do you, like so many other Nigerians, assume that because they smile, particularly the kids when you see them, they aren't struggling? undecided

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by ivandragon: 10:30pm On Dec 26, 2021
Kobojunkie:
1. Why should my position reflect a reality that is over 75% poverty rate? undecided

2. I means commonsense is very much needed. undecided

3. There are right and wrong answers, and the wrong answers would answers are those that perpetuate the culture of poverty in Nigeria. undecided

Answers that you chose?

There were poor people before nigeria came into existence & there would be poor people long after it is gone, so what do you plan to do? End poverty in nigeria?

What you call commonsense is nonsensical if it cannot be achieved or is not realistic. When you end poverty in nigeria, maybe your position would make more sense then.
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by kakaflex(m): 10:33pm On Dec 26, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Are you saying that if a person gets married, 50K will now become the equivalent of having 100k? undecided

As at when I got married my Salary was 25k monthly......I didn't beg for food one day and we were eating 3times daily.

My wife got a Job after few months.....I also got a pay lift to 180k.

This is reality nit firm. God still favours people through marriage.

He that finds a Wife, has found a good thing and obtained favour from the Lord
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Dec 26, 2021
nakaman:
how much dn u earn currently

Are you okay?

I wrote that both the man and woman should earn that amount equally before getting married...

Most of you can't comprehend simple paragraphs... undecided undecided

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