meetme01:
It is not about the salary of the man. It's about being an hustler. Anyone that tells you salary is enough to survive or sustain a family is just deceiving himself. The higher the salary, the higher the expenses.

As a civil servant, that's my take home. I have about 4 different other hustle that bring money. I don't even rely on the salary.

kakaflex:
As at when I got married my Salary was 25k monthly......I didn't beg for food one day and we were eating 3times daily.

My wife got a Job after few months.....I also got a pay lift to 180k. This is reality nit firm. God still favours people through marriage. He that finds a Wife, has found a good thing and obtained favour from the Lord

ivandragon:
Answers that you chose?

There were poor people before nigeria came into existence & there would be poor people long after it is gone, so what do you plan to do? End poverty in nigeria?

What you call commonsense is nonsensical if it cannot be achieved or is not realistic. When you end poverty in nigeria, maybe your position would make more sense then.

AGurlnoname:
Can the man marry himself? Is only a wicked man that would propose to a lady when he's earning less than 50k.


Mod: see them quoting me. Lol, people should be reasonable o. With this present economy, Buhari Regime, you want to propose to a lady when you're earning less than 50k?

steveneche:
Am just curious. With the current state of economy, as a lady, can you marry a guy whose salary is not up to 50k monthly?

Candid opinion please!

YOUNGELDER1:
This is funny because some NL ladies are married to private school teachers that does earn less than 50k

Some are married to husbands that earn way less so please .


In as much as you’re earning you can always manage your home.

posty56:
how much the dirty pig they earn wey she go choose, I swear na we they give Nigeria girls the audacity, na otedola pikin wey she go they size me up by salary

Datboredberry:
With the way most of you dish out insults...

Yes... She's entitled to choose or size you up... That's normal, intelligent even... Every living thing chooses a mate that has the most to offer...

You are entitled to choose also...

Your entire comment makes no sense...

First of all, you might be a suffer-head... Don't assume others are too... You might feel content being broke, struggling to feed... You seriously want to start a family this way?

See your child(ren) starve, sent home from school...etc.

It's not rude to be wise enough to know that 50k is not enough for even a family of three...(man, woman and one child)...

You should simply say that you can only marry if the woman earns the same amount too... A combined salary... A total of ₦100k... That's manageable...

But you're being unnecessarily defensive...

AGurlnoname:
Can the man marry himself? Is only a wicked man that would propose to a lady when he's earning less than 50k.


Mod: see them quoting me. Lol, people should be reasonable o. With this present economy, Buhari Regime, you want to propose to a lady when you're earning less than 50k?

Kobojunkie:
What is with the meaningless ramblings for Pete's sake. Commonsense is we do not want poverty but here you think it nonsensical to make decisions to avoid poverty....which way Nigeria abeg!

Datboredberry:
Sure... But marriages don't end with the couple...

Would we have kids? Then no!

I wouldn't encourage anyone to start a family if both partners earn less then 50k... In Nigeria... With the way things are...

Datboredberry:


Are you okay?

I wrote that both the man and woman should earn that amount equally before getting married...

Most of you can't comprehend simple paragraphs...

HellVictorinho3:
Datboredberry

Are you bored?

The topic says whether you will marry me when I earn less than 50k

I don't need PastorM to speak to God on behalf of our possible marriage

Just tell me yes or no

Since the day I was born,
I have been on the loose

Assessing the streets
Anyhow to remain with my wits

It's of no use to wish for Heaven
I remain Hell no matter what is certain


What's passion when I spit fire till I set Nairaland ablaze with my lines...... coming from my head....... you should have a heart


No confusion...
I know what I'm saying
I believe you can make it....... I mean something called gain.... money all over the place like it's the rain.....



It seems nobody believes in me......... I wonder if you care about this dude..... do you think he's in love....?

Honestly, I'm just showing my writing skills..... I ain't promising you anything.... it's just a matter of creativity...
I pass through the valley of death..... everyday....no exaggeration.... what's the worst that could happen in reality?



If you don't give a damn about this , the sun will not freeze.
Be yourself...live your life.... I ain't forcing you to think about it....


I'm all out and Hell-bent on being myself too till I die... to be buried anywhere and anyhow possible....
We shall see what's inevitable!



My enemies are out there.... I may not live long enough to get certain things.
You may never see me outside Nairaland...so, furrrk what is happening!
Yeah, furrrk these things!

TeddyJammy:



na u dey get time :-(

Datboredberry:
Lol! Hi! Good evening!

Bola146:
Jesu! How much is the lady earning? Must it base with his salary? Even if you earn #1m with no proper spending, it wouldn't last

TeddyJammy:


Evening

am nt happy with u atall

HellVictorinho3:
Datboredberry

Are you bored?


The topic says whether you will marry me when I earn less than 50k


I don't need PastorM to speak to God on behalf of our possible marriage


Just tell me yes or no


Since the day I was born,
I have been on the loose

Assessing the streets
Anyhow to remain with my wits

It's of no use to wish for Heaven
I remain Hell no matter what is certain


What's passion when I spit fire till I set Nairaland ablaze with my lines...... coming from my head....... you should have a heart


No confusion...
I know what I'm saying
I think you can make it....... I mean something called gain.... money all over the place like it's the rain.....



It seems nobody believes in me......... I wonder if you care about this dude..... do you think he's in love....?

Honestly, I'm just showing my writing skills..... I ain't promising you anything.... it's just a matter of creativity...
I pass

dazzlingd:
A man earning less than 50k has no business with marriage ..

I wont allow my niece, sister, daughter, aunty, cousin near a man earning less than 50k in a month, I wont attend the wedding. I'm not a supporter of poverty

Datboredberry:
That's bad!

Why not though? I thought you and I were cool!

I'm sorry... Bout not responding... I will... I haven't even read them yet... I'm moving... To another state... Just stressed out...

AGurlnoname:
Can the man marry himself? Is only a wicked man that would propose to a lady when he's earning less than 50k.


Mod: see them quoting me. Lol, people should be reasonable o. With this present economy, Buhari Regime, you want to propose to a lady when you're earning less than 50k?

meetme01:
It is not about the salary of the man. It's about being an hustler. Anyone that tells you salary is enough to survive or sustain a family is just deceiving himself. The higher the salary, the higher the expenses.

As a civil servant, that's my take home. I have about 4 different other hustle that bring money. I don't even rely on the salary.

Simran94:

Because right from time, it's the responsibility of the man to take care of his family. Our fathers took care of our mothers, same with our grandfathers.

AGurlnoname:
Can the man marry himself? Is only a wicked man that would propose to a lady when he's earning less than 50k.


Mod: see them quoting me. Lol, people should be reasonable o. With this present economy, Buhari Regime, you want to propose to a lady when you're earning less than 50k?

posty56:
how much the dirty pig they earn wey she go choose, I swear na we they give Nigeria girls the audacity, na otedola pikin wey she go they size me up by salary

Snitch24:
Why does it always has to be based on what the male has to offer or how much he earns so the woman jst come empty handed and headed
This life no jst balance