Akakanfirstclass:
So you're asking bcoz You're just curious....
Nothing happened?
No scenario?..
My friend go and come back with something like...[/b]" good evening nlanders, pls I will keep it brief. Forgive any grammatical error, so I have been dating this lady for 3years, she is 25 and I am 100...."[b]
With such approach, the elders will land on ur thread like vultures visiting carcass...

You are a bad guy!
My belle don full with laughter!!
Merry Christmas to you and your family!!

Cousin9999:
Age differences aren't about the gap. They're about the life stage. A person in their mid twenties is not usually at the same place in life as someone in their early thirties. And it may be unfair for an older person to commit to someone who hasn't yet determined if they're ready to enter a certain stage.

That said, sometimes, when you know, you know. If you both love each other, and you're committed to building a great relationship and life together, do it.

But you might want to wait a while before having babies. Take your time.

Dear Cousin9999,
In usually look forward to your comments here, as you contribute intelligently, please when you say "you might want to wait before having babies" what do you actually mean?

A 32 years old woman is badly desperate for marriage. Abort mission bro, I repeat abort mission. She's only pretending and acting all nice right now because age isn't on her side anymore.

No say I no warn you.!!!

Well my direct answer to this question is No! I can't. Case closed.

shout out to
prince of lagos,
naijaolosho,
slawormir,
futureisfemale,
orgamsgiver,
thicksharon123,
ikillbrokehoes
DBULL
DUBAILANDLORD
Mosdi
Rightousness2
falseprophet
folake4u
iyaebe
pochohantas
uyaiincompareable
madamvanessa
boogeyman
peguin 23
afonjaconedhead
ipobarethieves
nairavsdollar
you guys are the real NL celebrity!!
nwamaikpe

Sarsaproko:
Well she is gonna end up controlling you. She be your senior nau. Your sugar mummy..

You never see sugar mummy. Look at this one

Phillipson02: Yoruba guy in his 20s
Sisterfire: Rivers woman in her 50s


She put him on a salary since last year. Both met on nairaland

Boniwhite:
shout out to

prince of lagos,

naijaolosho,

slawormir,

futureisfemale,

orgamsgiver,

thicksharon123,

ikillbrokehoes

DBULL

DUBAILANDLORD

Mosdi

Rightousness2

falseprophet

folake4u

iyaebe

pochohantas

uyaiincompareable

madamvanessa

boogeyman

peguin 23

afonjaconedhead

ipobarethieves

nairavsdollar

you guys are the real NL celebrity!!

nwamaikpe

You forgot Phillipson02

He is the nairaland Fvck boy that services all older women above 50.

The one he is dating now is 51... that's 3 years older than his mother.
They met on Nairaland

Op tell us d truth. It’s d financial independent u like

Bigcowhorn:




You never see sugar mummy. Look at this one

Phillipson02: Yoruba guy in his 20s
Sisterfire: Rivers woman in her 50s


She put him on a salary since last year. Both met on nairaland

You are always looking for trouble , u go about insulting people and when they confront u ,you claim bond is broken shit ...stop cyber bully

Bigcowhorn:



You forgot Phillipson02
He is the nairaland Fvck boy that services all older women above 50.
The one he is dating now is 51... that's 3 years older than his mother. They met on Nairaland

Haaaah!! wtf!! that one is an OG thanks for the info sha would note him in my next post.

Go and ask Mariah Carey and Tenaka

What if it works too?

babavik:

Dear Cousin9999,
In usually look forward to your comments here, as you contribute intelligently, please when you say "you might want to wait before having babies" what do you actually mean?

I think these couples (or any couple really) should give their marriage time before bringing kids in. They should settle into married life and be more sure of what they want. Sometimes people get caught up in fantasy. You want to make sure your babies come into a happy, healthy marriage and have a strong foundation.

steveneche:
Am currently dating this lady, she is 32 I am 25. I really like her because she is mature, caring and financially independent too

We have been together for over a year now but am feeling sceptical about proposing to her. I have this feeling she will reject my proposal and that might affect our on ongoing relationship

I don't want to loose her so I want to know what you guys think especially the ladies in the house


As lady, do you think you can get married to a guy who is over 5year younger than you?


Candid opinion please!

OP go and ask Mariah Carey and Tenaka

I am more attracted to older ladies. I can marry a lady that is not more than 5 years older than me

Phillipson02:
You are always looking for trouble , u go about insulting people and when they confront u ,you claim bond is broken shit ...stop cyber bully

What exactly are you accusing me of? The same thing you are doing to Khiaa?
Get ready for more, your and your sunshine sisterfire, because I'm not about to beg you to stop

Double0h7:
My boo is 4 years younger than me. It's not really the age but how the man carries himself. Boo is assertive, confident, and responsible so I humble myself when dealing with him. I've met guys 10 years older than me and I had zero respect for them because even a fool grows older.

you sure?

Lalami3232:
Age has nothing to do with wisdom or intelligence in other parts of the world but it has alot to do with 9ja girls. If you need fresh trouble/problem, go and date a 9ja babe wey dey between 18-25yrs. Life go tire you!!! Those ones never ready for anything commitment or responsibility, all dem want na ice cream, shawama, airtime, carry dem go beach, cinema, tik tok etc. Age na just number for abroad babes but no be 9ja babes oooo. Our babes dey get sense when dem don approach 30yrs and above.
The percentage of 18-25yrs wey get sense for relationship in 9ja na 0.01%. If you still wan flex as a guy, those ones good but if u want commitment, forget younger babes. Go for 30+ babes wey don pass HOEloshoism phase of life.

I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "The day I go mistakenly born girl pikin, I go *****"

It sounds funny but it is truth

4/5yrs gap is ok but if love dey no yawa sha

steveneche:
Am currently dating this lady, she is 32 I am 25. I really like her because she is mature, caring and financially independent too

We have been together for over a year now but am feeling sceptical about proposing to her. I have this feeling she will reject my proposal and that might affect our on ongoing relationship

I don't want to loose her so I want to know what you guys think especially the ladies in the house


As lady, do you think you can get married to a guy who is over 5year younger than you?


Candid opinion please!

If you love the lady and you personally don't see anything wrong with marrying a older lady, then marry her. Don't allow society dictate your life.

patorial:
Kindly and slowly reduce your attention to her and she will dump you.

Women go where they get attention, even if you are super rich, when your attention no longer wave in their face, they take your money then seek attention somewhere else.

But what exactly is this attention everyone is talking about?

Am currently dating one and I can't say I enjoy the relationship.
But if I see someone like that u just described I will definitely marry her,forget the age

[quote author=steveneche post=108842403]Am currently dating this lady, she is 32 I am 25. I really like her because she is mature, caring and financially independent too

We have been together for over a year now but am feeling sceptical about proposing to her. I have this feeling she will reject my proposal and that might affect our on ongoing relationship

I don't want to loose her so I want to know what you guys think especially the ladies in the house


As lady, do you think you can get married to a guy who is over 5year younger than you?


Age doesn't matter when it comes to love. The question is does she also love you in the same you love her?

House let's face reality I don't advice a guy to marry or date older gals... Doesn't make sense... The guy will always be younger as years pass.. By d time she is 50 d guy will be 45.still d guy will look fresh... If u r not strong in ur faith u might be tempted to date younger once..

No...

Double0h7:
My boo is 4 years younger than me. It's not really the age but how the man carries himself. Boo is assertive, confident, and responsible so I humble myself when dealing with him. I've met guys 10 years older than me and I had zero respect for them because even a fool grows older.

victooman:
you know nothing about love and relationship, in fact you have no knowledge about human generic growth, haven't you meet women who will grow older than their age? how can u marry a woman u are 10years older than , do u even value your peace of mind? what makes u believe all women grow ugly with wrinkles when they get older, have u seen Genevieve, regina askia, kate henshaw rita Dominic etc? so you are advising this guy to forfeit a woman who loves and cherish him over a girl who is just younger,,if you like marry a woman who is 20yrs younger than you, keep her in hunger and fail to take care of her, she will soon start to look like your grand mum.

My brother you are using billionaire actress who have money to do whatever they like to give examples .
Using 10years was just an example but the take home is not to many a woman older than you by 5years as discussed here.

Palazee:
So going for girls you are older than is probably the safest option

She will be enticing, our love will grow strong and i won't cheat on her

I pity those who believe this shīt you just wrote

Mind you, my mother is 5 years older than my father and i haven't seen any of those you wrote in action

Smh

Your mum is older than your father by 5yrs is not verifiable and Is one of those Nairaland antics to add sugar to their lie.
I have leave you with wisdom.what you do with it is your cup of tea.

I married a man 7years older than me and it was the most horrific experience ever. Say a word and he’ll remind you that he’s not your mate

Just ask her "Do you ever see us ending up as husband and wife?" That's not a proposal but a question, her answer should be your guide.

No I can’t. I’ll forever see him as my baby brother no matter how hard I try and no matter how big he looks. He will always be like a little brother to me and I’ll treat him exactly how I’ll treat my younger brother

While waiting for the ladies, make I say my mind

Me I no fit marry woman 1-5 years below me

The way those gender dey age eh