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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Olaideolayemi(m): 8:30am On Dec 27, 2021
AGurlnoname:
Can the man marry himself? Is only a wicked man that would propose to a lady when he's earning less than 50k.


Mod: see them quoting me. Lol, people should be reasonable o. With this present economy, Buhari Regime, you want to propose to a lady when you're earning less than 50k?
Nawaa oooo..There are different woman outside there.. Somebody have to watch very well..
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Olaideolayemi(m): 8:31am On Dec 27, 2021
Datboredberry:
Sure... But marriages don't end with the couple...

Would we have kids? Then no!

I wouldn't encourage anyone to start a family if both partners earn less then 50k... In Nigeria... With the way things are...
Even with kid they will survive..It all depends on whom they are..
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Olaideolayemi(m): 8:33am On Dec 27, 2021
Datboredberry:
With the way most of you dish out insults... undecided

Yes... She's entitled to choose or size you up... That's normal, intelligent even... Every living thing chooses a mate that has the most to offer...

You are entitled to choose also...

Your entire comment makes no sense...

First of all, you might be a suffer-head... Don't assume others are too... You might feel content being broke, struggling to feed... You seriously want to start a family this way? undecided

See your child(ren) starve, sent home from school...etc.

It's not rude to be wise enough to know that 50k is not enough for even a family of three...(man, woman and one child)...

You should simply say that you can only marry if the woman earns the same amount too... A combined salary... A total of ₦100k... That's manageable...

But you're being unnecessarily defensive...
Y abusing?you should argued him based on many reasons not abusing now?
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Olaideolayemi(m): 8:35am On Dec 27, 2021
Iyaebe:
What you earn shouldn't determine when and if you should marry.
hmmm.. please can you explained further..just for learning..
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Goalnaldo(m): 8:35am On Dec 27, 2021
How many times will this exact topic make front page??
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Nobody: 8:39am On Dec 27, 2021
Khiaaa:
chai simps plenty for this forum oh Kai grin
She insulted me first and abused my parents.
I don't just troll people like that, they started it first so when I pay them back in their own coin they start crying foul.
I work remotely from home and I'm earning millions. Keep your advise you to yourself, you need the job more


May I know how you earn from home?



Maybe it will work for me,too
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by jamesversion: 8:58am On Dec 27, 2021
Bola146:
Jesu! How much is the lady earning? Must it base with his salary? Even if you earn #1m with no proper spending, it wouldn't last

My love ❤. Wassup. Merry Christmas � �.
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by jamesversion: 9:02am On Dec 27, 2021
Datboredberry:
With the way most of you dish out insults... undecided

Yes... She's entitled to choose or size you up... That's normal, intelligent even... Every living thing chooses a mate that has the most to offer...

You are entitled to choose also...

Your entire comment makes no sense...

First of all, you might be a suffer-head... Don't assume others are too... You might feel content being broke, struggling to feed... You seriously want to start a family this way? undecided

See your child(ren) starve, sent home from school...etc.

It's not rude to be wise enough to know that 50k is not enough for even a family of three...(man, woman and one child)...

You should simply say that you can only marry if the woman earns the same amount too... A combined salary... A total of ₦100k... That's manageable...

But you're being unnecessarily defensive...

Please come let me marry you.. you are candid. grin
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by 989900: 9:05am On Dec 27, 2021
I'm here for the violence.
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Nobody: 9:52am On Dec 27, 2021
Datboredberry:
Sure... But marriages don't end with the couple...

Would we have kids? Then no!

I wouldn't encourage anyone to start a family if both partners earn less then 50k... In Nigeria... With the way things are...

she You wan to birth triplet in the first year ni
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Alexaonfleek: 9:58am On Dec 27, 2021
Lol
I don't think I can even get married if I'm earning that amount.
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Palazee(m): 9:59am On Dec 27, 2021
**just watching SIMPs arguing with entitled bītches**



Am entertained grin

Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by lordatkinson07(m): 10:23am On Dec 27, 2021
You a lady need to be good for you to marry a poor guy.
I am not saying you should marry anyhow. What if the guy is presently earning less than 50k but deep down you, you know he is a serious type, whom, if you come together with, you both can built a city, dear sis, go on and marry such a guy.
Don't allow his present low income and your own greediness for material things to make you lose your husband and now make a cumcubine your man, who will enjoy beating you blue black.

Believe me, I know what i am saying. If you ask me.
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:24am On Dec 27, 2021
Acidosis:


Hmmm

Hello handsome bobo wey no wan drop money. grin

President of SMAN group.
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Agricmoney(m): 10:38am On Dec 27, 2021
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Ok. Thanks for bringing it to my notice.I actually thought it wasn't necessary so didn't want to flood my profile with it, but I would do that right away. Once again, thanks for the advice.



Anyway, Agriculture is life
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Omoluabiii(m): 10:59am On Dec 27, 2021
If you like hit your head on the wall, the fact is, not everybody will be rich. Not everybody will earn big. So,, how to make it work while earning small is what you should go and learn. Of cos someone can start a family with 50k. Buh how? Thats what you ll have to learn by yourself.

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by HonestFriend: 11:11am On Dec 27, 2021
AGurlnoname:
Can the man marry himself? Is only a wicked man that would propose to a lady when he's earning less than 50k.


Mod: see them quoting me. Lol, people should be reasonable o. With this present economy, Buhari Regime, you want to propose to a lady when you're earning less than 50k?

Forget this thing o...

Someone earn less.. But at d end of the month with small small tips the whole money enter 150k..
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Omoluabiii(m): 11:11am On Dec 27, 2021
Men, how did we get ourselves into this wahala?
Girls treating men like money making machine while they put targets.
Meanwhile they themselves are the perpectual lazy things, not willing to lift a finger to help, assist, or encourage men.
Until our mentality change, our environment will always be loopsided.
I see woman differently, i see them as a multiplier, an accumulator, a great gift that should help a man manage his resources and help him grow big.
But the reverse is what this ladies re doing, they want to exhaust that little money that takes sweat to earn, doing the exact opposite of what they re created to do.
And we men re pushing hard to suite their cruelsome wickedness,,,
No amount is too small to start a family with, even 10k can start a family, it depends on both parties, proper planning and execution to manage the little that is available, while strategically working towards an increase, thats all that matters.
But, pointing fingers at a particular amount that it is too small is absolute laziness, not wanting to do nothing!...
And take a look at the world, they abound, they re everywhere, with big eyes, looking for men with big and fat salary, their aim is not to come add to it or help the man manage it properly, their aim is to come suck it and get fat, until they are well fed.
And when that money is gone, they begin to show their true colors, and jet out of the marriage.
See, i am not ashamed to earn low or high and get married...
All i need to do, is pick the right person into the journey, a person that will help me startegise that very little i have temporarily, while i plan toward a boom, thats all.
So, when you tell a lady, that you earn 20k, and she jets out, you need to go do a thanksgiven, a devourer that just jets out of your life.
The good one will definately stay, to help you hold it down while you plan to make it big.
Thank you...

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by efficiencie(m): 11:24am On Dec 27, 2021
steveneche:
Am just curious. With the current state of economy, as a lady, can you marry a guy whose salary is not up to 50k monthly?

Candid opinion please!

What are you bringing to the table? If you are bringing something to the table and you are willing to support him then fine you can go on with him...but if you are bringing nothing to the table then you should steer clear of that guy. If you are bringing something to the table but you don't feel you should support your man then leave the guy...but please of you are going to leave the guy because he is earning 50k please ensure you leave him permanently. Don't attempt to return to his life when that 50k morphs into 5m so that it can be well with you. Shalom.
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Nobody: 11:40am On Dec 27, 2021
HellVictorinho3:



Nora ,Tonia, Victoria.....at least I have had to think about them.... Sabrina....she wanted to hear my rap songs...... Datboredberry.... I don't mind going further with you... maybe it's because I'm lonely in dat berry sense..


From my head to your heart,I drop these bars, your reply affects my mind .... it's never too much for my presence..


It's not just about rhymes,we might make Beyonce and Jay-Z ordinary as partners..... yeah, partners in business and passion..


I see no perfection but I hope for comprehension..

Romeo was a character.... this is real life.... I am bothered, lying outside ,uncertain of my safety .... accommodation issues to solve.. I hope to release a song about homelessness.
Will this lady associate me with progress?


Maybe , I'm hopeless.... but what if I'm close to success?

In the name of the truth,
I ask you to choose ...... do you mind if we get closer at least while I'm alive??


Mosquitoes will suck my blood but the grave knows I have tried my best.
I am not trying to be Kanye West.
I just want to remain different from the rest.

I will keep doing whatever I can to survive but anyone that thinks I am useless should stay away from me.
You will like to have children when you experience a joy that you have never felt before..... or the joy I want you to see.
I wish you the kind of success that you would like to share with your kids.
At least, you have considered my lines worthy to be addressed.
You don't deserve to be distressed.


If we ever make it as a team,I wonder if there's any fortune that will not be possessed...$$$$$$


Have you ever thought of rapping? Ever thought of releasing a song!!!

You composed this in a relatively short time.. it's really really good! I love the flow... Your words... I'm still trying to figure out if there's more to this... smiley

But nevermind that...

I enjoy singing... I've considered a career in the entertainment industry but it's not really a dream of mine... Plus, that datboredberry, she would be completely different from the little girl she once was... And I'm not sure if I'm ready or brave enough to close the chapter of my life that was her... smiley

There's something scary about cutting the last thread that ties you to the past... Starting anew...

I'm blabbing... You want my honest opinion, you would be a great rapper... It's not going to be easy... I can feel you, and I know it's tough now... It's a hard world but if you really want it... You'll get to the top...

I had a few suggestions ted... If you don't mind... smiley
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Acidosis(m): 12:01pm On Dec 27, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:


Hello handsome bobo wey no wan drop money. grin

President of SMAN group.

LMAO grin grin Chairman, SAPA Group Inc.
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Pascal3434: 12:12pm On Dec 27, 2021
Guys can you marry a girl that earn less than 50k in a month..??
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 12:30pm On Dec 27, 2021
Datboredberry:
Sure... But marriages don't end with the couple...

Would we have kids? Then no!

I wouldn't encourage anyone to start a family if both partners earn less then 50k... In Nigeria... With the way things are...

Merry Christmas to you dear
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 12:33pm On Dec 27, 2021
Datboredberry:
With the way most of you dish out insults... undecided

Yes... She's entitled to choose or size you up... That's normal, intelligent even... Every living thing chooses a mate that has the most to offer...

You are entitled to choose also...

Your entire comment makes no sense...

First of all, you might be a suffer-head... Don't assume others are too... You might feel content being broke, struggling to feed... You seriously want to start a family this way? undecided

See your child(ren) starve, sent home from school...etc.

It's not rude to be wise enough to know that 50k is not enough for even a family of three...(man, woman and one child)...

You should simply say that you can only marry if the woman earns the same amount too... A combined salary... A total of ₦100k... That's manageable...

But you're being unnecessarily defensive...

I love your points dear
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 12:37pm On Dec 27, 2021
obembet:


Can you marry a lady that's not working?

Good afternoon Obembet

My goodness, I just saw your profile pic now, you're so super beautiful

Merry Christmas to you sweetie

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 12:38pm On Dec 27, 2021
Oyindidi:
More like, ladies can you manage a guy that is earns 50k monthly? E go hard o

Hmmmm... What's your ideal salary range for a husband material?
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 12:42pm On Dec 27, 2021
AGurlnoname:


Eight years ago can't be compared with this present economy na.

Good afternoon dear

I just saw your profile picture and you're honestly so beautiful

Merry Christmas to you dear
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 12:43pm On Dec 27, 2021
Raychee:
No. Because i as a lady, cannot earn 50k and be thinking of marriage. Whoever can marry with 50k salary should go ahead. We are all not the same. Instead we would work on multiplying our source of income. Raising kids in the best of conditions isn't cheap.

You're right dear

Merry Christmas to you dear

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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 12:46pm On Dec 27, 2021
ahnie:
Yes....as long as he gives me PEACE and attention,I would even bring the moon down for him.

Wow, that's nice!

Merry Christmas to you Ahnie

And I wish you the best of new years ever
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by ahnie: 12:47pm On Dec 27, 2021
MisterKennedy:


Wow, that's nice!

Merry Christmas to you Ahnie

And I wish you the best of new years ever
The feeling is mutual?

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