Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Him no get job? You don enter one chance!

Make I dey here....

Maybe him house rent don expire 4 days to go

This lady and her relationship drama ehn. You guys are not meant to be.

Homeless boyfriend, them full Abuja and Lagos.

Eject that fucker out of your apartment. Tell him it's too early to move in together.

You're dating the lowest class of men.

Mennnnnnnn,this is what I call--"paper bag marriage".

The guy just wor invite see-finish come him life . Personally, I've refused to spend even a night at my gf's house....Not because I'm rich or I'm proud,but it's because of the numerous outcome of it I've witnessed and seen with my two eyes......Men moving in with women ain't supposed to be like that.........How you wor take get peace of mind at the first place self? . You dare not question her actions,nor even do anyhow,if not,na outside you go find your paper bag of clothes . Guyman suppose to always be like a guyman and man up to act like one...

"As a guyman,No let brokenness bring see-finish come your life,no matter what"

I don talk my own finish......Make who get ear use am hear word......No be only who get long ear like goblin suppose to dey hear word

Endure it oooo, is just for awhile

That guy is lazy... He is a sleeper

How you are feeling right now is exactly how guys feel when a lady they don't want to marry forces herself in.
I suggest you go and see his family and do small things on his head
This one is Nylon Bag husband

This shows u were distracted by the sex and house shores not knowing him.

Ask him questions

One of the reason why I kick people with my rain boot



Damn.. nasty.. I'm out of here

This thread go make sense
Make i quickly go my remaining snails when Japa since 2 days now before i go comment.

Do ya wanna die in silence??


If ya ain't comfortable with his long stay in your apartment just respectively approach him and tell him your mind shikina....

This is what you can discuss with Him and know His reasons not everything dat u ll bring online bcox some pple can spoil ur mind. I know u can also get a useful advice here.
But I think Dix is very small to bring online.

Wahala everywhere ...



I just comot from one thread wey e babe de do hook up for Ibadan

He eats a lot, snores a lot,

and also fûcks alot..add his good side jare

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Mod. Don't try do move this shit to front page.


Stay away from fornication you are referring to as enjoyment.

You escaped and then locked yourself back in so this is your cross to bear

You're dating A woman

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

You complain about your BF too much..Abeg go sitdown. If you cant handle a reationship then break up. How many threads you wan create ontop this dude head?

Red flag,
If a "man" is comfortable doing that, dump him, he is a very weak boy

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Novesa pls stop bringing your private life on-line aiit..most persons you are asking here ain't sensible enough to comprehend your question....
How about you book an appointment with a relationship expert and speak to "them"physically..

You dey live for Abuja?


Na Abuja some guys dey get that kind useless behavior.

No be so ladies dey do Guyz?

What exactly does he do differently? Because even me self de good for bed. I never knew people still do relationships. You'd only get hurt.talk to you bf, what u lack is proper communication.
For u to bring his matter to nairaland, it shows u know nothing about him.

Well, you look good for some banging, too.
Peace.

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

He must have lost his job and might be experiencing financial difficulty. By the way, isn't he ur Bf? Why didn't u ask him to know what's wrong and to know how u can help him?

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Since you started dating, have you visited him in his house? Or you've being meeting in joints and lounge for hangouts. If he is reluctant in taking you to his house, it means he is squatting with some friends and that's why he isn't taking you there. He may not be committed in the relationship and don't want you to know his house. You should be one visiting not him coming I stay at your place for this long. That's the way for some of these Abuja f*ck boys. Be wise so you don't regret later. Insist you go to his house and then update us.

Congratulations, you're now a sugar lady. You've found yourself an olosho man,,, I'm sure he's doing everything to satisfy you both in bed and outside.
He's only expecting you to reciprocate the love.

Owiii:
Since you started dating, have you visited him in his house? Or you've being meeting in joints and lounge for hangouts. If he is reluctant in taking you to his house, it means he is squatting with some friends and that's why he isn't taking you there. He may not be committed in the relationship and don't want you to know his house. You should be one visiting not him coming I stay at your place for this long. That's the way for some of these Abuja f*ck boys. Be wise so you don't regret later. Insist you go to his house and then update us.

I have visited his house twice.
The second time I slept over.

No shame..
Why do some guys move in with their girlfriend?
Lol somehow it seams weird to me