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Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by Trustme2(m): 1:08pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
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Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by Deiks: 1:09pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Marry anybody but avoid lady's with flat nyash their wahala no be here 7 Likes
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Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by shedy03(m): 1:10pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Am 10yrs in marriage today. It's a unique institution on its own. you don't finish learning, neither do you finish teaching. Sacrifice and endurance are 2 basic properties couples need to have to make a marriage better. My 2 cents from My experience. lol. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by TONYE001(m): 1:20pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
I had to resign from work to return to medical school in 2015. This decision affected our income as a family. Things really hit us hard. The side hustles I was doing were barely enough. My wife stood by me those years, especially when things were awfully low. Now, things are much better; we now have a steady income that is enough to get us going. I am still away; she has to deal with the kids alone. In an entire year, I visit home two to three times. It's tough on her, really tough, but she never complains. She remains supportive. Very loyal and respectful. I don't play with her. We are married for seven years now and it still feels like we just got married. I am a lucky guy. Marriage works. 56 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by BigYash: 1:20pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Acidosis:If married folks know this fact,they won't have issues in marriages. Its 50/50,no be one-sided thing to kill the man with burden.. 3 Likes |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by Midas01: 1:21pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Na man you be op |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by Newboss(m): 1:21pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Na by story? See this one. Everybody get good story o. Even the people wey divorce still get good story. Even the guy wey dey talk say his wife get guts still get some good stories. At the end of the day, they're all stories. Your father and mother only show you what they want you to see. Parents are the greatest scammers in existence. They can hide reality for Africa. Big con artists 15 Likes |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by Ade3131: 1:22pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
firstbornson: In your very own church mind, can you see any of these ones that flock after Yahoo boys and engage in runzgeys just to own iPhone 11 Pro, selling pure water or bottle water to support their families? Times have changed. Let's embrace the society we found ourselves. The irony is that children of this generation were actually raised by people of your mom's generation.... question now is how did we get here? 10 Likes |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by GracedHorlah(m): 1:22pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
KiNg0G: And I begin to wonder how our fathers marry early 2 Likes
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Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by smadav(m): 1:23pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
BKayy:My marriage is very blissful, I will marry my wife over and over again. I love her so much and she respects me. The thing is no two marriages are the same finds what's makes you happy 13 Likes |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by GboyegaD(m): 1:23pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
My parents were married for 33 years before my dad's demise. My dad was a regional manager and my mum a banker back in the days. My dad suggested my mom quit banking and focus on us. Unfortunately, shortly after came the Structural Adjustment Program (SAP) and my dad was laid off. At some point my mom suggested going into food selling business but my dad objected out of pride. She later started small and the business came through for the family since it provided shelter and food for us. At that time, my dad joined in support despite getting a new job and it became our family business. As for me, I got married at a point I was starting another graduate degree (this time without any funding whatsoever) and the little money I has want going to see us through. My wife supported with the funds she had and stayed through even when it seemed we were so broke. Upon completion of my program, it took about 6 months to get my desired job and in between, we both had to do a minimum paying job and manage our baby in between the job. She's so much supportive of me and vice versa. We discussed how to navigate any terrain we find ourselves and I think that is what we should encourage people to discuss while dating so that they know what to expect in awkward situations. 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by Evercurious(f): 1:28pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
cassidy1996: Amen 2 Likes |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by TONYE001(m): 1:32pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Newboss: No relationship is entirely perfect. Our relationship with God, as a matter of fact, is not perfect. We still have Him because He continuously forgives our sins. We are not perfect beings. Roommates, colleagues, friends, neighbours have problems. The same is applicable to marriage. What matters is our ability to downplay our inefficiencies, improve on ourselves, and maximize the wonderful moments we offer ourselves while being entirely thankful to God Almighty for the gift of marriage. 8 Likes |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by Evercurious(f): 1:33pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Charmingrascal: So shall it be according to your faith. Just note that most of those people having negative comments here on nairaland are from ' troubled' homes with failed marriages. So their experiences doesnt not necessarily have to be the truth 10 Likes |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by kaptaneSaka(m): 1:38pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
God always bless kids from this type of mothers firstbornson: 3 Likes |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by Zoey95: 1:41pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
KiNg0G: Oga Understand English first and basic spelling. It's concern not consign 2 Likes |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by bjtinz: 1:43pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
smadav: Lovely |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by Nobody: 1:44pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
I love this thread 3 Likes |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by Raalsalghul: 1:45pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Funny how most of the stories range from about 20 to 30 years ago. 8 Likes |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by GboyegaD(m): 1:46pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Lightway: Are your sisters part of this statistics as mine are not. They have been married for years and not once did they come to complain about their husband and vice versa. 13 Likes |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by Nobody: 1:46pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Surprisingly, thinking about it now, the marriages I witnessed were those of about-to-be-wedded fiance/fiancee, separated spouses, and err… yeye bf-gf relationships that are bound to discover the center of the earth. I always believe in good days and good marriages. Trust me, if we wan do busi-body small, we go discover say dem boku for Naija. |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by bjtinz: 1:48pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Evercurious: Lol! You funny sha. But that's the point of this thread: just as you have failed marriages, you also have successful marriage, so it's a matter of ones being true or not, it's about individual experiences, some good, some bad 2 Likes |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by TONYE001(m): 1:50pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Lightway: If we do a survey of failed marriages, we'd discover that men and women are both responsible. Do we also conclude that men of these days are 'not men of before'? Is the current generation of men also useless? 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by bjtinz: 1:51pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Raalsalghul: Abi o. Which raises the question, if everyone supposedly had parents with blissful marriages, why is this generation finding it so difficult so settle down and get along? 4 Likes |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by smiliyB(f): 1:52pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
yuping:Some Women of nowadays |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by Abdogood(m): 1:55pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Our Mothers were hard working and supportive. Our Modern ladies are very lazy. Wants everything, to be treated like queens without lifting a finger. They money is they money, your money is our money. Crazy generation... Our generation marriages is caging, stressful, pressuring and demanding. Even those who are financially okay still complain. A woman needs can never be satisfied. You imagine the Ile-Ife saga nau. All you need as a man is to be wise (get sense) and you will be okay. Do kill yourself. Enjoy ur life codely. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by Amalekki: 1:56pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Largely endurance. |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by Goldentulip2: 1:57pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Haha I believe some marriages are lovely, good sides sometimes outweigh the bad sides. I say this from a personal experience. “ Without my mums support and sacrifices, I don’t think my dad will be the man he is today” . Only God knows this for a fact but from what ive seen with my eyes since I was a kid living in my fathers rented 1 room apartment, driving a kitty saloon haha to when we moved to his 7 bedroom mansion, owning SUVs Benz etc Chale smh. A good wife is sweet I guess. But a bad wife or marriage will kill you early. This I think although I’m not married yet lol but I’m over due oh based on Nigeria calculation 2 Likes |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by fasho01(m): 1:57pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Lightway: This is the summary of it all. Our mothers were contented, were homely, weren't materialistic and weren't polluted by western influences as much as this generation is. Marriage then was truly for better or for worse but now it is based on interests from both parties just like politics and when the interest of one partner is no longer served, they leave. This is what marriage has now become globally that is why the rate of divorce globally has increased. The earlier we come to terms with this bitter truth, the better for us.. To be fore warned is to be fore armed 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: There Are Still Good days in Marriage. by ibechris(m): 2:02pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Bola146: Just plan and work towards it. That is how Europe developed,same with Asia and North America. We should learn not to abuse prayers especially Nigerians. 3 Likes |
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