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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by xeratek: 10:26am On Dec 28, 2021

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Ok. Let me put your real picture here so that people can see and take note of you

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by raphy(m): 10:32am On Dec 28, 2021

Thw nigga has been enjoying free pussay since so he can't leave that like that and I can guess he is skinny .

So if you knw u dont like him.ti come too closer with you when he has not introduce yiur to his parents just tell him.to his face if he tries to do alaye call the security and the police so they will.do what they did to Chris brown when he try to Bleep wit Rihanna.

I hope am.helpful just face the lion don't be scared it's your privacy tht matters guy man want to come get u pregnant so he can own u

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Nobody: 10:36am On Dec 28, 2021

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Good.. I dey signal u but u dey dull. I dey offer better gbola of a fvcking fvck god but u dey style as if Lagos to Abj far. Now that ur he-goat done return again. Be like u never know how jobless guys dey take control with gbola power. Earning guy with superior gbola power dey signal u and u are forming. You go sell everything to please that ur guy. I just pray u don't loose ur job in the process. You won't be hot forever u know undecided

Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Nobody: 10:39am On Dec 28, 2021

xeratek:

Ok. Let me put your real picture here so that people can see and take note of you

Stop this play guy.. she be babe na? Abi u done meet am before?

Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by JONSYN7154: 10:40am On Dec 28, 2021

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja. Oh! Am not surprise.

Its abuja marriage. Congratulations.

You can hire me as your brother and I'll come and chase him out since I'm in abuja too.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by brosom(m): 10:42am On Dec 28, 2021

We don hear this story before,

No be u latter come say he moved and never called u since then and u are worried if he really loves u?

Abeg change topic madam.

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Edozie4bc: 10:46am On Dec 28, 2021

2022 will be tough embrace for impact grin

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by frozen70(f): 10:47am On Dec 28, 2021

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Is it that he is not working that he doesn't have much doing but staying at your place

Yes he may be good at helping you at home, that's one of the qualities of a romantic man

You have to let him know that it's new year and you want you guys to spend it in his apartment

After the new year celebrations, seat him down and ask him, what's his plans for the new year with your relationship with him

If you don't ask him, he will be so comfortable attaching himself to your house

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Mynameis007(m): 10:52am On Dec 28, 2021

For a change, the tables have turned.
grin

Thank you.

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by heniford2: 11:16am On Dec 28, 2021

brosom:
We don hear this story before,

No be u latter come say he moved and never called u since then and u are worried if he really loves u?

Abeg change topic madam.

yes i remember same story line

Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Rickmann: 11:34am On Dec 28, 2021

Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn,this is what I call--"paper bag marriage".

The guy just wor invite see-finish come him life . Personally, I've refused to spend even a night at my gf's house....Not because I'm rich or I'm proud,but it's because of the numerous outcome of it I've witnessed and seen with my two eyes......Men moving in with women ain't supposed to be like that.........How you wor take get peace of mind at the first place self? . You dare not question her actions,nor even do anyhow,if not,na outside you go find your paper bag of clothes . Guyman suppose to always be like a guyman and man up to act like one...

"As a guyman,No let brokenness bring see-finish come your life,no matter what"

I don talk my own finish......Make who get ear use am hear word......No be only who get long ear like goblin suppose to dey hear word

You are absolutely correct bro..

Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Truvelisback(m): 12:52pm On Dec 28, 2021

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Owiii(m): 1:05pm On Dec 28, 2021

NovesaTillie:

I have visited his house twice.
The second time I slept over.

That means he stays alone then and has a home of his own.

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Irondome1: 2:55pm On Dec 28, 2021

Sit that guy down nd tell him how you've planned to pay his groom price and see his reaction.

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Obimike30(m): 3:18pm On Dec 28, 2021

What do i know about relationship when Its not my mate LOL but what i can say bout this bro just want to dickmatize you grin

and have control of your pUssay. I come in pease

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Olavenza(m): 3:36pm On Dec 28, 2021

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Truly! I am speechless grin

Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Olavenza(m): 3:41pm On Dec 28, 2021

ifex370:
Wahala everywhere ...

I just comot from one thread wey e babe de do hook up for Ibadan

Bro! I no know say you sef dey observe am. I tire for this generation ooo grin

before I believe the saying that there is no new thing under the sun, but for this generation, there are plenty things under the sun ooo!

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Olavenza(m): 3:43pm On Dec 28, 2021

FernandezPablo:

Novesa pls stop bringing your private life on-line aiit..most persons you are asking here ain't sensible enough to comprehend your question....
How about you book an appointment with a relationship expert and speak to "them"physically..

Mr wise man! This matter does not require expert. It only requires common sense.

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by bobbybrown007: 4:04pm On Dec 28, 2021

Lolz, you don marry be that nah. Free wifi for the guy to browse all true

Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Nobody: 4:09pm On Dec 28, 2021

Olavenza:

Mr wise man! This matter does not require expert. It only requires common sense.

Mr dull man I was only making a suggestion..now get off my mention.. undecided

Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by fineboynl(m): 4:10pm On Dec 28, 2021

When a guy squats with his babe for 2 days the babe will get tired after 24 hours.

I remember decades ago when my babe was begging me to come see her in her school I keep declining the idea.

There was I time I go there to see her in her room and unfortunately that was the last. Within 24 hours she got tired of everything. We romance and fuc.k althrough the night, the next day as a smart and sensible guy I decode and left the next day.

Other times she beg beg me to come again. But I never go.

That is the same thing happening to this babe. If that guy go this babe will start missing him and begging him to come.

It looks like the guy is broke and currently sharing apartment with others. The reason he is more comfortable in her place otherwise it won't have been like that. Even if your place is better than his place. This type of girls will be the one begging the guy to come. But after two days she will get tired and need some space.

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by minks(m): 4:15pm On Dec 28, 2021

Looks like you finally got yourself a pest. He's gonna make like miserable for you. Stand your ground and get him out. Don't let him invade your territory like that.

Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Stargurl20(f): 4:59pm On Dec 28, 2021

Lol... It's well...

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by wakeupguys: 5:44pm On Dec 28, 2021

The issue is actually small. Sit him down and ask him some questions. Find out why he moved in without letting you know. He might be experiencing some challenges but he doesn't want to let you know unless you ask him. Tread carefully in case he is testing you as we normally watch in movies. Everything is possible.

Just tread carefully and get the fact so you won't regret tomorrow.
Good luck my resident colleague.

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by AutoChick4U(f): 5:54pm On Dec 28, 2021

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Thats their modi operandi in Abuja. When things gets better for him, he will dump u. Hope he's at least contributing to d affairs of d house?

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by AutoChick4U(f): 5:56pm On Dec 28, 2021

wakeupguys:
The issue is actually small. Sit him down and ask him some questions. Find out why he moved in without letting you know. He might be experiencing some challenges but he doesn't want to let you know unless you ask him. Tread carefully in case he is testing you as we normally watch in movies. Everything is possible.

Just tread carefully and get the fact so you won't regret tomorrow.
Good luck my resident colleague.

Thats how they behave in Abuja. If care aint taken d op will even get pregnant and d guy will disappear

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by NovesaTillie(f): 6:27pm On Dec 28, 2021

AutoChick4U:
Thats their modi operandi in Abuja. When things gets better for him, he will dump u. Hope he's at least contributing to d affairs of d house?

He's been helpful in chores and Other stuff

Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Nonexisting: 6:56pm On Dec 28, 2021

He is good in bed!!!! Carry your cross abeg and get the fucck out of here. You enjoy his dick every day and don't complain but to provide ordinary shelter for the dick, you carry story come open thread to worry people. Ungrateful gender.

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Bigfish121(m): 7:28pm On Dec 28, 2021

Na wa
I recently relocated to Abuja and need to make new friends few though.if you are in abuja you can hit me up.though not in Abuja now,Ellen for the Christmas celebration. trav

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Elporo(m): 7:37pm On Dec 28, 2021

brosom:
We don hear this story before,

No be u latter come say he moved and never called u since then and u are worried if he really loves u?

Abeg change topic madam.

If Abuja men start re-counting stories how they harbor and have harbored who.res and har.lots disguised as wives, fiances and girlfriends.

Nairaland will crash.

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Re: My Boyfriend Just Moved Into My Apartment by Nobody: 8:23pm On Dec 28, 2021

Invite 2 of your female friends to come and spend 2 days with you and give them the code that you need the guy to leave by their actions. When they arrive, let them keep bugging him to take you all out, for a night out at expensive place.

Then repeat, and if he says no money, then invite a man friend to come and take you all out, and make sure he is not left behind, if he doesnt wanna come, say you wanna lock your door.

No one can be trusted now especially unpredictable people whose script you dont understand.

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