Josephamstrong1:

It's either you're marriagedly tired, but managing for kids' sake or divorced, single but scared to get married. Your writeup is so biased, coming from a dark scepter of an experienced, but broken and disappointed heart.

derecho:

When you understand what true Love is, you'll know it's more than enough.
If you love a person, why won't you communicate? Will it be hard to forgive or forgo?
Love is not an easy task...that's why it was given the husband methinks

Josephamstrong1:

FORGIVENESS is a virtue. Some men lack it. It's a level of attainment in growth and maturity.
While they tell you Forgiveness is Divine. it's no joke.
A point in a man's life comes when his level of forgiveness is tested...lol!
Marriage is a healer to eyes blinded by love.
In marriage, every aspect of your life as a man is tested.

Mummyfour:
so because I Decided to outline most people's experiences males and females in a marriage or relationship and advise against making mistakes they will regret, you ended up using you monitoring device to know that I am not married,or divorced or just managing with children.
And your choice of words dark sceptre whatever it means is your opinion.
People go through a lot in relationships.
I have done a comprehensive research to the best of my capabilities and most of the issues boil down to some of what I listed.
You don't have any right to judge my comments as being biased.
And if you don't feel comfortable taking in the message without attacking the messenger, I'd suggest you waka pass my comments next time please.

derecho:
Do you know the meaning of Love? Ever read Love covers a multitude of sins? My brother, love isn't those things people call love.

Josephamstrong1:

Now we're learning.
Have you also heard about the phrase: "Love isn't just enough?"
Then what's enough?
Love itself is a virtue, but one outta OTHER Virtues.

juman:
Never marry a woman that can beat you.
She go be beating you during every little misunderstanding.

drimzsmoke:


It's a disease of Africans,the AS genotype is protective of severe malaria...In those days,before the advent of antimalarial,AA genotype children used to die anyhow because of malaria

KarinaLove:
Never Marry A Man who has spent all his life and youth having sex and sleeping with different sexual partners.

Never marry a man who keeps sleeping around. Keeping girlfriend and having sex. Some their body count has reached 1000 before age 30

You marry any of these men, YOUR MARRIAGE WOULD END IN BITTER TEARS.

I come in peace.

dontrulee:
Never marry a lady that says, love me the way I am. You go suffer oooo

Josephamstrong1:


Calm down, ma'am. Whether it's a firsthand experience or others, no marriage is a bed of roses.
I was only able to decipher sentiment in your comment which is borne outta personal experience. Accept it or not, this is a public space. Everyone mustn't swallow your ideologies hook line and sinker. But that's by the way.
Your stated out points would have been valid for consumption if you had included your gender in it. You sounded so pained with men...like the other gender are all saints. Or you've forgotten that most of these marital crisis are invariably caused by the wives.

ImoleNaija:



Iya Basira comes to mind. She dey beat her hubby like tomorrow no dey.

Rolly22:


But I heard there are some tests you can run to ascertain the Genotypes of your Foetup?

drimzsmoke:

Very true sir,it's called prenatal screening(PNS).Once the fetus is SS on investigation,the doctor will give you the option of voluntary termination of pregnancy(VTOP)....genotype is no longer a barrier when it's comes to marriage provided you have money and you also have nothing against abortion

Rolly22:


Thanks for this info I really appreciate.

greencard:
so as thing weh I crack my head write long reach na only letter m you see pick out
It's well with your soul my dear
It's nymph

Berryli:

I would love to know your reasons about not marrying an idoma lady if you are not one. I am one, I would love to learn

Mummyfour:
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It was like 4pm before she felt better to go and pick children that had closed since 2pm

2extremes:
From experiences from my previous relationships,
I can say there are 3 set of people to avoid.
1. Don't marry a liar. A liar will always cheat on you, take advantage of you and always manipulate you.
2. Don't marry someone that cannot take decision for him / herself. Any relationship that a partner or both are still under influence of friends, parents, spiritual heads are bound for doom. My mummy said, my pastor said, my friend said blah blah blah, always avoid this type of people.
3. Also, look at the family beliefs, views, ethics and perspective about some issues that are germain to you. For example, if your partners parents are separated, if all his / her siblings have failed marriages etc, this may have some effects on your own relationship / marriage.

FalseProphet1:
9 Don't marry a girl with a high body count.

10. Don't marry a stingy girl


11 Don't marry a girl who acts cold towards your family.


12. Don't marry a girl that cheated on you with her ex or male friend.


This I have seen.

FalseProphet1:
9 Don't marry a girl with a high body count.

I saw one topic on the front page where one guy was saying if she's good marry her.

If he made this statement in the 90s and early 2000s I wouldn't have bothered.

But in this era of Yahoo boys and rituals, it's very dangerous. As a Prophet, I've seen a lot, the womb of a woman is a seed that brings life, wealth...etc. many evil people in search of quick riches are after it and the only way to access it is through sex, which they can pay anything to the girl just to have their way to access it.

Many decent girls who fell prey to this evil people in the past and got married later in the future...after marrying a successful young man the financial life of the man became useless.

Further spiritual investigation showed that at a point of her life she dated or had a one night stand with this evil people who used her womb to transfer her glory to himself, so if you join yourself to such girl through marriage, everything you've laboured for will automatically go to the person that used her leaving you wretched and frustrated.

10. Don't marry a stingy girl

I once dated a stingy girl, she's good looking with all the curves and all that, but what broke the camel's back was one day she came visiting, as she was going she told me to buy her dinner, so we branched at an eatery, I told her I don't have cash on me and I left my ATM at home so she told me she'll borrow me money. The food was 2k and she paid for it with her own money, can you believe that this girl got home and started telling me to send her back her 2k which she used to buy food for herself. That incident is what broke us up cos she kept on nagging about the money that I gave it back to her in anger and called it quits.

If you've officially dated a girl for 3 months, and you can't point out one material thing she has given you aside sex, don't marry her.

Many guys believe it's their responsibility to cater for their girlfriends, I'm not against taking care of someone you claim to love, what I'm against is when she's not reciprocating your gestures or using sex as payment for what you're doing for her.

If your girlfriend cannot spend her hard earned money on you and you go ahead to marry her and become broke later on in your marriage, you're doomed cos she'll starve you to death, don't marry such girl.

11 Don't marry a girl who acts cold towards your family.

I once dated a girl who told me clearly that if we get married, my people won't visit her house. This is a house I'm paying the rent for, she referred to as her house.

Girls such as this will ruin you, don't over look red flags in the name of love.

If she dislikes your sister, brother, parents, just let her be for your own good.

12. Don't marry a girl that cheated on you with her ex or male friend.

When I see guys saying they've forgiven their girlfriend for cheating on them and are planning to marry her I laugh.

Girls don't cheat the way guys do, if a girl whom you're dating and even planning to marry cheats on you with someone she claimed to have gotten over, then know that she loves that person as much as she loves you or even more.

If you marry her, get ready to start raising his kids cos she'll definitely continue seeing him even after getting married to you.


Do this and have peace.

This I have seen.

bobolaga:
But you can have sex with those types of people and dump them, think before you do is better do before you think, is like you know how liquid was formed inside coconut.