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Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Hahjascho(m): 9:51pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
greencard: These points are underrated. Major global and national brouhaha now stem from weakened family borne out of failed marriages. 1 Like |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Hkff: 9:51pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Nothing really works in marriage until you make it work |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Mummyfour(f): 9:53pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Yampotatocarrot:it's definitely true and your conclusion is what other people I told feel about the matter. Things are really happening. Women hide pains they are going through. I am not a feminist and I don't support rubbish..if a woman is wrong I tell her straight up and if a man is wrong, I don't sugar coat my anger at him. There are good women out there that begin to over react when they can't take the abuse anymore. Women really undergo mental, physical and emotional abuse, but because in this part of the world, women are supposed to be subservient and submissive, they lock their wounds and stay put. When women complain, they are told a wise woman builds her home and a foolish one pulls it down according to the scriptures..I don't have a problem with the scriptures, but please marraige should not be a Lifetime of bondage and pains. This same man I talked about would rather push everything to his wife to do. Home work, school projects, school activities, church activities and every other thing that should ordinarily bond the children and father would be pushed to the wife who would go ahead and do it. But mind you that those children are watching. When the grow up and begin to shower their mother with gifts,some disgruntled people that were not there to know how much the woman sufferiwill begin to blame the woman for disconnecting her children from the husband. There are some horrible women out there too. I have seen a man that is closer to his children than his wife. In all, I just advocate for a peaceful home for the sanity of the children who are usually at the receiving end of their parents wahala |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Macolapablo: 9:54pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Marriage has been a scam since 1990. There's no love anywhere that can warrant marriage. Even if you follow all the rules mentioned above...my brother....my sister. Some guys and ladies will shock you after the ring. 2 Likes |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by naijakissleave(m): 10:00pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Mood11: Did you say “MANAGE” ? My story long oh...I go cut some parts. Na so she (my girlfriend then now my wife) sey she go manage...after hearing the story of my investment tragedy I shared with her. I made her to see reasons why we cannot be together seeing her burning desire to be with me. I told her I need space to recover but greed and desperation on hearing amount involved in loss of investment that could not make her to understand what I am saying as at then. After pikin come inside marriage, eye don open. Many things she is seeing now were those things I was advising to do to get her life back and be happy with another person. Bottlenecks here and there have become a stumbling block for her to live such life. Since she was not able to allow me recovered myself alone thinking if she is in my life, there will be a success story to share. She thought those monies loss in the investment were gotten overnight...some women’s nowadays are FOOLISH and IDIOTS. |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by greencard: 10:11pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Bigchristo:sorry, but it is what it is sir |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Amhappy(f): 12:21am On Dec 29, 2021 |
Very valid points |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Judybash93(m): 12:51am On Dec 29, 2021 |
BennyDGreat: I don't have enough evidence to prove that it does so i don't know |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Judybash93(m): 12:53am On Dec 29, 2021 |
temielects: Typical Nigerian theist behavior. Where did i use ad hominem in attacking the writer's point? If you don't have something reasonable to write, you should probably just let it slide. Have a great evening |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Judybash93(m): 12:56am On Dec 29, 2021 |
adedapodvirus001: The difference is, we know that the programmer exists. Where is the proof that a creator exists? Or where is the proof that the one you believe in exists? |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by xeju: 2:26am On Dec 29, 2021 |
Opeyemiextra:The communication, understanding n compromise all dey enveloped in love. |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Opeyemiextra(f): 7:09am On Dec 29, 2021 |
xeju:I want to believe that but I have seen that love is a different thing on its own and you can do all these things because of love but not everyone has the capacity to. |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by CSTRR: 7:20am On Dec 29, 2021 |
Charmingrascal:Why should you not marry them if you are not from there? |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Virusvetty: 7:34am On Dec 29, 2021 |
advanceDNA:Ok Thanks |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by emmyluizzz: 7:57am On Dec 29, 2021 |
anochuko01: I swear..you have said it all |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by nesgeeek(m): 8:37am On Dec 29, 2021 |
marriage is scam, na who marriage help? |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by tobby94(m): 9:13am On Dec 29, 2021 |
derecho: |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by tobby94(m): 9:15am On Dec 29, 2021 |
There is one in my Ouse the girlfriend tell the landlord to his face that she can’t sweep that the boyfriend will do that and the landlord sweeps and other tenants as someone said no need of covering attitudes may God help us with the right persons |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by xeju: 11:48am On Dec 29, 2021 |
Opeyemiextra:Love isn't actually a thing on its own, it's the the compilation of good characters shown toward others |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Elporo(m): 12:04pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
whippersnapper: Feminist who owe everything in their miserable lives to men |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Elporo(m): 12:07pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Mummyfour: Wise man. I wan buy him a keg of palmwine! |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Opeyemiextra(f): 12:25pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
xeju: You do have a point. We do most of these things because of love but you should also note that not everyone is capable of these things mentioned. For me, love is a decision. Now, what that decision is for everyone would be different. 1 Like |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by DanteSilva(m): 1:12pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Marvyx: You are In the spirit abeg, I've concluded that the fear of God is the number one thing you should look for when choosing a life partner. |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Mummyfour(f): 1:14pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Elporo:bring the palmwine let me go and deliver to him. Just add my share inside |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by xeju: 8:49pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Opeyemiextra:Yea, it could seen as a decision. Decision to be kind, merciful, compromise, be slow to anger, forgive, etc. Not everyone is capable of these characters because love is hard, hence they say perfect love doesn't exist either in heaven or hell or earth 1 Like |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Opeyemiextra(f): 9:05pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Right. xeju: |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Berryli: 7:00pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
[quote author=akposking post=108887547] He actually meant idoma girls are pigs. It hurts [/quote How so? On what basis does he make such declaration. It baffles me how we use our experiences and and make biased assumptions/conclusions. I am not a piglet, and from where I stand I don't see any |
Re: Don't risk marriage with these set of people by Yampotatocarrot(m): 6:39pm On Jan 13, 2022 |
Yampotatocarrot: @ STENON, PLEASE, I sent you a Nairaland mail. I want to make an enquiry about studying and working in Scotland. I'm actually applying for an PG education course, although I already have a PGDE here. I'm particularly applying to the school you mentioned, Strathclyde Thanks |
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