jesmond3945:
She is a slay mama. Cravings are normal, there is nothing you can do. Please leave the telly for her till she gives birth. Try to minimize her chores as much as you can. If she goes out of shape, please love her like that. You married inside not her body. If she gives birth buy her the car, it would help her to carry your baby around. Her laziness is just a slay mama trait. You are her ticket to a good and stress free life.

Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.

jesmond3945:
She is a slay mama. Cravings are normal, there is nothing you can do. Please leave the telly for her till she gives birth. Try to minimize her chores as much as you can. If she goes out of shape, please love her like that. You married inside not her body. If she gives birth buy her the car, it would help her to carry your baby around. Her laziness is just a slay mama trait. You are her ticket to a good and stress free life.

udoji2021:


You just made me to remember those days when my wife was pregnant. It's a phase which will pass sir.

Yours is even small compared to how my own wife use to behave and even go violent atimes. Pls endure and thank me later.

spice123:

Women are wired differently from men.
Pregnancy is not an easy thing to bear my brother so you have cut her some slack. Remember it's her first pregnancy so try and pet her. As soon as she put to bed and weans the child after 3-5 months, sit her down and iron things out with her. Share the house bills with her such that if she refuses to contribute from the shop, the house will suffer. It can be electricity bill or gas bill. Make her understand that she has to take care of you as her husband by making your meals and cleaning the house otherwise you employ someone who will do it and she pays the bill for it. She can't eat her cake and have it. That is marriage.

Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.

NovesaTillie:
You married a slay queen like me and you want her to be a full wife Material

You don't have many options now than to make do with the content in the package you came home with.

techWriter3:
My children knewn't locomotive me to wanna a woman wannaater.Pls Help.

GboyegaD:
What I don't understand is how from January to maybe August that she coincided this want nipped in the bud. How does she go to shop from 10am to 3pm? Is she selling nursery school children snacks?

You also have your fault. As an adult you can't eat breakfast and leave the plates on the dining table to go to work. That is disrespectful and not a clean behavior which could have fueled her behavior to mess up the home as well.

Are you for real? as in really?
Look buddy, If u are looking for a reason to hang the OP, there are many based on his foresight challenges... but this definitely is not included ...were u insinuating that a wife will be at home watching movies, OP will finish his breakfast and start washing the dishes before he goes to work? haba!!! Oga hankali

Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.

Fred166:
My parents didn't train me to be a woman beater.

Pls Help.

Richy4:


Are you for real? as in really?
Look buddy, If u are looking for a reason to hang the OP, there are many based on his foresight challenges... but this definitely is not included ...were u insinuating that a wife will be at home watching movies, OP will finish his breakfast and start washing the dishes before he goes to work? haba!!! Oga hankali

Fred166:


Experienced men help a brother.

GboyegaD:


Does taking the dish to the kitchen means he should wash it? If he does it isn't a crime. It is disrespectful to leave your plates on the dining table. You should clean up after yourself which means when you are done eating, just take the dish to the appropriate place it should be and not create a litter.

Richy4:


Honestly there's nothing disrespectful and offensive about a wife that removed a plate that the husband used in eating....Many stay at home mums and wives will gladly do it...That does not make anyone inferior or superior... It is called helping with love which u clearly can't understand...
Every efficient stay at home wife will help in making sure that the husband goes to work on time....Removing a plate that the husband used in eating inclusive ...Maybe u got another definition of disrespect that I wasn't getting.....

NovesaTillie:
You married a slay queen like me and you want her to be a full wife Material

You don't have many options now than to make do with the content in the package you came home with.

cooooooks:
Some slay queens cook better than Amaka in the village. It's not by slay queen.

He married her despite her inability in being a productive human being.

Was she into runs? Is she basically telling him, "if you complain too much, I'll go back to runs. I'll make the monthly shop money in a week or less for much less effort"

NovesaTillie:
You married a slay queen like me and you want her to be a full wife Material

You don't have many options now than to make do with the content in the package you came home with.

Richy4:
Are you for real? as in really?
Look buddy, If u are looking for a reason to hang the OP, there are many based on his foresight challenges... but this definitely is not included ...were u insinuating that a wife will be at home watching movies, OP will finish his breakfast and start washing the dishes before he goes to work? haba!!! Oga hankali

Richy4:
Honestly there's nothing disrespectful and offensive about a wife that removed a plate that the husband used in eating....Many stay at home mums and wives will gladly do it ...That does not make anyone inferior or superior... It is called helping with love which u clearly can't understand...
Every efficient stay at home wife will help in making sure that the husband goes to work on time....Removing a plate that the husband used in eating inclusive ...Maybe u got another definition of disrespect that I wasn't getting.....

Kobojunkie:
The same "helping with love" that turned our mothers into glorified househelps for their husbands, that even to this day, the average Nigerian man, not only thinks but believes that marriage installs him as a god freed from responsibility of doing many of the same chores he did all by himself as a single man?

Let's not get these things tangled up abeg!

By the way, the OP'S woman is not a stay-at-home woman and there is nothing in the marriage contract that stipulates a wife's job is to clean up after her husband. They could, as a couple come to that agreement of their own, but it ain't written somewhere in the terms and conditions of marriage that it ought to be so.