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Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn,this is what I call--"paper bag marriage".

The guy just wor invite see-finish come him life . Personally, I've refused to spend even a night at my gf's house....Not because I'm rich or I'm proud,but it's because of the numerous outcome of it I've witnessed and seen with my two eyes......Men moving in with women ain't supposed to be like that.........How you wor take get peace of mind at the first place self? . You dare not question her actions,nor even do anyhow,if not,na outside you go find your paper bag of clothes . Guyman suppose to always be like a guyman and man up to act like one...

"As a guyman,No let brokenness bring see-finish come your life,no matter what"

I don talk my own finish......Make who get ear use am hear word......No be only who get long ear like goblin suppose to dey hear word

The best advice for the year 2021 on nairaland thank you

Let who get ear hear

Mood11:
How you are feeling right now is exactly how guys feel when a lady they don't want to marry forces herself in.
I suggest you go and see his family and do small things on his head
This one is Nylon Bag husband

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Chai! You are wicked

You said earlier he is good in bed, enjoy the goodness in bed and happy new year in advance.

Guys even ladies sef beware of this kind girls, secret is far from them!

Abuja boys and this nonsense of moving in with any available lady. Well since you’re not comfortable with it I think you should sit him down and have a talk with him over the issue.

Jeez, I need you in my life l!!! Where do people find women like you?! A woman who wants space and boundaries. You even know ALL relationships or sexual encounters doesn’t have to lead to marriage?! You are a rare gem.
Dump his sorry ass and come and date me jor! Oops! I live far from you & don’t do long distance relationships
On a serious note, talk to him about your sentiments regarding his clingy and choking style in the relationship. Some people (male & female) don’t understand the concept of space, boundaries & time when you invite them into your abode. They don’t know when to leave. You MUST jerk them to do so.
Caveat! Expect him to take it harshly. Confronting him about it may even end your relationship, but you deserve happiness & much more than that type of clingy and choking man in your life! Do what makes you happy, as long as it is something decent!

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Mood11:
How you are feeling right now is exactly how guys feel when a lady they don't want to marry forces herself in.
I suggest you go and see his family and do small things on his head
This one is Nylon Bag husband

Whattttt!!!!
Crazy

ifex370:
Wahala everywhere ...



I just comot from one thread wey e babe de do hook up for Ibadan

Aahh ...that Ibadan case girl shock me ..
Come be like Nollywood movies

Love is sharing

you better throw him out. You have a high class parasite on you hands.

Jlow2:
one of the highest car dealer in abuja was once homeless, four years ago he bought a house for the security man who allowed him to stay at the bq of the house he works since his boss stays abroad

Better to squat with stranger than girlfriend.

Lie lie lie lie.

Is it not you that said our boy friend hasn't called you for two weeks now

You are a woman for God's sake!
You should be able to ask questions earlier enough!

Besides, doesn't he have a job?

Ask him when he's living, tell him your sis will be coming to spend few days there, and that it's better you guys leave for his place.. Don't hide this, he's a man, he shouldn't be a pest on you!!

You love him but just tired of having a guy spend so many days with u, because you guys are not legally married.. Tell him your sister or cousin is coming over and form a phone call with your sister before that , talk to your sister to cooperate when u call.. But trust me, you will miss his dick after 3days and will still want him to come back.. Advice, the next visit should be you going to his place to spend the weekend.. You also made it clear u don't want to marry him , so why fucking around with him? believed me you can't eat your cake and have it back.. Grow up and be Wise.. God bless you

NovesaTillie:
Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

Someone is using you to mark time and you can't see that?

Pity him and take him as ur dog

NovesaTillie:


I have visited his house twice.
The second time I slept over.

he might be having some difficult time out there .just sit him down and ask him what wrong and how you can be of help..and put yourself in his position...men are humans like you..and whatever situation he might find himself it do not use it against him..find out what wrong and how you can be of help instead of feeling bad about it...Don't mind these broke nairaland guys telling you that you dating the lowest class of men ...most of time still dey live for their papa and mama house .if he's out of rent or broke do not judge him by that for tomorrow is a mystery.

Mood11:
How you are feeling right now is exactly how guys feel when a lady they don't want to marry forces herself in.
I suggest you go and see his family and do small things on his head
This one is Nylon Bag husband

Werey

franchasng:
lol, na wa oh.



Even as a student, I never slept over at a girl's house. I even hated the idea of visiting a female at her hostel to talk of sleeping over. Some guys de try sha lol

Their is nothing bad or low about passing the night in your girlfriends house esp. when you both are committed, situations will warrant it,
what is wrong is move in with a gurl or sleeping over @ her place more than she does in the guy's house .... any other gross feelings you are trying to attach is just some egoistic shit, why limit ursef when you can explore it all, life should be adventurous and tbh no point can undermine away match

There is nothing wrong if he decides to move in with you, except the fact that he did not explain to you when he is doing that, after all you enjoy his company, please forget whatever anybody is saying, you wear the shoe and know better what you enjoy. However, try to politely ask and know if he has a family anywhere in Abuja or if he has been squatting with someone, if he has a Job or not is also good for you. If you guys are meant for each other so be it. You can also help him get a life and be a better person. So many guys have done same for a lady in Nigeria and so many ladies have done same for a guy in Nigeria and Western world. Cheers!

NovesaTillie:
he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

ABOVE are Great wifely qualities.

NovesaTillie:
He eats a lot. Snores also. I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door

Wonderful husband qualities - I bet he watches Zee world when you go to work to bring home the bacon.

Read my past post on this very forum and best of luck.

He is wears white atiku and drives a benz abi?

End time boyfriend..but you re taking advantage of him too nau

Mood11:
How you are feeling right now is exactly how guys feel when a lady they don't want to marry forces herself in.
I suggest you go and see his family and do small things on his head
This one is Nylon Bag husband

She should do small thing on his head like this bah?

NetValueFX:

Someone is using you to mark time and you can't see that?

Shhhhhh! allow the guy abeg - accomodation in Abuja is not child's play. When wise man catch maga /ote......

Mood11:
How you are feeling right now is exactly how guys feel when a lady they don't want to marry forces herself in.
I suggest you go and see his family and do small things on his head :
This one is Nylon Bag husband

Hahahaha!!! Oh! My God.

jornwhite:




Their is nothing bad or low about passing the night in your girlfriends house esp. when you both are committed, situations will warrant it,
what is wrong is move in with a gurl or sleeping over @ her place more than she does in the guy's house .... any other gross feelings you are trying to attach is just some egoistic shit, why limit ursef when you can explore it all, life should be adventurous and tbh no point can undermine away match

You are right anyway but as for me, I never did it and will never do.


Even as a married man I am now, I cant see myself sleeping over at my wife's parent's house, unless its extremely unavoidable.


I have some strict life practices that some people consider weird, this is one of them. I rather lodge in a hotel than sleep over at a girlfriend's house or hostel, i wont be able to sleep well at night, dunno why

Mood11:
How you are feeling right now is exactly how guys feel when a lady they don't want to marry forces herself in.
I suggest you go and see his family and do small things on his head
This one is Nylon Bag husband

You are rudee!!! You have no right to say this I have not laughed this hard this month.

franchasng:
You are right anyway but as for me, I never did it and will never do.


Even as a married man I am now, I cant see myself sleeping over at my wife's parent's house, unless its extremely unavoidable.


I have some strict life practices that some people consider weird, this is one of them. I rather lodge in a hotel than sleep over at a girlfriend's house or hostel, i wont be able to sleep well at night, dunno why

Weird how?! You simply have shame that is all.

Yoruba say Man wey die for hin in-law house - his corpse will be carried out thru window.

You have shame and we are grateful for men like you. Some will even knack thier wife under her father's roof then use the water her father paid for to bath after then come on NLand to say my wife's family donot respect me, my father in law said shut up to me, my wife said get out to me..... lack of shame.

Thanks for having shame. It is self respect as a man.

Ybaby:


Weird how?! You simply have shame that is all.

Yoruba say Man wey die for hin in-law house - his corpse will be carried out thru window.

You have shame and we are grateful for men like you. Some will even knack thier wife under her father's roof then use the water her father paid for to bath after then come on NLand to say my wife's family donot respect me, my father in law said shut up to me, my wife said get out to me..... lack of shame.

Thanks for having shame. It is self respect as a man.

lafmaoooo this proverb got me rolling on the floor, just imagining the scenario hahahahahahahahahaha



Thanks madam, u made my day with this wonderful proverb

FRIYOPATRICK:
You love him but just tired of having a guy spend so many days with u, because you guys are not legally married.. Tell him your sister or cousin is coming over and form a phone call with your sister before that , talk to your sister to cooperate when u call.. But trust me, you will miss his dick after 3days and will still want him to come back.. Advice, the next visit should be you going to his place to spend the weekend.. You also made it clear u don't want to marry him , so why fucking around with him? believed me you can't eat your cake and have it back.. Grow up and be Wise.. God bless you

Has anyone ever married their dilldoo? NO

back then it was d other way round, nowadays men are free to move in with women. Feel d same pain we feel wen u people sneak in ur undies and clothings one after d other into our apartments, u feed fat on our food, u burn our fuel, u litter our rooms, u condition our eyes to telemundo and African magic, u cage us and make life miserable for us. Dear boyfriend kindly dont move an inch. U've got balls