Good day everyone.
I shouldn't say I am confused like a roundabout but I just want to be sure of what is going on just like the street called "straight" where Saul The Persecutor was asked to go receive His Sight.
I just clocked 30 and I promised Myself I am going to get serious with My life now just as Jesus Christ Started His Ministry on earth at same age, lemme start searching for a good life partner.
Before now, I can say I have had a fair share from cheating ex gfs, they cheated (shit) like purging babies.
Fast forward to early November, as A responsible National Youth Service Corps Member, I decided to be faithful to My CDS and copied The supposed CDS President's number from the board in My Secretariat.
I added her up and requested to be added to the WhatsApp platform.
Lol and behold, she asked for a pic so she know whom she is adding to the group.
I have one reserved seductive pic I always send whenever such request come, I am tempted to drop it here but this is Christmas season I don't want any woman. Lolzzzzzzz
Now after seeing The pic, she commented "cute guy", My heart started drinking mirinda and I started smiling sheepishly like a woman that is Washing her mother-in-law's panties.
She added Me and somehow we both saved each other's number. Not to bore you guys with My long note because I am not baba Iyabo.
I started viewing her heavily breasted pics on her status, I liked what I saw, breast no go keel Me. AMEN.
I later found out she passed out with second but last stream for 2020 and now the ex President, that was another reason for Me to try My luck.
We started exchanging compliments and before you know we started lusting after each other, we would practically be on phone all day talking on WhatsApp audio call to the extent My boss noticed and teased Me of having a gf within My short stay in My new abode.
Now, she came into My City (Her former City) for a court Case, for the first two days she was in a hotel, we talked like our lives depend on it, she asked she would love to see Me but won't spend the night, I obliged. But I was fast like how glo data gets exhausted to tell her My apartment might not be comfortable for her as she is an Ajebo from a very wealthy home but she said she doesn't mind because she is coming to visit only.
Aunty came, I went to pick her, got in and I entertained her. One thing led to another, we started rubbing mouths together, she liked how I handled her, she confessed I am the second man and practically the first man to have dealt with her.
She had an ex, she never liked him, she was just with him because he takes good care of her financially but very poor in bed and his presence disgust her.
We ended up going to pick her bags from the hotel room that night.
We spent 3days together and I must confessed I feel in love with her.
She compliments My gentlemanly spirit and also My ruggedness in bed.
In fact she squirted for the first time ever in her life.
Mind you, I didn't go to work these 3 days because it was a weekend, I saw her off to the park on Monday morning and headed to work afterwards.
We continued talking, envisaged marriage and all that. She Introduced Me to Her Mum and sister on phone, I felt like this is My last bus stop but...
She asked to visit again that she liked how I use to hang her legs and paralyse them whenever we climb the mountain, I obliged and as usual, no work for Me.
I had to lie to My Boss that u will be going for My Elder Bros wedding Wednesday and Thursday. Who does that?
Since what I was expecting is more than My word, I just had to lie.
For the records, I am currently working in One The Big Oil School in the South as an Administrative Staff but them no they pay Me as A Corps Member, so I no mind missing work for that long.
I went to pick her from the park, we were together Wednesday, Thursday and Friday is My CDS day. Being the immediate past President, she told not to go as there would no consequence for failing, truth be told, I was tired of whining My waist, I just had to go get fresh air.
Babe started calling My number to come back as if I stole her kidney.
Friday passed, Saturday and she left on Sunday.
Immediately she left, our communication went down like water leave passed over the fire.
Before now, she doesn't call on normal calls. If its not WhatsApp call, then its nothing else.
I sub 2k for her every 2weeks because I know I consume her data a lot on video calls.
Mind you, she understood My present financial strength and she told Me openly that the only thing that would have discouraged her from being with is My financial strength but she is not bothered about it as she can do with or without financial assistance from Me.
I challenged Myself not to call her and see if she will.
From the day I met her till that day, there was no day we don't talk on phone for at least 3 hours daily.
No jokes
It was almost 11pm, she sent a message saying she knew I purposely didn't call her and I told her yes. (Pic attached)
I sent her messages and she didn't reply till date till I posted something like "Man, I don't know how you will do it, but pls make sure you Marry a good woman"
And she quoted it with "hmmmmmmmm"
I didn't even bother to reply her self.

That was the end of Solomon Grundy.
What could have happened?
Was it My fault or she just used Me to satisfy for her sexual hunger?

She fuvcked you and ghosted you.
On to the next cheating thread.

But I was fast like how glo data gets exhausted to tell her My apartment might not be comfortable for her as she is an Ajebo from a very wealthy home but she said she doesn't mind because she is coming to visit only.
Aunty came, I went to pick her, got in and I entertained her. One thing led to another, we started rubbing mouths together, she liked how I handled her, she confessed I am the second man and practically the first man to have dealt with her.
She had an ex, she never liked him, she was just with him because he takes good care of her financially but very poor in bed and his presence disgust her.

Nairaland story tellers

A lady is an “ajebo” from a very wealthy home and stick to a man based on financial security

What i don't understand is if you are asking us if what you did is wrong or you are just telling us.
The reason you "just stayed away" and she didn't bother, you haven't told us that reason yet.

sorry next time use ur head

Amotolongbo:
Nairaland story tellers

A lady is an “ajebo” from a very wealthy home and stick to a man have on financial security

I thought I was the only the one that saw that line, very incoherent story.

Lol
We bleeped each other.
Her body is worth like 10k per round
5 rounds daily for 7 days she spent with Me
Thats 5*7* = 35 rounds
35*10k = 350k
I didn't spent more than 30k on her
Who lost?

SportsHD:
She fuvcked you and ghosted you.
On to the next cheating thread.

Too long abeg someone shud summarize

"Takes good care of her" ambiguous
So I don't know whether it was financially or otherwise but definitely not sexually

Amotolongbo:
Nairaland story tellers

A lady is an “ajebo” from a very wealthy home and stick to a man have on financial security

Yes if it was wrong of me testing her by not calling to see if she would.
I am kinda surprised o because the way we were going, we already started making plans for marriage

ParpahSeventy:
What i don't understand is if you are asking us if what you did is wrong or you are just telling us.
The reason you "just stayed away" and she didn't bother, you haven't told us that reason yet.

She didn't explain what she meant by "takes good care of her"

And besides some persons are I satiable.
She can be financially okay and her man still takes good care of her financially

ParpahSeventy:

I thought I was the only the one that saw that line, very incoherent story.

Well, it only pained Me because I thought I had reached My last bus stop
But now, I no go take any woman seriously again
I no fit go keel Myself

Hisbah21:
sorry next time use ur head

Posa:
Well, it only pained Me because I thought I had reached My last bus stop
But now, I no go take any woman seriously again
I no fit go keel Myself

sorry i understand

I stayed away till now simply because even though I was really I to her, the last girl I begged to stay back was bleeping another man for 6months till I found out.
So if she is tired, she can go

ParpahSeventy:
What i don't understand is if you are asking us if what you did is wrong or you are just telling us.
The reason you "just stayed away" and she didn't bother, you haven't told us that reason yet.

Posa:
Lol
We bleeped each other.

Who lost?

I didn't say that you lost.

Posa:
Yes if it was wrong of me testing her by not calling to see if she would.
I am kinda surprised o because the way we were going, we already started making plans for marriage

Then you should walk.
Don't beg a woman to stay, don't even advice a woman to stay with you.
Allow her to make her choice.

Posa:
She didn't explain what she meant by "takes good care of her"

And besides some persons are I satiable.
She can be financially okay and her man still takes good care of her financially

If she is insatiable you shouldn't be with her in d first place

You are not wrong
I will never dare it again

ParpahSeventy:

Then you should walk.
Don't beg a woman to stay, don't even advice a woman to stay with you.
Allow her to make her choice.

You are correct but I never judged her to be insatiable financially but sexually
And I satisfied her sexually
She didn't show any sign if a gold digger the few tines we spent together
I even force tfare on her
Still wondering what went wrong

ParpahSeventy:

If she is insatiable you shouldn't be with her in d first place

Posa:
You are correct but I never judged her to be insatiable financially but sexually
And I satisfied her sexually
She didn't show any sign if a gold digger the few tines we spent together
I even force tfare on her
Still wondering what went wrong

You can't stay here and wonder if you really want to find out it's better you know the reason from her.
Make her talk and know the way she thinks.

Okay
I will do that and update

ParpahSeventy:

You can't stay here and wonder if you really want to find out it's better you know the reason from her.
Make her talk and know the way she thinks.

you are not patient enough bro,, look bery well,, you started this,,, i know her type ,, she is feeling bossy as you are too,, trust me,, una two dey raise body fir each other

If you are going to tell a useless story at least make it short.

U really nid to let her know ur mind.Ask her questions?

I just got off a lengthy phone call with her, direct call though
According to her, she dislocated her kneel cap same day we had issues and I didn't call to ask after her the reason she didn't tell me
But that is not enough reason, I believe there is more to it but she doesn't want to tell
I just apologized for My insensitivity but definitely I will watch her closely

Enny2013:
U really nid to let her know ur mind.Ask her questions?

I can smell frustration
I didn't force you to read it though
Go get a chill pill

ReacherSaidNoth:
If you are going to tell a useless story at least make it short.

Well, you are right
Maybe I will work on it and see what comes up

johnsonmartina6:
you are not patient enough bro,, look bery well,, you started this,,, i know her type ,, she is feeling bossy as you are too,, trust me,, una two dey raise body fir each other

Posa:
I can smell frustration
I didn't force you to read it though
Go get a chill pill

It's hard not to be frustrated by adult stupidity.

Posa:
I just got off a lengthy phone call with her, direct call though
According to her, she dislocated her kneel cap same day we had issues and I didn't call to ask after her the reason she didn't tell me
But that is not enough reason, I believe there is more to it but she doesn't want to tell
I just apologized for My insensitivity but definitely I will watch her closely

Make up wt her if u stl love n want her.Make a request to speak wt her parents too.

Bottom line is that you are frustrated
Thats for not denying it

ReacherSaidNoth:
It's hard not to be frustrated by adult stupidity.

I am in the process
Thanks

Enny2013:

Make up wt her if u stl love n want her.Make a request to speak wt her parents too.

Posa:
I am on the process
Thanks

Fine