A message to married men

Please read succinctly.

You remember when you were dating your Temi.
She filled your mind every day and night
Her smile. The way she catwalked. Her smooth skin.

Several times you wanted to get physically intimate with her, but she said....not before marriage
Marriage became the next thing
Oh such smooth skin, such eyes, such hands
You couldn't wait to get married.

You called it LOVE.

You got married ....a little over a year ago
Your desires were met again and again
In fact, your daughter, Sefunmi, was born two months ago

Your delectable wife?

First, between breastfeeding and recovering, she seems to have forgotten how to be intimate. With you. She's never in the mood.

Second, her body really really changed. Temi is now as fat as a sow, and doesn't even care. Doesn't make up like before. Walks around the house as if you are only there to assist her. Nothing else! How can she just have changed? Always eating, always looking tired.

Ada is your colleague at work. Pictures of her now fill your mind

Fair and gorgeous Ada.

Can't take your eyes off her when she passes by or comes to do something near your work station

All your extra time you now spend gisting with her
You tell yourself you love your wife and that has not changed; and that this thing between you and Ada cannot just be explained.

Such eyes. Such smooth skin. The way she catwalks oh my!

You are literally praying for an opportunity to do the things you have been imagining, hoping she feels the same way

.

You are about to make a very big mistake

Can you not remember how it was Temi only 2 years ago?
Do you now understand that loving a body is called lust, NOT love?
Don't you know that a woman or any person is much more than a body?
Has it now dawned on you that marriage is not the cure for lust?

How long will you be a he-goat?

When will you be a man, a real husband; a man worthy of a woman?
Remember you too will give Sefunmi to someone just as Temi's father gave her to you

Will that person be a he-goat or a man?

So, whether it was lust or found that drove you into marriage....you are NOW married

Legally, socially, and spiritually. What you are doing is not funny in any way.

Leave Ada alone; leave her in thoughts, in words, and in deed. Leave her knowingly or knowingly. Leave her by commission and by omission
If she coughs around you, stand up and shout "I reject it in Jesus' name!"

Go and confess your sins and repent of them.

Go back to your house today
Hold your fat wife's hands
Look into her eyes
Hands to hands
Eyes to eyes
Soul to soul

And tell her with everything in you "I love you forever".

Keep your vows.

BE A MAN.

married men?

it begins with bachelorhood

Wow such an interesting read. The word play felt like a caress upon my intellect. And the humor, a welcome relief.

Wahala for who dey cheat and who want to cheat.

anthonyuncle:
married men?

it begins with bachelorhood

it does, and it doesn't.

yuping:
Wahala for who dey cheat and who want to cheat.