EkehPraise:
Bro,

She's cheating on you.
The pregnancy was not yours.
She's not yours too.

Take heart.

Omakraid:
She should know by now that the paper is with you. Don't give her the original copy, take her to her parents house without allowing her notice anything and present it to her dad and mum while gisting, tell them you want her to give you an explanation in their presence. That act will destabilise all the lies she might have cooked up if any and you'll find a resolution

Kobojunkie:
What in the world?

Omakraid:
Yes, that thing in the world that made her do that.

Mood11:
This one is deep.
The heart of man woman is desperately wicked.
You will need wisdom to handle this.
Calm down, take your time and do some more snooping, you will definitely find out more revelations which may break your heart but will aid you to how you can handle the issue.
If she doesn't open to you on her own, just keep calm and do your findings.

Mamayam:
Ahh, op. She is a good woman sef. She aborted the baby to avoid paternity fraud.

Kobojunkie:
Why report her to her parents? Why bring outsiders into the marriage?

Omakraid:
1. If the guy is a No nonsense guy and he throws her out, won't outsiders (her parents) get involved and would they not ask why he didn't report to them? Na abortion she do fa, what if something else happened in the abortion room or complications after she got home, the innocent husband has no choice but to inform the parents before they tie him to the demise (God forbid).
My dear, If you don't want outsiders to chook mouth in your matter, Don't do what will make them chook mouth o.

Kobojunkie:
Why do you assume parents have to be involved if she ends up having to end her marriage though , why?

Informing relatives of the passing away of a loved one is one thing but involving relatives when there is marital issue is another entirely separate issue, don't you see.

Lucaslookers:
Please I need serious advice here because I am so confused right now.

My wife and I have been married for a year now. We've been having intercourse without protection as man and wife and of course I have been expecting her to conceive which has not been the case. I am not really bothered because we are still young and new in our marriage.
Yesterday we were supposed to have a get together with our business partners and friends and we were supposed to use my car but somehow after I tried to start the car, it didn't respond so I told my wife let's use hers which she agreed. We got into the car and she remembered that she had left the gift we intended giving one of our friends so she went back inside to get it.
I was in the car, then I opened the arm rest to put my phone and our Earbuds inside when I saw a white paper. Out of curiosity I took it out and opened it. On the top was written "Choice Laboratories" but before I could read what was inside my wife came out so I hid the paper in my pocket.
When we got to the event venue I rushed into the toilet to read what was in the paper and it was "abortion completed".
I didn't understand what it meant because my wife never told me she was pregnant talkless of aborting for any reason. Even if anything was wrong why didn't she tell me rather she hid it.
I snapped it and sent to a doctor friend and he confirmed it that the result is from a scan showing that my wife had just had an abortion. I have not been myself since yesterday evening.
She's been uneasy since morning and I know she is searching for the paper.

Please married men, how do I handle this in a matured way? I don't want to be rough about it because I suddenly feel my wife is hiding many things from me.

MufasaLion:
Damn!!!

Well, it's possible she got another guy and she got pregnant just to kmow if she was the problem. Maybe she couldn't pinpoint the real father of the foetus and she had to abort just to be safe and avoid paternity fraud issue. On the other hand maybe the pregnancy was yours and she had been faithful all along!

The only and best advise is that you should confront her and talk to her about what you saw. You can't expect us to give you any other advise from that.

eyinjuege:
Ask her na.
Abortion is used interchangeably with miscarriage in medical terms.
Was it a scan result? Or the receipt for a procedure?
A complete abortion is when a miscarriage happens and everything in the womb is out. Did your wife just have a miscarriage? Many miscarriages happen even before a woman is aware she was ever pregnant and they assume it is a delayed period that is showing up.
An incomplete abortion is when you have some retained products of the fetus after a miscarriage has happened.
A threatened abortion is a miscarriage that may happen but hasn't yet and the woman is bleeding but the fetus is still viable
An inevitable abortion is a miscarriage that will surely happen because the opening to the womb/cervix is open already and thd fetus will surely fall out.
Etc
These are all miscarriages but called abortions in medical terms.
It doesn't mean they've carried out an illegal abortion.
So best ask her.
If it's just the report of a scan, I will assume she just had a miscarriage.
If iit's an invoice, she has to explain what kind of invoice that is. Though I wouldn't think you would write an official receipt for an abortion in a country where it's illegal.

AmazonTopaz:
Lucasl ookers read this thoroughly and ask your wife

Magnoliaa:


Na fake story, sis. In their tradition.

AmazonTopaz:


Lucaslookers read this thoroughly and ask your wife

Lucaslookers:
Please I need serious advice here because I am so confused right now.

My wife and I have been married for a year now. We've been having intercourse without protection as man and wife and of course I have been expecting her to conceive which has not been the case. I am not really bothered because we are still young and new in our marriage.
Yesterday we were supposed to have a get together with our business partners and friends and we were supposed to use my car but somehow after I tried to start the car, it didn't respond so I told my wife let's use hers which she agreed. We got into the car and she remembered that she had left the gift we intended giving one of our friends so she went back inside to get it.
I was in the car, then I opened the arm rest to put my phone and our Earbuds inside when I saw a white paper. Out of curiosity I took it out and opened it. On the top was written "Choice Laboratories" but before I could read what was inside my wife came out so I hid the paper in my pocket.
When we got to the event venue I rushed into the toilet to read what was in the paper and it was "abortion completed".
I didn't understand what it meant because my wife never told me she was pregnant talkless of aborting for any reason. Even if anything was wrong why didn't she tell me rather she hid it.
I snapped it and sent to a doctor friend and he confirmed it that the result is from a scan showing that my wife had just had an abortion. I have not been myself since yesterday evening.
She's been uneasy since morning and I know she is searching for the paper.

Please married men, how do I handle this in a matured way? I don't want to be rough about it because I suddenly feel my wife is hiding many things from me.

Lucaslookers:


Okay. I am following up with the comments I really take them seriously.
I am calm. I don't want to overreact.
Because I don't want blood on my hands