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What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Babara1994(m): 7:15pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time. I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer. 4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately. Did I do wrong? 649 Likes 44 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Foreverme5221: 7:18pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
I think you were only being smart.. 633 Likes 32 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Nobody: 7:19pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
You did well. That is how it should be. She will get help elsewhere but it will be had for the guy to get help elsewhere. Men for men is good because women easily get help without doing anything. 984 Likes 72 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Kingpin1000: 7:45pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
ALPHA BLOODLINE 700 Likes 45 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by flokii: 8:00pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
@OP Yes you did very wrong.. she asked you to lend her, not dash her the 5k. Atleast give people the benefit of doubt first before knowing next step to take on their matter. What is the assurance that your guy will pay back the 10k (×2 of what she asked) in stipulated time? that's if he ever pays and not come up with stories that touch the kidneys. 146 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Nobody: 8:03pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
LEARN HOW TO GIVE OR LEND YOUR FELLOW GENDER MONEY. THAT IS WHAT NIGERIAN MEN SHOULD LEARN HOW TO DO. STOP BEING STINGY TO YOUR FELLOW GENDER. YOU DID WELL DEAR ![]() ![]() 538 Likes 36 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Animegirl(f): 8:08pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
Yes, you did wrong. Give people benefit of doubt. 33 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by alphaNomega: 8:14pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
Guyman borrowed 10k from you, he will give the babe 5k and pocket 5k as a sharp man. 221 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Nobody: 8:36pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
No 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Nobody: 8:36pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
Babara1994:Well you only followed your instincts.. nothing bad in that.. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by fati2001(m): 8:37pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
alphaNomega: see calculations 167 Likes 10 Shares
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Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Nobody: 8:58pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
Babara1994: I like how you calculated ... most SIMPle men will do anything a woman asks them even if it means going against the squad 94 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Nobody: 9:41pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
You did well. You for just burn dat 5k for nothing. But that your guy you lent 10k,how sure are you he would pay back as promised? 84 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by helinues: 10:26pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
Toh I am just hoping the said crush won't later crushed you 22 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Nobody: 11:47pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
flokii:Shut up! 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by EmzyT: 12:20am On Jan 01, 2022 |
Babara1994: You did well bro, if only we had enough of people like you in this life and not Bloody Simps like Ayo001 and his types who came to world to Impress women, spend Millions buying gifts for one Internet Female Celebrity who doesn't know of their Existence sef than help his Starving fellow guy Just Then, the world would've been a better place!!! 76 Likes 7 Shares
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Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by arthurwillia(m): 2:54am On Jan 01, 2022 |
Babara1994:You do well But no be all guys get sense too sha If you are on Nairaland and you are contemplating lending woman money I sorry sorry oo I once lent a girl 20k You cannot believe this girl paid me 15k and asked me to forget the 5k that she has tried Lol e shock me 149 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Kingpin1000: 10:16am On Jan 01, 2022 |
arthurwillia:Mine was 50k, I was in school then, she paid 30k and asking her for the balance started bringing issues because I was lashing her. One day I went to her room and asked if she had credit so I can make a call. Na so I carry the babe phone go my house. After hours she came to my house and I told her that I will sell her phone in a week's time if she fails to pay up the 20k balance. The next day she paid up and was very angry with me telling me she borrowed the money. I just gave her phone and collected my money after 2-3 weeks I went to her house by 11pm to say sorry for my actions (but the main aim was to lash her) the apology reach 1am so I had to pass the night in her room, you can guess what happened that night. Today we are still friends. She even called sometime ago to lend her 300k I told her that am already on a 700k debt. 235 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by arthurwillia(m): 10:55am On Jan 01, 2022 |
Kingpin1000: Lol no time oo We learn lessons Nice job for the lash/ apology 84 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by wiseone28: 10:02pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
Team Red 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by MANNABBQGRILLS: 10:02pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
Babara1994:Comment from the elders in the building.... This is not a case about a male or a female being borrowed money, We have seen countless of men that you loaned money out to and they never return it or they keep dribbling you about like Messi do to defenders. And we have read stories on this forum about friends killing friends just because they don't wanna pay back the debt they borrowed. So this ain't a gender thing, it is just a personal thing. Do come back to create another thread and let us know if the friend you borrowed the money paid back at the promised date. We Rise. 44 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Patrioticman007(m): 10:02pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
Hmm, you need to loud the volume, a friend in need is a friend in deed. 9 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by EXLOVER(m): 10:02pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
So you decided to come to Nairaland to create a topic. This kin things na make i dey beat people faint 18 Likes 1 Share
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Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by jeff1993: 10:02pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
U did well Dem no dey lend woman money eso those ones wey know say u wan chyke them. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Lightway: 10:02pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
Babara1994: Boss Women will always request money from weak men that are easy to manipulate. They take your money and give you nothing in return because you're weak 36 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by SportsHD: 10:02pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
You avoided a slippery slope. 17 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Thermodynamics(m): 10:02pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
You're a real OG, if you need help tomorrow, na that your friend go fit help you. That babe nor fit do anything for you. flokii: Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you the chief executive officer of Simps. 65 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Mko123(m): 10:03pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
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Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by Kay25(m): 10:03pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
Babara1994:u no show love oo 3 Likes |
Re: What I Did To A Lady I Was Crushing On by SimplePlan34: 10:03pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
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