ThickSharon123:


If you need a classy girl, you've got to be generous and also an intelligent, responsible one. It isn't all girls who tend to be desperate you know. There are class upon class.

when you class,most beautiful working class ladies run after you...we are both saying the same thing!

GoodHardDick:


Of course a simp will see no sense in the story above.

Simp will always be a simp.

Even if it was 1kobo. The OP did what was right. In fact we are all proud of him. That girl was obviously looking for a guy to control and manipulate so she can use him to cash out!

I'm sure your type can easily be manipulated.. You better change and become like the OP. This is a new year, No guy should simp around!

Abeg, leave me out of your poor man's discussion. Just pray God blesses you enough to be able to do things for people and give without thinking about your immediate benefit from them so you don't come and start forming hard guy on top of 5k wey no get value.

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent hin the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

You be better brother, oil dey that your correct head. I would have asked you to send your account details, make I dash you the N10K, but hiding our identity for Nairaland na him be the Koko. Anyway, nice one, keep having our brothers' backs. God bless you always.

uthlaw:
when you class,most beautiful working class ladies run after you...we are both saying the same thing!

Keep dreaming, we women and mens mind are not the same. A man can have class but if he's greedy and a redpillar, then you're having that woman for a short time. And you'll keep on breaking your heart from time to time, and blame women afterwards.

flokii:
@OP Yes you did very wrong.. she asked you to lend her, not dash her the 5k. Atleast give people the benefit of doubt first before knowing next step to take on their matter.

What is the assurance that your guy will pay back the 10k (×2 of what she asked) in stipulated time? that's if he ever pays and not come up with stories that touch the kidneys.

cuz to the female she is already doing him a favour..guy man na guy man even if e nor return next week once everywhere good he fit put 45k for him aza that's how will role..but even if she one return by luck she go return exactly that same 5k after 17 years

chronique:


Abeg, this is a poverty induced topic. Nothing like red piling here. Na who never see money de always shout I can never give a girl xyz. When you make money and meet the class of girls who deserve it, you won't even remember your red piling. Red piling on top 5k na better jonzing. Poverty induced jonzing.

Where did the OP said he was poor, didn't you read the line where he wrote he gave his friend 10k? Abi u just want to blindly argue?? oga the OP did what was right.

You must understand understand that there's a very huge difference between helping someone and someone outrightly demanding for your help like it is her right

This is a new year. No guy should simp around

LIVINGICON:
You did well. You for just burn dat 5k for nothing.
But that your guy you lent 10k,how sure are you he would pay back as promised?

men supporting men

lahizak:

Abeg. Let's know the difference btw been a simp and been selfish. A lady he claimed to love and had knew for 3month. Even if u can't trust her, u use that to judge her. He could have easily borrow her 2k and said thats what he had, dats a amount I blive he can easily let go even if she no pay back. When the time to pay back reach, and she no pay. Atleast then he knows who he is dealing with.

Oga I know what I meant .. I have seen very stupid men who cant help another man with a meal .. but when it is a woman they'll even overpay and flex her

I hate such scenarios but I keep seeing them every damn time

ayomikuolatunji:
You did well. That is how it should be. She will get help elsewhere but it will be had for the guy to get help elsewhere. Men for men is good because women easily get help without doing anything.

They just need to exist and a simp will show up

chronique:


Abeg, this is a poverty induced topic. Nothing like red piling here. Na who never see money de always shout I can never give a girl xyz. When you make money and meet the class of girls who deserve it, you won't even remember your red piling. Red piling on top 5k na better jonzing. Poverty induced jonzing.

but he still borrowed is friend 10k,use common sense na...

Beebah2000:
LEARN HOW TO GIVE OR LEND YOUR FELLOW GENDER MONEY.
THAT IS WHAT NIGERIAN MEN SHOULD LEARN HOW TO DO.
STOP BEING STINGY TO YOUR FELLOW GENDER.

YOU DID WELL DEAR

U de craze.. ..

In short, you crushed your crush.

redstaarx:


Oga I know what I meant .. I have seen very stupid men who cant help another man with a meal .. but when it is a woman they'll even overpay and flex her

I hate such scenarios but I keep seeing them every damn time

Bro, There's absolutely no need replying to a simp, this is because they're so daft and reason emotionally with their brains instead of thinking logically with their senses

Animegirl:
Yes, you did wrong. Give people benefit of doubt.

lmao...with money? To take do experiment to pay back? Omo if you are a lady and i know you arent working neither doing a business that is fetching you income, lai lai, i rather dash you the money than even lend it to you because i will tell it to your face i know you cant pay me back so na dash

There's something called benefit of doubt bro,but then you did the did already.not giving her doesn't make her less and u more. Just so u should know

Check my signature guys

ThickSharon123:


Keep dreaming, we women and mens mind are not the same. A man can have class but if he's greedy and a redpillar, then you're having that woman for a short time. And you'll keep on breaking your heart from time to time, and blame women afterwards.

this is not a dream,you actually knows when a guy is doing okay,even ladies will spend to keep him...only SIMP heart can be breaking,a real nigga will have numerous girlfriend, if one goes,another take over,even if you get married as a real nigga,at least 3 side chick to keep body and soil without stress!

arthurwillia:


Lol no time oo
We learn lessons

Nice job for the lash/ apology

Bad boys na you Dey enjoy bitches while Mr simp pay bride price

Fake story.

GoodHardDick:


Even if it was 1kobo, the OP did what was right We redpillers are all proud of him!!

Why couldn't the broke Entitlement mentality girl go and work and make the "5k" nah? But instead she was looking for a guy to pin down and manipulate.

Okay, so what makes you think that these fellow man he borrowed 10k did not borrow it to give a lady?
What makes you think he will return his money back?
There are lots of guys here on NL that beg for money, using one excuse or the other so people can pity but we still give regardless.

Help people regardless of the gender. Even God said we should give so we can receive.

flokii:
@OP Yes you did very wrong.. she asked you to lend her, not dash her the 5k. Atleast give people the benefit of doubt first before knowing next step to take on their matter.

What is the assurance that your guy will pay back the 10k (×2 of what she asked) in stipulated time? that's if he ever pays and not come up with stories that touch the kidneys.

Even Floki wouldn't betray Ragnar for a woman. If you know you know but if you don't get me, fogerrrit

Early last year, a girl I was trying to ask out asked me to lend her some money, say e nor go tah, she go give me back. Uptill now, I never see shishi. Again, one of my main guy asked me for some money and up till this moment na from one story to another.
Same last year, a girl( child hood friend) asked me to lend her some money that she wants to start one business. I gave what I could and before the time for repayment, she paid me in full.

Bottom line is , don't lend what u cannot afford to lose.
Lass lass eh, if that ur crush no pay u back, e go pain u pass if ur guy no pay u back.

ThickSharon123:


If she's been in a long time relationship with you, then that's wrong. But according to your report, she's only short.

And how do you want a lady to maintain her look without having finances. If you want her to head to the gym to keep that shape it needs money, for the nice clothes and all. So you can be proud of her.

But it's based on your decision, we women do not find it hard in getting the next guy. It's so easy for us.

So, if you feel less a simp here, like some acclaimed simp do say here. Then it's good for you.

God be mercy .. why come here to expose yourself?.pls replace that phrase we women' with 'I'.. Do you even understand the meaning and implication of what you just said?

You did absolutely well but questioning yourself by asking if you did wrong is WRONG!

So you just came here for validation on such a pointless topic. Nobody cares who you give your money to.

ayomikuolatunji:
You did well. That is how it should be. She will get help elsewhere but it will be had for the guy to get help elsewhere. Men for men is good because women easily get help without doing anything.

Borrowed this girl 2k up till now i never see am collect

Simran94:

LOL, see this one.
What makes you think borrowing money from someone and not returning it is a gender thing? There are guys that have borrowed money from their fellow men and haven't paid them back for months.
You can give whomever you wish your money but that doesn't guarantee that your male friend will return your money back when you need it.

All these so-called "redpillers" on NL be forming macho online but offline we know them

It is far better for a man to borrow money to his friend than to give that money to a girl, all in the name of "I'll pay you back.

This is how they control and manipulate simp men in our society. The OP is a confirm Red piller and we are all proud of him.

If the girl wants money, then let her go and work or she can look for a simp elsewhere to manipulate to do her biddings

uthlaw:
this is not a dream,you actually knows when a guy is doing okay,even ladies will spend to keep him...only SIMP heart can be breaking,a real nigga will have numerous girlfriend, if one goes,another take over,even if you get married as a real nigga,at least 3 side chick to keep body and soil without stress!

... Nairaland is a place filled with mostly disturbed people. Please, be realistic, Nairaland isn't real world situation.

If you like be the finest boy in heaven and earth, if I see you're greedy, emotionless, or a hard redpillar, then I'll be the one to call it off. I can't biko.

And I'm a love-snatcher (proud one) here's what it means if I show you love, you can love me that you would be so stress free and happy with me. But if you do something to offend me, if I leave, then you're done for. You'll beg and beg for months.

But unfortunately for you, in less than a week, I've found another guy. So, I guess I'm a redpillar woman too if you think of it.

So, some women have respect and we aren't your flocks of chicken were you can keep us as you wish and do away with us. Yuck!!!

You try bro

chronique:


My point is that it's extremely very low for him to open this thread to rant about this simply because he was asked for 5k. 5k isn't enough to warrant this thread. It's quite embarrassing and I actually struggle to make out sense from the whole write up.

If you focus only on the amount of money involved you will surely miss the whole point of this write-up...

Women are good manipulators.... Just a few man are able to spot this manipulation when it's unleashed by the she.....


I think the op would prefer his guy not paying back to lending that money to the girl (who evidently may have concluded in her head that since he's into me he should be doing my bidding)....


The message is not in the amount

ugodson:
Well for me u would have borrowed her 3k and if she happens to return it the day she promised,u will tell her to keep it

In as much as girls are bad,they are till a few that can be trusted

I don't know why naira land guys hate ladies so much, there are still good ones

GoodHardDick:


It is far better for a man to borrow money to his friend than to give that money to a girl, all in the name of "I'll pay you back.

This is how they control and manipulate simp men in our society. The OP is a confirm Red piller and we are all proud of him.

If the girl wants money, then let her go and work or she can look for a simp elsewhere to manipulate to do her biddings

Ok