Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

Blessedassuranc:



God be mercy .. why come here to expose yourself?.pls replace that phrase we women' with 'I'.. Do you even understand the meaning and implication of what you just said?

redstaarx:


I like how you calculated ... most SIMPle men will do anything a woman asks them even if it means going against the squad

chronique:


My point is that it's extremely very low for him to open this thread to rant about this simply because he was asked for 5k. 5k isn't enough to warrant this thread. It's quite embarrassing and I actually struggle to make out sense from the whole write up.

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

ThickSharon123:


Mr and Mrs. Church goer. I wasn't referring to you. Go to religion session if you want to start preaching, or ask your pastor if he can give you liberty to marry as you guys always do.

Simran94:

Okay, so what makes you think that these fellow man he borrowed 10k did not borrow it to give a lady?
What makes you think he will return his money back?
There are lots of guys here on NL that beg for money, using one excuse or the other so people can pity but we still give regardless.

Help people regardless of the gender. Even God said we should give so we can receive.

teacherbim:


I don't know why naira land guys hate ladies so much, there are still good ones

Blessedassuranc:


Madam no bother yourself. You ve already done with exposing yourself.

Good night

chronique:



Abeg, leave me out of your poor man's discussion. Just pray God blesses you enough to be able to do things for people and give without thinking about your immediate benefit from them so you don't come and start forming hard guy on top of 5k wey no get value.

ThickSharon123:



... Nairaland is a place filled with mostly disturbed people. Please, be realistic, Nairaland isn't real world situation.

If you like be the finest boy in heaven and earth, if I see you're greedy, emotionless, or a hard redpillar, then I'll be the one to call it off. I can't biko.

And I'm a love-snatcher (proud one) here's what it means if I show you love, you can love me that you would be so stress free and happy with me. But if you do something to offend me, if I leave, then you're done for. You'll beg and beg for months.

But unfortunately for you, in less than a week, I've found another guy. So, I guess I'm a redpillar woman too if you think of it.

So, some women have respect and we aren't your flocks of chicken were you can keep us as you wish and do away with us. Yuck!!!

teacherbim:


I don't know why naira land guys hate ladies so much, there are still good ones

Pataricatering:
going against the squad ?lol , its.funny.how men never have minds of their.own ..

Kingpin1000:

Mine was 50k, I was in school then, she paid 30k and asking her for the balance started bringing issues because I was lashing her. One day I went to her room and asked if she had credit so I can make a call. Na so I carry the babe phone go my house. After hours she came to my house and I told her that I will sell her phone in a week's time if she fails to pay up the 20k balance. The next day she paid up and was very angry with me telling me she borrowed the money. I just gave her phone and collected my money after 2-3 weeks I went to her house by 11pm to say sorry for my actions (but the main aim was to lash her) the apology reach 1am so I had to pass the night in her room, you can guess what happened that night. Today we are still friends.
She even called sometime ago to lend her 300k I told her that am already on a 700k debt.

andyanders:
Op, u're just being stingy and not that too smart. She asked u 4 5k, u should have given her 3k to manage, and tell her that u're tight 4 now. For me, u did wrong. Don't form as if giving u're guy 10k that u did well. That is wickedness.

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

Beebah2000:
LEARN HOW TO GIVE OR LEND YOUR FELLOW GENDER MONEY.
THAT IS WHAT NIGERIAN MEN SHOULD LEARN HOW TO DO.
STOP BEING STINGY TO YOUR FELLOW GENDER.

YOU DID WELL DEAR

ThickSharon123:


If she's been in a long time relationship with you, then that's wrong. But according to your report, she's only short.

And how do you want a lady to maintain her look without having finances. If you want her to head to the gym to keep that shape it needs money, for the nice clothes and all. So you can be proud of her.

But it's based on your decision, we women do not find it hard in getting the next guy. It's so easy for us.

So, if you feel less a simp here, like some acclaimed simp do say here. Then it's good for you.

ThickSharon123:


Keep dreaming, we women and mens mind are not the same. A man can have class but if he's greedy and a redpillar, then you're having that woman for a short time. And you'll keep on breaking your heart from time to time, and blame women afterwards.

ukaface:
You're the one to know if you did wrong or not.
So, because of 5k your crush suddenly died off?
If she had said ' come let's have se.x' . I'm sure your fellow gender will hail you and call you ALPHA REDPILLER.

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

Kingpin1000:
loll, u are a man, ozumba mbadiwe

Mine was 50k, I was in school then, she paid 30k anasking her for the balance started bringing issues because I was lashing her. One day I went to her room and asked if she had credit so I can make a call. Na so I carry the babe phone go my house. After hours she came to my house and I told her that I will sell her phone in a week's time if she fails to pay up the 20k balance. The next day she paid up and was very angry with me telling me she borrowed the money. I just gave her phone and collected my money after 2-3 weeks I went to her house by 11pm to say sorry for my actions (but the main aim was to lash her) the apology reach 1am so I had to pass the night in her room, you can guess what happened that night. Today we are still friends.
She even called sometime ago to lend her 300k I told her that am already on a 700k debt.

elsiusgr8t:


If focus only on the amount of money involved you will surely miss the whole point of this write-up...

Women are good manipulators.... Just a few man are able to spot this manipulation when it's unleashed my the she.....


I think the op will would prefer his guy not paying back to lending that money to the girl (who evidently may have concluded in her head that since he's into me he should be doing my bidding)....


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