Kingpin1000:

Mine was 50k, I was in school then, she paid 30k and asking her for the balance started bringing issues because I was lashing her. One day I went to her room and asked if she had credit so I can make a call. Na so I carry the babe phone go my house. After hours she came to my house and I told her that I will sell her phone in a week's time if she fails to pay up the 20k balance. The next day she paid up and was very angry with me telling me she borrowed the money. I just gave her phone and collected my money after 2-3 weeks I went to her house by 11pm to say sorry for my actions (but the main aim was to lash her) the apology reach 1am so I had to pass the night in her room, you can guess what happened that night. Today we are still friends.
She even called sometime ago to lend her 300k I told her that am already on a 700k debt.

LIVINGICON:
You did well. You for just burn dat 5k for nothing.
But that your guy you lent 10k,how sure are you he would pay back as promised?

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

Kingpin1000:

Mine was 50k, I was in school then, she paid 30k and asking her for the balance started bringing issues because I was lashing her. One day I went to her room and asked if she had credit so I can make a call. Na so I carry the babe phone go my house. After hours she came to my house and I told her that I will sell her phone in a week's time if she fails to pay up the 20k balance. The next day she paid up and was very angry with me telling me she borrowed the money. I just gave her phone and collected my money after 2-3 weeks I went to her house by 11pm to say sorry for my actions (but the main aim was to lash her) the apology reach 1am so I had to pass the night in her room, you can guess what happened that night. Today we are still friends.
She even called sometime ago to lend her 300k I told her that am already on a 700k debt.

Haykinx98:

Did you even ask the guy how much his job pays?People like you are the reasons why girls take advantage of guys...I'll think twice before rendering financial help to a girl whom our relationship status is not defined yet

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

Akuruoulo:


U ARE NOT A WOMAN

LagosInter:


Guys love sex more.

One of the reasons is that many women don't cum but all guys cum and easily too.


Again I need to correct the impression that a girl not cumming is as a result of a guy's deficiency in the bedroom.

Many women don't just cum matter what even though they may enjoy the sex.

drimzsmoke:


I beg to differ sir,many bi ti bawo....majority actually cum,i.e,reach orgasm but the problem is that they mostly do through clitoral stimulation.However, the average guy out there think it's all about how long you can pound her alone

ayomikuolatunji:
You did well. That is how it should be. She will get help elsewhere but it will be had for the guy to get help elsewhere. Men for men is good because women easily get help without doing anything.

Yoighaman:


You be better brother, oil dey that your correct head. I would have asked you to send your account details, make I dash you the N10K, but hiding our identity for Nairaland na him be the Koko. Anyway, nice one, keep having our brothers' backs. God bless you always.

EmzyT:



You did well bro, if only we had enough of people like you in this life and not Bloody Simps like Ayo001 and his types who came to world to Impress women, spend Millions buying gifts for one Internet Female Celebrity who doesn't know of their Existence sef than help his Starving fellow guy

Just Then, the world would've been a better place!!!

Thermodynamics:
You're a real OG, if you need help tomorrow, na that your friend go fit help you. That babe nor fit do anything for you.

Grootz:
I just love what you did. it's good to help your gender the other gender will never help you unless is from divine intervention

GoodHardDick:


Everywhere guy on nairaland should be like this OP.

A very smart redpiller. Honestly, I must say I'm highly impressed with this. Keep it up bro

You're a confirm REDPILLER and that's how it should be

GoodHardDick:


Of course a simp will see no sense in the story above.

Simp will always be a simp.

Even if it was 1kobo. The OP did what was right. In fact we are all proud of him. That girl was obviously looking for a guy to control and manipulate so she can use him to cash out!

I'm sure your type can easily be manipulated.. You better change and become like the OP. This is a new year, No guy should simp around!

chronique:


Abeg, this is a poverty induced topic. Nothing like red piling here. Na who never see money de always shout I can never give a girl xyz. When you make money and meet the class of girls who deserve it, you won't even remember your red piling. Red piling on top 5k na better jonzing. Poverty induced jonzing.

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

Raychee:

alphaNomega:
he refuses to pay

Beebah2000:
u no believe say woman fit write that kind of thing bah?

Thatssobeyonce:
What if she was going to payback and she needed the money urgently then?
First you've lost a friend
Second she'll always see you as someone stingy and cannot be relied upon
Third you posting that here shows you're childish, just saying.
Always give pple d benefit of doubt, dont judge pple base on assumptions.


Happy new year nairalanders

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

Akuruoulo:


The percentage of her paying full when she borrowed from a man is 1/100.

chronique:



Abeg, leave me out of your poor man's discussion. Just pray God blesses you enough to be able to do things for people and give without thinking about your immediate benefit from them so you don't come and start forming hard guy on top of 5k wey no get value.

chronique:



Abeg, leave me out of your poor man's discussion. Just pray God blesses you enough to be able to do things for people and give without thinking about your immediate benefit from them so you don't come and start forming hard guy on top of 5k wey no get value.

Akuruoulo:

For sure dear.
I have been monitoring ur quotes , and they remain plain and simple.
Talk true ; u be woman ?

arthurwillia:

You do well
But no be all guys get sense too sha

If you are on Nairaland and you are contemplating lending woman money I sorry sorry oo

I once lent a girl 20k
You cannot believe this girl paid me 15k and asked me to forget the 5k that she has tried
Lol e shock me

arthurwillia:


Lol no time oo
We learn lessons

Nice job for the lash/ apology

arthurwillia:


Lol no time oo
We learn lessons

Nice job for the lash/ apology

post=109000966:

Comment from the elders in the building....
This is not a case about a male or a female being borrowed money,
We have seen countless of men that you loaned money out to and they never return it or they keep dribbling you about like Messi do to defenders.
And we have read stories on this forum about friends killing friends just because they don't wanna pay back the debt they borrowed.

So this ain't a gender thing, it is just a personal thing.
Do come back to create another thread and let us know if the friend you borrowed the money paid back at the promised date.

We Rise.

Jungpablo:
so much sense here bro I wonder how you support Buhari

Jungpablo:
so much sense here bro I wonder how you support Buhari