daddytime:
i know say i sabi spoil woman
if i date woman remain for u
u go get problem
cos u can't give her the trips i give

Why you come dey fear to go carry this one wey don ferment from your spoiling already na?

You must complete wetin you finish oh.

E easy to dey spoil from afar....this time na up close and personal you go start the spoiling. Na that time you go understand say to go American Embassy to get Visa and buy ticket to America by yourself dey different from when you go America under arrest. Ask Hushpuppi and Abba Kyari...lol

E dey obvious say na small girl be the girl in question...

Make una buy laptop below...

princeeze1:
You are the problem. Kindly let that woman enjoy her marriage in peace. You have failed to draw healthy boundaries after she got married hence you have remained an unnecessary distraction. You have unknowingly featured as a third leg in their cycle and she is stupid enough to encourage it and not see the foolery in making her husband feel insecure. True, no man will tolerate an ex constantly feature in his marriage, vice versa! Be honest, will you accept your wife’s ex boyfriend being a constant feature in your affairs?

Stop abetting her, keep a healthy distance, even if it means ceasing all comms with her, so she can fully focus on her home without your distractions!

sisisioge:
Hmmmm.....your story reminds me of a discussion I had with a friend recently about qualities of a good man. I said being intelligent is a must must....if he is nice and doesn't have sense, then it's a problem. Just look at you!

Vireani79:
she will call me back
what do i do
how do i make this man feel better
he sees me as a threat

Kobojunkie:
Why is it your place for make the man feel better?

Vireani79:


what do i do....its not like i call her

sisisioge:


Oga! Biko your obvious loss for what to do is becoming annoying!

1. The babe blindsided you by marrying someone else while you were investing your time and materials on her. One would think you would be wise enough to let her go completely.....no continuous friendship with her and her husband. What is the point biko?

2. She is even using you as her alter ego in her marriage. You should come and carry her,you buy things for her....hian! What a mofoish position to hold. You were not good enough to marry, only good for the things you buy.

And the husband and wife are now calling you as the third party puppy in their silly banter, yet you wonder what to do! I'm vexed! Good evening!

sisisioge:


Oga! Biko your obvious loss for what to do is becoming annoying!

1. The babe blindsided you by marrying someone else while you were investing your time and materials on her. One would think you would be wise enough to let her go completely.....no continuous friendship with her and her husband. What is the point biko?

2. She is even using you as her alter ego in her marriage. You should come and carry her,you buy things for her....hian! What a mofoish position to hold. You were not good enough to marry, only good for the things you buy.

And the husband and wife are now calling you as the third party puppy in their silly banter, yet you wonder what to do! I'm vexed! Good evening!

princeeze1:
Imagine the effrontery; you are the best thing that happened to another man’s wife!

If you are, the husband has no bussiness being married to her, means he is right in deciding she pitches her tent with you.
Some women clearly has no bussiness being married. If you were the best thing after fried rice, why go on to mess up another man’s life.

You claim you do not interact with her, but covertly or overtly, you are the third leg.

Vireani79:


relax
i am asking to save the man

i dont call her
so she is not using me
i am just the best thing that happened to her

Vireani79:
hmmm i just go a call from a friend's husband
i used to like a gal in my area
i was grooming her
i gave her contacts to sowing jobs in Victoria island
i take her out
anyway cos of the greed of her mother
she married a man who already has four kids
now she tells the man how i take her out
to the island and lekki
she paints me like the best thing that has happened to her
she makes him look like a mistake
so today the husband called me
i should come and carry his wife
he doesnt want again
he is tired of the stories of how i take her out
buy her stuffs
he doesn't want again
i told him how will he say that
he said she sings my name every day in his ears
he is furious
i called him back he won't pick
i called her
she is laughing
asking me when am i coming to carry her
she wants to pack her things
she has a child for him
she is like 2yrs old
i was shouting at her
why will u be telling ur husband how i take u out and all
she is laughing
and saying when are u coming
i know say i sabi spoil woman
if i date woman remain for u
u go get problem
cos u can't give her the trips i give
not that i wan go carry person wife oh
but see me see local problem

she will call me back
what do i do
how do i make this man feel better
he sees me as a threat

sisisioge:


Oga! Biko your obvious loss for what to do is becoming annoying!

1. The babe blindsided you by marrying someone else while you were investing your time and materials on her. One would think you would be wise enough to let her go completely.....no continuous friendship with her and her husband. What is the point biko?

2. She is even using you as her alter ego in her marriage. You should come and carry her,you buy things for her....hian! What a mofoish position to hold. You were not good enough to marry, only good for the things you buy.

And the husband and wife are now calling you as the third party puppy in their silly banter, yet you wonder what to do! I'm vexed! Good evening!

I'm guessing that LCM must be your greatest strength in mathematics while in secondary school .... Just looking at how you demolished the whole analysis into simplest form for him to understand makes me happy ...

It was a thing of ego for him initially ... but with what you have written, I don't know what he might be thinking right now but I pray he understands what u said... It's not good for a son of the soil to keep on dwelling in fool's paradise in 2022 ..

Richy4:


I'm guessing that LCM must be your greatest strength in mathematics while in secondary school .... Just looking at how you demolished the whole analysis into simplest form for him to understand makes me happy ...

It was a thing of ego for him initially ... but with what you have written, I don't know what he might be thinking right now but I pray he understands what u said... It's not good for a son of the soil to keep on dwelling in fool's paradise in 2022 ..

sisisioge:




Honestly o....I felt like hitting sense into his head. May God help him.

Richy4:



U did really well by drumming some sense into him... I hope it hits home though...I am a "believer" that EX should remain in the dustbin of history..
The idea of calling an ex randomly especially when one has nothing in common with him/she like(children) is just BS in my opinion...
By the way welcome to 2022 ..I hope u had a cool holidays....Wishing u the best this brand new year