We have been suspicious of my brother's lifestyle for many years now and recently, his wife is reiterating our suspicion.

We are suspecting my brother of either being possessed, or someone did some juju on him or he belongs to a secret cult based on these two behaviors.

1. He does not like rendering help to his immediate family members but extremely generous outside.

2. He can sleep with anything that has vagina including old, young, fat, slim, beautiful, ugly, single and married women.

My parents gave birth to many children but unfortunately my dad died very early leaving my mother to take care of the responsibilities of the family.

This made my elder brothers to leave home on time to learn trade. Luck smiled on my elder brother and he made money very early. Less than 2 years after he did his freedom, he got his first car and started building his duplex immediately.

Since that time till date, he has only become richer and richer and richer.

We never received any financial assistance from extended family members because their thoughts is that my brother is well to do so we don't need help but the reality is different.

As rich as my brother became, we continued the petty family business that was very stressful until all of us left home to either university or marriage before my mother stopped the business because it is not what she can do alone.

My brother never cared for my mother. That's the one that pains me the most whenever I remember the incident of the past and how my mother died in the local village hospital while my brother was at home drinking and entertaining visitors.

My brother would come home for Christmas and pay 6 months electricity bill for every one in our community while giving my mom 15k. He never wants anything to do with us. For him to give you money, you really need to explain what you need the money for and that doesn't mean you are getting it immediately.

My secondary school classmates thought I came from a very wretched home not knowing that I have a brother that is extremely financially buoyant.

The number of people my brother brought from our village to Lagos to set up are more than 10 that we know. These people ended up bringing their siblings to town and establishing them as well. That is to say that my brother has lifted a lot of families out of poverty but never his family members.

One of my brother was having difficulty in his business and the best that my brother could do was to ask him to park his belongings to go and stay in the village with his wife and children. If not for my intervention that I used 1.9 million to set up a business for him to be repaying me monthly as he sells. This is an amount my brother will never ever give any of us for any reason whatsoever. He would rather gift you 100k to put in your business and go about telling people how he has helped you but you have refused to grow the business. Please, what can 100k really do for a business man?

In fact, I can't type all that we have experienced with my brother who's supposed to be our source of upliftment.

For those that will say I should go and work and entitlement mentality thing, all I typed here happened in the past when we were still dependent. None of us demands money from him anymore as we're all independent financially now.

But recent happenings brought back those memories. My brother and his wife.

We thought that his wife and children would enjoy his money since they are entitled to it but we were wrong.

My brother has several duplexes in my home state and in Lagos yet he lives in a rented two bedroom apartment. In that two bedroom apartment, his children and house boys (boy boy) share the same room and this is not the well developed part of Lagos oo but it's closer to his market.

My brother can afford to buy land in the place that they live and build standard 3 storey building and give his children a good sense of his wealth but he will never do it.

When the wife asks him for money for hair, he will give her 5k. If she sees a hair that she likes that sells for 50k. My brother will bring out calculator and divide 50k by 500 and tell the wife that that money is enough for him to cut his hair for the next 10 years.

The children don't dress well like people whose father is super rich. He got an SUV that the wife drives which made people think that the wife is enjoying but inside that woman in the SUV is an unhappy woman that wishes she can turn back the hands of time so she could marry someone else.

Sadly, the wife can't even complain to us because she took advantage of the way her husband was treating us to treat us badly when she got married to my brother and considering the fact that my brother was the supposed bread winner. Well, we can't be dependent for life.

Now, the cock has come home to roost. She's enjoying the husband "as is".

On the issue of womanizing, my brother started having sex right from when he was in junior secondary school. The fact that he made money made it worse.

He can sleep with anything that has a vagina. The wife says that she's happy they don't have a female child because my brother is capable of sleeping with her and I don't doubt that.

My brother made advances on one of my sisters when she went to his house for holidays if not that she resisted him.

The last housegirl they had, my brother infected her with STD that the wife took her away and canceled the idea of house maid.

My brother sleeps with married women. The number of girls he has trained in the university is uncountable.

All he does with his money is invest in landed properties and chase girls.

The wife now puts pack of condom in his bags whenever he's traveling. He can sleep with my sister's friends, in fact, just anybody that has hole in between her legs.

We do get reports of him sleeping with widows in the village. He travels home almost every month. His concubines there are numerous.

We thought him to be occultic but there's no evidence so far to prove it. The wife is suspecting him that maybe his occult members gave him target of the number of women he must sleep with every month because I have never seen such a chronic womanizer.

Na film be this or true story

Cuz this tin get as e be oo

Na him money make una allow am spend as he like.
Na God get final say

Is your brother by any chance Yul Edochie?

'Cos this seems like a movie synopsis.

Self hate,maybe he is a fan of osuofia,s movie CALCULATOR

If his kids and wife still live like puppet under his watch, I'm not even talking about his siblings and parents. Then your brother source of wealth is perhaps questionable

If your brother sleeps with multiple women just like that and still ignores his immediate family,then i have so much doubt in his wealth seriously.

If she sees a hair that she likes that sells for 50k. My brother will bring out calculator and divide 50k by 500 and tell the wife that that money is enough for him to cut his hair for the next 10 years

Your brother na real financial analyst.

Omo... This one strong oO!! But whomever that can't spend money on his own Mother that gave birth to him, can't live in a house built by him, can't help his immediate family, then the source of income is questionable...!!

Things are happening in this world

I would also question his source of wealth if all what you say here is true

Your brother is an occultic man.

tee59:
Your brother is an occultic man.

Bring evidence.

Your brother ain't possessed nor occultic. He's just being stingy!

MufasaLion:
Your brother ain't possessed nor occultic. He's just being stingy!

He's not stingy.. He's just being prudent with his resources. Imagine spending 50k on a head that can't recite States and capitals.

Kriss216:

He's not stingy.. He's just being prudent with his resources. Imagine spending 50k on a head that can't recite States and capitals.

That is not the only problem the OP listed. He didn't take care of their mom. He ain't never ready to help them when they needed him.

Does prudency make one to neglect his mother and let her die without proper medical attention? Does prudency make one to sponsor other people while yoir family are living in penury?

I think his financial sources are not clean.

Dailyparrot

You may call his sexual behavior “being possessed” from the religious point of view, but he could be hypersexual or has a rare condition called satyriasis. I pity his wife. She probably has low self esteem and not self sufficient so she puts up with his compulsive sex addiction.

Regarding his financial stinginess as you stated, I have no theories about that. Maybe he just doesn’t give money unless you work for it whether you’re related to him or not. Such people do same to their kids as well, it’s more common in developed countries than in our traditional African societies

Update: After more information from OP, I have a better picture. OP’s brother wants people (including family members) to pass through him and learn from his ways. That explains why he’s helping strangers. These strangers sing his praises and are willing to intern with him and learn from him, that’s where he sees his value and that’s why he’s willing to help them. By doing this, he sees himself as a kingmaker.

Often, these people are at odds with their family members because the family members expect them to help rather than expect them to pass through what they themselves passed through. When these people give you even 5k as a family member even inside this Buhari’s economy, they want you to sing their praises and highly appreciate the money because you didn’t work for it. These people are more attracted to poor people who really need help and are ready to work for it and contribute their quota, and will highly appreciate the help, and could possibly become future allies. They don’t like giving much to family members who are not doing apprenticeship through them

Trust me, people with this personality are in our families, the reason you hardly notice these people in your family is because they’re not the oldest whom everyone else is looking up to for help. This is a personality type and there are people like that all over the world

Na mehnnnnn, this one too strong abeg. This one pass Stingy men association, he can train others but can't train his family, something is definitely wrong somewhere.

Kriss216:

He's not stingy.. He's just being prudent with his resources. Imagine spending 50k on a head that can't recite States and capitals.

Prudence means his children living in face me I face you with house boys abi?

Does satan have free gift? Come to new site Dei Dei and see something.

socialmediaman:
Dailyparrot

You may call sexual behavior “being possessed” from the religious point of view, but he could be hypersexual or has a rare condition called satyriasis. I pity his wife. She probably has low self esteem and not be self sufficient so she puts up with his compulsive sex addiction.

Regarding his financial stinginess as you stated, I have no theories about that. Maybe he just doesn’t give money unless you work for it whether you’re related to him or not. Such people do same to their kids as well, it’s more common in developed countries than in our traditional African societies

He's not stingy to outsiders. He's only stingy to family members.

The wife is constrained based on the fact that they have kids together.

MufasaLion:


Bring evidence.

That evidence is what we lack. Could someone have done that to him to make us not benefit from his wealth?

Or is there a demon that possessed him. He started chasing women even from junior secondary school and some of them were older women self.

So, his love for women started from childhood. My parents are decent as most of my sisters got married as virgins. So, we don't know where he got the hype sexual behavior from.

Dailyparrot:


That evidence is what we lack. Could someone have done that to him to make us not benefit from his wealth?

Or is there a demon that possessed him. He started chasing women even from junior secondary school and some of them were older women self.

So, his love for women started from childhood. My parents are decent as most of my sisters got married as virgins. So, we don't know where he got the hype sexual behavior from.

How did you know your sisters got married as virgins?

Dailyparrot:


That evidence is what we lack. Could someone have done that to him to make us not benefit from his wealth?

Or is there a demon that possessed him. He started chasing women even from junior secondary school and some of them were older women self.

So, his love for women started from childhood. My parents are decent as most of my sisters got married as virgins. So, we don't know where he got the hype sexual behavior from.

He's not possessed. Being exposed to sex at early age has probably made him have high libido. It's nothing demonic. The only problem here is that he's got no self-esteem by sleeping with all sorts of women.

Kriss216:

How did you know your sisters got married as virgins?

I expected this but that's not the topic of discussion. Thank you.

MufasaLion:


He's not possessed. Being exposed to sex at early age has probably made him have high libido. It's nothing demonic. The only problem here is that he's got no self-esteem by sleeping with all sorts of women.

That self esteem is the problem. He does not have taste and class at all even with all his money.

Anything that is a woman is okay by him.

Dailyparrot:


That self esteem is the problem. He does not have taste and class at all even with all his money.

Anything that is a woman is okay by him.

There's nothing you can do since he's made himself inaccessible. He's gonna learn his lesson when he contract diseases, infections or being disgraced by the spouse of any of his bedmates.

You are telling me that the wife does not have something doing

Among all his shops, the wife is not even managing one of them?

You all are not serious

He is not in any occult

What kind of business is he unto?