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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kaymicheal852: 8:25am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Polynek: There is always an exception,but it's a fact that a poor man is never appreciated 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 9:19am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Is today World father's day or am I missing some shiit? Nice trend though. Fathers are leaders 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Herbsworks: 9:21am On Jan 11, 2022 |
I have always been reading about men tolerating shit simply because kids are already involved but the truth is that women knows this and use it to manipulate. The first thing on an average African woman’s mind immediately after wedding is how to get pregnant and give birth and some men blindly follow. Women strive to give birth cos they know that having one or two children will give them a stronghold in the marriage and a stronger hold if she happens to give birth to a male child. Haven’t you noticed that once a woman gives birth for her husband her attitude changes most especially when the child is a boy cos she now feels she has a voice and you can’t chase her out of your house cos you won’t want to lose the custody of your kids. I was discussing with my elder sister sometime ago and she told me that ladies nowadays don’t want to get married and that they only get married to suppress societal pressure and to have kids legitimately. When a woman wants to leave a marriage the first thing she think of leaving with are mostly the kids because she knows that she can use the kids to keep collecting money in form of child support from the man. That’s why most divorce women receiving child support from their ex husbands don’t work cos they feed on the money sent for child support. So as a man, your wife leaves and probably gets married to another man or starts dating other men, instead of you to focus on your life you’re busy working day and night so you can send money to her for children’s school fees and upkeeps. It becomes very bad when you decide to remarry and have kids. So you will be taking care of your new home and also your other children Ahh. Sometimes I ask myself can’t a couple get married and decide not to have kids? But the truth is most girls will never agree to it cos they know that they will lose if they get married without having kids cos they will be forced to love their husbands till old age. One reason while most women maltreat their husbands and love their kids is because they’re preparing for their old age by showing love to the children so that the children can take care of them in their old age even at the expense of their husbands happiness. Tell that your babe that you want a marriage without kids, just you and her forever and I bet you she won’t agree to it 28 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Aaron12(m): 9:22am On Jan 11, 2022 |
luminouz:Exactly. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by temi4fash(m): 9:22am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Hedgefunds: Hello Bro, Obviously your wife has a weakness with Money so you cant not trust her judgement on that subject. For peace, you need to forget the 2M and assume you used for the school fees in the school of hard knocks. Just begin to plan for your family on your own, maybe open an account or something and save up money for children school fees among other incase of eventualities. Except she is overall a bad woman, then other actions can be considered but if its just the money issue bro, you just need to get strict with her and since her family are enabling bad behaviour you would need to just give her enough to get by while you make plans your family on your own. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by temi4fash(m): 9:24am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Emotionss: Have seen this alot and i tell guys whose father are still alive learn to talk to your father, Have conversations with him, because all those things you think he is doing wrong unconsciously you would do them if you are not careful but once you discuss you would understand why he does alot of those stuffs and it would better help you make your decisions. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Herbsworks: 9:27am On Jan 11, 2022 |
temi4fash: I always get angry when I hear people telling others to forget about things like it didn’t matter. Nigeria is where it is today because of the forgiveness doctrine which is why people can misbehave and expect you to forgive and forget like it never happened. People should be made to pay for their sins. I’m not advising the man to divorce his wife cos of that but he should teach her a lesson in his own way so that she won’t try such nonsense next time. Mind you 2M is not small money that he should just let go like that. 21 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by temi4fash(m): 9:31am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Herbsworks: If he does not forget the 2M, it would give him BP bro, He would need to leave knowing the 2M is gone and it would not be recovered. Looking for it would flogging a dead horse. That is why i said he should assume he had paid school fees in the school of hard knocks and take valuable leassons he would use to engage her going forward. Marriage with 4 Kids is no joke. He would need compromise make he fit get peace of mind. 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by fattprince(m): 9:56am On Jan 11, 2022 |
temi4fash:Exactly. All that allowed the man to die miserably was a little thing we call communication which isn't little and infact very necessary. I can't blame the Man that much because he trusted his wife which we preach here, don't trust this bitches. But this feminist would not allow us to drink water drop cup on matters like this. Want could have warranted the wife to pit the children against their father seeing the poor man was struggling to give all of then a life. In our fathers' patriarchal time the masn is supposed to do all what that man did while the mothers at home take care of the children and make them Revere the father. Even if the father is irresponsible the mother will still at least strive to make it look like the father working for their well being. The mothers always work hand in hand to command respect for the fathers. But all that has vanished today with the average man not seeing the change early enough. And this bitches come here to shame us I mean isn't that wickedness. They come with not all women are like that but should we watch the ones that are like that destroy our fellow men lives. I mean this man we talking about lived a very miserable life because it just feels like when you borrowed money to start up a business then after 30 years that the business went down not because he were extravagant or anything but you have been living frugal and pumping most of the profit back into the business but it's still went down the drain after the time and energy wasted with nothing to show for it after giving your all. I bet the man will feel total confused and useless on his death bed. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by fattprince(m): 10:01am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Kaymicheal852:I don't know how many times we will preach the exception rule. I think we should put it in redpill rules. That when we say women,men, fathers, mothers,etc there is always an exception. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Etinosa1234: 10:15am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Hi guys Pls can someone help me with ways to start a conversation with a gal u see at church or on the street It will be really helpful 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:38am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Etinosa1234: Upgrade your game,look nice and attractive. They'll flock you without you trying. Cold approach is for the experienced who can handle the rejections, you don't seem like one. Lastly,admire and move on Stop working yourself over women that don't even have 5k in their account Focus on your self growth, there's nothing more important than this 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 10:41am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Smartb0y:But his dick needs to be oiled na soonest na 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Meedon: 10:42am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Chiagozieking: Thank you Sir. That is the way forward. 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:45am On Jan 11, 2022 |
luminouz:Hahaha,lumi... you no go kill person with laugh 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Meedon: 10:48am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Lol who even collect money from parent to take buy data, snap and post pictures online. Na small pikin the do that kind thing na. Emotionss: 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by swarley75(m): 11:13am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Emotionss:Bro some fathers are deadbeat, very irresponsible and have this entitlement mentality. I have seen quite a few. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 11:14am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Polynek:bro I nor wan reply am, come be like I'm feeling emotional abt the post but in my family our dad was our favorite ND we only see him once in a week meh dat man is a giver ND he's too nice ND my mom didn't talk any bad on him Na me Dy give wahala for hux always fighting with my sisters ND at school too, I hate mk female insult me, dats the reason I don't joke wit female again now as I'm a adult to avoid t 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Calibrator: 11:15am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Unless you have built up your hustle to a point where it's become an automated money making venture, the time spent on gaming women with Redpill techniques is inversely proportional to the time you will have left to pursue self development preached by the same Redpill doctrine. Choose your poison wisely! 31 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 11:16am On Jan 11, 2022 |
As an aspiring patriarch, one of the hardest truths you can swallow is the fact that your children will never understand or fully appreciate your sacrifices as a father. Surely an ungrateful mother will make matters worse but even in the normal family construct. Your children will spend most of their time with their mother and who they see the most is who they will relate to. You have to accept that you will never be given enough credit and not only will the family setting make sure of that, the society will also play its role. If you haven't noticed anything, the polarity between the fathers and mothers day celebrations is enough for you to open your eyes. Deadbeat fathers are talked about all the time and when you mention the fathers who are playing their part in their child's life. Society responds like it's something that should be expected, it's normal, nothing special. I bet there are some who would doubt the existence of deadbeat mothers. I don't blame them, it's rarely a topic for discussion, especially in mainstream media. Women who give birth and take care of their offsprings are heavenly. It feels like they are going out of their way to do something special. I don't know if the normal line of action would be to abort the baby. Maybe they were expecting her to abort but she proved herself to be an exceptional woman by becoming a mother. Your children will see this portrayal on TV, school, the society at large. And when they come back home it's as though daddy's job is just to leave money on the table. He doesn't really care about your well being, mother is the one who really nutures you, mother is the one who will be around if they need someone to confide in, it's mothers delicious food they will enjoy, etc. How will they understand that father cannot tick all the boxes simultaneously. If not for adult hood and the red pill, most of us were like these children we are describing. It is something that is waiting for every man, you just have to accept it. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by swarley75(m): 11:30am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Yesterday night was hanging out with my girl, A number called her and she didn't pick up immediately a WhatsApp message entered, asked her who it was said it was her friend, when I queried her she said it a guy disturbing her that the guy has been disturbing her for over six month for marriage and me, I am not serious with her, i am not committed, I joke with everything and she feels I am just using her just for sex alone. The funny thing she said was that she is giving till October to come and do introduction and meet her family or else she will consider the guy, I just told her point-blank that she should choose the other guy that i can never be an option to any girl, she was shocked. She has called me 5 times today just to apologise for what she said yesterday night. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 11:33am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Man2Man talk TEAM or TEAR Time Energy Attention Money / Resources The above is our power as men. For those of us that are family oriented, you must learn from the mistakes a lot of our fathers made that cost them dearly. A major lesson is when it comes to family, relationship/love cannot be monetized. Too many of our fathers invested heavily financially in the children believing that will naturally speak for them when the time comes. Unfortunately it doesn't work that way. Majority of men only grow up to learn about the sacrifices their fathers made for them after dutiful scrutiny that comes with maturity and coming into spheres of life earlier walked by the men before us. Never for the life of you miss out on the opportunity to bond with your children. You will pay a colossal price for this in future irrespective of how much you invested financially into them. Money & Resources can NEVER substitute for Time & Attention. Never. From age 2 to age 15 years is extremely crucial in the life of a child. Miss it and miss out. Investments down the drain. Never marry a woman that is not ready to move with you should this be required in your corporate career trajectory for example. I personally know women who should be top level managers in big private sector organizations but sacrificed it just for the sake of family at the instance of their husbands (I speak of close family friends). They may be nowhere near their colleagues now in the corporate world but the family bond they have created is heartwarming. The most wonderful children all across the diaspora and reunions in Ibadan are a joy to behold. Yes I speak of my nuclear family as well. This is what time permits for now. Men lead. 13 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Meedon: 11:45am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Keep them coming Sir. Calibrator: 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 12:07pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Herbsworks:One should forgive to let go of resentment (as resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die) but that doesn't necessarily mean one should 'forget'. Forgive some people in your mind but not openly (to their face) because some people take 'open' forgiveness as a permit to eventually continue the nonsense that they do, but just forgive in your mind and keep some distance then watch how the person behaves themselves. Dare I say, that "forgive and forget" thing is often toxic. Yes, I understand what the phrase means, and I also understand that behaviours are psychological patterns and one thing I know about patterns is that they repeat themselves. That phrase not only inhibits situational or behavioural awareness but is also the glue that holds most toxic relationships together. One can make the argument that a component of trust is allowing someone else the ability to harm you with the expectation that they'll never use that ability. If you know that somebody is definitely going to harm you then giving them that power is not trust. It's recklessness." - Dr. Grande 9 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 12:17pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
swarley75: I'm proud of you. It's obvious she doesn't genuinely love you. She is only after getting the "Mrs" title. If I were you, that will be the end of my relationship with her. 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by liveyourlife007(m): 12:19pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Herbsworks:forced to love kwa 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Chiagozieking: 12:27pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
To me, women are just like money; neither can be truly yours, but serves different purpose,most of us must have lost a great deal of money in the past,many we tried to keep but still we lost them, so just as you go out there to make more money,make more women as well... 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by hebenz(m): 12:28pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
It's already happening.i just saved this on a girl's status . 5 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 12:48pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Ketapu:Not so quick hommie. She was shittesting my nigga and he passed in flying colours. That was why she was apologizing. No need to break off the relationship based on what she has said right there. 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by foreman: 12:51pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
ubunja: I experienced this before, happens to be at a time I just started being aware of women nature. One of the reasons that got me convinced about the TRP. This beautiful young lady was brought to the bus terminal (on a long journey) by her husband and they were doing all these lovey-dovey thingy at the park. In my mind, I was like this is a young couple still much in love. I was seated at the back right beside the lady 2 seater at the back Sienna. Journey started we didn't even greet and for a long while we didn't even talk. Then in my usual way, I brought out my regular hot drink and drank myself to sleep. I woke up to a commotion about vehicle fault and it was already nearly dark. After repairs was not successful, it became imperative that people found where to sleep. But then when I woke up, this lady beside me started forming niceness to me. She just started gisting like we were pals before I slept off. Other passengers were discussing to eat at a fast food joint, I told her I wanted local swallow then she was like I want that too. We eat from there I deliberately looked for hotel, we went together. I booked, she didn't. Long story short, we slept in the same room. The husband called throughout the night and they continued their lovey-dovey on the phone while I was messing around. it felt so good. I thought about what changed, then I realized it must have been my erec-tion while I was asleep (I experience that when drunk and about to wake up from sleep). @Ubunja I always wondered where you got these things, is it like you experienced all of these (because there are too many you spoke about) , you read about them or meditation? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 1:05pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
SOZINN: Gbam!! You said it all. 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Polynek(m): 1:36pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
DieRich5:Thank you for commenting u don try 2 Likes |
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