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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Polynek(m): 1:38pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Kaymicheal852:Atleast u accepted that there is exception 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 1:47pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Etinosa1234: I'm suspecting you are afraid of getting rejected by the lady. It's okay. Many of us have been there. The first thing you must learn if you want to be wooing ladies is to embrace rejections from ladies. Trust me, based on my experiences, many of them will reject you or PRETEND TO REJECT YOU. Either way, accept the rejections and move on to another lady. This is how I cold-approach ladies. Step 1: Identify the lady you want. For this, I will go out, usually at night, and walk about where I can see ladies. Then, I will look out for one that is very attractive. Once I see her, I will follow her and walk to her side. Step 2: Start a conversation with her[. I must say, this is the toughest part, just like you asked. I still do chicken out many times and just walk past the lady without saying a word to her. However, I'm fastly overcoming that. Once I'm by her side, my opening conversation usually go thus: Me: Hello sister. Good evening. I must say, you look so hot (or sexy or pretty). My name is... I would like to know you if you don't mind. Another one I do use is to compliment something about her. For example, I can say: Waoooh! I really like this your hairstyle. It looks pretty on you. My name is... I would like to know you if you don't mind. Once you say this, carefully study her reactions or response. This is very important. From my experiences so far, there are four likely outcomes as follow: 1. Outright rejectors: These ladies will tell you immediately that they are not interested in knowing you. For this type of lady, it's a waste of time to continue to pursue them. I usually just leave them alone and turn back. Sometimes before I leave them, I ask them "why naaaoo? Don't do this to me". They may give you an excuse or go completely silent without responding to you. Just leave them alone and move on to another lady. Please, don't feel bad about such encounters. I hardly remember them anyway. 2. Time-wasting rejectors: This type of lady will respond well. In fact, some of them will thank you for the compliment. Once they respond positively like that, tell them your name and ask if they live around the area or they are just passing by. The lady will usually respond well. You can tell them you are just passing by. Once you tell them this, tell them you want to know them more by talking with them later. This is where the lady will reject you. They will tell you that they are not interested in knowing you more. For these ladies, don't be annoyed. Just accept she's a time waster and move on with your life. 3. Pretending acceptors: These type of ladies will respond well to you just like the time wasting rejectors above. However, they will also give you their contact such as phone number. You will feel happy that she gave you her number. However, when you call her or message her later, SHE WILL NEVER RESPOND. SHE WON'T PICK YOUR CALL OR REPLY YOU MESSAGE. I HATE THIS TYPE OF LADIES WITH PASSION. IF YOU MEET THEM, JUST DELETE/BLOCK THE NUMBER AND MOVE ON. Don't disrespect yourself by begging them to pick your call or reply your messages. 4. Genuine acceptors: These type of ladies will respond well to all your advances. They will give you their number and will be ready to meet you again. They will pick your calls and reply your messages. However, this type of lady are very small in number. Most of the ladies you will meet will be one of the first three types or a mixture of the characteristics of the first 3 types. I learned about all these ladies from my personal experience cold-approaching and wooing ladies. I've met all type of ladies in the last one year. In fact, last night, I wooed 3 ladies and all of them were outright-rejectors. Two nights earlier, I wooed one lady and she was very receptive and even picked my call later. We talked and her laughter during our call made me think she might be interested in knowing me more. We'll meet again later this week. I will escalate then. So, bro, just go out and explore the ladies around you. DON'T BE AFRAID OF GETTING REJECTED. IT'S PART OF THE GAME. FOR THAT YOUR CHURCH GIRL, WHEN NEXT YOU SEE HER IN CHURCH, JUST WALK UP TO HER AND TELL HER SHE'S PRETTY AND YOU WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HER MORE. IF SHE RESPONDS WELL, ALL GOOD. IF SHE'S NOT INTERESTED, START IGNORING HER. IF SHE'S ACTUALLY PRETENDING TO NOT BE INTERESTED, YOU WILL NOTICE THAT SHE WILL START TRYING TO GET YOUR ATTENTION WHEN YOU START IGNORING HER. Ladies hate when a guy they like ignore them. It drives them crazy and they will do anything to get your attention. If she's genuinely not interested, she will not make any attempt to get your attention. Just forget she exist and move on to another lady. Final word of advice: your dressing matters a lot when you want to start cold-approaching ladies. When I first started approaching random ladies, I made a mistake of dressing just anyhow. Over time, I realized ladies judge guys a lot by the cloth you wear and your footwears. So, dress well as often as you can. Also, brush your mouth too to avoid bad breath (chew nice-scented gum if you can). Have a nice haircut. All these matter if you want to be successful approaching many ladies. All the best 30 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 1:51pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
luminouz: Hmmmnnn! That's another way to look at it. He then should be ready for more shit tests. However, he should be aware of the type of woman he's dating. That shit test reveals her intention. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 2:45pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Etinosa1234:By the time you master this art you will find cold-approaching ladies more addictive than sex itself. I kid you not. Too many factors come into play, so much that this deserves a thread of its own. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 3:23pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Akan:Funny right? Plenty guys in this dilemma. 10 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by KennethIbe59(m): 3:23pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Chiagozieking: 3:31pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Even as we speak, time hatefully runs a mile, be stingy with it,we don't often get too much, 12 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 3:53pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
See me see this sheediot. Werey wan jump queue. 17 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by AyoII(m): 4:05pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Female manipulation. Part 1. As it happens, and it would be hard for you to argue with me, but in our society our traditional upbringing teaches men to pursue women, to run after them. A story about knights and princesses, where only the part about knights remains relevant. Girls, from childhood, understand that boys can be manipulated and get all the benefits of this world. Hence the problems of adulthood. She makes herself unavailable. The first one does not write, you have to achieve. Often these girls are empty inside, but their inaccessibility, like a challenge, increases her importance and the guy does not realize that he reaches for the empty. In this variant of manipulation, the expense on the part of the guy increases, and this, increases the importance of the girl. The guy wants to prove that he is worthy of her and begins to shower her with gifts. The girl, miss inaccessibility, does not give any definite answers and therefore allows herself to communicate with other guys and accept their advances. A circle around her turns out. Everyone who agrees to take part in it, knowingly agrees to a weak position, that is, admits to being weak-willed and low-grade. How do you protect yourself from this manipulation? Run away. Such girls are fine with everything. There are plenty of guys in their lives who woo them, pay for them. If you respect your time, run. Girls who play hard to get, even if you get them, won't bring anything new into your life. They won't support you, they won't give you as much love as you can get from someone who was raised right. You can't reeducate her. She will change on her own, but it takes time. You're not ready to waste it. End of part one. 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 4:19pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Guys I go Dy believe all those news I Dy hear abt married women now Something just happened in my location now: Man ND wife get issue for hux, the woman comot for man hux for 3 months ND leta come back with 3 months belle now she tell the man say na him get am so the man come talk say no be him get am so the woman go do abortion ND come tell her friend now her friend come go tell her husband from the man mouth he say anytime Dem get issue for hux he nor Dy sex the woman ND he was only testing the woman cus he knows his wife Sabi open mouth wide Dy shout anyhow but now she didn't talk back at him just comot go do the abortion with her money ND the man just believe 100% cus his wife will never use her own money do something for hux b4. from the street people mouth all of us believe the woman sex another person cus her life style is too wild ND the kind things she Dy talk for mouth ND she too like money her game after the abortion she go tell the man say she just testing am ND she didn't get belle anything Dem talk for dis thread na fact ooo someone here talk about married women don't like using CD again Dem like it skin to skin she ND her friend don Dy fight for street, my issue now why her friend tell her husband? 10 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 4:45pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Ketapu: You spit facts but when you come to think of it and knowing fully well the majority of girls we have lately, the slay queens and the overly hypergamous girls and after knowing about the female nature, you can’t help but be a little cold to these girls and value your time more, you’re bound to be rejected more than accepted just like you said, isn’t that so stressful, I personally feel throwing our attentions and cold approaching these broads don’t worth the stress and sometimes plain ridiculous, these females just sit there and reject guys at will knowing fully well more guys will come for them. Same girl you trying to get is mostly likely a low value or materialistic or even a pompous one, so many red flags about these modern girls and it’s starting to seem like we’re giving them too much than they actually deserve, I don’t know if the redpill has done that to me but I don’t tolerate bullshits from these girls anymore, I’ve been seeing a lot of them but I only ignore them to avoid disrespect or rejection that isn’t suppose to happen in the first place. I realized when you focus on your goal, dress well, workout/ hit the gym, take good care of yourself, some of the females tend to show green light or utterly approach without you stressing yourself. I’m not being boastful but I get green light or get approached by a girl or two most times I go out, eventho some of them may actually not be my spec.. At this point, I can not cold approach just any girl, (I only do on rare occasions depending on the girl’s composure), I watch out for them very well before I make such move, we have a lot of uncouth, prideful, rude, and low value girls walking the street nowadays. There is a time you tell yourself enough is enough with some of these girls. However anyone should do anything that works for them. Peace. 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 5:09pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
heartofcity12: Everyone has their aim. For me, approaching ladies have taught me a lot about women. Learning about women without actually dealing with them in real life is like reading books on how to drive a car but you never actually sit down in a car to test what you have learned. My fear of approaching ladies have decreased since I started wooing them. Also, I kind of find it quite faulty when a guy focus only on his goals and ignore other parts of life like dealing with women. Indeed, when you later become successful, many of them will come to you. After all, most of them are after ready-made men. Sadly, most of those ladies will be gold-diggers. However, if you have dealt with many ladies, when you become successful, you will be able to identify gold diggers at a glance. I once read somewhere that the guys that find it most difficult to find ladies that have genuine interest in them are guys that are already successful in their career. Those guys can't really tell if those ladies genuinely like them or they are after their resources. We read about such ladies every time. If you check the history of the guy I replied, you will notice that he is a software developer. That is the kind of guy that can later become very successful. Despite his promising future, he still has a problem with approaching ladies. That was the primary reason I decided to reply him. As for me, I will continue to approach more ladies and also continue to build my career. I've never had trouble balancing the two. Red pill has equipped me with how to screen and identify troublesome ladies. I've never hesitated to cut them off my life. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 5:09pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
foreman:Someone has said women are unpredictable,, and it's true. Women think with their feelings and because feelings change randomly so women are random, that is unpredictable, chaotic. That's the core of femininity: unpredictability. But if you stop and look at the chaos long enough, if you give yourself time, you start to see patterns emerge. As unpredictable as women are, the more you deal with them, the more you understand them either by personal experience or reading or watching films, then the more you pick up a rhythm and a routine to them that lets you anticipate their moves within reasonable accuracy. You get to a point where your intuition and gut feeling starts filling the gaps of knowledge for you. Such that situations you haven't encountered before, you can reliably predict how they'll go down. Myself when I write, sometimes this is what is happening. I haven't experienced it but I can accurately tell you how it plays out. This is with the understanding that here and there you have to adjust what I say for cultural differences. 26 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 5:14pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Ketapu: Also your style is cool but I personally won’t call a girl I’m just meeting ‘sister’ and I never compliment them to be ‘pretty sexy or beautiful’, I feel that’s too much validation, that alone get to their heads a lot.. Treat her like a celebrity and she treats you like a fan, she has to earn a compliment if she wants it. When I’m meeting a girl, I’ll rather talk about a random thing instead of complimenting her, I’ll be like Me: Hello, I’m new in this area, do you know the guest house around here? Her: No I don’t or Yes it’s around there Me: Alright, thank you for your time, I’m heartofcity, would be good to know u. What’s your name blah blah, let’s talk some other time, let me have your number.. if she declines, her wahala.. She’s not getting my compliment for free. It all depends on the mood, sometimes I make it all about her by asking if she stays or work around.. or her academics and we chit chat, I collect number but I’m never complimenting her.. A girl I got lately still had to ask me if I was truly trying to get the location of the library which I asked her as a startup conversation or it was just a punchline, I only smiled and continued to kiss her.. We were both cuddling when she asked lol, she was so curious because I didn’t compliment her like she’s certainly used to, I’ve never told her she’s cute or beautiful till date eventho she is.. However to each with his own, everyone should do what works for them, that’s just my own style. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 5:19pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Ketapu: Alright. Everyone should do what works for them. 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 5:22pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Herbsworks:I remember in my long talk with JESHAL when I wrote about how most men lose frame in monogamous marriages. I talked about how, for most, leverage changes as the committed union progresses and how leverages are important; I made it known that leverages are important, whether you accept it or not. I also talked about how compromises start and gradually erode and weaken the frame of most men, that's if they had one to begin with. I won't explain much since people that are interested will read the long talk again. Unfortunately, I didn't finish the long talk; there are many things I didn't discuss. To avoid these traps, see if you can maintain the leverage situation in your favour in any given possible and future situation and don't compromise the standards you have set earlier like a defeated dog because you want peace to reign. Don't fall for bait and switch techniques. Many men are guilty of this because the easy way out seems better: they'll bow instead of risking chaos, abiding dispute or, even worse, separation because they don’t what their kids growing up in such environments and they never envisioned a broken home (it was never part of the plan), so they can't easily nurse the thought of dissolving the marriage. The peace from compromise is temporary and not worth it: more śhit testing will come, more compromises will follow (it is gradual) and you will eventually lose your frame and alpha position. Don't underestimate how women play games and the repertoires in their play book; have foresight and prepare for possible future situation so you are not taken unawares. If not, you will be taken unawares. I know some people will think they are tough, no-nonsense guys and they have everything under control and they will simply resolve everything by simply expressing disapproval in utmost solemnity. Lol. One thing about marriage is that all men can easily talk tough before marriage (especially when kids are involved). ============= (PIC 1): He is too weak to raise hell in his house and I know what is happening here. Most men fall for this textbook trick. If you notice that the wife you are providing for is withholding sex from you and on inquiry she says the housework is too much, hence leaving her tired and stressed out at night and she suggests you help out in the chores to lessen the burden so that she can have energy and time for sex, just know that this is a deliberate manipulation. She knows what she is doing. If you fall for this, just know she has successfully weaponized sex to achieve her aim. Funny enough, the sex you are hoping to have by obliging her request will not come; even if it does, it will be mediocre and subpar. If care is not taken, she will say you need to do more house chores. There are many ways sex is weaponized, but I will not explain. Also, if you notice your wife is dishing out sex as a reward for good behaviour, just know that you are being manipulated. (PIC 2): This one has already fallen. He is already compromising for peace to reign. His firsthand experience has showed him not to underestimate how women play games and the many repertoires in their play book. Unfortunately, he is in a position I am warning people against. Don't think you have it figured out before marriage and you will just take no nonsense; do your due diligence, take the red pill and think ahead. Talk is cheap before marriage, many things will hit most men by surprise if care is not taken. If things keep hitting you by surprise, you will likely fall because you are not prepared. 16 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 6:22pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
You can’t make this sh* up 20 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:22pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
temi4fash: Herbsworks: temi4fash: Unfortunately, there is no way he can get the money back without being willing to compromise the marriage, or the peace at least. The wife won't give back the money even if she has it; I doubt she even has the means to. The least he can do is cleverly use this opportunity to cut off the in-laws from his house: he can insist that his in-laws are barred from ever visiting or stepping into his compound until they and his wife give back the money at the same time. In addition, he can insist that he shall no longer send money to his in-laws forever even if they refund the money in tenfold because of what has happened. Finally, he can cleverly use this event to justify why he will never open any business for his wife and why he will rigorously monitor how his wife spends money, how things are used and how he will limit the monthly cash he gives his wife. He might not have hopes of getting the money back, and the in-laws and his wife probably won't give it back, but his has cut their presence from his house and he no longer feels obligated to send money to them: it is better since they are conniving with his wife in her every bad behaviour and they are not worthy of any cash from him. They are bad energy. He can threaten to arrest them if them step into his house and easily walk the talk. When people ask him what happened and why he is acting like that, he can use the dubious collusion of his wife and in-laws (eg. the failure of his wife's parents to call her to order instead of conniving with her), his wife's attitude, and the 2M betrayal. His wife will fight against this and try to rebel, trust women. She will try to use all the tricks in her play book and many possible loopholes, but it left for him to think ahead and anticipate. Personally, instead of going through this stress, divorce is better because if things get really heated she might harm him in reprisal; women hardly take their Ls in peace. Such a silly and inadequate wife is not one to keep around anyway. Cc Hedgefunds 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:34pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
heartofcity12:Red pill 101. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 6:36pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Calibrator: How can one leave his comfort zone? 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luvyaself95(m): 7:00pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Carchoice:Initially it seem you get stupidity but eventually it's ability to speak with do much sense 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luvyaself95(m): 7:08pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Mentholated:i know that we live in a cold world. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luvyaself95(m): 7:55pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
ubunja:Bossman i want you to add me too 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Chiagozieking: 8:11pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luvyaself95(m): 8:12pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Peaceyw: The funniest story i ever come across this year 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luvyaself95(m): 8:16pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Emotionss:Alpha male can too drag and we sigma Male doesn't give a fvck about them. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:21pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
The first defence against disrespect is self-respect. 33 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 8:24pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Martinez39s: Fact 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Chiagozieking: 9:06pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
They only want simps for their attention 8 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Junnior: 9:25pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Tonnyray:Oya na. Open a thread. We dey your back. 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JoshuaVibes: 9:36pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
ubunja:TAKEN BOSS. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by cyrusmillz: 9:39pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
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