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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ayindejimmy(m): 11:06am On Jan 12, 2022 |
. safarigirl: Not when we both own the biro. This is marriage not dating. Two has become one. Refusal of sex ( for no just reason) by any of the partners is negligence of conjugal duty. Some men when they're sex starved they portray /develop animalistic instincts. Me, I just leave you and move to plan B. I'm not defending the man's violent reaction but don't come here and say the wife is not wrong. She boxed the husband into a tight corner and he reacted differently. They're both victims 11 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Killermamba: 11:06am On Jan 12, 2022 |
[quote author=Christinaog post=109267015] Men are scum [/quote One Yoruba demon don break this one heart. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Help2020: 11:06am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9:You did bad for rapping her but she should share from the blame,why acting as if she was not the cause? Sorry to speak about your wife like that,but looks like she wants to destroy her marriage by herself. Many woman are crying for sex from the husband, husband non dey mind because of side chick. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:07am On Jan 12, 2022 |
ibechris:Because women don't hustle to make money and women don't also keep the family together. Common talk another thing 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Cantonese: 11:07am On Jan 12, 2022 |
AlphaAlex: Marry first make you know the how far. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by advanceDNA: 11:07am On Jan 12, 2022 |
obinoral1179: It’s not a new thing, Women deny men sex for no reason.. they will just say “I’m not in the mood” |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Awise09(m): 11:07am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9:Please Mr, bro. To be sincere am a married man, see your wife deserved what she got because she push you into that bro, Sir you have beg her what else does she want she should take it anywhere she did bad, please free her I beg 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 11:07am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9:who is this one sef, if your story is even true, how can you come on a public forum and tell us "your wife"refused you sex most cases 3months and you are still under thesame roof with such woman? Is this new form of lies in 2022? We need to ear from the woman side of the story, anyone can not just come here and lie thinking we're fool |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:08am On Jan 12, 2022 |
cococandy: I was looking forward to your comment, glad you commented here I also puked too, why on earth is the wife still with him? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ImoleNaija: 11:08am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Eatfucksleep: Eat, Bleep, Sleep. Truly, you can't survive without any . 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Zaheertyler(m): 11:08am On Jan 12, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky:Try this you are a mad man |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:09am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Awise09: She deserves to be raped? Are you guys normal? 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by baby124: 11:09am On Jan 12, 2022 |
I want to marry good girl, I want to marry good girl. But your sexual appetite is like a raving beast. While Aunty is pretending to be the good wife you married until her death. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nobody: 11:09am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Christinaog:men are not scum Ma your father is a man your boyfriend and the several Men you play with are not scum stop acting like you don’t have sense . |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Deicide: 11:09am On Jan 12, 2022 |
You have committed a great offence and she would never forgive you till she die. Best thing you can do now is to just divorce her cause you life is not safe now anything can happen. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by AROMA1975: 11:09am On Jan 12, 2022 |
My brother, obviously there's a crack on the wall of your marriage which devil took advantage of becos he saw something great coming your way. Pls fix this crack so it will not become cracks with time. Keep the apology flowing, repent genuinely, with time you'll have ur wife back by God's grace. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by MPESA(m): 11:09am On Jan 12, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky: I don't support abuse of any kind but let's not be sentimental here.... Beating and Forcing his way to his legal wife is not actually heavy to compare other RAPE and BTW it's an ABUSE not RAPE , there's no law that back that up at least not Nigeria. In as much I totally condemned his actions.... And secondly here is exact statement of the OP.... Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it...... Certainly there was underlining issue already or how can you explain how a wife will refuse her husband sex for a period of a month or so without tangible reason such as health related or religious beliefs at least let her husband understand what's going on or see a reason to let her be for those period of time. All the same I still condem the both actions of the man and that of his wife too.. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Zaheertyler(m): 11:09am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Jamesbiodun:She is |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by mixta140: 11:10am On Jan 12, 2022 |
ImaIma1:They both were never right ... call a spade a spade... she started it first... both are wrong 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Thegoodone13(m): 11:10am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Actually, beating her is wrong. You suppose talk to her first by ask her why she use to denied you sex and if she refused to change, report her to her parents and if she refused to change after that, send her to her parents. Sex is one of reason man married. If you refused to take that bold step, it will be get worst everyday. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:10am On Jan 12, 2022 |
safarigirl: The average naira land male is a big disappointment. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Wiifesnatcher(m): 11:11am On Jan 12, 2022 |
you both should see a counsellor and stop asking for nonsense forgiveness, you both have fault asking her for forgiveness will only put more power in her hands, she's wrong to denied you sex, even if she's nursing emotional trauma, fatigue or health issues, she's expected to discuss it with you. going on a month denial of sex, she's going on 6months with you better try and see a counsellor to counsel you or talk to someone she respected to iron things out, you will always be angered when she denied you sex, it make a man look inferior when a lady decide what not and what to do though I'm against physical assault but forceful of sex you both should apologise to each other and not only you seek forgiveness |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by oyichi: 11:11am On Jan 12, 2022 |
You be fool, leave am go find person wey fine Pass am, them full dey troway for town, na she go come beg, hmmm, u sure say she no dey do outside game? |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ibechris(m): 11:12am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Cantonese: U can as well visit their house to make peace. I only commented based on what I read and gave my point,but if u think u are the best adviser,nothing stops u from doing the needful. Since u are stupid not to mind the kind of words to use. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by nnamdi640: 11:12am On Jan 12, 2022 |
You have made that mistake and thank God you admitted that you are wrong. I feel like this your story is not yet complete, your wife can't just denialed you of sex like that, something must have happened that you never took time to observed or you are not telling us. Above all, she is wrong to use that as a way to get back at you. Just plead with her and let her know the consequences of her behavior towards you. Next time, try to do some findings. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Legendoo: 11:12am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Fake stupid story. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nobody: 11:12am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Cantonese:Baba if and when I Marry my wife will know I am going to have a few side pieces on the side , Heck she will even know their Names I don’t have time to start begging a woman I married in my home for sex. I will never do it I only ask once and if she says she’s not in the mood I will locate one of my side pieces and have sex then come back home to my wife... It’s because men are scared of Telling women the truth that’s why they fall into situations like this .. I’m not scared of losing any woman, the woman I will eventually marry will know this and she’ll go along with it if she want to keep me. It’s that simple Life no hard na man Dey make him life hard by himself |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by sircomputer(m): 11:12am On Jan 12, 2022 |
If a woman started denying her husband sex, meaning two things. 1. probably she's no longer enjoying her husband sexually. 2. Having extramarital affairs. Your action towards her is justified since you have no alternative. But for the situation not to go out of hand, u have to invite your pastor or anyone whom you think she's respected. But next time, before taking action , call her attention both day and midnight to know the genesis of the cause. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nemesis08(m): 11:13am On Jan 12, 2022 |
I'm sorry I don't believe there's marital rape. But slapping her wasn't the best. I will advice you to stop giving her attention hang out with guys come back late at night, some times bring your side chick home and you will see her brain being reset to normal 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Zaheertyler(m): 11:13am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9:She is angry at something Or cheating on you Don’t apologize twice Na man you be You feel bad about it talk to God and no outsider or your gist go fly and e go affect you I repeat no let the matter cross your door step You apologized already .. time will heal a whole lot If she no give you your right next time go collect your blow outside When she ready she go talk wetin Dey worry am One love 5 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by mrksquare: 11:13am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9: Bros, you no be guy man oh. You for get a side chic now. And other back up chic. Dey dey do your thing with your side chic. Na madam for even dey beg you to do when she knows you don't have her time. My wife knows she can't deny me sex. Ijaw man like me. Fine boy like me. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Originalsly: 11:14am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Fine... you admit you were wrong etc. Did you try getting to the root of the problem?..... why she is denying you? .... when did she start denying/rationing? .... is it from after childbirth? ... did you sit her down to find out why? ... do you spend almost all of home time doting on your pretty little daughter while having your wife wayyyy out the picture like the maid? .... except for when you want to have sex? ... women thrive on attention ... you deny her enough attention she'll deny you enough sex. Are you giving her attention as you did before the coming of the pretty one? You don't... she will get it from elsewhere. You need to get to the root of the problem .... even if it's getting it from that person who is closest to her. It will not be easy since you brutalized her .... who will want to bell the cat? ... to talk to the beast? Take some time to chill..... the mouth you broke is the mouth needed to talk .... that takes time to heal.... her mind even longer. It will be a while before she can forgive you .... if she is the forgiving type. If she is the hold grudge type... I wasted my time writing this epistle. 1 Like |
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