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CAC Pastor Confessed His Actions With Teenager After Several Beating / I Regretted Trusting Him In The First Place / I've Regretted My Actions. Please Forgive Me. (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by MartinsD12(m): 11:29am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9:Too bad but why would she not perform her marital obligation to you , it's very bad and you doing what you did is wrong also , both of you are wrong but her action triggered your reaction, maybe she is nursing a grudge against try to find out out why discuss with her , fix things up try to find out where the problem is coming from and make amends |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by jaxxy(m): 11:29am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Amarisco: Everybody talking down on the man like he is a potential psychopath without calling out the stupid wife. How dare a woman treat her loving and caring husband the way this woman treated him? Month after months this man was subject to sexual deprivation and Torture by a selfish and uncaring wife and at some point he lost it. It wasn’t the 1st she rejected him he did this it was over a long period of toture and frustration with no explanation in sight. Should he have done this No! He should have looked for a better way to address the wrong behavior of his erring wife. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ikem11(m): 11:29am On Jan 12, 2022 |
ayindejimmy: Honestly I hate people like you who think foolishly. What do you own? You own her body? because you married her so she doesn't have her free will anymore? Even God that created men couldn't even take free will away from us and here you are talking like an idiot. Delete that your mentality cos your eyes will open when you in jail. Op is very lucky the kind woman he married and the shithole of a country he is in. That's only thing saving him right now 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nehyooh(m): 11:30am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Christinaog:I'm excluded o |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by sunday1989(m): 11:31am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Women are scum. How does that sounds? Don't generalize this, please. Christinaog: |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Owen247: 11:31am On Jan 12, 2022 |
ibechris:Gbam,u nailed it. Both are at fault. imagin the husband cheated? assuming she is pleased by a man outside? Both parties should try and resolve dis issue b4 it spirals out of control. i just hope she doesnt have this too much of an ITS UR FAULT Attiude[ i didnt include him becoz he is already remorseful] 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Crystasluvee(m): 11:32am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Christinaog: If all men are scum, remember you have a father and brother |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by JBRichard(m): 11:32am On Jan 12, 2022 |
descarado:So I suspected o... |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by creepsyme(f): 11:32am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9:Why does it bother you that much? Is she suppose to deny you sex in the first place? The more remorse you show the more culpable you will feel and the more vindictive she will feel. Escalate it and you will be shocked how the chunk of blame will be on her. Stop brooding and move forward. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Midas01: 11:32am On Jan 12, 2022 |
As long as you've apologized properly and are truly remorseful about it then that's okay because at the end of the day you cannot kill yourself. Noah9: |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by businessclique: 11:33am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Christinaog:Ya fada na scum 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cliqtips: 11:33am On Jan 12, 2022 |
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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by folks4luv(f): 11:34am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Wait, you slapped her, she was bleeding and you went on with the rape even with the sight of blood? What kinda animal are you? Anyways, you should not wait till people notice. You need to open up to someone your wife respect, that can talk to her. Explain to the person and let the person talk to your wife. It will be easier to deal with if your wife can open up to someone. A neutral party that is not a family will be better. I wish you all the best. 3 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Pauladex(m): 11:34am On Jan 12, 2022 |
I don't really understand why men care too much about sex. I used to tell my wife , if she want to deny me sex, she should be prepared to beg for resumption. 3 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Uzomacharles: 11:35am On Jan 12, 2022 |
cococandy: most foolish advice I've seen so far... Very bad from u 4 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by adisabarber(m): 11:35am On Jan 12, 2022 |
yinkeys: Expert, say your own and leave me alone |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by jaxxy(m): 11:36am On Jan 12, 2022 |
i926: This is nice bt an extreme. I think men loose their conversation and toasting skills when they get married they forget wives are women who need to be handled in a certain way to get the best out of them or put them in the mood. Some women hate the mechanical and boring sex approach their husbands use day in day out like they have lost their damn minds. The fact u married a woman doesn’t mean everything is automatic for u. U must understand her and she understands u. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Bishopceo: 11:36am On Jan 12, 2022 |
You're very stupid for blaming the victim. Very very stupid. Millions of women are married to men who have abandoned their matrimonial beds, have they raped their husbands? You're very stupid for this nonsense you stated. (Quote) (Report) 3 Likes (Like) 1 Share (Share) Your entire family is stupid and useless at the same time why will you you insult me because i made my feelings known your entire generation must be a curse generations. Don't ever open your mouth to insult me again. 3 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by streetzdreamz(m): 11:37am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Humans keep complicating issues. You were both wrong with your actions, your wife was wrong for pulling away and witholding sex from you without a known reason. But your actions didnt sync with her offence, hitting her was bad and terrible enough, rape? It's not the momentary physical pain that is the issue, it's the lifelong psychological trauma. Seems a lot of men don't understand this and they see rape as just a momentary event, it's not. Maybe when we all understand what it does to women, maybe potential rapists who ain't hardened criminals would atleast think twice. A man who can control his thirst for alcohol, his greed for money, his drive for sex has control over virtually everything. @Op you have to sit her down, have a sober reflection of what happened, trash any pride left in you because you've broken her trust already, you gotta find a means to rebuild it. That's if your union can still be salvaged. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by emmatex2020: 11:37am On Jan 12, 2022 |
You don`t have to feel bad bro, it is your right and privilege. Why will she denied you sex? You are legally married to her and she is your wife not your sex mate, but she have no right to denied you access to your kingdom. What if you were a cheater like some of us here? Tell her sorry anyway. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by SarutobiEky(m): 11:38am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Christinaog:Sixteen and getting it. I'm happy for you. Is your Dad a scum too? |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by iInjureHerYansh: 11:42am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9:Apologize and tell her you're sorry. If she isn't okay leave her alone. You can't kill yourself if she isn't forgiving. Even God dey forgive if she's feeling too big just leave the house and go stay elsewhere till the day she calms down and call asking where you are. Better still you can stay at home and become a ghost too. Two can play who knows if you quit trying to show concern she might just crawl back in. Don't go begging a woman like your life depends on her no matter the magnitude of what you have done to her. She would only end up seeing you as weak and someone who can't do without her. And that's when manipulations are birthed |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by clydecarson(m): 11:43am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9: Bros I just hope your wife doesn’t charge you to court for doing this,I watched a Nigerian movie just yesterday the wife planned on taking her husband to court because he raped her and she bore him kids out of the rape…yes we can’t use movies in real life but the crime you committed could land you in jail for years |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Funkymode(m): 11:44am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Keep begging her, she'll reciprocate, never get tired yet I promise you, she'll come back to apologize to you for her actions towards, although you're for taken a decision to not pleasing, but have in mind, she's not a side chick, she's your wife, misunderstanding will die a natural death and you'll make up again but never you do that again |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by nrexzy: 11:44am On Jan 12, 2022 |
mixta140: Na so we see am |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Crafteck1: 11:44am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9: In all this, my problem is how will you say indomie and meatpie are bad meals |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Sureguytalk(m): 11:45am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Both of you are wrong but op mess up big time. Your own woman you marry, you bruise her still rape her. Just give her time to heal }sureguytalk |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Perfecttouchade: 11:45am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Can u see your Pastor/Imam to handle this and in the process seek for forgiveness from her , buy her gifts afterwards and make sure u find out what's really bothering her and be able to help her out...women has alot in Their head which disturbs their activities at home and to their husbands..it is well with ur home |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by anonym0us: 11:45am On Jan 12, 2022 |
She deny you sex, get a side chick and make sure you don't come back home for 3days her senses will come back. You did nothing wrong, she's your wife. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Britishpea: 11:46am On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9: Really!! You are the real example of a SIMP. Not sorry to say this. Your wife that you married by yourself is denying you sex unnecessarily and that’s not enough worry for you? And you still call her a decent?? After u angrily slapped her, forcefully have your way in her, you begged her endlessly, still she hasn’t taken forgiveness as what would make a woman to be virtuous and beautiful in and out like u called her? Digression: Did u find out why she was denying u sex? Oh do you think she would ever forgive u if she finds out you cheat on her even if she is the reason u cheated on her? I hope u know the kind of weapon sex in marriage holds? Bible says; for people who can’t abstain, they should get married! Your wife is far from the qualities u attributed to her but a pretender. U won’t know right now but you will find out in no distant future! See, women know exactly what they are doing. They know when they hurt you or are hurting you. Exception to all the above; women sometimes lack the urge for sex after having kids. Hers could be one of those cases of hormonal changes, if this is the case, u must seek her forgiveness in all means and make her happy as ever again. Tender apologies genuinely, but If otherwise, u need to withdraw those qualities you attributed to her with immediate alacrity! 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by sukkot: 11:46am On Jan 12, 2022 |
truthfully you are just a beast and your name describes you. noah is from noir which means BLACK. a man who cant control any of his urges is a beast man. an animal. at this point you need some kind of deliverance and intervention. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Amarisco(f): 11:46am On Jan 12, 2022 |
jaxxy: Not sure why you’re mentioning me with this bullshit. But seeing as you have, here’s what I have to say: You don’t use cutlass to kill fly. Whether the wife stupid o abi she no stupid o, the bottom line is pretty simple. Rape and domestic violence is never permissible. You don’t ‘call out’ victims. Focus on the point, all this character analysis/assassination is irrelevant. OP wasn’t talked down. He was not only asked to seek help so that he doesn’t lose self-control and commit another crime in blind rage, but also to support the healing of his home. |
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