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Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by obinoral1179(m): 4:41pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChiomaCa:Report him to his spiritual leader both in Nigeria and in Abroad but let me tell you the truth he has been doing this stuff before he got married to you,he is addicted to it.... Pray with him see your spiritual leader.. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Lindodo20: 4:42pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChiomaCa: Baby it's not about you, guyman just need to change tohtoh If you like fine like Kim Kardashian, that your husband go still fuçk outside. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by shantti(m): 4:42pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
greenie77: Even if they wedded in Nigeria instead of Canada? |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Luckyerobor(f): 4:43pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChiomaCa:The people that cheats in marriages are more than those that don’t. Majority of marriages are crying silently from these class of prostitutes. We can classify prostitute as those that stays in brothel but as long as you sex someone who is unmarried to you, you are a prostitute or a patron. I beg you madam don’t see your husband as a chronic cheat but just a phased weakness. With time as he keep growing older it will be dying off. I can vouch it’s not as if he desires to hurt you but a weakness. Kindly help him out with prayer and be His number one prostitute. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:43pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Ninisun:...And what happens to her separating already or moving out ASAP? What if he force her? |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Furcko: 4:43pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
pocohantas:Christianity and societal values in religion stops us from marrying 100wives we aren't in the age of the forefathers anymore and that's the problem 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Charmingpet: 4:44pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChiomaCa:with the little I know, can you just ignore what he does and face yourself and ur kid. Make urself happy, do ur responsibility as a wife because it will take the grace of God to change. Always put him in prayers. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Greenerie(f): 4:44pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
[you tell her,not to do Anal,he will still find other prostitutes to do Anal with.that man shouldn't be married in the first place.he could have been single and live his lIfe carrying hoes everywhere he is answerable to no one marriage is not for everybody. He doesn't love her.it has gotten to the point where she EVEN BEGS HIM FOR SEX! begging a man for sex? Men that are the ones that always initiate and bother you until you give it. quote author=KusherAbel post=109419201]This is deep. I won't advice you to file for divorce because apart from the nasty habit your husband seems like a upright and responsible man/father. I will suggest a heart to heart convo. Encourage him to bare it all, let him talk to you about this dark part of him like never before then you both should explore your sexual life more, and you should be willing to indulge some of his kinks like role play and try out things that will spice your bedroom life but no go do anal o abeg. Let him also understand you're willing to make the sacrifice and support him to see out this habit and nasty phase by doing the above because you love him and want the marriage to work and the part he WOULD NEED To work on as a responsible man and if he also wants the marriage to work is to seek therapy. Maybe undergo hypnosis therapy until the thought of prostitutes begin to repel him. Marriage is not easy. You see most of these ladies up there advising you to file for divorce don't know anything. They forget that Marriage is all about effort and hardwork. It's not a bed of roses but in the long run it will be worth it. Goodluck[/quote] |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Enugurangers: 4:44pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Most of the reply here as been hilarious with the exception of a few. At OP, send an anonymous message just like you did here to 9jaladyincanada on Instagram. On that forum, you would get sound advice from Nigerians in Canada unlike the many kids here who have never left their villages and just giving advice from a Nigerian mindset. Goodluck. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by emmeyen: 4:45pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
VEXT: Please keep quiet oga. She should act like prostitute and risk her health because of a mad man. Did you read where she talked about anal sex? Wetin dey worry men for head sef wey dey always make una feel say una fit make woman mad because of una foolishness. SMH. Act like a prostitute, yen yen yen. If he wanted a prostitute, he should have married one. 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Allisgud: 4:45pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
10. Men Like Variety This may sound quite sarcastic but some men love the variety in every thing they do. These set of men are quick to tell you that it would be abnormal to eat the same kind of soup every day of the year, so the best thing for them is to patronize commercial sex workers to get something different from what they get at home. When it comes to sex, a prostitute is willing to try anything and the sex style the madam at home abhors could be the one that gives the man the most pleasure. And if the prostitute can give it to him the way he wants, why not try her, he would always reason.my advice start watching porn in order to learn new skill |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Trendingbiz042: 4:46pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Amanee: So she should care more about what people would say than her peace of mind and happiness. Don’t ever live a life worrying about what people think about you. Live your life as it moves around you. I guess you’re still young and not well exposed to life to have made such comment. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by RodgersAkpafu: 4:46pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Nonexisting:And how do you know this |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by shantti(m): 4:46pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Laurene: Gbam!!!!! U've said it all. That's the ultimate solution. A man is usually attracted by what he sees. He chose all those prostitutes cos they are way sexier that his wife. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by emmeyen: 4:48pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
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Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Furcko: 4:49pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Estellie:all these chewing gum girls, you think bf is the same as husband.. you better Close your mouth than ruin someone's marraige especially when a child is involved |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by RodgersAkpafu: 4:49pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Some of the comments are disappointing |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by shantti(m): 4:50pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Richy4: It will move him, trust me. Moreover the benefit is for the both of them. She will enjoy being healthy and the man will enjoy making love to a woman with an awesome and banging body |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: Do you know her financial capability there? Her health should be paramount. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by RodgersAkpafu: 4:51pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Furcko:Will you give same advise to a man who his wife is cheating on him with another man who is a sexual deviant (like into BDSM stuff? ? Wouldn't divorcing her ruin the family ? |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by pocohantas(f): 4:52pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Furcko: Christianity didn’t stop you from Fornicating, lying and killing yourselves for rituals, but it stopped you from marrying extra wives?? 6 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Nobody: 4:53pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
bigman001: Can you type it when it involves your wife, girlfriend or fiancé? See Una mouth. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by shantti(m): 4:54pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
flokii: Thats why I always say that I pity the man that will marry her. A 2 day old toddler reasons better than her |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:54pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Ninisun:...So is better she stays with him and be denying him sex or like you said,use protection abi? Do you understand what it means by safety measures? If he forces her and have his way and still transfer her with STD what's her gain? They have agencies she can contact and those agencies know how to help and her daughter. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Furcko: 4:54pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Enugurangers:guy stfu so u think the olosho on Instagram will give better advice than well meaning Nigerians seems you've never even reached airport talkmore of abroad, 70% of Nigerian women in Canada will give her badadvice, especially the divorce option..This I know for sure |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Awoleesu(m): 4:56pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Dear OP, I'll not pretend I have a,direct answer to your problem. Much has been said in many comments here, and you have my sympathy. That said, I think your case isn't that bad! One, your husband, according to you is apologetic about his disdainful escapades - you should count yourself lucky he isn't arrogant about it! Two, I think this is a new habit he must have picked up over the period you were both apart. So, the situation is still fixable. I suggest you take a good time, probably when you guys must have had a pleasant day... Talk to him(not as a hard talk thing), try to find out what he cherishes about his harlots. Make him feel free and not tensed (you need to be by yourself not to betray any emotions). And when he talks about it, listen attentively with the intent to turn his points into your action plans! From your description of him, your husband is going through what most introverts go through - they are secretive about almost everything! So, you need to be strategic to bring his inside man out! Pls, don't regret marrying him, don't blame your self, just deal with this new unwanted habit he just developed before it becomes his lifestyle. Good luck! 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by BalogunIdowu(m): 4:57pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChiomaCa: Why can't you discuss this matters with your parents and or even his. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Furcko: 4:59pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
RodgersAkpafu:same advice can never work for the man either you accept it or not.. It is more shameful for an African woman to divorce her husband than vice versa You kids need to growup seriously |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: He should use protection oo, what's difficult about it until she files for divorce or move out. Why should she live carelessly with a man that sleeps so much around? |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Richy4(m): 4:59pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
shantti: I agree that it will benefit the woman... As for the man, a doubt it... It's just like a wife buying a drunkard husband bottles of beer for him to stay at home and drink instead of going out disgracing the family... For how long do u think she can tame him?.. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:01pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Ninisun:...Smh. I think you lack comprehension. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Snakeeyes10(m): 5:03pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Chioma, you're pretty your husband is the ugly one=ChiomaCa I'm honest with my story. And I have never for once deny him of sexual intimacy. Infact, most time I make move, almost all the time. I swear to God Almighty. I'm feeling as if I'm ugly and not good looking enough[/quote] |
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