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Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Raalsalghul: 7:31pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
descarado: While I fault the man for not being discreet, I don't understand what you mean by it would have been better with "other ladies". As if " the other ladies" will not demand some form of financial commitment from him in form of cash, trips or favours. Sex is never free, I'm sure you know that. Or what is the definition of prostitution again? 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Pacesetter2021: 7:34pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChiomaCa:I don't know much as I will like to in the aspect of spiritual things but I am myself coming to some realizations..... Thinking out loud, have you thought about signs and symptoms of a man who has a spirit wife? One thing is certain, demons are involved, the question is how many, and what kinds. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Nobody: 7:35pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Amanee: So because of the rubbish people will say she shouldn't divorce him? If you ask me I'd say she should. When he realises he lost a good woman he will be the one explaining to people why she left him and asking them to beg her. There is no reason she should tolerate that nonsense. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by pocohantas(f): 7:36pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Raalsalghul: That is polygamy. If your hypergamous wife starts following random men to meet her insatiable demands, would you still call it hypergamy or olosho? If you want to be polygamous, do it with your full chest. descarado: It has to be their upbringing. You don’t become this morally bereft just by experiences you claim not to be personal. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Oyiboman69: 7:45pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChiomaCa:him living alone before you joined him over there is also a major factor to consider when making your final decisions...I hope you can see through my words.... |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by RodgersAkpafu: 7:45pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Furcko:Who is the kid here? You are just being ridiculous |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Amanee(f): 7:47pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
DominusPrime: You people are too angry in that country I was just making a statement of fact, no swallow me abeg. I didn't drop any advice because I doubt op will divorce her husband with the way she's making excuses for him |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Kwinesther: 7:53pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
LyfeJennings:Would you have referred to that serious issue as being "small" If it was the wife doing them? |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Jman06(m): 7:54pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
pocohantas:What do you expect when you marry for money Why some of you don't understand the simple reason Nigerian men treat you the way they do baffles me! He who pays the piper dictates its tune! I have the cash, you clearly come for it. The least I expect from you is loyalty and not questioning my right (as a traditional African man) to have other women. Issa simple stuff! 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:55pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Ninisun:...Ok. Ma. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Mariangeles(f): 7:55pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Oyiboman69: No. It is who he's always been. His lifestyle. She was just unfortunate to be scammed into it. If she decides to stay with him, she might lose herself in trying to become what she's not, just to keep him. Which might still not happen because he might never change. It is not up to her to change him. It is not in her power. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by fitinwell: 7:55pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChiomaCa: Instead of lamenting to Nairaland... Why don't you find out what turns him on sexually and Act like one.. Give him the full dose.. charge him also per session is need be.. I guess you are forming Mummy G.O in the other room.. Was why Oga At Top take the rescue... Backdoor.. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by pocohantas(f): 7:56pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Jman06: How much exactly do you lots have that they are marrying you for money? You in particular, how much you get? You fit give woman 100k make you no enter dry fast for 3 months. Men wey get money dey find babes to chop am. Na you ekukes wey dey off data for night no go gree person hear word. Shift jare! 5 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by dlox147(m): 7:57pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
pocohantas: I can sense some level of anger? No need to get all emotional and personal... |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by eneazi(f): 7:58pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
His actions has nothing to do with you size or appearances, you could be Kim K and oga will still do what he is doing. The bitter truth is your husband is addicted to prostitutes and he's been hiding under the umbrella of being a religious person. My advice try and go check yourself in the hospital and insist on a condom, you have just one life. Lastly, he needs to see a Counselor, cause no matter how many times he gets caught and vows not, he will still do it. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Raalsalghul: 7:58pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
pocohantas: Madam, stop looking at this Polygamy/Hypergamy stuff from a marriage perspective and what you were taught in Primary 3 social studies about a man marrying more than one wife yadi-yadi-ya. You know how the story goes. Looking at it through the sexual lenses. A man can have sex with about a 100 or more women if they tickle his loins regardless of if they're house girls, secretaries at the office, cleaners, side chicks or even prostitutes: the bottom line is sex even if it's anal. Shebi na the anal dey tickle am? Even our grand fathers/ancestors you keep referencing still played outside even with the 4/5 wives they kept at home and while you advocate for the man to bring all his escapades under one roof, we both know that's not plausible. And talking about family resources spent, won't he still spend the same on side chicks? Abi na free? Well on the other hand, the worst his wife can do is use the man's money to keep one boy toy outside to satisfy her sexual needs: just one! Women are not built to have sex with man after man unless she's a call girl or prostitute. And I call it "revenge", "cheating back" or whatever lingo you would like to use not hypergamy or olosho. I know this cheating in marriage stuff gets to you, but the world is not fair. Everybody go chop breakfast at one point or the other. I blame the man for not being discreet and she's free to leave whenever she deems fit. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Mariangeles(f): 8:00pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
fitinwell: At this point, I think marriage should be banned! Make everybody dey their dey! |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by pocohantas(f): 8:02pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Raalsalghul: I didn’t read this epistle because I know it doesn’t make sense, BUT I WOULD REITERATE THAT HAVING WILD ANAL SEX WITH PROSTITUTES IS NOT POLYGAMY. Definitely not the type you guys hail your forefathers for practicing. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Raalsalghul: 8:05pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
pocohantas: K! |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Igolonwaanyi(f): 8:06pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
KillIgbohoN0W: You're stupid sir. Very stupid. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Igolonwaanyi(f): 8:07pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
StPete: Lol. You think? Stop believing that. A lot of women have random sex. A lot. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Enugurangers: 8:10pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
dlox147:With his level of addiction, he is probably fucking some of the prostitute raw already. Too late. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by ibinaboonline: 8:10pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Understand this and know peace. The man has a problem. He can't help himself. And he certainly can't stop, not without the help of something higher than him. You shouldn't live with him like that either, both for your sake and that of your kid. It's sad. He probably genuinely loves you but he's got a problem he can't save himself from. Understand this while you make your decision for your next step. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Enugurangers: 8:13pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Furcko:Idiot. The a forum where Nigerians in Canada contribute only as to living in Canada. The owner of the handle might even be a guy, but your backward Nigerianess as already qualified the handler as a woman. You just confirmed what my post was about about kids that have never left their villages giving advice about the society in a developed country. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by HonestFriend: 8:13pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Gather ur evidence intact... Divorce him.. U might contract deadly disease from him or start having health issues due to the stress n what he his putting u through. I believe with time his brain will normalize, I told only hope it won't normalize wen his must have contracted STI. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Enugurangers: 8:15pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
SoapQueen:Yes ooo. $160 to $220 is a lot of money for 30minute to 1 hour short time. Even though the amount can only afford cheap ASHAWO that are on drugs. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by pocohantas(f): 8:18pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Enugurangers: And this is the problem with cheating partners. Once married, it is usually hard for couples to adapt to protected sex. If it were that easy, most married men would use protection and women won’t be saddled with family planning. That is why they come back with various infections and sometimes kids of other men. This is not polygamy for fck sake! 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by HonestFriend: 8:20pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChiomaCa: If u notice any changes in you like ur physical appearance, ur dressing, ur weight, your Tommy, ur face etc... Work urslef out of the above mention. Do everything possible to look young n attractive again.. Do all ur best to make it work, so wen u leave u can beat ur chest that "I Try".. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Jamie1000: 8:22pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChiomaCa:How do you dress? You said you guys are religious. He might be missing fantasies from you couz of the way you appear. I once had a beautiful gal that isn't attractive sometimes because of the way she dresses to bed. Try to understand what tickles his fantasy. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Enugurangers: 8:27pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
pocohantas:This is worse than polygamy. . You only need to google leolist and narrow the search for escort maybe to Toronto or whatever city. I did not really want to believe this lady before thinking it was just another tales by moonlight on nairaland, but the amount she quoted was bang on for $160/$220 for 30min to 1hour. With the level of addiction, It won't take long before he pulls the condom off to get his money's worth, then he brings some nasty disease home. He probably already has HEPC, and only God knows what other one he has already. The poster needs to immediately stop having unprotected sex, but luckily they have not been having sex anyway. Could be a blessing in disguise for OP. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by schoolboymatt(m): 8:27pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChiomaCa: maybe he respects you so much he can't propose his sexual fantasies to you because they are too weird and abnormal, take the anal sex for example...would you have agreed to it? |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by lovegeneration(m): 8:33pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
The truth is that he need deliverance ma ChiomaCa: |
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