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Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Landmack: 10:14pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Ladyhippolyta88:He and his wife are being so wicked and unreasonable to those innocent kids they keep birthing. u earn 55k and laid with ur gf without a condom at first and birthed an innocent child...u still didnt learn! you kept on laying with her...and got triplets. i think youre doing all these because u see free house..imagine you were paying rent...just maybe you would have been sensible enough to do the right thing. on the other hand you never pay that ur gf bride price and you are still birthing kids with her...na wa for u. i just hope its not a foolish person behind this moniker and trying to play on the mind and emotions of nairalanders. padlock that ur penis bro! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Prospertochu(m): 10:22pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Vyolet: I will not chase her out and its up to her to decide if she want to stay with me with 30k I will be giving her from this month ending or leave. If she dcd to leave no problem I won't stop her and I will be sending the 30k for my children upkeep 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by ImaIma1(f): 10:36pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Landmack: He said they have 3 kids...triplets. That means they had the kids once. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Bola146(f): 10:37pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Ghengiskhan: Those kids are too expensive to go to school for now even if it's day care. Taking care of triplets is not an easy task, ask those who are rich how they are dealing with the stress upon having maids. It's easier said than done that the woman should seek for job. None of them will never wish their sisters at home 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Nezzjnr: 10:41pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
I can't believe this abeg. 55k with kids?? Find another lie please 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Bola146(f): 10:41pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ImaIma1: The kids are nothing but still young!!!! Madam!!!! think of how to feed the 3 for a day including the woman! Haba! |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by eyinjuege: 10:53pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
You have to look for ways to earn more dear You have 3 children of the same age. They need same meals, clothes etc. They can't even pass clothes down to each other and you have to buy 3 of everything. Your wife is breastfeeding but I'm sure also supplementing with formula. Isn't she also buying formula from the 30K you're giving her? The money is not enough which is why you're having all these issues When the children start school or creche, just know your current problems will triple sha. So prepare. Your wife may need to wean the babies on time too, but 3 babies at once na die. Can your mum look after the children while she also goes out to work? You're really in a pickle at the moment and I don't have much advice for you, other than looking for a means to earn more to meet up with your responsibilities. Triplets are not a joke sha |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Bola146(f): 10:57pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Vyolet: See another were here his type would lead op astray walahi 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by GboyegaD(m): 11:03pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
@prospertochu, Can your wife find something to do since your mum is around and can help look after the triplets? At least, that should help ease the family burden. You need to set aside something for the rainy day. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Johnsown1(m): 11:10pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
It happens in rare occasiona to keep two grown up women in the same house when they are not biological related. Don't be suprise to find your mother's corpse next time you return from work. You can never satisfy a woman, so stop yielding to her unending demands and give your life a space. Give her what you want her to get and find a place for your mum before she dies. She can go to hell if she wishes, because without that women that you call mother; there would be no you. But Op so your lady is a housewife. Get her a work so that she can burn her ass out. Only God knows that I can never Marry a housewife or stand a lady maltreat my mother. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by GboyegaD(m): 11:33pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Prospertochu: She can't want her own business until you guys can gather capital. In the mean time, she needs to do something. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by jaxxy(m): 11:41pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
aanuoluwami14: I know the triplets can be demanding bt the woman should not frustrate his life. A good wife will manage what she is giving or/and even look for how to support the man not nagging and threatening her husband. Op she said she would leave u if u don’t give her more money u should have asked her to where? Another man’s house or her family house cos it’s obvious her family don’t care about her or her kids. So where is she gonna go?? Prospertochu: 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Jman06(m): 11:57pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Bola146:What the hell do you mean by "non of them will ever wish their sisters at home"? I have sisters who are married and they are very productive and supportive to their husbands! Sometimes I begin to wonder why I would marry a liability when other men are getting the best of my sisters Op's wife is just a lazy assz, simple! She needs to get a job ASAP 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Mercury12(m): 12:07am On Jan 17, 2022 |
This situation tired me. Though the economy is not smiling right now but that does mean your mum should be left hungry. What are family for? We strives and survive together. My brother. If you can look for extra money to give your mom i swear that will be good but you know grandmoms won't cook and eat alone. They will always share their stuffs with their grand kids and even the their sons wives too. I won't say your wife is being selfish but I would say she is being inconsiderate. Try and make a second Nairaland post on this so I can give my little advice on how to make things work. Good luck cc: Prospertochu 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by GboyegaD(m): 12:38am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: Have you let her in on this? |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by GboyegaD(m): 1:11am On Jan 17, 2022 |
aanuoluwami14: Did you read this or it from the wickedness of your heart to label mother-in-laws? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by NoToPile: 1:16am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Acidosis: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by NoToPile: 1:21am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Jman06: She's not a lazy assz, you- yes you just try to take care of triplets alone and find out how it is, you can't cope so don't call someone doing it a lazy ass. The ultimate question is Who takes care of the children while she works Daycare? where's the money Mama? - I can't even recommend them leaving the triplets with mama because she might not be able to keep up with the kids energy, she's elderly, babysitting 3 toddlers at the same time is almost like a war like situation. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by NoToPile: 1:26am On Jan 17, 2022 |
The problem the OP has is just money, more money will solve this issue. Everybody (sane people) knows the money is not and can never be enough for them. The money is not just enough, the economy is terrible, I pray God opens way for you OP. 3 toddlers? Chai. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Jman06(m): 1:39am On Jan 17, 2022 |
NoToPile:What was she doing before she gave birth? She is not the first to have given birth before. Like I said before, I have sisters too who're married and also bear children, yet they're working hard to support their husbands financially! Knowing that op earns just a paltry 55k salary, she shouldn't have relaxed her asz at home but gotten a job for herself to augment what she gets from op. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by DenreleDave(m): 1:50am On Jan 17, 2022 |
aanuoluwami14: Fine but where did he say his mother can't take care of his kids. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by GboyegaD(m): 1:54am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: Oga, calm down ooo. Give her the N40k and make her understand that you will appreciate she treats your mom like she would hers. Also, make her understand you would appreciate she picks up a job no matter how little it pays. Make her understand you know she loves to do business and you guys would work to achieve that dream. In addition, don't just drop money; please be very present. What that means is try to support her and your mom with the chores and the children. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by cococandy(f): 2:36am On Jan 17, 2022 |
The only solution Acidosis: 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by cococandy(f): 2:43am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Try to get pregnant and have children before you call someone lazy. The reasons why y’all call stay at home moms lazy is because you don’t value the contributions of women. But if you’re left to do that job, you’ll go insane. So please speak only of what you know. Because women do it all the time doesn’t mean it’s easy. It just means that most of you have gone for many years of your life without appreciating what a difficult job it is. Do better Jman06: 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by michlins(m): 3:08am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Twins and triplets should be reserved for the rich. 50k in this economy is nothing at all even for a single person. You see this marriage thing,if your body no full, comot body jhoor 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by sameoldguy: 3:52am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu:you hit that mumu “junkie”chick really hard 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by cayorday89(m): 6:22am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu:Things like this are bound to happen when you skip some aspects of life especially marriage, first you had sex when you had very little income, and even if you must do, you did not use condom, and even nature did not help your matters, it gave you a hat-trick of kids from one shot at goal, and you were not intentional with the kind of woman you want, no prior discussions on how you want your marriage life to be, now see where you are, the woman is not to be blamed but you, most people think calling man the head is about spending money, it's first and foremost about passing your intentions across and reaching a favorable conditions with your woman with each knowing his or her stand. Way forward, let her find something doing while your Mum takes over caring for the kids, sit her down and discuss how you both can come to terms with the family's financial situation. And buying key things needed for the Month in bulk is the way to go it will save you some money. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by joe4christ(m): 7:45am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Prospertochu: The only solution I see to this problem is for you to get another side hustle that would generate another income streams of income for you. Acquire skills if need be, skills like cable and satellite installation, barbing or some basic skills. And be good at it. Then u can be doing this side hustle to add up to your monthly take home. And pls, you need to set future plans for your wife. Open a small kiosk for her in front of the house. Let her be doing some small petty trade business. Atleast that will cover some gap. And ur mistake is taking your mom in. You suppose know say two women no fit stay for thesame roof for long without beef na. Your mom and your wife will continue to have issues till ur mom finds another accomodation. Your mom should go back to her people back in the village. You can be sending her 10k monthly for her upkeep for now. While u continue to build your life and set out plans. Once things are better, you can rent a house and bring your mum back into her own personal apartment. And pls don't add to this triplets you already have, until you're financially boyant enough. May God help you, cos it 2yrs time, your kids would have grown enough to begin school. And u know how expensive school is. That's why you need to work hard and increase your earnings so u will be able to meet up. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by aanuoluwami14(f): 8:01am On Jan 17, 2022 |
jaxxy: If you read from the beginning, they were forced at each other, no solid love at all! The pregnancy brought them together not love. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by lereinter(m): 8:24am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Maybe the problem is your mother staying with una God will help you |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Walkee: 8:53am On Jan 17, 2022 |
aanuoluwami14:Mumu talk. How will old woman be surviving on only evening food? Even pregnant women here go to the market or farm. She's lucky the guy is cool headed. I don't see any wife who can try that rubbish in the whole Esan land. She go hear am 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Ghengiskhan(m): 8:57am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Bola146: More reason why she needs a job, their grandma can help to take care of the kids. Rich people are always stressed with or without kids.... The woman need to start doing something to bring in cash to help her family. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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