Starzo:
I endorese this. But why would a man get married to you when he can simply afford to get a maid to take care of a house and also pay that maid to take care of the child he got through a surrogate?. Why voluntary enter himself into the bondage called marriage when he can simply use money to get maids and surrogate that would do everything you're trying to use to hold home to ransom?.

Na to just Hussle enough money buy everything and continue flexing your life with as many women as you want.

#NODRAMA

thorpido:
Yes,you have an ideal home with what you have written here.
Make sure he agrees and maybe even sign documented agreements before you tie the knot.

insidelife22:
Auntie even you wey write this thing know say e no dey possible.

so just for get it.

chatinent:
Una get time sha

devilmaycry:
For this naija This one never tire to dey single...Shiloh is calling thee

athaliya:


If he's asking for 50-50 then he should have figured these out right?

athaliya:
Been reading alot of "rules" lately online and I laugh to myself because obviously, some people are just making noise online and not ready to do what they brag about but let me indulge them a bit.

I'm talking about the "What is she bringing to the table" gang aka Redpillers

According to them, women only have a v*gina to offer in marriage or a relationship and All Nigerian women are broke hoes (God bless their rich mothers wherever they are).

So let me use myself as an example now...

I founded a limited liability company about 3yrs ago and an NGO about 2yrs ago, been working for about 9yrs now and built my income to about 7 figures monthly. I foot my bills and that of my younger ones myself.

So say I get married to a guy who earns 7 figures too (cus I have realised that broke guys are too much drama ) and I have agreed to split the bills in the house 50-50.

I hope he knows that the cooking, sweeping, laundry and dish washing will be split 50-50 too?
Infact we would have a time table for domestic chores.

On days that are not my turn, I will lazily wake up by 7am, do absolutely nothing except eat the food cooked by my husband, dress up and zoom off to work while he has to dress the kids up for school and drop the kids off at their school before going to his office. After work, I will eat dinner he cooked and go to bed (he must finish his chores before coming to bed)

Unless he's ready to pay for a chef and a maid (we will split their salaries )

Did I just mention kids? Lolzzzz, who will carry the pregnancy? Haaaaa, my work is as important as his own ooo, 9 months is alot of time to be fragile, how will I keep paying my bills and contributing to the family? We had better hire a surrogate and split the bill as well. It shouldn't be more than 3m for everything.

Now the baby(s) is here, who will nurse them? We have to split it as well, I will be considerate enough to always make sure I always pump fresh milk into bottles, but we are buying 2 baby prams, when it's his turn he will take the baby to work as well, or we hire a nanny and split the bill as usual 50-50.

Other things we will split:

1. Children school fees? We'll split it 50-50.
2. I get to give them their first name while he gives them their last name...
3. His friends and relatives need my permission to come same way my friends and relatives need his permission to come.
4. Anyone that comes to our house to stress me will sleep in the police station

Any gift he gives me or mine will be given to him or his as well on a similar day with a 20% interest.
E.g he gifts me N5m on my birthday, I gift him 6m on his birthday
He buys my mum a car worth 10m, I buy his mum a car worth 12m

No gift to my family, no gift to his family.
How he treats my mum during omugwo is how I treat his mum during omugwo or he gets a maid specially for his mum and bears the cost alone.


Doesn't this home sound ideal? No cheating, no liability...

athaliya:


He can get his maids and pay his bills himself... No objections here

athaliya:


Me wey be full spec I'm your dream come true jare, I dont upload my pictures again so nobody will take my picture to Shiloh

Premiumwriter:
in order to sound posh, you ended up showing how selfish a relationship with you could be.

Anyways na men wey De do love is blind go get your back

Starzo:

Wether full spec or half o, almost all naija girls na starfish for bed

athaliya:


Pray tell how I sound selfish

athaliya:


Lol, abeg dont derail the topic... This is about what are we bringing to the table apart from the overrated p*ssy

athaliya:
Been reading alot of "rules" lately online and I laugh to myself because obviously, some people are just making noise online and not ready to do what they brag about but let me indulge them a bit.

I'm talking about the "What is she bringing to the table" gang aka Redpillers

According to them, women only have a v*gina to offer in marriage or a relationship and All Nigerian women are broke hoes (God bless their rich mothers wherever they are).

So let me use myself as an example now...

I founded a limited liability company about 3yrs ago and an NGO about 2yrs ago, been working for about 9yrs now and built my income to about 7 figures monthly. I foot my bills and that of my younger ones myself.

So say I get married to a guy who earns 7 figures too (cus I have realised that broke guys are too much drama ) and I have agreed to split the bills in the house 50-50.

I hope he knows that the cooking, sweeping, laundry and dish washing will be split 50-50 too?
Infact we would have a time table for domestic chores.

On days that are not my turn, I will lazily wake up by 7am, do absolutely nothing except eat the food cooked by my husband, dress up and zoom off to work while he has to dress the kids up for school and drop the kids off at their school before going to his office. After work, I will eat dinner he cooked and go to bed (he must finish his chores before coming to bed)

Unless he's ready to pay for a chef and a maid (we will split their salaries )

Did I just mention kids? Lolzzzz, who will carry the pregnancy? Haaaaa, my work is as important as his own ooo, 9 months is alot of time to be fragile, how will I keep paying my bills and contributing to the family? We had better hire a surrogate and split the bill as well. It shouldn't be more than 3m for everything.

Now the baby(s) is here, who will nurse them? We have to split it as well, I will be considerate enough to always make sure I always pump fresh milk into bottles, but we are buying 2 baby prams, when it's his turn he will take the baby to work as well, or we hire a nanny and split the bill as usual 50-50.

Other things we will split:

1. Children school fees? We'll split it 50-50.
2. I get to give them their first name while he gives them their last name...
3. His friends and relatives need my permission to come same way my friends and relatives need his permission to come.
4. Anyone that comes to our house to stress me will sleep in the police station

Any gift he gives me or mine will be given to him or his as well on a similar day with a 20% interest.
E.g he gifts me N5m on my birthday, I gift him 6m on his birthday
He buys my mum a car worth 10m, I buy his mum a car worth 12m

No gift to my family, no gift to his family.
How he treats my mum during omugwo is how I treat his mum during omugwo or he gets a maid specially for his mum and bears the cost alone.


Doesn't this home sound ideal? No cheating, no liability...

RedpillAnalyst:
@athaliya

While I agree with you on most of your points. If what you say about yourself is valid. Most men don't qualify for you and many sensible men will opt you out as a viable option.


A true redpiller won't go for the power couple arrangement. A woman is always looking for someone she can respect and have some form of dominance over her and a man is always looking for someone who will look up to him as a figure of authority. You don't need to look far.

I know many miss independent for are very comfortable either through hardwork or inheritance, but I don't opt for them because nothing good willl come out of it in the long run.

Premiumwriter:
wait make I make money like you first

Starzo:

I see I hit a nerve. Besides na you first derail go begin talk about spec

Something is really wrong with the present crop of naija girls

emmyluizzz:


a redpiller and a feminist

very bloody combination


but I love her write up

I think is fair

RedpillAnalyst:
@athaliya

While I agree with you on most of your points. If what you say about yourself is valid. Most men don't qualify for you and [b]many sensible me[/b]n will opt you out as a viable option.

Average ladies who are very basic think about 80% of guys are thrash and undateable already. With money and resources on her hand that increases the number to 98%.

And a true redpiller won't go for the power couple arrangement. A woman is always looking for someone she can respect and have some form of dominance over her and a man is always looking for someone who will look up to him as a figure of authority. You don't need to look far why the likes of Tiwa Savage, Linda Ikeji or DJ Cuppy remain single.

I know many miss independent for are very comfortable either through hardwork or inheritance, but I don't opt for them because nothing good willl come out of it in the long run.

An astute man will find a way to make his own money and find a basic woman who is ready to follow this program not a loud, miss boss chic who will never be satisfied with basic things.

So most likely you will end up with a trickster and not a redpiller.

athaliya:
Been reading alot of "rules" lately online and I laugh to myself because obviously, some people are just making noise online and not ready to do what they brag about but let me indulge them a bit.

I'm talking about the "What is she bringing to the table" gang aka Redpillers

According to them, women only have a v*gina to offer in marriage or a relationship and All Nigerian women are broke hoes (God bless their rich mothers wherever they are).

So let me use myself as an example now...

I founded a limited liability company about 3yrs ago and an NGO about 2yrs ago, been working for about 9yrs now and built my income to about 7 figures monthly. I foot my bills and that of my younger ones myself.

So say I get married to a guy who earns 7 figures too (cus I have realised that broke guys are too much drama ) and I have agreed to split the bills in the house 50-50.

I hope he knows that the cooking, sweeping, laundry and dish washing will be split 50-50 too?
Infact we would have a time table for domestic chores.

On days that are not my turn, I will lazily wake up by 7am, do absolutely nothing except eat the food cooked by my husband, dress up and zoom off to work while he has to dress the kids up for school and drop the kids off at their school before going to his office. After work, I will eat dinner he cooked and go to bed (he must finish his chores before coming to bed)

Unless he's ready to pay for a chef and a maid (we will split their salaries )

Did I just mention kids? Lolzzzz, who will carry the pregnancy? Haaaaa, my work is as important as his own ooo, 9 months is alot of time to be fragile, how will I keep paying my bills and contributing to the family? We had better hire a surrogate and split the bill as well. It shouldn't be more than 3m for everything.

Now the baby(s) is here, who will nurse them? We have to split it as well, I will be considerate enough to always make sure I always pump fresh milk into bottles, but we are buying 2 baby prams, when it's his turn he will take the baby to work as well, or we hire a nanny and split the bill as usual 50-50.

Other things we will split:

1. Children school fees? We'll split it 50-50.
2. I get to give them their first name while he gives them their last name...
3. His friends and relatives need my permission to come same way my friends and relatives need his permission to come.
4. Anyone that comes to our house to stress me will sleep in the police station

Any gift he gives me or mine will be given to him or his as well on a similar day with a 20% interest.
E.g he gifts me N5m on my birthday, I gift him 6m on his birthday
He buys my mum a car worth 10m, I buy his mum a car worth 12m

No gift to my family, no gift to his family.
How he treats my mum during omugwo is how I treat his mum during omugwo or he gets a maid specially for his mum and bears the cost alone.


Doesn't this home sound ideal? No cheating, no liability...

athaliya:


Which nerve? You said I will end up in shilloh and I told you that I am a limited edition, my type no dey 2 for market I will get married when I want to and he will be the happiest man

athaliya:


What combo goes with the redpiller? The broke ass you guys badmouth alot?

Starzo:

Anthem of Nigeria association of dirty oloshos

You just exposed yourself