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Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Lucaslookers: 9:24am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Please married folks in the house, My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing. Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding. It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there. On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife. Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson. I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her. We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent?? Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad. My marriage is still young. 58 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Kriss216: 9:25am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Married men are truly suffering in this country ![]() My prayers are with them 534 Likes 36 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Mood11: 9:26am On Jan 17, 2022 |
![]() Don't be scared. She's just showing you her true colors. Just buy helmet so that she won't break your head one day. On a serious note : Kick the fvvcking retired hoeloeshoe back to her parents house until she receive sense. What kind of Lily livered men do we have nowadays ![]() ![]() 486 Likes 25 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by HopeNeverDies: 9:29am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Damnnnn!!!! Can someone please get me a good song to mend a broken Heart?? Thanks I'm fucking tired of the relationship I'm into currently... About your own case Sir...I have nothing special to say.. 55 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Kobicove(m): 9:30am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Are you waiting until she stabs you in your sleep? ![]() Tolerating a violent partner is an absolute no no...if I were you I would send her away without looking back! 271 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Kriss216: 9:31am On Jan 17, 2022 |
HopeNeverDies: Another one ![]() 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by tyup(m): 9:32am On Jan 17, 2022 |
For every ment there's always a counter ment and that's why i tell married men who come to me for marriage counsel/ therapy that if you want peace in ur home, always be the trouble maker and a type your wife would want to avoid trouble with at any cost The wife you spent money and resource to bring to ur home so you can bear her burden and cater for her needs free of charge is bringing out a knife on you?? Do you still need a prophet to tell you it's high time you have both of her hands on POP tied to her neck with a swollen mouth/eyes that would not make her speak for two weeks?? The generation of men we're breeding these days makes me loose urge especially when my libido is high ![]() 254 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Righteousness2(m): 9:32am On Jan 17, 2022 |
There is Something fishy. It could be much more than you think. Your wife needs a touch from GOD. Take her to the Lord's Chosen this Tuesday and Thursday. Service starts 8am. Make Power touch her. 38 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Kriss216: 9:32am On Jan 17, 2022 |
OP, I have just one thing to tell you, as a Man(though you're half man) never take marital advice from a woman. Women here will tell you to pray, fast, have one on one discussion with her, tell her parents, blah blah blah. Don't listen to them. That woman in your house will never change. You'll never have peace of mind with such woman..worst scenario, she will kill you. 222 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Iniobong34: 9:33am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Sir, It's a sign that ur marriage will not last long 42 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by ValCon888: 9:35am On Jan 17, 2022 |
If she carry weapon, you sef carry weapon. Feminism is Equality. 102 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Kriss216: 9:38am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Kobicove:God bless you. 10 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by tyup(m): 9:40am On Jan 17, 2022 |
ValCon888: I decree blessings on you this week 72 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Mcxtraglitz: 9:41am On Jan 17, 2022 |
If she wasn't like that previously, it's because poor advice corrupts excellent manners. And if you've previously threatened or beaten her, her behavior could be perceived as defensive, or she could be like that—being disrespectful to you because you permitted it. 18 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by jetwonder(m): 9:41am On Jan 17, 2022 |
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Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by sorepco(m): 9:41am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Men i am kinda speechless! The more calm and docile u remain the more emboldened she becomes! I will suggest you inform her patents and yours of this her attitude first. If she persists make sure you let her know who the man is! When next she tries such beat the hell out of her. But make sure you lock up all the knives. [quote author=Lucaslookers 58 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Mood11: 9:43am On Jan 17, 2022 |
tyup: Hahahahaha 52 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by ValCon888: 9:43am On Jan 17, 2022 |
tyup:Amen brother ![]() 18 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by BeeBeeOoh(m): 9:44am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Life first, oga Op, send her back to her father's house because if care is not taken we might see and read how a NLander was stabbed to death by his wife. Pursue this black goat in the morning o 97 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Kriss216: 9:59am On Jan 17, 2022 |
tyup:@bolded You're intelligent. Can I marry your brain? It's more noble for your wife to report your nasty behaviours to your parents than you reporting your wife's nasty behaviours to her parents. As a married man, always be the troublemaker in the house. 104 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by DaddyRochie1642: 10:02am On Jan 17, 2022 |
That's how it starts, Just pray you don't end up on Nairaland front-page with the title. "Nairalander stabbed to death by his Violent Wife" ![]() ![]() 65 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by RomanGreen: 10:10am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Oga...deal with that woman mercilessly, forget any advice telling you to pray or have any conversation with her ...listen, sometimes you need to act like a mentally deranged fellow to drive home your point...else your wife will continue to see you as such...na higher madness we dey use cure madness, if you like stay there and be lamenting...worst case scenario, the devil will minister to her one day and she will kill you...her eye go clear...you may be gone by then... I hate rubbish I recently broke up with my violent girlfriend, she has almost similar attitude...na my own madness I use pursue her...you need to understand that women are so manipulative, if you continue to act all calm and gentleman...brother your name go be sorry All these leeches needs to be taught a lesson 105 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by flington4550(m): 10:22am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Nawa oo weak men everywhere...the world is now female I swear...but for me will definitely have a � control over my family if I get married or WTF about all this marriage issues lately ![]() 38 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Abilistic(m): 10:22am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Lucaslookers: First of all abort this mission! @bolded If she can be this violent now, just imagine what she becomes when she has enough resources. Also she's seeing your gentility as weakness, be man of the house. If she threatens you, shut her down - an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth! 50 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Qatar2022: 10:24am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Lucaslookers:Investigate your wife, she maybe cheating on you that's why she's reacting that way, i maybe wrong though but do proper investigations 68 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Kobojunkie: 10:30am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Lucaslookers:Maybe it is time to engage the aide of a professional marriage counselor. Since she has already pulled out weapons in the past, having a third party there is best to help mediate and maybe dig to discover the root cause of the problem which may be psychological- mental illness - as that is what I suspect from what you have said so far. ![]() Also consider a temporary separation or living apart until the problem is resolved. I am not here attempting to break up your marriage, No. I am interested in helping you save it. ![]() 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by RedpillAnalyst: 10:45am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Abortion without telling you? I think she did you a favour. She is a nice woman she does not want you to be one of the numerous victims of paternity fraud. Don't worry the baby she aborted was not yours. There are some wrongdoings by a woman, if forgiven, that woman WILL NEVER EVER RESPECT YOU. She has to go. You can't save her, save yourself. 152 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Aguilar(m): 10:46am On Jan 17, 2022 |
You should have opt for a baby mama. Marriage is not encouraging these days 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by oilmane(m): 10:47am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Lucaslookers: Send her packing to her parents home until her brain gets formatted else she might end up injuring or worse case scenario killing you, you don't tolerate a violent partner. 12 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Hedgefunds: 10:56am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Qatar2022: She actually cheated and aborted . The man eye will clear soon. 62 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Truvelisback(m): 11:02am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Bro, u gat to be very careful ooo. This one she carries weapon like Rambo. hmmm, make she no stab u to death one day ooo, in the name of quarrel. I would advise that u warn her, if she refuses, tell her parents. Let them caution her. 4 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Sonnobax15(m): 11:02am On Jan 17, 2022 |
![]() Op,you suppose throw welcome party for the new demon wey don rent 3-bed room flat for your wife body ![]() Well,earlier you put her where she rightfully belongs,the better for you ![]() Op,na matter of time before you go begin collect different kind of stabbing from her.....Tame and never tolerate her now,if not......... 17 Likes 4 Shares |
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