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Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by lionphil(m): 11:10am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Lucaslookers: Bitter truth is that, someone else is singing the music she loves to hear. Your wife is seeing someone else. If she's not, then you guys probably didn't date for long enough. She wants you dead and that's the bitter truth. If you don't have kids, you need to give her a break. Send her packing! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by adadike(f): 11:13am On Jan 17, 2022 |
My dear lucaslookers , I have to be blunt here. Your life is in serious danger! F you think she cannot use that knife on you r even stab you n your sleep, then you need to think again. Sleep with your two eyes open. Constant watch your back. Next time she pics a knife, my dear go get a Cutlass and I really mean it coz it takes a bigger madness to cure a madness. When you are done scaring her to her pants, send her packing. She is doing that coz she is seeing you as someone that can't hurt a fly. Can she try that with any of the viiolent men out there? 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by AkhereOkaka(m): 11:14am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Kobicove: God bless you for such advice, my question didn't you noticed such trait during courtship? We rise by lifting others |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by AsampeteNwaanyi(f): 11:16am On Jan 17, 2022 |
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Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by 9gerian: 11:56am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Not necessary. The woman is having mental health issues or worse. The man needs to quietly drive her to her parents house and drop her there. Make he informs his own parents so that they have his back. This must be done without prior notification else the woman may finish him off. She will harm or kill him eventually, that is if he delays in taking reasonable measures to protect himself. sorepco: 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by sorepco(m): 12:04pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
But on a serious note? Ur wife bring a knife to fight u? A belt to teach u a lesson? There is something more 2 dis than the op is willing to divulge. I feel the woman has been beating him for long...she cant just go get a belt 2 teach him a lesson all of a sudden! She can kill the op! What? Actually might kill him? Again!? Infact she will kill him! 9gerian: 18 Likes 1 Share |
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Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:10pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
tyup:..... Funny but very very true. I'm the trouble maker in my house to the extent my in-laws even avoid my wahala but I ve never raised my hands on her not to say I wouldn't if she goes overboard. Also men should stop being afraid of separation or divorce from their wives. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by benqo01(m): 12:28pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Ah OP send her back to her parent for sometime she go get sense by force 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Awkabigboy: 12:52pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Kriss216:That is not an advice , STFU Op kindly sit her down and understand why she's behaving that way . Between the pregnancy she aborted is it for you ? |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Justice4Toto: 12:53pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
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Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Awkabigboy: 12:56pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Mcxtraglitz:Op has clearly told you he doesn't beat her and you're here doing blind assumptions , stfu 8 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Tmberwolf1: 12:56pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Divorce is the best option honestly... Because you might die in your sleep, and she'd be the one to kill you. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by HarunaWest(m): 12:56pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Lucaslookers:SHe wants to harm you..jejely divorce her, forget what people will say to convince you, divorce her. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Nwaotu10(m): 1:36pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Well, I've got nothing to say. I hope not to see your picture someday with "Rip" inscription, mate! |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Danjikanbauchi: 1:42pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Keep playing around untill she kill you or send you to hospital, better deceived her back to her parent and report her to her family abondon her there with warning never to return to your house or you will end it for her. You will see her change for good if not move on 4 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Nonexisting: 1:55pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
If I had advised you to shun marriage or atleast marry with your brain and not your heart, would you have listened or would you have called me unprintable names? Oga, everyone has problems. Some of us chose money problems but fools like you chose marriage problems so carry your cross and get the fucck out of here. 4 Likes
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Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by funnyDM: 1:55pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
The truth is: a guy somewhere is blowing her up. That same is confusing her with promises if she leaves you. So she needs the freedom to enjoy those fairy tales by the guy. She can't never achieve it as long as she is with you, so she now dessent you and wants her freedom in every way possible. Don't be surprised that the guy impregnated her and she did the abortion out of fear. Now that she realizes that you can do nothing. She turned the fear into anger. My advice : free her. Let her taste those fairy tales. You can't save a LovePeddler. Let her go. It'll pain you but with time you'll heal. And for her, all those fairy tales will soon fall off like scales from her eyes. When they do, you'll know what to do. But if I'm in your shoes, I'll never take her back. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Lucaslookers:The TRUTH Is you have just found out something crazy about her. Women are never comfortable when men detect lies about them. Generally, they see men as liars. Women never Lie! So, the moment you discover something fishy about them, they turn violent. Some use tears and violence as weapon. That's the reason many of them still shed tears while lying. Better be careful! Also anticipate the worse. They act before regretting. 14 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Rickmann: 2:03pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Lucaslookers: Honestly stories like this makes me fear marriage.. A girl is all loving, tender and sweet in a relationship and suddenly after marriage she becomes a monster... I just don't understand. This is a real test for you. It's obvious she wants to push you into beating her. I'll encourage you to hold ur ground and be strong. Everything will be fine . 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Meteng: 2:05pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
It's difficult to tell you this, but you're married to a retired or unretired holosho. We'll still be here to read the final story, and how it happened. Not from you o, from maybe a witness 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Nobody: 2:09pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Rickmann:Most married Men today will tell you BABY MAMA is now much preferable. Ladies of today are completely different. MEN changed to become supple rather than stronger. Misinterpretation of Religion caused all these. Even the Bible had stronger men. In fact, we changed from being strong & capable to being weak & incapable. Far back in Southern Nigeria, MEN married 4 to 6 wives & still had concubines. This was just from 60 to more than 200yrs years ago. Not too Far! 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Rickmann: 2:19pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
MALIGNANTGuest: You are so correct. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by eneazi(f): 2:47pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Your is wife is suffering from a mental health disorder it could stem from a wide range of condition that affects the way she is behaving now, and this could have been hidden away from you, seek help or try and avoid anything that will trigger her. Modified: For those brothers quoting me, it's obvious even to the blind that the OP loves his wife and all he wants is a solution to make things work, and not using violence. Again its wise he seeks help for her, cause he mentioned their marriage being young by implication he is not cut out for any kind of separation or divorce yet. He also mentioned both not being perfect this also implies he is ready to forgive all her actions if there is a change which can only come with her getting help. Mr OP your life matters, until she gets help avoid her totally. Lastly, I do not condone violence of any kind on men, if a woman had shared this post I would have offered the same advice, since its obvious the person involved still wants to work things out. |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Newboss(m): 3:12pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Wahala everyday for who don go marry 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Newboss(m): 3:13pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
eneazi: If a man beats his wife, hope you give the same advice. 6 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
eneazi:Would you have have said so if a married lady had presented same issue concerning her husband to the Nairaland platform? Here lies my problem with all these. U don't change gloves when gender changes. MEN have woken up to realise women can lie. In Fact, if many married men should open up on the hidden lies their wives told them just to get them to the altar, 70% of marriages would collapse in 2hours. MEN hate public shame, that's why they hardly take to the social media to reveal every rubbish they are faced. I know Ladies who had undergone fibroid surgeries with removal of their wombs, yet they concealed such from their spouses even at courtship till they got married. Some have kids yet they never disclosed such to the man they planned marrying, expecting to use pastors, family members & God to plead their way through such a disaster called union. I know men whose wives have blocked fallopian tubes from previously poorly treated vaginal discharge, which they contracted during several relationships. They can't conceive now. Yet you see such Ladies running their mouths at their husbands. Most resort to using their Traditional Rulers & God to plead. Meanwhile, see the way TonTo Dike went straight to the social media to reveal how Churchill lasted for 45secs. What if Churchill decides to reveal the ugly side of that useless girl? 26 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Tokskob2008: 3:32pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
eneazi:You people won't say it the way it is ever, instead you will find one way to sugarcoat it. So it's now a mental health disorder and not domestic violence anymore right ![]() But if it was the husband that was fighting her with a weapon you wouldn't have said he is suffering from mental health disorder but you will call him an animal. Smh!! 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Guinevere00(f): 4:10pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
where would do you like wanna touch me first? 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by RedpillAnalyst: 4:34pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
When the old age wisdom including Bible and Quran was mentioning why women should be moderated, pure and chaste it wasn't because of hate nor because they don't want women to enjoy life. They know any deviation from that will hinder her bonding ability that will destroy her man, then kids, then family and finally herself. How would a woman have confidence to wield belt and knife on her husband if not because she has spirit and DNA materials of many men deposited inside of her. 22 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by lilyheaven: 4:58pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Lucaslookers:Inform her you will be taking her to a psychiatric clinic for evaluation next time she raises any object on you. Say it and mean it |
Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by NWABUKA007(m): 5:08pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Chai Bros I guess you should involve the law enforcement agents here Before things go out of hand. To the unmarried out there Pls make sure you check and scan the medulla oblongata of the woman, you want to wife o, Nor allow beauty becloud your reasoning Questions like Her temperance Her prayer life problem solving skills and attitude Should all be taken into consideration We shall not enter one chance in Jesus name 2 Likes |
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