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Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Kobojunkie: 11:47pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Mariangeles:My mistake then... I thought that was implied by your support for the other poster you mentioned earlier and by the statement below which you posted earlier. My own be say na the leg wey you bring come, I go take follow you. ![]() 2. So, marriage, for you is not an agreement between you and your man but between you, your relatives and your man? ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Mariangeles(f): 11:49pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Ishilove: Even my mum, up till today, no dey take her brothers joke. Na so she dey send both crayfish o, okporoko, dry fish and the likes from time to time, give the wives to cook for her brothers. Not like they can't afford it o. 2 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Mariangeles(f): 11:52pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: WO! Kobo, Nigerian marriage different. Your family gats get your back. It's important to have it in mind that when you need to go back to your father's house, the doors are always open. 3 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Mariangeles(f): 11:56pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
pocohantas: Forget online talk! So, you want try to tell me say if your brother wife dey treat your brother anyhow, you no go do anything? As par wetin na? Women solidarity? 3 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Kobojunkie: 11:58pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Mariangeles:There is rarely any place on this planet where family does not "get your back", so don't make this into a " Nigerians vs non" issue which it isn't. ![]() My mum and dad made their decision as a couple to be married and their parents had no choice but to accept their decision. Did that then mean that their families cut off from them afterwards? Absolutely not... they remained there all the way. ![]() You choosing to have your relatives decide who you can or cannot marry is wholly a choice made by you. ![]() I don't see why a parent or relative would cut off a ward simply because he or she chose to marry a certain individual. That is a culture born of ignorance and a lack of respect for the individual, if you you me. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Kobojunkie: 12:05am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Mariangeles:My brothera and sisters are intelligent enough to know that bullying is a no-no, even in a relationship. ![]() However, should any one of them find themselves in that situation, I would remind them of what to do in such situation but respectfully leave the decision up to the one as to whether to implement it or not. My sisters know all they have to do is call me and I will come bail them out if they need an extra backbone, but that choice has to be theirs, not mine. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by pocohantas(f): 12:12am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Mariangeles: So what do I do? Go force an adult out of the marriage? Go beat her up? Now that you are threatening fire and brimstone online, care to share what you would have done OFFLINE in this situation? Maybe OP would learn something from your guerrilla tactics. It is against everything I believe in to go after my brother’s wife in the scenario described by the OP. My brother is married and my mum complains of the usual mother complaints. But that me, Poco, would leave my job and house to go confront her? Lol. The best I can do is advise my brother, then like you rightly read, mind my business. If she tries to abuse me PHYSICALLY, then I would be forced to react. Anything else and she would be ignored. That is if she sees me sef. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by pocohantas(f): 12:18am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Ladyhippolyta88: The man is impregnating drunks and weed addicts, but somehow he is the victim. Where did he meet these girls if not where he was also drinking and smoking? If they are being fair, they would agree with me that those werey girls are perfect for him. No responsible girl should be saddled with a man like that. ![]() ![]() ![]() 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by cayorday89(m): 12:41am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Wow, so many gbas gbos on this thread, for me whatever everyone thinks or say is right because these things are staring at us from different angles and we tend to comment or give our opinions on the angle from which it is staring at us. I for one, will not have to fight or have a direct encounter with the spouse/partner of my siblings if by chance I am disrespected, I will give my distance to him/her and face my siblings and tell them to rethink thier choices if it is still reversible and also make them know that their spouse cannot disrespect me for no just reason as I am responsible for myself. And since it is their marriage I can always say hello from afar. Thier choices, their wahala, their joy and happiness which ever is the case. 4 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by aminusodiq(m): 1:28am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Double0h7:. 3 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Mariangeles(f): 1:39am On Jan 18, 2022 |
pocohantas: Beat up who? Our wife? Na me go marry my brother? There are ways to go about things without violence, and still achieve the desired result. No be everything be by fight. [s]Now that you are threatening fire and brimstone online[/s], care to share what you would have done OFFLINE in this situation? Maybe OP would learn something from your I like to mind my business, and I respect boundaries, but if my brother's wife were stoop so low as to insult my brother in my presence, telling him to Go and marry the maid na, I'll tell her to her face not to disrespect him like that again, at least, not in my presence. Anyhow wey them wan take sort their matter after I'm gone, that one na their business. I no dey kuku like form familiarity. All that I ask is that she treats my brother right. Na wife wey calm down we go love. Nobody dey follow you drag husband. It is against everything I believe in to go after my brother’s wife in the scenario described by the OP. My brother is married and my mum complains of the usual mother complaints. But that me, Poco, would leave my job and house to go confront her? Lol. The best I can do is advise my brother, then like you rightly read, mind my business. OK. 1 Like |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Lamanii22(f): 1:53am On Jan 18, 2022 |
flington4550: Omg! This is shocking!!! How's his wife now |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Kobojunkie: 4:00am On Jan 18, 2022 |
aminusodiq:Your uncle died abruptly? Did she murder him or something? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by aminusodiq(m): 4:38am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: . |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Kobojunkie: 4:43am On Jan 18, 2022 |
aminusodiq:Wait a second.... Why is his terminal illness courtesy of negligence on her part? Why didn't your uncle seek help for what was ailing him? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Kobojunkie: 4:47am On Jan 18, 2022 |
flington4550:You blame your uncle's suicide on his wife? Why? Did your uncle leave a suicide letter blaming his wife.for his taking his life or is this a rush to judgement on your part as his family members? ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Adejuwonhis(m): 5:25am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Life is sweet,,avoid all dis stress keep people at arm length.God known I hav uncle who are rich buh I just need to make my own dole too can’t even sleep in my brother house.. 1 Like |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by 1Satanist: 6:05am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Rachel98: Give it time. It may take long though |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by 1Satanist: 6:23am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Richy4(m): 6:25am On Jan 18, 2022 |
aboyaji: I managed to read all your post here... It was straight from the heart.. Do not give up on your brother.. You have to understand that Some people came from disintegrated family, they have no idea how knitted ones feels like.. So it's always easy to tell u to mind your business..they will always advise based on what they know... Don't feel bad about certain advise u receive.. a lot of them might not know any better.. As for the OP, u should be happy that it was only random talk... And she didn't demand for your drivers licence before entering into her kitchen to cook indomie without permission...I heard a lot of them ask for permission before u go into their kitchen... 9 Likes
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Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by ChybuzzDD(m): 6:50am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: You guys should stop giving this kind of stupid advice. It's not his business, but when he dies prematurely, his family will be called to spend their money on his burial, right? Anything they can do now to save their brother/son, is in order. This pretense must stop 6 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Nobody: 7:42am On Jan 18, 2022 |
ChybuzzDD:Seriously, very foolish comments from some folks here. Giving your married siblings space shouldn't imply keeping off completely . I mean, we've been together before the wife came in, then we abandon you all of a sudden because you got a wife? Trust you wouldn't be needing us when trouble comes? I will lose every respect for any of my brothers that sees the wife disrespect his family, yet, does nothing to call her to order. Funnily, most times, the so called wife behaves differently towards her own relatives, but wants to treat her husband's with disdain because she's securing her territory? She must be a very foolish woman. 10 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Nobody: 8:12am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Realestbae:You're the foolish one here for spewing this kinda trash. I'm a lady but so ashamed of some comments I'm reading here. Her brother shouldn't support his family because he is married? Why calling her family "leech"? I pity ladies like you that bring separation between a man and his family, it never ends well. Also, you will have sons someday who will desert you when they marry. 16 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by aminusodiq(m): 8:46am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:. 7 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Shegzdave: 9:06am On Jan 18, 2022 |
pocohantas:Tho,The fault is from the guy due to his poor taste in women but we tend to overlook the mistakes of our loved ones esp immediate Family and blame the other party, it’s not like I’m supporting him buh since the mistake had been done,the next step is solution. You gerrit ? You sha wantu sit and maintain beauty like you always state in your diary ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by pocohantas(f): 9:36am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Mariangeles: Continue. When you do it in offline, be nice enough to come tell me how that scene played out. We would know who is more in touch with reality. ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by mediainc: 9:41am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Women are mostly like that, especially to poor people. Make your own money, go there less. 1 Like |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by izubext007: 9:43am On Jan 18, 2022 |
My brother nothing like jazz, ur elder brother don't just knw any thing about woman. If any woman is misbehaving, he started right from courtship. 1 Like |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Otunbakolawole0: 9:43am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Siddon for your house jeje and maintain your lane. Your brother would be fine las las. Rachel98: |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by jimtemi1: 9:45am On Jan 18, 2022 |
What your business? Leave him alone and face your life. If her wife no charm am, na concubine u want make she do am? |
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