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Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by juri: 11:42am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Iyaebe: The relevant question here is; 1. Is he/she a bad girl/man or possess any character traits that warrant your concern for him/her not to be with the other person?. If the answer is no then you attitude towards them is unjustified. She is an adult and knows what she wants. There is no point her pretending about it. If you feel differently about it then that is your opinion which you have a right to, just as she has similar right to be entitled to hers and both act and think the way she did. Come to think of it, you said she is your friend, has she in the past displayed such attitude towards other men or in the habit of doing so in the past?. If no, then isn't it Posible that she had finally met someone she truely connects and likes and therefore express her genuine feelings?. Forget about all these appearing to look cheap talk. If you are cheap, you are cheap, whether you pretend about it or not, at the end of the day, you are who you are. Rather than thinking of scattering it, which by the way is a ridiculous thought, you should be happy for someone you call FRIEND had found someone she likes, especially if your cousin is a decent guy. A song is no song until you sing it. Love is no Love until you show it. I wish her well. 8 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Tallesty1(m): 11:42am On Jan 18, 2022 |
The OP knows her friend more than any of you here. She knows the kinda life they live(d) and she knows that her friend is not good for cousin. The only thing she doesn't know is how to make her cousin understand this without exposing herself. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Daxyd4realzy(m): 11:58am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Show me your friends.... No peace to Simps |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Innobee99(m): 12:12pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Iyaebe:All I see is an enemy of progress unless ur cousin is under age or maybe ur friend is a bad friend. But I doubt if she's a bad person cuz if she is, u would have discarded her since. Go and marry and don't die in silence 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by sharpwriter(m): 12:27pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
candygist:OP is female |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Johnsown1(m): 1:55pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
You are been paranoid, jealous and inferiority complex is getting you cheap. Have you approach your so-called friend (boy friend or fiance) about your fears. have you introduced her as a cousin to your friend. doesn't your friend value your love or friendship? |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Oladayoade12: 2:07pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Truvelisback(m): 2:08pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Carchoice:And she be marriage counselor. 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Nobody: 2:16pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
You guys on this nairaland forum don't live your reality the way you say it here.Most of you will frown if she were your sister but here they are making me feel as if I'm the wicked person in all of these.Mtcheww 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by amadaovie(m): 2:21pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Wooooooooooooooooooo.......Jealousyyyyyyyyyyy. Enemy of progress. Abeg allow your cousin scatter that puna joor. I dey suspect say the babe fine pass you. Go look for your own. Woooooooooooooooo!!!!!! |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Truvelisback(m): 2:22pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Iyaebe:She likes him. Allow her. She needs a man in her life. Besides, she isn't a stranger. She is ur friend. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Nobody: 2:22pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Innobee99:Will you say same if she were your sister and openly throwing herself at someone she just met so cheap. I sneakly checked my cuzins phone this morning and dialed her number and it was confirmed that they already exchanged number,well I deleted her number from his phone.She will seize to be my friend immediately my cuzin is gone,she should carry her cheap self elsewhere. Now I believe what they say about Benue girls.hian 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Solsix(m): 2:23pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Illuminatiship:Sum for u. Do you have PhD in wickedness?? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by macho44(m): 2:25pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Iyaebe:Your Friend Has Found Her Dream Man, Biko Allow Her Shoot Her Shot In Peace. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Truvelisback:Our house is now her second house because of man,even if I told her I'm not around she will still come.Very disgusting attitude 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Innobee99(m): 2:26pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Iyaebe:Why are u just been bitter unnecessarily? What's wrong with ur friend dating ur cousin if u are just been a wicked friend. Is ur cousin complaining that ur friend is bothering her. For ur information, note that u deleting ur cousin's number won't change anything. Ur cousin will call her if she Doesn't call in a while. Once again, Aunty go and Marry 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by macho44(m): 2:26pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Iyaebe:Alaye!!! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Truvelisback(m): 2:28pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Iyaebe:I see....U can't stand the bond btw them. I understand, U will get urs. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Iyaebe: There's nothing like show of shame here. It's you whos being unnecessarily jealous and needs to watch it! She's free to dot on anyone she likes and if the person in question doesn't have a problem with it, then fine. Let her be. Don't be a hindrance to somebody's future blessing like someone already said. You too go and look for somebody's cousin or hold your peace. I'm out! 8 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by isama14: 3:25pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
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Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by isama14: 3:27pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
You are too intelligent for my liking, honey.quote author=Mercychen post=109478273] There's nothing like show of shame here. It's you whos being unnecessarily jealous and needs to watch it! She's free to dot on anyone she likes and if the person in question doesn't have a problem with it, them fine. Let her be. Don't be a hindrance to somebody's future blessing like someone already said. You too go and look for somebody's cousin or hold your peace. I'm out![/quote] 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by juri: 3:47pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Iyaebe: You have really crossed the line here. This is very manipulative. Trying to subvert someone's will just because it does not suit you, especially in relation to an action that does not even affect you personally. You may need to watch it. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Hudson777: 3:48pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Shedrack777:guy you bad gon 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Hudson777: 3:51pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Iyaebe:it is not irritating na you never see man way tickle your fancy,you go love up once just let her be |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Nobody: 4:15pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Mercychen:Can you do or act same way? |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
juri:So you think? |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Nobody: 4:24pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Is your cousin not attractive? It's normal for every living being to be attracted to or fond of someone and act like your friend in their lifetime; nothing wrong in it. Ok, what about you? When you were dotting on Martinez, did that make you a show of shame? Come on, let's be ourselves and stop acting all saint when we also do the same things we castigate others for. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Mercychen:lol,I just trolled Martinez and nothing else,he's a small boy.I only just like a nairalander so much but I avoid him like a plague. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by tiffanyfan(f): 4:29pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
[quote author=Iyaebe post=109461282]My friend came to visit last Sunday and met my cousin brother who came visiting, she asked who he was and I told her then I noticed she steal glances at him at intervals and not fully interested in our discussion. Ever since then she has sort of made our house her second home and I don't need to be told that she's very interested in him.Whenever she comes around and we are discussing, she will just be nodding and contributing with few words while her main work is to be stealing glances at him and this has made me so angry that each time she calls that she's coming I'll tell her I'm not home but she will still come.Yesterday when she called to inform me that she was coming which I told her I was not home and I will branch her place when I'm returning. I knew she will come, so I went to hide in my room, and behold when I came out,I met her and my cousin having some conversation and I'm sure she initiated it,I didn't even give her face as I was so annoyed as to why a lady will present herself so cheap for a man she barely knows.Now I want to fully stop her from coming to our house but I don't know where to pick on her because she's a nice person aside this cheap silly attitude she's displaying. How do I go about it?[/quote You should ask some of those gentle and wicked women how they keep husband's family away from their house after jazzing up the husband up 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Nobody: 4:29pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Iyaebe: You? trolled Martinez? **yinmu**. Ok, the girl too is trolling your cousin because she likes him too. ![]() Just leave them alone, Rozz. Overlook. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Nobody: 4:32pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Mercychen:I'll try but shame is catching me for her 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Eh.. just cover your face and walk away. Try, biko. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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