Iyaebe:
You all don't understand and it makes me feel bad,she's acting so cheap and she's not comporting herself just because she saw an attractive man.She's too forward and it's irritating

Iyaebe:
My friend came to visit last Sunday and met my cousin brother who came visiting, she asked who he was and I told her then I noticed she steal glances at him at intervals and not fully interested in our discussion. Ever since then she has sort of made our house her second home and I don't need to be told that she's very interested in him.Whenever she comes around and we are discussing, she will just be nodding and contributing with few words while her main work is to be stealing glances at him and this has made me so angry that each time she calls that she's coming I'll tell her I'm not home but she will still come.Yesterday when she called to inform me that she was coming which I told her I was not home and I will branch her place when I'm returning. I knew she will come, so I went to hide in my room, and behold when I came out,I met her and my cousin having some conversation and I'm sure she initiated it,I didn't even give her face as I was so annoyed as to why a lady will present herself so cheap for a man she barely knows.Now I want to fully stop her from coming to our house but I don't know where to pick on her because she's a nice person aside this cheap silly attitude she's displaying. How do I go about it?

candygist:


You are getting jealous and it scares you that your cousin might poke her. Lol. I’m sure she now have your cousins phone number and she will end up poking your cousin. Take heart bro. Life no balance

Carchoice:
You are a wicked human female. Instead of you to help those two get entangled you are getting bitter. E dey pain you

Iyaebe:
My friend came to visit last Sunday and met my cousin brother who came visiting, she asked who he was and I told her then I noticed she steal glances at him at intervals and not fully interested in our discussion. Ever since then she has sort of made our house her second home and I don't need to be told that she's very interested in him.Whenever she comes around and we are discussing, she will just be nodding and contributing with few words while her main work is to be stealing glances at him and this has made me so angry that each time she calls that she's coming I'll tell her I'm not home but she will still come.Yesterday when she called to inform me that she was coming which I told her I was not home and I will branch her place when I'm returning. I knew she will come, so I went to hide in my room, and behold when I came out,I met her and my cousin having some conversation and I'm sure she initiated it,I didn't even give her face as I was so annoyed as to why a lady will present herself so cheap for a man she barely knows.Now I want to fully stop her from coming to our house but I don't know where to pick on her because she's a nice person aside this cheap silly attitude she's displaying. How do I go about it?

Iyaebe:
You guys on this nairaland forum don't live your reality the way you say it here.Most of you will frown if she were your sister but here they are making me feel as if I'm the wicked person in all of these.Mtcheww

Innobee99:
All I see is an enemy of progress unless ur cousin is under age or maybe ur friend is a bad friend.
But I doubt if she's a bad person cuz if she is, u would have discarded her since.


Go and marry and don't die in silence

Illuminatiship:
See easy hide your cousin's phone and accuse her of stealing it and watch her never come to your house,you can thank later..

Iyaebe:
Not even about money because they are very rich,she should know how to hide her attraction. hian

Truvelisback:
She likes him. Allow her. She needs a man in her life. Besides, she isn't a stranger. She is ur friend.

Iyaebe:
Will you say same if she were your sister and openly throwing herself at someone she just met so cheap. I sneakly checked my cuzins phone this morning and dialed her number and it was confirmed that they already exchanged number,well I deleted her number from his phone.She will seize to be my friend immediately my cuzin is gone,she should carry her cheap self elsewhere. Now I believe what they say about Benue girls.hian

Iyaebe:
You guys on this nairaland forum don't live your reality the way you say it here.Most of you will frown if she were your sister but here they are making me feel as if I'm the wicked person in all of these.Mtcheww

Iyaebe:
Our house is now her second house because of man,even if I told her I'm not around she will still come.Very disgusting attitude

Iyaebe:
She's a nice person but I'm surprised at this her show of shame

Iyaebe:
Will youNo be juju be this?� say same if she were your sister and openly throwing herself at someone she just met so cheap. I sneakly checked my cuzins phone this morning and dialed her number and it was confirmed that they already exchanged number,well I deleted her number from his phone.She will seize to be my friend immediately my cuzin is gone,she should carry her cheap self elsewhere. Now I believe what they say about Benue girls.hian

Iyaebe:
Will you say same if she were your sister and openly throwing herself at someone she just met so cheap. I sneakly checked my cuzins phone this morning and dialed her number and it was confirmed that they already exchanged number,well I deleted her number from his phone.She will seize to be my friend immediately my cuzin is gone,she should carry her cheap self elsewhere. Now I believe what they say about Benue girls.hian

Shedrack777:
i get the point most of you fail to notice, the op and her friend normally turn men to their atm. so now, that the friend is eyein her cousin bro, she felt same will be done to her bro, and she have to stop her friend to save her cousin hard earned cash. na bush meat wan catch hunter. KARMA

Iyaebe:
You all don't understand and it makes me feel bad,she's acting so cheap and she's not comporting herself just because she saw an attractive man.She's too forward and it's irritating

Mercychen:


There's nothing like show of shame here. It's you whos being unnecessarily jealous and needs to watch it!

She's free to dot on anyone she likes and if the person in question doesn't have a problem with it, them fine. Let her be. Don't be a hindrance to somebody's future blessing like someone already said.

You too go and look for somebody's cousin or hold your peace.

I'm out!

juri:


You have really crossed the line here. This is very manipulative. Trying to subvert someone's will just because it does not suit you, especially in relation to an action that does not even affect you personally. You may need to watch it.

Iyaebe:
Can you do or act same way?

Mercychen:


Is your cousin not attractive? It's normal for every living being to be attracted to or fond of someone and act like your friend in their life; nothing wrong in it.

Ok, what about you? When you were dotting on Martinez, did that make you a show of shame? Come on, let's be ourselves and stop acting all saint when we also do the same thing we castigate others for.

Iyaebe:
lol,I just trolled Martinez and nothing else,he's a small boy.I only just like a nairalander so much but I avoid him like a plague.

Mercychen:


You? trolled Martinez? **yinmu**.

Ok, the girl too is trolling your cousin because she likes him too. .

Just leave them alone, Rozz. Overlook.

Iyaebe:
I'll try but shame is catching me for her