BigBashiru:


You are one of those evil women looking to use naive men as retirement package. Men now know that game so too bad for you!

oldienavie:
If you are wondering why I am not married at 36 years old, I was abroad studying and did not want to marry Oyinbo.

Stargurl20:

It's well. Truth is bitter. Like I stated up there, I'm not convincing the OP. And if u do not know me, u have no right to say that trash of a comment u typed up there.

If u are among those guys who use women, and still be the first to badmouth and say evill things about them. Karma is awaiting u. That's all I've to say. Take care.

BigBashiru:


I don't use any women so I'm not afraid of "karma"... I'm against women using men.... if ur not a d*ck taster of various d*cks then fine.... ur one of us.... but if ur looking for a retirement package then karma will make sure u don't end up with a great man....

Enough of bad girls trying to eat dia cake and having it....

oldienavie:
If you are wondering why I am not married at 36 years old, I was abroad studying and did not want to marry Oyinbo.

BigBashiru:


Pls what's this supposed to mean?? Blacks reason far better than oyinbos... pls don't try this nonsense again!

Babaken:
sorry sir please accept my apology.

alphaNomega:


Age is just a number until you start looking for IVF centres doing promo

alphaNomega:
This guy no get instincts na why he come nairaland

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

overflow1:
Bros marry this lady
The best thing to do when you see what you want is to take action.

Don't think she will wait if you delay. Other guys wey get eye near her may be watching you. Any little chance they will take her.

I got my wife when one guy dating her was thinking as you do. A little space of laxity by him, I attached myself, solidified my ground and took full position.

He regretted it. He kept chatting my wife till I told her to block him. It's not wickedness, it's called protecting what you love.

oldienavie:

She ticks all my boxes, I just feel that women age faster than men.
I see a lot of married men running after younger ladies , thats not something I pray for in my marriage.

remsonik:
What goes around, comes around. Look for the younger ones and when you grow old that you're down she starts flirting around and you face a lot of dramas that you can't fight. No one to cleanse you, no one to keep your company, help take care of you, feed you or even fulfill your sexual urges that will only come once in a month. Your balls are weak and can't produce good sperm for a child and she brings in children from another man into your home which you cater for unknowingly

BigBashiru:


Africans are among the smartest people on earth and are at least just as smart as others; western media knows this and tried to subdue the Blackman psychologically thru colonial brainwashing.... the continent is underdeveloped due to the interference of the so called "G7" who are in actual fact poor states and thieves....

ThinkSmarter:
Aging is genetic, there are many women in their 40s that look younger than some women in their late 20s and 30s.
A 32 year old women that still looks beautiful won't turn ugly overnight.
At 32, most male and female have attained their full growth, size~wise.
Many wonders can happen in that ur so called slim 22year old women b4 she reaches 32.
Follow ur instincts, age is a variable.
Between two 30yr old women with life expectancy of 60 and 80 respectively, u can't expect both to age at same pace.
go for that lady if she is physically appealing and she tick most of ur box.
mature ladies are more respectful and loving.
she will give u peace of mind that u may not get from that younger lady.
meanwhile, follow ur heart.

InTheCloudySky:
Firstly, as a man, you have a shorter life expectancy than her. Just a lil' fyi.

Secondly, the idea that she will age faster than you is ludicrous and you being delusional, because YOU ARE 4-YEARS OLDER THAN HER.

Finally, if we were to put your photos side by side, we can most definitely tell who's older: YOU. I wouldn't be surprised if you're already spotting some greys either.

Finally finally, you don't love her, otherwise you wouldn't be asking this absurd question.

I mean, if she's too old for you to marry at 32, then she ought to think twice about marrying your ancient 36-year old behind.

ThinkSmarter:
Aging is genetic, there are many women in their 40s that look younger than some women in their late 20s and 30s.
A 32 year old women that still looks beautiful won't turn ugly overnight.
At 32, most male and female have attained their full growth, size~wise.
Many wonders can happen in that ur so called slim 22year old women b4 she reaches 32.
Follow ur instincts, age is a variable.
Between two 30yr old women with life expectancy of 60 and 80 respectively, u can't expect both to age at same pace.
go for that lady if she is physically appealing and she tick most of ur box.
mature ladies are more respectful and loving.
she will give u peace of mind that u may not get from that younger lady.
meanwhile, follow ur heart.

BigBashiru:


And if the guy is the religious type he will become a fornicator adulterer, sexually immoral and all sorts of religious names that he will be called.... why don't men just embrace holy polygamy??

Babaken:
sorry sir please accept my apology.

remsonik:
What goes around, comes around. Look for the younger ones and when you grow old that you're down she starts flirting around and you face a lot of dramas that you can't fight. No one to cleanse you, no one to keep your company, help take care of you, feed you or even fulfill your sexual urges that will only come once in a month. Your balls are weak and can't produce good sperm for a child and she brings in children from another man into your home which you cater for unknowingly

Glycolite:


Smiles, you're trying too hard.

You're trying too hard to deny the fact that men and women don't as age the same.
You're trying too hard to make readers think a man that's 36 years old is "older" compare to a woman of 32 years old when it comes to relationship.
The fact is that time is men's best friend,and no matter the shaming tactics and manipulation you employ , it's not going to change such fact.
A man in his 50th can comfortablely get married,not just getting married,but getting married to a woman in her 20s, can't say the same of a woman just above her 30s.

@Oldienavie, don't be deceived,you want a younger woman,go for it.
A man that's 36 is still very young in the journey of life when compared to a woman who is even in her late 20s.
Women ,most times,looks older than their age, especially after they start giving birth,so, it's advisable you go for women who are way younger than you.

iamL:


As a lady never feel bad abt your age, just be yourself and don't settle for less because u feel time is running out. Someone out there Will do anything to be with you at the right time.

Don't be moved by what these NL boys and women-hatters are spreewing.

quentin06:

Let me tell you a secret, men are polygamous by nature.
One woman can never satisfy a real man.
Forget those stories of couples being married for 32 years, the only way the man can stay that long with that woman is by browsing other women.

Glycolite:


Smiles,the reality is that a man that knows his worth is not going to settle for older woman a.ka "mature ladies" when there are younger women out there.
Your father settled for your younger mother for a reason .
Your grand father settled for your grand mother when she was younger for a reason.
And it goes on and on and on.
No matter how hard you guys try to paint younger women as "bad and not good for long tern commitment plans],because you perceive them as big threat to your long term commitment plans,most men will always go for younger women.
Most of us are not ready to deal with older women a.k.a "mature ladies" past baggages .
Deal with it.

BigBashiru:


They think they can argue out nature with logic.
Let me also say another truth pocahontas cococandy cocolady iyabe make all of u a hear:

50 year old men truly desire 16-22 year olds just that they have been shamed out of it. Even 51 year senators in the North still go for 19 year olds. They are happy to deal with the so called "immaturity". Who no like better thing?

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

Glycolite:


Hello bro,please I will love if you had used women that are 18 years old and above in your age range sample.
The truth is that " the law" is going to employ every means possible to send you behind bars if you're caught having a sexual dealing with a lady below 18 years old, whether the relationship was conceptual or not .
Have a great day.

BigBashiru:


There are countries such as Canada where 16 is an age of consent. Again u hv given into fear....

Personally sha I only do 18 & above but that's not to say there are countries where 16 isn't legal....

So dem don use law to pit fear in ur souls that men no longer go for wat they want. Fear fear.