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Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Ishilove: 7:42pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
pocohantas:You make so much sense. 1 Like |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by socialmediaman: 7:43pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
descarado: I agree, also calls for a measured approach. Men generally grow and mature with time (though differently) in a relationship. A time comes when even the craziest of men start calming down and start listening more, things like family start taking more important places in their lives. Just like dads and moms who were high handed with their kids start being more respectful as the child grows and continues to table their disagreements |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by descarado: 8:41pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
pocohantas:Mistakes our parents made. They want us to continue enabling that. How can an adult misbehave and not apologise? We don't have anything in common until you tender the deserved apology. I shouldn't tell you what to do. It's paramount to chose who align with your beliefs before one tie the knot. One if not the most important trait to look out for in a man is flexibility. If he is flexible,he will apologise when necessary even if he continues, apology is a must. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by ImaIma1(f): 8:16am On Jan 20, 2022 |
chatinent: Na una no dey apologize. That's why why you are giving advice tending towards accepting bad behaviour. OP don't mind chatinet and his other friend up there. When a person offends, he/she should take responsibility and accept the wrong and apologize. Forget men always using ego to cover things up. As for me, you have to apologize and not form like you are above being wrong. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by ImaIma1(f): 8:29am On Jan 20, 2022 |
Ishilove: Sometimes having a talk and confronting him with questions is the way. Questions like: Why don't you apologize when you offend? Am I too small or beneath you that you cannot apologize when you wrong me? How do you teach your children to apologize when you cannot apologize? Should I stop apologizing to you when I offend you? And stop telling the kids to apologize when they are wrong? There are some things that need fire brigade approach. Not all this "speak to him nicely" blah blah. And when you say it once, you leave it and start taking actions on it. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by chatinent: 8:54am On Jan 20, 2022 |
ImaIma1: You are right, sha. I just even realized I offended iyawo mi without knowing and thinking I deserve an apology. Make I call am fess. Choi. |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by ImaIma1(f): 9:06am On Jan 20, 2022 |
chatinent: You deserve an apology or she deserves an apology? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by chatinent: 9:56am On Jan 20, 2022 |
ImaIma1: Apologized to my queen. Choi. Such a lovely better half. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Ishilove: 10:35am On Jan 20, 2022 |
ImaIma1:I am bookmarking this comment. ![]() |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:37am On Jan 20, 2022 |
ImaIma1: Words of wisdom. Graceama come and take notes. 2 Likes |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Klass99(f): 2:06pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
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Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 3:38pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Klass99:Glad to share ![]() Thank you 4 Likes |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by graceama: 5:02pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Noted |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by crackhaus: 6:42pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Make I even go read wetin dey the OP wey make all these NL womens dey hyperventilate... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by crackhaus: 6:47pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
graceama:It's surprising no one has asked you to tell us what he did exactly. And this one you're busy counting his wrong doings, is it that he just enjoys hurting your feelings deliberately over and over again? Because if this is the case, then it's not apologies you should be looking for, but an escape route. 2 Likes |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Kobojunkie: 6:56pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Ishilove:Don't forget to come back and tell us of the wonderful answers you get in response to the questions abeg.... I would very much like to read what your manipulative other tells you in responds to those questions of yours ![]() |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Kobojunkie: 7:01pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
graceama:Please don't forget to regale us with details of the comebacks for asking the particular questions abeg. ![]() |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by graceama: 8:14pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I don't really understand you |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Kobojunkie: 8:19pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
graceama:Nevermind! ![]() |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Ishilove: 8:20pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:It will like end up with more arguments but nothing tried, nothing gained. ![]() |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Mariangeles(f): 8:26pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Kobo ehn! O wa l'ara yin. ![]() |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Mariangeles(f): 8:27pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Kobojunkie: 8:28pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Ishilove:Oh, you will definitely gain more insight into the workings of manipulative mind. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Kobojunkie: 8:48pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Mariangeles:There's a lot you don't know about me. ![]() |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by ImaIma1(f): 8:49pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Klass99: ![]() Accepting it will later cause big problems as someone mentioned. It's best to discuss it. But many guys here try to make it seem like marriage is a slave-master relationship where the man can get away with anything. Conspicuously enough, men are scarce on this thread. They know they are guilty. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Kobojunkie: 8:50pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Mariangeles:As in? ![]() Wait a second... why do you chose to type in yoruba language to me though? ![]() |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by ImaIma1(f): 8:50pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Ishilove: ![]() It's not going down well with some people that believe they have the answers to EVERYTHING though. But they know better than to quote me ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Mariangeles(f): 8:56pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Well, the nairaland you that I know never give up on an argument. Kobojunkie: You seem to understand it. ![]() |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Kobojunkie: 8:56pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
descarado:Nagging should be a no-no abeg! There is absolutely no benefit to that behavior, but a potentially hefty psychological price to be paid by the one who nags. ![]() If the goal is to resist transferring aggression to others, I would recommend instead that people who find themselves in such environments find other ways to relieve stress eg. Join a gym or sports, try gardening, Journaling etc., anything but nagging abeg. ![]() |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Kobojunkie: 9:01pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Mariangeles:That is not true of my person or my nairaland character at all. ![]() I can pretty much read and comprehend all 3 of the major Nigerian languages in Nigeria ... well, mostly yoruba and Igbo. Just wandering why you chose to write in yorua here when you have been on a igbo spree for some time now. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Mariangeles(f): 9:15pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Hmmm. ![]() I can pretty much read and comprehend all 3 of the major Nigerian languages in Nigeria ... well, mostly Yoruba and Igbo. Just wandering why you chose to write in Yoruba here when you have been on a Igbo spree for some time now. You do? I mean, you can read and understand those Igbo that I type? ![]() |
Re: The Best Way To Get A Spouse That Hardly Admit/apologize When He Is Wrong,to Do by Kobojunkie: 9:20pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
Mariangeles:I quit when I am done... I even unfollow threads out of boredom and that happens several times in each a day. ![]() Ofcourse, i grew up in Lagos and i schooled near the north so I would say I am your typical well rounded Nigerian. ![]() |
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