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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by Spy360(m): 8:49pm On Jan 21, 2022
AntiYahooYahoo:
So me and this girl have been friends for two months now. So I jokingly asked her out some days ago. I was expecting a No. But she surprised me with Yes.

Though beautiful, I am not ready for any relationship now. Not in the right state of mind. Ever since I asked this girl out. She has done too much to please me. She has spent money to do things I didn't ask her to. Sacrificed a lot. Doing too much to please me. But, I actually asked her out by mistake.

I don't love her like that. I just wish I could tell her but don't want her to feel bad. She also saved me from loosing my job 4 days ago. She told me today that she took the sacrifice cuz we're dating. If not she wouldn't. Guys, what do I do?

No sex yet. Not sexually attracted to her too and I know if I continue faking it. She will one day ask why I never touched her

We're both graduates and works in same company


Modified: I forgot to add that she told me she sent my pictures to their family Whatsapp group and everyone was okay with me. I just feel like I'm in a deep mess
Try telling her you want to marry her. I promise you she will run away. undecided
Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by Boogyman557: 8:50pm On Jan 21, 2022
AntiYahooYahoo:
I'm not an ungrateful fraudster like you. Single Sense you don't have. You Can't even type like human being
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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by AntiYahooYahoo: 8:55pm On Jan 21, 2022
Spy360:

Try telling her you want to marry her. I promise you she will run away. undecided
From frying pan to fire. Are you mad or something? Told you her family have my picture. Only God knows what she told them about me. Now you're talking of marriage? What if she jumps up for joy? Remember I didn't plan this one I'm in

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by MufasaLion: 8:56pm On Jan 21, 2022
If you having girl problems, I feel bad for you, son. I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one.
Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by AntiYahooYahoo: 8:59pm On Jan 21, 2022
MufasaLion:
If you having girl problems, I feel bad for you, son. I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one.
Then bury your head against my post. This is complicated cuz of my job and her kindness so far. I'm not your four father's mate. Don't call me son

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by MufasaLion: 9:04pm On Jan 21, 2022
AntiYahooYahoo:
Then bury your head against my post. This is complicated cuz of my job and her kindness so far. I'm not your four father's mate. Don't call me son

Four father's mate? grin grin grin

Son, you're still a toddler. Goodbye.

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by Nobody: 9:14pm On Jan 21, 2022
AntiYahooYahoo:
She doesn't deserve this bro. Funniest thing is her estate is close to mine and her bestie is my neighbor. I can't have another girl without her knowing. She once said she wonders what she'll do if she comes to my place and meet another woman. I feel like I'm in trouble. She's too valuable. Especially at work. So I can't just break her heart. It'll affect my job

This is exactly why you're a SIMP! angry

Women love it when girls are all over a particular guy, this is why bad guys/ red pillers are hot guys. That girl wants you to step up your game and stop being emotionally weak angry.

E sure die say another nigga dey bang that girl pussy on a steady and you're here simp-ing around!

Oga, stop being a weakling, Bang that girl and stop behaving like a pussy ass nigga angry
Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by bestdefender: 9:33pm On Jan 21, 2022
My man u gat no option than to date her,
Buhari came in by mistake u know?

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by Nobody: 9:33pm On Jan 21, 2022
Op no like the girl, baba follow her go that date and no catch yeye feelings o.
Just a friendly date, no try kiss am. Also, during the fun just tell am say you were just bored and needed to have fun with a friend.
I detest office romance cus it doesn't end well. And try make am understand say you no be her boyfriend, make she stop dey announce am to her people. Men should learn how to express themselves without being scared or emotional. Imagine entering this relationship out of pity. You go just break her heart las las

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by Exjoker(m): 10:03pm On Jan 21, 2022
Just proceed with taking her out bro.
It is no big deal, just sure you avoid discussing relationships issues with her.

And again, you can make the outing a short one, just go out, eat and then take her home. All in less than 2hours...

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by techWriter3: 10:11pm On Jan 21, 2022
Asked her out by mistake? timeframe her by correct.
Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by paul100(m): 10:24pm On Jan 21, 2022
GoodHardDick:


This is exactly why you're a SIMP! angry

Women love it when girls are all over a particular guy, this is why bad guys/ red pillers are hot guys. That girl wants you to step up your game and stop being emotionally weak angry.

E sure die say another nigga dey bang that girl pussy on a steady and you're here simp-ing around!

Oga, stop being a weakling, Bang that girl and stop behaving like a pussy ass nigga angry
So for your mind now,you dey advice person.What does Simp has to do with this.Some of Una here dey behave like people way know get sister or mother.To bang the girl na wetin your brain fit think of.Learn to utilize the brain God gave you.Reason say na your sister dey do this thing.

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by paul100(m): 10:42pm On Jan 21, 2022
My own is no matter anything anybody will tell you here whether good or bad,there is no way you are telling her that it was a joke without her getting hurt.It is impossible.Just tell her now,the earlier the better.But this your female friend sef,she don run go tell her family.Why na??
I don't know her age but it's either she is always disturbed by her family to bring a man or age is not on her side.For what you said about her,she does not deserve this.Tell her abeg.

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by Harddiskng(m): 10:50pm On Jan 21, 2022
AntiYahooYahoo:
So me and this girl have been friends for two months now. So I jokingly asked her out some days ago. I was expecting a No. But she surprised me with Yes.

Though beautiful, I am not ready for any relationship now. Not in the right state of mind. Ever since I asked this girl out. She has done too much to please me. She has spent money to do things I didn't ask her to. Sacrificed a lot. Doing too much to please me. But, I actually asked her out by mistake.

I don't love her like that. I just wish I could tell her but don't want her to feel bad. She also saved me from loosing my job 4 days ago. She told me today that she took the sacrifice cuz we're dating. If not she wouldn't. Guys, what do I do?

No sex yet. Not sexually attracted to her too and I know if I continue faking it. She will one day ask why I never touched her

We're both graduates and works in same company


Modified: I forgot to add that she told me she sent my pictures to their family Whatsapp group and everyone was okay with me. I just feel like I'm in a deep mess

Bruh if you find a woman that loves you with her whole heart in this day and age hold am tight.

You may not love her as much now but love grows with time.

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by BobbieZion(m): 11:22pm On Jan 21, 2022
She is just playing with your mind.
Don't be excited, Nigerian girls are Masters of the game.....

No Love lost,no Love found.
Go Ghost mode.
U don't owe shit.

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by AntiYahooYahoo: 11:49pm On Jan 21, 2022
BobbieZion:
She is just playing with your mind.
Don't be excited, Nigerian girls are Masters of the game.....

No Love lost,no Love found.
Go Ghost mode.
U don't owe shit.
I am not excited Mr Monkey. I am scared. I have anxiety and hoping It doesn't change to hatred. The sacrifices she has made is what none of my male friends, maybe except my best friend, could make. Only one of my friends can do all she has done so far. Aside money, the sacrifices and jobs she gets done for me. It's just too much. I wish I could just stop it. Imagine hinting a girl you don't have money to pay for something and she goes behind your back to make the full payment for you anonymously. Running Office errands you should have ran. Doing all sort of things. I feel like I'm in trouble, especially now that her family now has my picture. Sure one of them will call if I break her heart cuz she's the last born. I'm really bothered

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by Zaheertyler(m): 11:57pm On Jan 21, 2022
AntiYahooYahoo:
So me and this girl have been friends for two months now. So I jokingly asked her out some days ago. I was expecting a No. But she surprised me with Yes.

Though beautiful, I am not ready for any relationship now. Not in the right state of mind. Ever since I asked this girl out. She has done too much to please me. She has spent money to do things I didn't ask her to. Sacrificed a lot. Doing too much to please me. But, I actually asked her out by mistake.

I don't love her like that. I just wish I could tell her but don't want her to feel bad. She also saved me from loosing my job 4 days ago. She told me today that she took the sacrifice cuz we're dating. If not she wouldn't. Guys, what do I do?

No sex yet. Not sexually attracted to her too and I know if I continue faking it. She will one day ask why I never touched her

We're both graduates and works in same company


Modified: I forgot to add that she told me she sent my pictures to their family Whatsapp group and everyone was okay with me. I just feel like I'm in a deep mess
This one Dey find who him go whine this evening

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by BobbieZion(m): 11:58pm On Jan 21, 2022
AntiYahooYahoo:
I am not excited Mr Monkey. I am scared. I have anxiety and hoping It doesn't change to hatred. The sacrifices she has made is what none of my male friends, maybe except my best friend, could make. Only one of my friends can do all she has done so far. Aside money, the sacrifices and jobs she gets done for me. It's just too much. I wish I could just stop it. Imagine hinting a girl you don't have money to pay for something and she goes behind your back to make the full payment for you anonymously. Running Office errands you should have ran. Doing all sort of things. I feel like I'm in trouble, especially now that her family now has my picture. Sure one of them will call if I break her heart cuz she's the last born. I'm really bothered

Yes, that is good of her.
Thank her and appreciate her.
If possible,do her some favors in appreciation.

We call it Obsession, don't get me wrong.
Never hang on... out of pity.
Naija girls are heartless.
Speaking from a real life angle.
Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by meobizy(f): 1:00am On Jan 22, 2022
All these lie lie stories Seun is paying amateurs to create. If you asked her out and she said yes, engage her tomorrow then get married.

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by dontrulee: 1:03am On Jan 22, 2022
Animegirl:
cheesy men are confuse chai.

You see better girl, still they talk rubbish. Pls, tell her you were joking and let her leave your sorry ass for a better man, since you don't like her. Don't waste her time. angry

Men are confuse and some of them don't deserve love from any women

Ladies like you are more confused
The op has a good heart and that's why he is seeking opinion here unlike your Yeye ex boyfriends that dumped your sorry ass after using you. Bingo!

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 3:01am On Jan 22, 2022
Elianawalker:
It may sound weird to you sir but i think you are in the right relationship...

It's best she loves you more than you love her... no girl will tell you this truth sir but I just did...


Maybe when you both get sexually active your feelings might grow for her but be careful not to love her more than she loves you. If you do she might start fucking with your mind...


Keep this secret to yourself sir.
Hehe sexually active kwa? The way you guys make fornication look normal is shocking to say the least!

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by CrownOfClay724: 6:47am On Jan 22, 2022
Oti wò one chance.
Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by CrownOfClay724: 6:50am On Jan 22, 2022
meobizy:
All these lie lie stories Seun is paying amateurs to create. If you asked her out and she said yes, engage her tomorrow then get married.

cheesy grin

It is not like that ni.

Why so fast?

He barely knows her.
Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by phemmyfour: 6:58am On Jan 22, 2022
AntiYahooYahoo:
So me and this girl have been friends for two months now. So I jokingly asked her out some days ago. I was expecting a No. But she surprised me with Yes.

Though beautiful, I am not ready for any relationship now. Not in the right state of mind. Ever since I asked this girl out. She has done too much to please me. She has spent money to do things I didn't ask her to. Sacrificed a lot. Doing too much to please me. But, I actually asked her out by mistake.

I don't love her like that. I just wish I could tell her but don't want her to feel bad. She also saved me from loosing my job 4 days ago. She told me today that she took the sacrifice cuz we're dating. If not she wouldn't. Guys, what do I do?

No sex yet. Not sexually attracted to her too and I know if I continue faking it. She will one day ask why I never touched her

We're both graduates and works in same company


Modified: I forgot to add that she told me she sent my pictures to their family Whatsapp group and everyone was okay with me. I just feel like I'm in a deep mess
You don buy market, next is wedding date. Let me know when the aso ebi is out grin

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by sharpwriter(m): 1:32pm On Jan 22, 2022
cutecommend:
You must face it....Go and manage the consequences of your joke..
Lol

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Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by baralatie(m): 1:36pm On Jan 22, 2022
AntiYahooYahoo:
you are the one that is drunk. It was a joke. Like I wasn't seriously asking her out. I thought she will laugh about it . I never knew it will end in this kind of trouble. Advise me if you have sense. If not, just leave me alone and let others help
Others to help you date her?
Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by KingDash: 1:39pm On Jan 22, 2022
AntiYahooYahoo:
So me and this girl have been friends for two months now. So I jokingly asked her out some days ago. I was expecting a No. But she surprised me with Yes.

Though beautiful, I am not ready for any relationship now. Not in the right state of mind. Ever since I asked this girl out. She has done too much to please me. She has spent money to do things I didn't ask her to. Sacrificed a lot. Doing too much to please me. But, I actually asked her out by mistake.

I don't love her like that. I just wish I could tell her but don't want her to feel bad. She also saved me from loosing my job 4 days ago. She told me today that she took the sacrifice cuz we're dating. If not she wouldn't. Guys, what do I do?

No sex yet. Not sexually attracted to her too and I know if I continue faking it. She will one day ask why I never touched her

We're both graduates and works in same company


Modified: I forgot to add that she told me she sent my pictures to their family Whatsapp group and everyone was okay with me. I just feel like I'm in a deep mess
na this kind woman I dey find baba.. hold am tight bruh.
Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by meobizy(f): 1:53pm On Jan 22, 2022
CrownOfClay724:


cheesy grin

It is not like that ni.

Why so fast?

He barely knows her.

He knows her well enough.
Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by Bolsman(m): 5:59pm On Jan 22, 2022
Learn to love her. Consider the sacrifices she did for you. Besides, "when a woman loves, she loves for real". - R Kelly

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