Totoismyhome:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have been with my husband for 13 years, 3 years as a married couple. In those 13 years, We have only had sex 5 times, because I have been suffering from candidiasis for over a decade. I can only have sex with him when I apply an anaesthetic gel to my vagina. He claims the whole set up turns him off, and recently, he doesn't even get hard anymore. We conceived our son with a syringe.

He's so insensitive that he takes sides with my employees against me. He claims I am mean to people beneath me. He has quarreled with me because of the cleaner, the nanny, the carpenter etc

We don't live together (we have never really lived together), so he gets househelps to do chores for him, and he sleeps with them sometimes.

Whenever we quarrel, he is always quick to come up with "pseudo-apologies".

I feel he is the most wicked man in the world, and I have made it clear to him that as he is enjoying his youth with all those sl__ts, I will make him suffer in his old age.

I just came here to vent.

Good day ma'am
I actually feel your pain

Its understandable that what you are going through is not your fault
You need three things at this moment

God , prayer and patients

I know you very emotional about the whole situation
Just know this is hard on your husband too

I pray God grant you a perfect health and restore your marriage

Please disregard any harsh comments
This is a faceless plartform

Where ppl hide their identity to be real
(What they comment is who they really are )
Unlike other plartforms where ppl are afraid of being called out

You can contact if you can do with a friend
09014142553
My whatsapp or call

You people will still disguise as a guy just to say shit about women... Some of this men sef ...zukwanunike....

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Before anyone drop a comment note this person is a guy..
Keep deceiving yourself there..

sameway your a girl..keep deceiving yourself

Nyascobar1414:


Then go wash your smelly p*ssy and prepare for the next flow of menstrual shii blood!

4th day of menstruating ....
and my pussy don't smell...


must of this smelling pussies are caused by you guys putting ur dick everywhere...
I wonder how most of you take care of ur private part.

Totoismyhome:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have been with my husband for 13 years, 3 years as a married couple. In those 13 years, We have only had sex 5 times, because I have been suffering from candidiasis for over a decade. I can only have sex with him when I apply an anaesthetic gel to my vagina. He claims the whole set up turns him off, and recently, he doesn't even get hard anymore. We conceived our son with a syringe.

He's so insensitive that he takes sides with my employees against me. He claims I am mean to people beneath me. He has quarreled with me because of the cleaner, the nanny, the carpenter etc

We don't live together (we have never really lived together), so he gets househelps to do chores for him, and he sleeps with them sometimes.

Whenever we quarrel, he is always quick to come up with "pseudo-apologies".

I feel he is the most wicked man in the world, and I have made it clear to him that as he is enjoying his youth with all those sl__ts, I will make him suffer in his old age.

I just came here to vent.

Please you can't keep qll this hurts.. What if you die before him..

Life is too short to be in this kind of state..

Why don't you draw close to God and I believe he would heal you a d restore your marriage.

Pastor Jerry Eze 7am prayers can be off help too..

There is nothing prayer cannot do

Totoismyhome:


My husband is on NL too, and he knows my moniker. I created a guy's account with a ridiculous name way back when we were still dating, so he won't know it's me.

If you don't have any advice to give, please just shift. I'm too heartbroken to argue.

With the way trolls always come here to spew silly stories for attention it's hard to tell when a story is genuine and the moniker isn't helping either.

But if your story is genuine, I hope you get the needed encouragement and guidance on this thread.

She does not need God, if by God you mean the kind, patient, humble and loving Creator of the universe. She already has Satan and she is in the right company.

A man stays with you and marries you despite your infirmities and all you can think of is how to make his life miserable in the next forty years, because he counsels you to change for the better and because he sleeps with other women(given your OWN inability to sleep with him regulalrly)? You and Satan must be hewn from the same stone!

olawalesammy:


Good day ma'am
I actually feel your pain

Its understandable that what you are going through is not your fault
You need three things at this moment

God , prayer and patients

I know you very emotional about the whole situation
Just know this is hard on your husband too

I pray God grant you a perfect health and restore your marriage

Please disregard any harsh comments
This is a faceless plartform

Where ppl hide their identity to be real
(What they comment is who they really are )
Unlike other plartforms where ppl are afraid of being called out

You can contact if you can do with a friend
09014142553
My whatsapp or call

Jeon:


4th day of menstruating ....
and my pussy don't smell...


must of this smelling pussies are caused by you guys putting ur dick everywhere...
I wonder how most of you take care of ur private part.

Damnn..
That blood stinks like shii...

Nyascobar1414:

Damnn.. That blood stinks like shii...

then you can go hang urself.. because mine did not stinks and it is pure red..

Furcko:
sameway your a girl..keep deceiving yourself

Ok?

I don't even understand diswan

Totoismyhome:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have been with my husband for 13 years, 3 years as a married couple. In those 13 years, We have only had sex 5 times, because I have been suffering from candidiasis for over a decade. I can only have sex with him when I apply an anaesthetic gel to my vagina. He claims the whole set up turns him off, and recently, he doesn't even get hard anymore. We conceived our son with a syringe.

He's so insensitive that he takes sides with my employees against me. He claims I am mean to people beneath me. He has quarreled with me because of the cleaner, the nanny, the carpenter etc

We don't live together (we have never really lived together), so he gets househelps to do chores for him, and he sleeps with them sometimes.

Whenever we quarrel, he is always quick to come up with "pseudo-apologies".

I feel he is the most wicked man in the world, and I have made it clear to him that as he is enjoying his youth with all those sl__ts, I will make him suffer in his old age.

I just came here to vent.

You carry std and still he managed you, you're here talking nonsense, you're the most wicked woman on this planet earth, i don't know why he still keep your sorry ass

Jeon:

then you can go hang urself.. because mine did not stinks and it is pure red..

Can I say sarcasm at its best?
Y'all menstrual blood stinks... Go sort your fishy smelly p*ssy out...

What's now our business? Go and deal with your family issue privately, 21st nonsense exposure with no common sense.

Nyascobar1414:

Can I say sarcasm at its best?
Y'all menstrual blood stinks... Go sort your fishy smelly p*ssy out...

my menstrual blood and pushy don't stinks like that of ur gf..
go buy her deodorants..

What if you are not there during his old age?

Totoismyhome:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have been with my husband for 13 years, 3 years as a married couple. In those 13 years, We have only had sex 5 times, because I have been suffering from candidiasis for over a decade. I can only have sex with him when I apply an anaesthetic gel to my vagina. He claims the whole set up turns him off, and recently, he doesn't even get hard anymore. We conceived our son with a syringe.

He's so insensitive that he takes sides with my employees against me. He claims I am mean to people beneath me. He has quarreled with me because of the cleaner, the nanny, the carpenter etc

We don't live together (we have never really lived together), so he gets househelps to do chores for him, and he sleeps with them sometimes.

Whenever we quarrel, he is always quick to come up with "pseudo-apologies".

I feel he is the most wicked man in the world, and I have made it clear to him that as he is enjoying his youth with all those sl__ts, I will make him suffer in his old age.

I just came here to vent.

First of, if many people have complained about your attitude, and you have had problems with him over 3 different employees, you need to do a self reflection on your actions.
Second, you've only had sex 5 times in 13 years, that means you both have sex with each other on average of ONCE EVERY 2.6 YEARS!!! YOU SEF LOOK HOW IT SOUNDS TO YOU! I'm honestly not surprised if he's cheating on you. You can't expect him to be celibate while married! And by the way, an anaesthetic gel also affects him as well. Frankly, I'm not seeing him as the wicked one here.
You guys either divorce or open your marriage. You can't expect him to live like a Catholic priest while he's married to you.

Jeon:


my menstrual blood and pushy don't stinks like that of ur gf..

go buy her deodorants..

Y'all are the same shii...

Sorry, Ion have a gf..
Other things keeping me busy...

Get rid of the fishy smell b4 you quote me...
If you cant get rid of it as long as you live, then dont quote me..
Frfr.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Before anyone drop a comment note this person is a guy..
Keep deceiving yourself there..

August 2016? I doubt it's a fake story

aminusodiq:
August 2016? I doubt it's a fake story

It's 100 Percent fake..don't bother yourself..
The loopholes are just too obvious..

Totoismyhome:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have been with my husband for 13 years, 3 years as a married couple. In those 13 years, We have only had sex 5 times, because I have been suffering from candidiasis for over a decade. I can only have sex with him when I apply an anaesthetic gel to my vagina. He claims the whole set up turns him off, and recently, he doesn't even get hard anymore. We conceived our son with a syringe.

He's so insensitive that he takes sides with my employees against me. He claims I am mean to people beneath me. He has quarreled with me because of the cleaner, the nanny, the carpenter etc

We don't live together (we have never really lived together), so he gets househelps to do chores for him, and he sleeps with them sometimes.

Whenever we quarrel, he is always quick to come up with "pseudo-apologies".

I feel he is the most wicked man in the world, and I have made it clear to him that as he is enjoying his youth with all those sl__ts, I will make him suffer in his old age.

I just came here to vent.

You really sound hurt, why not calm down and see if the fault is from you or just one of those crazy things that happens in marriage

You have not even explained anything that one can read and make any suggestions to you

Just seat back and think deep what if he ends your marriage before that time, will you still make him to suffer, how will you have access to him, you should be thinking of how to conceive another child

Jeon:


4th day of menstruating ....
and my pussy don't smell...


must of this smelling pussies are caused by you guys putting ur dick everywhere...
I wonder how most of you take care of ur private part.

i think you seriously don't have to reply that ma'am
You owe no one any explaination

Please guys
Can we all be kind to this young lady please�

Majority of your kind still don't know that life doesn't give a fvck. Don't expect anything from anybody. Just do your thing and move. 13years in marriage n you are still sweating when you have a boy(you child) to focus on. If you die today(God forbid) then what happens. Be at ease with yourself and quit the bitterness.

olawalesammy:
i think you seriously don't have to reply that ma'am
You owe no one any explaination

Please guys
Can we all be kind to this young lady please�

you see y it will be very hard for this country to progress. The youths are scumbags. If this lady expresses this kinda thing in America, you will see how ppl over there will rally her to provide support but here, they will exacerbate her condition

VickyRotex:


With the way trolls always come here to spew silly stories for attention it's hard to tell when a story is genuine and the moniker isn't helping either.

But if your story is genuine, I hope you get the needed encouragement and guidance on this thread.

Sorry about the silly moniker. Created it 6 years ago...never used it. Never needed it until now.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

It's 100 Percent fake..don't bother yourself..
The loopholes are just too obvious..

What could possibly be the motive for somebody coming to make a fake post on a six-year-old moniker...oh Well, it's a good thing people are here to discuss issues. You can keep right on discussing people.

Totoismyhome:


What could possibly be the motive for somebody coming to make a fake post on a six-year-old moniker...oh Well, it's a good thing people are here to discuss issues. You can keep right on discussing people.

Make things easier for yourself by giving a detailed explanation and more evidence not all this you are doing..

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Before anyone drop a comment note this person is a guy..
Keep deceiving yourself there..

yes he is. Mummy good day. You still fake it again I COME IN PEACE

So you kept yeast infection for ten years, something that is curable.

You expect your husband that has only had sex with you 5 times to be happy with you.

nachisunday:
yes he is. Mummy good day. You still fake it again I COME IN PEACE

Totoismyhome:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have been with my husband for 13 years, 3 years as a married couple. In those 13 years, We have only had sex 5 times, because I have been suffering from candidiasis for over a decade. I can only have sex with him when I apply an anaesthetic gel to my vagina. He claims the whole set up turns him off, and recently, he doesn't even get hard anymore. We conceived our son with a syringe.

He's so insensitive that he takes sides with my employees against me. He claims I am mean to people beneath me. He has quarreled with me because of the cleaner, the nanny, the carpenter etc

We don't live together (we have never really lived together), so he gets househelps to do chores for him, and he sleeps with them sometimes.

Whenever we quarrel, he is always quick to come up with "pseudo-apologies".

I feel he is the most wicked man in the world, and I have made it clear to him that as he is enjoying his youth with all those sl__ts, I will make him suffer in his old age.

I just came here to vent.

If truly he could blame u for being mean to all these people u mentioned, then truly, u are very mean. I can see meaness even in ur post. For ur information, ur Husband won't suffer before his old age, a woman far better than u are would take good care of him.

Simply know that ' you can't own a man/woman'
Once you come in terms with this, you will find peace.